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what do you do when you and your soul mate are perfect for each other,,but it's just not the right time. my boyfriend and i just broke up. pretty devastating. we still love each other alot but its best we're not together at this point in our lives. i would love to have some advice or just some thoughts.
I know this situation way too well!
Sometimes love destroys you.
The only advice I could give you is that you shouldn't stop living. It's going to happen - life. Enjoy it, experience new things/ new people. Give each other some space to grow
I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like I'm just stuck in my past. I can't get over my ex boyfriends and everything they have done to me. I obsess over their new girlfriends and I just can't seem to be able to move on. I can't take it, it's like in slowly killing myself
Okay, make a plan.
Give yourself a night out, organise with your friends to hang out. Go and meet new people, hang out at the beach until morning. Explore and make memories!
I promise you the next morning you will wake up with a different perspective, it is so easy to sit and dwell on the past and the memories you've had. But without breaking out of that pattern you can't make anymore.
You are a strong, beautiful, young girl! You have a lifetime of memories waiting to be made, go out and have fun!
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