intro / emma jane bassford
from the moment she was born, emma bassford was a disappointment
her mother was told that she couldn’t have anymore children after emma
emma was supposed to have been a boy
instead the bassford line dies out w/ her father
tbh there’s def a sense of satisfaction that comes w/ knowing that
but her parents have always been focused on what they can control (which turns out to be quite a lot)
both emma and her sister have been brought up with the ultimate goal that they will get married to wealthy men from old, prestigious families. and then have children and plan social and charity events until they die.
they’ve literally been trained to be the perfect wife idk the bassfords still think this 1889
and emma’s been trying to rebel against their plans for most of her life
as a very young child, she tried to be the perfect daughter and learned how to dance and play the piano and speak french, but when she was like seven or eight she realized that she really didn’t like doing most of the things she was trying so hard to accomplish
and that’s when she started sneaking away from her tutors and climbing trees instead
she has always genuinely liked ballet, however
she did take a year off when she was a kid b/c she knew that her parents approved and she wanted to completely rebel against them but she missed it too much and eventually went back
she’s very happy that she did especially since they were encouraging when it was a hobby but now she’s thirty and it’s her career and they don’t really like that she’s much more focused on that rather than catching a husband
emma thinks that she’s living her own life but really her parents are wayyy more involved than she thinks
they’ve sabotaged a lot of opportunities in her life in order to steer her towards the life they want for her
most of her romantic relationships have ended b/c of them (unbeknownst to emma)
emma has trust issues b/c of this and thinks that most men only want her for her looks/money/connections
this is something her parents have tried to tell her and she’s realizing it’s true
part of her wants to keep dating nice guys to ultimately prove them wrong
but part of her doesn’t want to get hurt again so ...
her parents have also sabotaged her former living situation when she lived in a small apartment on her own/ with her own money
emma is gonna say what she feels/thinks -- be it good or bad.
sometimes she’s a little more ~veiled~ with her insults and idk she def thinks she’s amusing especially when her targets don’t realize that she’s insulting them smh but most of the time she’s gonna be pretty direct with you
the less direct thing is more something she does when she wants to insult someone she shouldn’t (generally when they are like her sister’s guests or something vs. her parents when she literally does not care) and kinda compromises w/ sarcasm/double entendres
emma is fluent in four languages: english, french, italian, and sarcasm
she’s a very driven and dedicated person
she thinks she’s v much in the know but there’s a lot of things she’s still naive about tbh
HER SISTER IS EVERYTHING TO HER
she really just wishes that she wouldn’t do things like marry elias turner
like why, viv, why?!?!?!?!?!!?
still trying to convince her not to do that tbh
is hella defensive of viv DO NOT TEST HER
likes to be independent and does her own cooking/cleaning/laundry
likes watching netflix in yoga pants on the couch
pretty flirty but rarely serious about her pursuits
has a good sense of humor
tbh she makes jokes about a lot of things
being able to laugh (+ alcohol tbh) is how she’s survived this long
likes to do things that would shock her parents
but also likes trying new things for the experience
for all of the opportunities her lifestyle has given her, there’s so many things she’d never, ever do if she lived her life like her parents
emma’s pretty friendly most of the time but sometimes she can come off as rude
tbh she can be prejudice but really it all depends on her mood/how your first meeting goes
also very bad at forgiving people once they’ve crossed a certain line