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[dykeby]

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✨️about me✨️

an autistic non binary lesbian

transmasc/butch, a big dyke basically

22

they/them, smidge of he/him

I have 1 tattoo but I wanna be COVERED

thinking of piercings

I want top surgery

wanna work out more too

✨️feel free to ask more questions if you'd like✨️

❤️‍🩹 boundaries ❤️‍🩹

I am a stone dom top, I will not sub or bottom

I am kinky and into bdsm, some things I'm into can be seen as extreme but I would like to remind people this is about fantasy and control. I only enjoy it because my partners do and I get off more on the trust it takes

AFTERCARE

that goes for both dom's and sub's and I am passionate about it even if I never explicitly write it into a post

NOT INTO SCAT OR WATERSPORTS

willing to explore omorashi however

💦 kinks 💦

restraining by any means

in particular ropes and my hands

sadism/masochism

spanking, manhandling, rough play, wax play, knife play, orgasm control, overstim

ownership

BITING, I go feral for marking and I like mutual ownership, I'm yours as much as you're mine

collars, pet play or just simple asphyxiation

breeding, free use, somno

Praise

I can be a soft person sometimes and mixing in praise with some roughness is a great time, if I'm not doing it in a scene then it'll happen in the aftercare for sure

💦 thats the main ones, others could pop up and I'll add them to the list as it goes, I will always tag 💦

[dykeby]

Are there many lesbians in Gosport, Fareham or Portsmouth in the UK, I feel like there's hardly any of us and there's never any groups happening? Like how do I make more lesbian friends near me?

[dykeby]

✨this post is about lesbian sex✨

CW: kidnapping, CNC, restrictions (chains), slight predator/prey

Locked up in this dark room with only a half burnt candle giving the smallest sliver of light, the chains feel much heavier on your ankles - not to mention the way they're clasped slightly too tight on your wrists, making them ache.

Shivering in your thin sheet of a nightgown, torn apart and barely covering your soft skin. You've done well to make it this far that's for sure, a lost little lamb like you, my freshest plaything that's for sure

Helpless

All alone

You like it?

You don't want to admit you've been waiting anxiously for me to arrive, that would be wrong and you're a good girl. You don't want to admit that you are happier with your life here than you were before. You aren't a depraved slut, surely not, right?

You don't want to admit that your breath comes quick and your heart pounds at my footsteps opening your cage, your prison. You don't want to admit that your holes pulse and your eyes glass over as I declare that I will defile you for the god knows what time that day. You aren't addicted to my insults and thinly veiled praise, you can't be, right?

Helpless

All alone

You love it

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After a long fight for many years to find out what's wrong, they've finally found that I have fibromyalgia... I'm relieved to finally have an answer and can start treatments but I'm much happier and will be back to regular posting

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Discord?????

Hey all you beautiful people, it's been a while and for that I do apologise. I've had some things happen in my life but I will be back to posting don't worry!!

How would people feel about me creating a queer/trans/lesbian discord server? I do emphasise that it would be lesbian and sapphic and of course trans inclusive as I am a nonbinary lesbian with a trans lesbian girlfriend. There could be a general discussion channel, a channel for gaming, a nsfw channel, a channel for cute animals, etc. I'd also welcome suggestions for different channels and different features people would want of course if this is something people would be interested in

[dykeby]

Fucked my girl so good she had to hit her inhaler afterwards

Craziest part is that I wasn't even inside her yet and I was just holding her down whilst I grinded on her ass and pretended to fuck her, then we got the vibrator out on her pretty clit, for her last one she touched herself to my words

This lasted like 2-3 hours, I don't remember when we began anymore

I love being a lesbian

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Wait what if she wants to have her pussy eaten after u done ducked her down that’s nasty not pussy eating that’s heavenly I ain’t to fag cake

Why the hell wouldn't you eat pussy after you've fucked it??? It's at it's wettest and juiciest then, that's heaven right there.

Also fag cake is what I'm now calling my ass lmao

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Hi, before I ask my question please know that I am in no way, shape or form, trying to be rude or offensive or anything like that, I am just genuinely confused and curious.

What is a nonbinary lesbian? Or like a FTM lesbian, male lesbian, or a male-identifying person who also identifies as a lesbian?

The term lesbian has always meant “a woman who is sexually or romantically attracted to other women” and I don’t know if it’s changed for some reason but that’s why I’m confused as to what any type of lesbian other than a female-identifying lesbian is.

Again, I’m really not trying to be rude, I just can’t think of how to ask my question without being pretty blunt. I’ve tried Google and looking at articles but none of them talk about male or nonbinary-identifying lesbians, and I don’t have anyone who I can ask.

Hey so I appreciate the politeness of this and I want to return the same sort of time whilst being educational and personal. I want to preface this by saying that the definition of a lesbian being strictly woman loving woman is NEW, it is a modern definition. Queer labels do not need dictionary definitions, they never have, they are given these to describe it easier to cis het people. Whilst yes, labels and definitions can bring comfort to people questioning, it is important to remember our history.

Lesbians has a long history with gender fuckery, a long long history. There have been lesbians throughout time who do not identify as women, some even identify as men/male adjacent. There have been lesbians who describe their gender as dyke butch fag. We now have labels such as non binary to help describe a gender experience outside of the binary. Personally I am trans masc non binary, this is because my gender is trans and more masculine leaning. This sort of expression is not new to lesbianism, we have terms such as butch to describe not only an appearance but the expression and dynamic of a masculine lesbian with femme lesbians and many of us butches do not identify as women.

I feel as tho there has been so much discourse with the online baby queer community about the definitions of things and they use modern definitions and try to apply them to a community (the whole LGBTQ+ community) which is built on a lot of gender fuckery. The term non binary is new, but the concept of a gender fuck lesbian is not.

I would sincerely recommend anyone who wants to read up on these sorts of things, to really do it. Of course there's classics like Stone Butch Blues, but there are many other amazing queer and lesbian authors out there. There are also websites and blogs dedicated to queer and trans and lesbian history. This is important for all queer people, I truly believe that. When our history is forgotten and replaced we lose sight of what we need to fight for. Policing what a lesbian is, is not important, it causes harm to not only trans/non binary lesbians but also many cis lesbians.

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Alcohol makes me so damn horny, all I can think about is taking my femme apart and making her a messy girl. Need her to be on her knees and just moaning incoherently, my name and begs for whatever I'll give her. Whispers of "please sir" and fluttering wet eyelashes that just make me even more needy to just mess her up. Need her to be such a good kitten that she knows she has to wait for my orders before she could ever even think about pleasuring me.

I need to be marked and mark her just as bad. Make sure that she knows she belongs to me and that I need her just as badly as she needs me. Make sure that she knows that I don't care who could see us because they all should see how to really please a woman - make them all see that we are so deeply in love and make them jealous for what we have. Everyone should see how pure and raw our love as lesbians is, make them re-evaluate their straight relationships where all they do is complain and hate their partner.

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✨️ this post is about lesbian sex ✨️

CW: praise, degradation, dacryphilia, somnophilia

There's something so liberating about how much I can fluster a woman, call her cute and pretty, and I'll get a blush in return. She deserves to know that she looks so beautiful when she's lying in bed, sleeping so soundly as I trace my fingers over her skin. She deserves to know that I love how her breath hitches just slightly when I grip her hips. Do I lay her on her front and grind myself against her, letting her feel my cock, even as she dreams? Or do I keep her on her side, tucked next to me as I put my knee between her legs and make her grind against it? It's so hard to choose what I would prefer. Yesterday morning, I had decided to eat her out, but I have to do something different this morning. She deserves the best.

I need to see all the many ways I can make her face twist into such content pleasure before she stirs awake. What will be the thing to wake her up? She deserves to know that she's downright ethereal when the sunlight catches behind her when she lifts herself up. She deserves to know how breathtaking she is when she lays back down, eyes open and knowing. That goddamn blush dusting her body because she still gets embarrassed that she could possibly like it when I tease her in her sleep. The way she's so flustered because I told her she's angelic, bewitching me to bring her pleasure in her sunrise dreams and to take what I desire. She deserves to feel good.

When tears start brimming in her eyes from the slow teasing, the slightest shine appearing, that's when I know that I need my cock inside her. She deserves to lay back and rest her head on the pillows, close her eyes and just enjoy the way I slide into her. She deserves to let her voice out, small mumbles and sweet moans that mix with the hiccups of a building cry. God the way that the tears fall, leaving behind such sweet stains and red eyes, it's more than enough to make me falter for a moment. Do I let go and just drive as fast and deep as possible? Do I make sure the bedframe leaves a dent in the wall? Or do I keep this slow? Do I roll my hips slowly and reach the farthest points inside her? It's hard to choose what I prefer. It doesn't matter in all honesty, I know exactly what can keep those tears flowing. She deserves to have her mind set free.

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It's so healing and euphoric to be called her boyfriend, instant mixture of arousal and sweetness. Butch validation at it's finest for me, I'm her handsome boyfriend and she's my beautiful girlfriend, we're butch and femme

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As a butch with chronic migraines, I think a femme acting as my pretty nurse could solve that. Head scritches and forehead kisses in between changing my cold compress, lead down with her in my lap, letting me stare at her tits so it's not being made worse by having loads of visual stimuli

Femme nurses surely would know how to take care of me

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✨️this post is about lesbian sex✨️

CW: group sex/group of bottom femmes x one top butch, sex toys, collaring, objectification, rough sex, dom/sub dynamics

I need my own little helper around this time of year, maybe a team of pretty femme eleves to help me this Christmas. I am a gift giver at heart and have gotten so many, each one of you helpers can get your own present too if you are so very helpful with helping me wrap presents and set up decorations.

The thing is, each job is important and needs to be handled with the utmost care, I'm sure you girls can do them. I'll need at least two designated cock suckers/warmers for when my strap is free in between prepping food, three more who are able to play together and let me watch whilst I wrap presents to really incentive me to finish the wrapping quicker so I can join them, a minimum of one who is gonna be draping tinsel around the windows wearing the prettiest lingerie for me and another who will fill up their holes with vibes and be making the most beautiful sounds to pair with the music.

Of course we can't forget that you'll all be wearing ribbon collars with a bell, I need to hear all those bells ring throughout the night and then you can all open your presents on Christmas morning. Taking turns sitting on my lap filled with my cock as you unwrap the perfect toys one by one, revealing lace ribbons and intricate ropes, butt plugs with the prettiest stones on the base, dildos of all shapes and sizes and brand new leather collars with "good elf" engraved on them. The end of the night will show holes all abused and either filled by myself or the brand new monster cocks we have, makeup streaking down your faces, eyes crossed and rolling, voices reduced to broken whispers, and brains with no thoughts other than me. So many different toys you opened and all of them will be used Christmas night, you'll all be nothing more than useless cock sleeves when I'm done with you.

You all deserve a promotion for being such useful helpers, maybe I'll even keep you on for other tasks throughout the year before next Christmas, keep you as my stress relief toys. You all served me so well that it's definitely worth having you all as my house pets at least.

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Just had the most lesbian experience of my life. Having that important boundary conversation with my best friend situationship where we talk about how much we love each other and want to keep things intimate but also don't want to disappoint amd hurt each other if things change in any way.

A little miscommunication happened, and we've talked about it, but crying over a situationship is definitely in my top 10 most lesbian experiences.

So development time, we aren't exclusive but obviously going to talk and communicate a lot more. Nothing is worth sacrificing our friendship. We're both acknowledging that if things happen with friends then that's cool, nothing wrong there but we don't want to have anything get in the way of our friendship so that person would also have to be chill with casual. Of course, things can change in the future, and we'll talk about it when it might get there, but it's healthy to keep communicating this shit.

I feel so crazy knowing I'm now in the situation I see so many other queer people in with their best friends. Being young adults and still figuring out life and who you are, what you want, is wild and needs so much boundary setting and communication, but it's also so important. This kind of love, I feel, is so common in queer friendships, the kind of love where you can intimate with a friend to show that love, but you're still friends no matter what

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I had the hottest makeout session today.

We kept getting real hot and heavy, my hands alternating between grabbing her ass and her thighs and her tits. One minute, we're on our sides, and the next, I'm on top of her with her legs around my back, and I'm slowly teasing my hand over her. We stop and start giggling over the smallest things, I got the sudden urge to just kiss all over her face and then rub my face in her chest so we laugh and then we're kissing again. I tell her that e has started to give her really nice thighs and I mean she's always had a nice ass but even more so now, so she says "yippee" and I'm so overwhelmed in joy for her that I can't help but lean in to kiss her with a smile and force her legs open so I can get in between properly, not with a leg in-between. She tells me that I'm handsome and a pretty boy in return, holds my face gently and runs her fimgers theough my hair. It's a dance of stopping and starting. Moments of pure, unadulterated passion, lust in its rawest form, and then just the sweetest moments of joy and cuteness.

Dirty and sweet, the perfect mixture

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I love that part where I've been drinking and I get absurdly horny very suddenly, the urge to just tease and get a girl to feel how I feel. Fleeting touches, sharing breaths in the lightest hint of a kiss and drive her mad, get her so out of it that she can barely even beg and just starts panting like a dog. Maybe if she puts on a good show for me then I'll fuck her just like she wants, use her like a joy as I revel in the buzz from the alcohol and run my mouth in delight.

I can't help but keep giggling because it just feel so good and I'm having fun, it's fun to rut against a pretty lady and it's even more fun to have her on my strap - she looks so cute so of course I'm laughing at her. I truly do love the fact I'm a slow drinker, the kind of person to nurse my drinks, it's more fun when I can be buzzed and still be conscious enough to know exactly what I'm doing when I tease her like that

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The best part about being a stone top is being able to cum without receiving physical pleasure myself, I keep having this fantasy of cumming from fucking a fleshlight with my strap and I know I could do it - that strap is my cock.

Teasing a femme by making her sit all nice, collared and watching me use this fleshlight instead of her. Getting her to beg for me to fuck her instead, she's much better than a mere toy because she can moan for me and she knows I love her voice when it's wrecked.

Just stone top butch things