Pissed Off & Fed Up

(read my 'About' page before even attempting to engage) Blog Created: 5/8/14

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This is a MASSIVE READ and it’s all on point. I don’t care if the stans get offended, this shit is TRUE.

LINK to video [roasting begins at 59:48]

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Welp. I’m out.

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And of course, Amber ends the year with a super hetero MV.

Nice.

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@propertyofmusicwhore: “the two main ACTRESSES were a little WEAK. I wasn’t really sold in their PERFORMANCE.” It’s fairly easy to pick up on her implication, isn’t it?

Also, did you read the replies? Like 99% of them are people saying she ‘killed the ship’, or ‘put delusional shippers in their place’. One of them even posted a Titanic sinking gif. If that many people interpreted that tweet as her being negative towards the tweet/video/shippers, then I’m assuming they must be right. I mean, I picked up on it before I even read the replies.

There was also this Tumblr post (wonderfulspade):

And hey, she could’ve posted a follow-up tweet to correct those people and say she was just joking, but no. It’s just this tweet, all by itself, and it sounds snarky as hell to me and dismissive. It’s hard for me to read it as anything else.

And I bet those asshole Henber and Amber/guy shippers are having a field day over this shit too.

She’s given them a hell of a lot of ammo to use, and I wish it would all just fucking stop.

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2018 is supposed to be ‘20gayteen’, but I swear, it feels like Amber is trying to make this her straightest year yet. I don’t know if it’s some kind of personal revolt against the whole '20gayteen’ idea or what, but it’s just getting fucking weird, you guys.

Like the kryber vid bitchy-ness out of nowhere. That one YT vid (back in May, I think?) where she was asked by two female friends which one she would date if she was a guy, and instead of just playfully answering the question like literally anyone else would, she seemed bothered and said 'this is weird' or something to that effect. And as far as I know, she didn’t even acknowledge the Korean pride parade, even though her friend (former friend? idk) Min did. And a handful of other K-Pop people did too. Didn’t she claim just a few years ago that she has gay friends? Why not show some support? Is she afraid to for some reason? Does she not have those friends anymore? And if not, why?

I’m sitting here like “Girl, what’s goin’ on with you?”

None of this is a good look, sorry.

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Of all the, probably thousands of tweets that come across her timeline, why did she feel the need to single this one out, and basically piss all over it? If she didn’t like it, then why didn’t she just IGNORE it?

There was nothing rude in the tweet, and even though I haven’t watched whatever that video is, I’m sure it was pretty innocuous, so what the fuck?

Why doesn’t she do this shit with Henber shippers? Why doesn’t she call out people who instantly ship her with any GUY she stands near?

This brings me back to sometime in ’15, in that Arirang radio interview, where she said shipping her with her female friends made her friends feel awkward. But then she ‘claimed’ that it didn’t personally bother her.

Now what? Suddenly, out of nowhere, she’s bothered? So much so, she’s gonna pick on an innocent fanvid, very publicly, on Twitter?

Her response is dripping with sarcasm and sounds like something someone would tweet to clapback at an insult. Yet nothing about that tweet was insulting. That fan didn’t deserve this.

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I hate to say it, but f(x) might as well just disband. It’s pretty clear SM is perfectly fine constantly giving them individual activities, and giving them anything to do as a group just isn’t in the cards anymore.

I mean, I thought I was stanning a pop group, not a troupe of actors/Youtubers who occasionally come together to release an album. Maybe.

Just tell us they’re done for already, so we can all stop holding on to false hope. It’s exhausting and annoying.

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Also, I literally just found out that Henry left SM.

Listen, I have nothing against the guy, but I have to say, I’m kind of glad he’s gone. (Hopefully he won’t decide to stay in Korea and goes back home to Canada) Maybe now the Henber “we know the truth!” bullshitting stans can die out completely.

I know this sounds harsh, but I don’t care.

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Hey, all.

It’s been a long while since I’ve been here. I’ve occasionally checked up on the girls from time to time, but I haven’t been sticking around.

So, I’ve been wondering two things...

1. Are we gonna get a comeback any time soon, or ever?

2. Are we Kryber shippers still being ostracized, villainized, and belittled by nearly everyone, but mainly obnoxious Henber shippers, or have the haters finally moved the fuck on?

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Just when I was beginning to think that this bunch had actually gotten tired of being bitches, I come across this. (<--link)

Isn’t it just so much fun, when you don’t even want to bother putting ‘kryber’ into the Twitter search anymore, because you just know that you’ll come across bullshit conversations like this?

FFS, let people ship what they want, how they want. Why the fuck is that idea so hard to grasp?

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Since we’ll actually be getting one soon, just wanted to share my thoughts.

I wanted to address the fan-made names that have circulated for years, like Aff(x)tion.

Aff(x)tion is (or was) the name of the International Fan Forum. It's a FORUM. Who the hell would want to be named after a fucking forum?

This also brings up "Aff(x)tionate". This "name" was a FORUM thing. It was used as a term of endearment between the people who were constantly hanging out in the shoutbox, and posting in the forums in general. Occasionally, people would pop in and go, "Hello, my fellow Aff(x)tionates!"                                           

Then some little turd(s) decided to take that out of the forum, and start using it as a fan name. Why? Who the hell knows?

Personally, there was only ever one fan suggestion that I actually thought was really clever and cool...

Axis.

It was either toward the end of 2010, and was a random thing, or it was actually part of the fan club name contest that SM held in 2011. Supposedly, iirc, it was a Chinese fan who came up with this. It had a really great explanation too. It came with a picture of a graph, and it was talking about the axis being support or something? I wish I could remember the details, but it was something like that.

It worked on two levels. It tied in with the whole math thing, AND it showed the connection between the fans and the girls; we're their support.

I thought that was BRILLIANT. (And somehow, I seem to be the only person who remembers this, because no one else ever brings it up =/)

I should've written the stuff down, or at least screencapped it back then, but I didn't. All I know for a fact is, it was on somebody's Tumblr. That's the one and only place I saw it. And no one really jumped on it either, which I found surprising. This was the only decent fan suggestion that popped up, and nobody paid attention.

Anyway, I know some people might say Axis would sound too masculine or something. Well honestly, I'd prefer that. It'd be a lot less embarrassing, and way better than something like Baby, or Queen, or Pink Panda.    

I'm pretty sure the fanboys of these groups aren't too happy with these names. 

To me, Axis sounds formidable.

A(x)is     <---- Could do a lot with that.

But, something tells me that, whatever the girls settled on, it’s gonna be more lame than we can possibly fathom. I know I’ll just go with it anyway, ‘cause it came from them, but yeah. I have a strange feeling that once we get it, we’re gonna wish we stayed nameless LOL.

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Why are people on OH such idiots?

They’re trying to make Krystal hightailing it off stage on Music Bank into her having something against Taeyeon. What the actual fuck?

And most of their responses just make it that much more clear that they don’t actually follow f(x), or else they would know that Krystal is always the first one off stage.

It doesn’t matter who’s on stage or not, or who’s winning; she just doesn’t like hanging around, and there’s NOTHING wrong with that. She’s not disgruntled.

It has absolutely nothing to do with Taeyeon (or anybody else for that matter). 

Anyone who believes that shit needs to get their head out of their ass.

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The time we thought would never come is here. Our girls are getting their own concert.

It’s at Seoul Olympic Hall which, according to Wikipedia, holds 2,452. Even though I’m pretty sure they could easily sell-out a 4,000 - 6,000 seat venue, I’m still very happy.

This won’t be SM Town Week all over again. This will be a legit SOLO concert. No sharing the stage with other acts, no lightstick debacle, no bullshit.

Just f(x) and their fans. I can’t wait to see a full-on periwinkle ocean in that place.

I’m hoping there will end up being a big enough demand, that maybe SM will either move them to a bigger venue, or add more dates. Really wouldn’t mind seeing them sell-out multiple shows.

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I’m really glad Amber’s standing up against stuff like that.

Now, I’m wondering what she would say if she knew about those HB shippers who actively stalk her Facebook, as well as all her friends’ Facebooks, and who knows what else. They’ve probably been doing it for years.

That, in itself, is invading her privacy. Yet they act like they’re “true” fans, who never do anything wrong. What a joke.

It wouldn’t be a bad idea if someone ratted them out. I would love to see the meltdown that would result.

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I’ve said it before in this post, and I’ll say it again: You shouldn’t put so much weight on pictures.

I like to explain it this way:

Say I have two friends, Friend A and Friend B. I am close with and hang out with both of them quite a bit. However, Friend A doesn’t like taking pictures, while Friend B is picture-happy. So, let’s say I hang out with both of them four times in a month. Each of those four times with Friend A, we take zero pics. Each of those four times with Friend B, we take a bunch of pics, and they all get posted online.

Now, upon seeing this, you would automatically assume that I hang out with Friend B more, so we’re clearly closer, and that I barely have any kind of connection with Friend A.

And you would be dead wrong. Your theory couldn’t be further from the truth. 

Do you get what I mean here?

You can’t judge a friendship/relationship/whatevership on how many pictures they take together. You can’t judge closeness off of pictures. 

That’s just stupid.

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Every time we brought up f(x) (a group that’s six years old) not having an official fanclub/fan name, people kept telling us that it’s because their fanbase isn’t big enough/they haven’t accomplished enough, etc.

But now Red Velvet, a group that has only had 8 months of life (and doesn’t have nearly the same sized fanbase), supposedly already has a fanclub in the works.

How is this justified? What has Red Velvet accomplished so far that warrants a fanclub being set up? How are they more worthy of one?

Can someone enlighten me? I’m at a loss.