You-Tube, We-Tube, Our-Tube
The following is a conversation between three middle school kids:
Shelly: "Hi Rachel, your hair looks nice"
Rachel: "Thank you Shelly! That means a lot because Justine told me she didn't like it."
Shelly: "Justine why don't you like Rachel's hair?"
Justine: "I just don't like it. I bet people think I look better than her anyway!"
Rachel: "Oh really? Is that what you think Justine? Well I get more likes than you on my pictures so obviously I look better than you!"
Ideas of self-identity and validation have always been questioned throughout society because many people battle with accepting the way that they look or the way in which they are viewed by others. Due to a spike in web accessibility and on-lookers, many people have used the internet to validate their looks or particular beliefs. In her writing, "Am I Ugly?: Female Beauty, Digital Media, and the True Me," author Dara Persis Murray states, "Am I Ugly?" is a personal, self-conscious question... at the center of a YouTube phenomenon wherein girls as young as age eleven pose the query to unknown, presumably unbiased viewers." This very intimate question is being asked by young girls in an online world that knows nothing about them... an online world that sees nothing but their faces. This situation calls for alarm... it is a call for action on behalf of all adults and advisors. Young children are searching for validation of their self-identities through outlets that possess some people who want nothing but to bring others down for their own validity.
Some may not feel as though this is an issue but it calls for acknowledgement when one stops to understand the rate in which interaction on the web is increasing. In her writing, "Branding the Post-Feminist Self: Girl's Video Production and Youtube," author Sarah Banet-Weiser discusses the rate in which not only the web, but Youtube is growing. Weiser states, "The transition of Youtube from its earlier incarnation as a personal 'digital video repository' to its now well-known function as a place wherein one can 'broadcast yourself' is not simply an effect of the expansion of Web 2.0 technologies." This statement hints at the idea that Youtube has become a World of its own. The idea of just posting videos no longer exists. Once one posts a video on Youtube, they are ultimately attached to that video and that video symbolizes them in the World of Youtube. Weiser also discusses how kids are going online at faster rates than the general Web population. Is this detrimental to the self-identification of children?
By viewing the conversation, above, between the 3 middle school kids one may understand the impact of social networks on today's children and society as a whole. What must be understood by people in today's society is that we all search for validation on the web in some aspect. Whether it be posting a resume in hopes to obtain a job or posting a picture on Instagram for likes, we all look for acceptance. This fact not only shows the importance of the web, but it may cause some to wonder of the dangers that comes with this importance. Validation, on behalf of his/her looks, is not something that a kid should be searching for in a world where no one knows who they truly are. The beauty of oneself remains in the definition of their character, not in the color of their skin or the style of their hair.