ENTJ Confessions

The secret confessions of "The Commander" Myers Briggs' type. We are extroverted, intuitive, thinking and judging. Submit in ask box to keep this blog running. Thanks

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Is it possible for ENTJs to be super nice and understanding?

Absolutely. Although our super nice and understanding may seem a bit odd to those who are more emotional. For example, if you are in a sticky situation we’ll show our care by giving you a detached logical solution which will fix your problem but may not account for feelings being hurt. As long as you’re my friend I want the best for you but sometimes I will see past your clouded judgement and so offer rational advice that may seem to lack empathy but actually makes things easier in the long run. 

Feel free to add your comments ENTJs. 

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ENTJ Confessions #181

“People mistake my resting face for a bitch face. Sorry, you've got it all wrong. It's actually my 'I hate all of you idiots and can't wait till I dominate this world' face.”

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ENTJ Confessions #180

"It's not that I don't care about your feelings, it's that I don't know how. You have no idea how psychologically difficult it is for me to consider things from an emotional perspective. Please try to understand."

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ENTJ Confessions #179

“I have a wide circle of acquaintances, but I only consider three of them as "friends". I have a problem with lying, I do it all the time, instinctively, it's become a habit now. I might be a sociopath. Most of the stories I tell are made up to make myself sound more interesting, which attracts more followers–cough–I mean people. Hey, I may be a sociopath, but at least I'm a charming sociopath.”

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ENTJ Confessions #178

“I have been so happy lately and weirdly it’s because I’ve allowed myself to feel more emotional about things.”

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ENTJ Confessions #176

“I hate it when people view me as incompetent. So when I'm learning something new like playing an instrument, I feel obligated to learn on my own before learning with others.”

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ENTJ Confessions #175

“People seem to always think I'm on top of things- that everything's under control. They don't see the moments of chaos I endure and try to sift through internally when trying to keep things under control- the fact that in order for me to be successful at it, I have to bury my feelings. And then they wonder why I appear so cold... everything comes at a price.”

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ENTJ Confessions #174

“I get called bossy and cynical a lot. I try and laugh it because people expect me to be confident and I don't think they mean it to hurt, but it does. I can come across as intimidating so it's hard to open up and tell people how I feel.”

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ENTJ Confessions #173

“Most ENTJ's acknowledge and realise that emotions are integral to life. Seriously, the type of emotion ENTJ's claim to hate is the type when your roommate threatens to throw all of the dishes out of the window because you didn't wash them (because you fell asleep ffs). I just sat on the sofa, pretending to be half-asleep, until he was done being dramatic. Then I washed the dishes, because he may be an overdramatic idiot, but he had a point.”

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ENTJ Confessions #172

“I like being the villain. I am never nasty/ a bitch on purpose, I am just an honest person, even if it means being brutal. I often get called heartless, which isn't true, and people find it easy to blame things on me because I am 'heartless'. I don't take bullshit, and whenever somebody has annoyed me I distance myself from them, which I consider the most mature way to deal with it, instead of being angry or childish. I don't like to apologise for things I haven't done. Who does?!”

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ENTJ Confessions #171

“I'm absolutely terrible when it comes to listening to my Feeler friends talk and complain about their problems. I find their self-pity repulsive.”

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ENTJ Confessions #170

“I broke up with my first real boyfriend over two years ago. To this day, I constantly still try to figure out where we went wrong.”

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ENTJ Confessions #169

“I'm so tired of being told I'm an emotionless asshole. I feel a lot of things, I just choose not to show them.”

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ENTJ Confessions #168

“I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years because he was taking too much time away from my education/work, and he wasn't taking his own education seriously. I did care about him but there was no way I was going to sacrifice my future career on a relationship with someone going nowhere.”

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ENTJ Confessions #167

“Everyone believes that ENTJs don't cry, but that's not fully true. I will never shed a tear, when I'm sad or discouraged; that shows weakness. But if you see me mad, I'll probably be crying out of pure anger.”

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ENTJ Confessions #166

“Everywhere I see people hating something or other but to be honest, I care too much about my own happiness and my own inner peace to put in the effort of hating someone. I'm so concerned with my well being and no one else's that I am not going to give a fuck and even care about someone enough to hate them. I'm indifferent at best.”

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ENTJ Confessions #165

”Sometimes I put on an ENFP mask because I know this will make me appear way more social than I actually am. It's effective that way. Don't get me wrong, I love socialising and meeting new people but sometimes I will appear to new crowds differently and organise parties/ socials in such an efficient manner that people should realise I'm too J to truly be an ENFP.”