donzerly

They/Them | queer content blog & my trip through the Sounds Fake But Okay podcast from the beginning(ish)

[donzerly]

Ngl, Sounds Fake Pod's 420 joke in episode 77 was high-key sad on this side of the pandemic

[someblueninja]

Most aspecs I’ve met/seen are arsonists and pyromaniacs and I love them

[deitycyla]

They said-

[smashhole]

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

whoever invented stuffed animals really just understood whats important in life. sometimes you just wanna hold a guy

[tgwdlmreprised]

DID YALL HEAR THE NEWS

[permit-the-clod]

bow before perry, our asexual king

[wagamaggot]

aplatonic aromantic asexual polycule

[wagamaggot]

coworkers

[ohykjuno]

sorry to disappoint you, but i’d rather stare out of the window, listen to music and create fake scenarios in my head than do those worthless mortal tasks

[wengoku]

literally NOTHING can compare to found family stories like that trope is the actual physical beating heart in my chest. choosing your family, who you want to love and heal with, who you believe in and viciously defend and trust. forming those bonds on your own is SUCH a lovely, compelling narrative that we should NOT sleep on. thanks.

[platonicalterousaro]

Once again:

Wanting a romantic bond is romantic attraction.

Wanting a platonic bond is platonic attraction.

Wanting an emotional bond that defies labels, that what it turns into doesn’t matter nearly as much as just being their everything, their most important person? THAT’S alterous attraction.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

hey so some people are just happier & more functional not living with a partner. this isn’t necessarily even an aromantic thing. some people are just genuinely better-suited to living alone, no matter their relationship status. 

not everyone needs to move in with their partner, and moving in together doesn’t have to be the ultimate goal of every serious relationship.

[e-the-village-cryptid]

and some people would rather live with friends or roommates, even if they’re in a committed relationship with someone they’re not living with! there are more long-term options than “live alone” and “live with your partner”

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

this! is a very good addition!!!

[trash-heap-you-kept-it]

Here’s my another pride stickers project - Pride fairies!! There’s gonna be more, but I’ve been dying to share the ones i’m already done with!

You’re going to be able to get them here once im done <3

[uccelletto-di-kokuyo]

If you don't support aspec people who may be heteroromantic or heterosexual, you don't support aspec people.

Doesn't matter what other identity intersects with them being ace or aro, they are still ace/aro. They still belong in the LGBT+ community.

[arosunflower]

can for once for once we have a character who does not want to be married and they actually stay that way

[arohumor]

You've heard of romance, now get ready for

the crippling weight of the inadequacy society has conditioned us to feel without a romantic relationship

[head-thots-deactivated20251008]

As a baby ace, Riz Gukgak’s entire character arc in Sophomore hit me like a ton of bricks. 

The scene in The Forest of the Nightmare King where he confronts his fear of being left behind as his friends find fulfilment in sexual/romantic relationships was painfully real. ‘Everyone will find someone that matters more to them than you’ felt like someone put a knife through my heart and slowly turned it. I am not sure how to deal with this.