my other blog is a tardis

That's Doctor Coop to you. I'm a 49 year old psychiatrist married to this guy and I have three kids in various stages of teenagerhood. This is a role play blog. All things pertaining to Glee belong to Fox and the show's creators.

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cooperjayandersmythe --> drcoopandersmythe

(ooc) we’re baaaack

it’s been a couple years and we were missing our boys, so we’re revamping and coming back to do some rp :) aaaaand cooper decided to go back to drcoopandersmythe because he couldn’t stand having a url without “dr coop” in it

((also i’m sure like nobody is reading this lol but i felt like i should give an update to the void))

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I miss Sebastian :(

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Skype: Missing You

[2/20/13 11:27:44 PM] Cooper: good morning my love <3

[2/20/13 11:28:01 PM] Cooper: i know it's still kind of early for you but i'm falling asleep over this paperwork i'm doing so i was hoping you might be awake...

[2/20/13 11:29:10 PM] Sebastian: good morning gorgeous <3 i'm falling asleep BECAUSE i'm awake so early. i hate mornings. i hate them. i'm just going to cuddle with you now.

[2/20/13 11:32:38 PM] Cooper: come here, baby. *cuddles and kisses your head* i missed you a lot today. it was kind of a hectic day and you always know how to calm me down with your mere presence <3

[2/20/13 11:35:49 PM] Cooper: are you awake enough to talk? or?

[2/20/13 11:36:04 PM] Cooper: i just really miss your voice and it was just...a hard day

[2/20/13 11:37:20 PM] Sebastian: baby yes of course we can talk <3

[2/20/13 11:37:41 PM] Cooper: <3

Cooper: *hits the video call button and lies back on his (their) bed, watching the space where Seb's face will appear*

Sebastian: *perks up at the ringing and accepts the call almost right away* *leans back in his seat on the couch of his vacation home, putting his laptop on his lap* *smiles at the sight of the other man* Hey, husband.

Cooper: *tilts his head to the side and smiles serenely* Hi, husband. *he lets out a little sigh and feels his body relaxing, the stress of the day starting to fade with the sound of his husband's voice* I'm so glad you're actually awake, baby. I miss you.

Sebastian: *suddenly feels an ache in his chest, wishing he could be with his husband right now* I miss you, too, hon. So much. *starts to play with the ring on his finger as he stares at Cooper* I know things must suck without me, but I'll be back home soon. *smiles a bit* I'll even try to visit this weekend. Wanna tell me what happened?

Cooper: *notices seb playing with his ring and runs his tumb over his own* That would be really perfect. *sighs* Oh, it was just...Parker was really fussy. I'm pretty sure there's another tooth coming in back there and you know how he gets when he's teething. And the house is a total mess because I get home and I have to get Park going on dinner and stuff and play with him and I just really miss having another daddy around to share the load.

Sebastian: *bites his lip as he listens to his husband, seriously wondering if he should just go back home to his family* I'm so sorry, baby. When I get back you're going to relax for a few days and I'll take care of everything myself. But, if Park wakes up later or he gives you a hard time tomorrow, just...sing to him. I know how much he likes it when his daddies sing. *sighs* I miss you both. *he could feel his eyes getting watery, but he quickly recomposes himself* I want to come home. But it's only two months. I-I'll be there real soon, okay?

Cooper: Oh, baby, no. I'm not--we'll be okay. I can sing to him next time, that's a good idea. *touches the screen gently* I'm so proud of you, honey. I don't want you to give this up for anything at all.

Sebastian: *takes a deep breath and then roughly rubs his eyes to keep from crying--he just can't, it's only been a few days* Okay...I just...I just really fucking miss you. *covers his face in embarrassment as a few tears manage to escape* I hate this. This is so dumb. It's only two months...

Cooper: *his eyes start to tear up, too* Sebastian. Sweetheart, shh, it's okay. You're coming home this weekend. That's in a couple days. And then I hold you in my arms and kiss you and that will make /everything/ better. *wipes his cheeks from the tears* I love you, baby. And you're right--it's only two months. We can totally do that.

Sebastian: *lets out a dry laugh* We could've even handle a weekend being apart when you were in Cali. *wipes his eyes with the sleeve of his shirt* Babe, I just want to be home. I want to be home with you and Parker because I just...we /just/ got married and I had to leave.

Cooper: I... *his voice breaks* Sebastian. I want you home, too. I really, really want you home. But this program is such an amazing opportunity for you. If it were something that you could do in New York I would ask you to move home in a heartbeat, but. It's not. And I want what's best for this family, and right now what's best for /us/ is whatever's best for /you/.

Sebastian: *rubs at his eyes once more before he lets out a loud sigh* Fine...okay...I'll stay. *takes a deep breath* I love you so much. And just...thank you for supporting me and pushing me to do this, because I /do/ want to do this. Love you sooo much.

Cooper: I love you too, hon. And I just really want you to have this. Even though I miss you a /lot/. *presses a kiss to his hand and holds it up to the camera, expecting sebastian to return the gesture--it's the closest they can get through skype* And I'll see you in a couple days.

Sebastian: *does the same as his husband, smiling softly* Yeah. I'll see you real soon. Give Park lots of kisses and hugs for me.

Cooper: *smiles* It's the first thing I'll do in the morning. *sighs* I'm glad we got to chat. I always feel better when I hear your voice and see your face. *glances at the clock* I think it's bedtime for me, though.

Sebastian: I feel a lot better too. If I can talk to you this early, then I can definitely survive the rest of the day. *grabs a pillow and holds it against his chest* Go to sleep, baby. I have to get ready for class, anyway. Wish I was there cuddling with you.

Cooper: *snuggles down into the blankets and grabs seb's pillow, holding it to his own chest* Me too, baby. *closes his eyes and nuzzles his cheek against the pillow with a sleepy hum* I love you, Seb. I'll see you soon.

Sebastian: *smiles, deeply wishing he could be there* I love you, too, Coop. 'Night. *hesitates on hanging up, but he does and he quickly grabs his phone to send a text--"Goodnight, husband. <333" and then he starts getting ready for class*

Cooper: Good night. *waits for seb to hang up (it's his turn) and then closes his computer when the call is ended* *flips off the lamp and pulls the blanket tight around him* *hold onto his phone until it lights up with a text and he reads it with a longing smile* *sennds a text of his own-- "good morning, mr. anderson-smythe. xoxoxoxo <3"--and then closes his eyes, drifting off quickly*

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an update

well. i haven't been on here in over a month.

whoops?

it's been a little busy and yadda yadda *insert excuses here*

to be honest, i'm just not feeling it lately.

seb is in paris for a couple months. he's attending an amazing culinary program there and it's a really great opportunity for him and i'm so so so proud, but...i miss him.

a lot.

we miss him a lot.

being a single dad is hard. i've never done this alone. and i know that seb is only a flight away (and i'm thankful every day that flights aren't an issue for us like they are for many families), but just the daily ins and outs of raising a kid are much more challenging alone than they are with someone else.

and parker misses his daddy.

but we get to see him every weekend and we skype almost every night and it's only for a couple months.

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River Song had a surprise for us when we got home today. (SOMEBODY left a tissue box where she could get it. *coughSEBASTIANcough* #sebandersmythe

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#cooper+old does not compute

this is why i like vanessa

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vanassaa replied to your post: VANESSA GET YOUR CHARGER BACK FROM YOUR COUSIN'S

i got it ahaha

oh yay good i'm glad :)

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VANESSA GET YOUR CHARGER BACK FROM YOUR COUSIN'S

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game night with the guys and i'm playing with my pieces ;) #sebandersmythe

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oops. i made it to midnight but then i promptly fell asleep on sebastian.

sorry babe.

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sebandersmythe replied to your post: omg this puppy is so hyper she’s scaring the...

omg cooper pls

you know it will happen

and then we'll find out she's actually the child of the doctor's best friend. as well as the best friend of that best friend.

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omg this puppy is so hyper she's scaring the doctor and bunny

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getting the m&ms ready for more wreath cookies :) and yes, those are my brand-new penguin jammies. #sebandersmythe gave them to me.

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sebandersmythe replied to your post: SEBASTIAN GOT ME A PUPPY FOR CHRISTMAS

you’re welcome xoxoxox

you're my favorite xoxoxox <3

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HER NAME IS RIVER SONG

she's an alaskan malamute and i haven't actually taken a picture of her yet but she looks almost exactly like this cutie: