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BPD symptoms to stop making fun of and to recognize

needing attention

outbursts of emotion (especially anger)

not getting out of bed

social withdrawal

self-destructive behaviors

being clingy

forgetting things

getting upset about everything

bad self-care

promiscuity

weird/unusual triggers

needing validation

note ~ these are not just symptoms of BPD and are present in many other mental disorders

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i hate that mental disorders have turned into a competition. you can’t discuss eating habits without someone saying how they survived off green tea for 3 weeks and weighed 4 stone. you can’t discus your depression because another person has already tried to commit suicide 8 times and they’re only 12. you can’t discus self harm because you punch your leg until it turns purple whilst they slice their arm to the bone. you can’t talk about addiction because someone else will talk about facing their crack addiction for 18 years. every god damn time you even come close to reaching out you know there’s no point because in other people’s eyes you’re never sick enough. there’s always someone worse off. that’s the problem with attitudes to mental health. this “oh suck it up you’re not as bad as me/them” HAS TO STOP. you have no idea how much a problem affects a person because, okay i might seem like nothing to you but yo them their entire world is breaking down and they just have to wait till they either figure it out on their own, or become sick enough that people can’t deny it any more, and by then…

it’s usually too late.

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ALWAYS REBLOG

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DO NOT FUCKING SCROLL PAST THIS

Ok I've always reblogged the warning posts abt ppl posing as 'ana coaches' contacting you, their ultimate intention to get photos of you, but it's never happened to me until now. I think a majority of the community (or at least the part I try to be on) is PRO-RECOVERY AND SELF LOVE. THIS CAN'T POSSIBLY BE SOMEONE WHO WANTS BEST FOR ME/YOU. IGNORE THESE MESSAGES, BLOCK THESE PEOPLE

I posted body checks yesterday (9/3) and recieved both of these shortly after

IMAGE 1 DESCRIPTION: Message from EXKALIBRO

"You could be doing so much more than you currently are, need a pro ana encouragement coach?"

IMAGE 2 DESCRIPTION: Message from ANACOACH23

"Hey"

That's all they said

I see so many people on my dash struggling and I fucking hate to think that anyone else has been contacted and pressured into doing things they don't want to

ESPECIALLY WHEN MOST USERS

ARE <18 OLD

I'm of age, my age is in my bio but not everyone puts theirs there, if you're under 18 (or older) please please PLEASE never listen to someone you dont know over the internet when they tell you to do things you don't want to do, they find people who are struggling and weak and easily manipulated its fucking sick. Please share this

BTW. I'm not pro ana (if I havent made that obvious) but I'm gonna use a ton of tags so people see this :/

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⚠︎︎꧁𝒔𝒎𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒔𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒐꧂⚠︎︎

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Rules to prevent it from going too far

🌹Don’t lower your goal weight. Ever. Don’t forget that it’s enough.

🥀 When your stomach passes the flat point and starts caving in you’ve gone to far and you need to stop that shit.

🌷If you’re passing out at work you need to eat more.

🌺 If it’s too hard to lift normal things such as milk jug, PlayStation, table chairs, you need more calories.

🌸 Don’t work out every day of the week.

🏵️ When you find yourself saying “fuck this” and eating everything in your house, you’re restricting too hard.

🌻 Always drink lots of water throughout the day whether or not you’re fasting.

🌼 Keep in mind that you may gain and loose the same 3 lbs of water or food weight throughout the week and it’s not fat.

💮 If you really feel the need to eat, eat. And don’t feel bad about it.

Please add more 💐

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🌾 If suddenly all you can think about is food: Eat. It’s your body’s way to tell you that it needs food. It’s trying to use as less energy as possible for that in order to keep you alive.

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🌱 take care of ur teeth please ! its so expensive to fix them if they can even be fixed.

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☀️ you deserve to recover. this is a serious mental illness that i wouldn’t wish on anyone. you deserve nothing but the best and i’ll always support you when you seek recovery. 🌙 it’s okay to ask for help.