boy/esclave Québécois en formation

[lovezapas]

I DONT WANT A MOMMIE SO STOP ADDING ME TO YOUR FRIEND LIST OR SENDING ME NOTES

[schneckenkaefig]

Für die ,die sich nicht entscheiden können 😇

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

Stroking my clit

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

My favorite way to masturbate

[lovezapas]

I DONT WANT A MOMMIE SO STOP ADDING ME TO YOUR FRIEND LIST OR SENDING ME NOTES

[lovezapas]

I DONT WANT A MOMMIE SO STOP ADDING ME TO YOUR FRIEND LIST OR SENDING ME NOTES

[lrthedge]

📜 The Sacred Bond: Why Contracts & Ownership Documents Matter in BDSM

To all prospective submissive slaves seeking service, devotion, or ownership—listen closely.

A true Master does not claim you lightly. A true slave does not surrender blindly.

Before kneeling, before collaring, before surrendering your will to another, you must understand the weight of what you’re entering. This is not playacting. This is not a fleeting fantasy. This is a sacred exchange of power, and it demands clarity, respect, and protection for both Dominant and submissive.

🔐 Why Contracts & Ownership Documents Are Non-Negotiable

Clarity of Expectations – A well-crafted contract outlines roles, rules, limits, and obligations. No guesswork. No misunderstandings. Just clear structure for your dynamic.

Consent & Safety – BDSM thrives on informed, enthusiastic consent. A contract ensures hard limits, safewords, and aftercare are respected—always.

Emotional & Legal Protection – While not legally binding in most jurisdictions, these documents serve as moral agreements, reinforcing trust and accountability.

Symbolism of Commitment – Signing an ownership document is a ritual of surrender, a tangible acknowledgment of the power exchange. It marks the transition from "interested" to devoted.

⛓ Understanding Your Role as a Submissive Slave

Submission is not just about obedience—it’s about knowing yourself deeply. Before you serve, ask:

What do you truly seek? (Structure? Surrender? Service?)

What are your limits—emotional, physical, psychological?

Are you prepared for the demands of 24/7 dynamics, or do you need a part-time arrangement?

A Master worth serving will demand this level of self-awareness from you. If they don’t? That’s a red flag.

💢 The Danger of Skipping the Basics

I’ve seen too many "submissives" jump into dynamics without understanding their role—only to break down when reality clashes with fantasy. I’ve seen "Doms" who skip negotiations, leaving their slaves feeling used, confused, or betrayed.

Do not be one of them.

A true Dominant will educate you, test your readiness, and ensure you’re prepared before claiming you. A true slave will study, reflect, and communicate before offering their submission.

If you’re serious about this path, start here:

Research BDSM contracts (sample templates are a good starting point).

Reflect on your needs, fears, and desires—write them down.

Never rush. The right Master will respect your diligence.

Submission is a gift. Ownership is a privilege. Both require more than just desire—they demand preparation, understanding, and respect.

Are you ready?

— Master EDGE Leather | Discipline | Structure

[marcblackman]

fuck - feels so good

[extremesf]

Damn, this is sexy! All it needs is some tape over the nose

[yourslaveheart]

BDSM isn’t what many outside the community assume it to be.

It’s not about abuse, coercion, or anything forced. At its core, BDSM is built on trust, clear communication, and wholehearted consent. These aren’t just buzzwords; they are the foundation that holds everything together. What some misunderstand about the dynamic, the protocols, the power exchange, the intensity, is often where we find our safest space. It’s where acceptance lives and true freedom blossoms.

This is a space for those who already get it and for those still learning to embrace their desires without shame or hesitation. It takes courage to face the judgments and misconceptions, to admit what truly lights you up beneath the surface. But your kink is valid. Your consent matters deeply. And your desires are worthy of respect.

If you’re reading this and feeling unsure, know this: you are not broken. You are not wrong. What you want, what you need, and what you choose to give or receive - those things are yours to own, without guilt or fear.

In embracing your truth, you reclaim your power. You find connection, healing, and a freedom that’s impossible to find anywhere else. This is not a lifestyle for everyone, but it’s a sanctuary for those who understand that true strength often lives in surrender.

So step in with pride. Speak your truth without apology. And know you belong here...safe, seen, and respected.

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

Stroking my clit

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

My favorite way to masturbate

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

Stroking my clit

[tinydickstar-deactivated2025082]

My favorite way to masturbate

[martinika-a-r]

[dominusetcivilizer]

This ia the future for you all sissies.

[n2it4u]

[muckyrubberobject]

[esclave-zuky]

[rubberbottomscollectional]

[alphalewolf]

[iampupscout]

I’ve watched this scene more times than I can count! For the uninitiated, this is Chris Evans in his first feature film role - playing one of the lead characters in Not Another Teen Movie. It’s a spoof of a scene from Varsity Blues, where a girl had a “bra” of whipped cream.

*wags furiously, drooling a little*

[temptingdominance]

Dear Submissives

Can you please for for the love of god stop paying attention to that bullshit on Tumblr that tells you that you’re supposed to be a worthless object? You do realize that everybody who is spouting off about that crap doesn’t put their face or their address online?

BECAUSE IT ISN’T REAL!

You’re not going to spend your life in a basement serving somebody. It’s a fucking fantasy. And it bullshit like this that destroys the positive and meaningful interactions with in BDSM.

No one is dominant or submissive 100% of the time. It’s not possible. We’re human beings. We need to rest. We need to rejuvenate. Yeah you can have a hot session that goes on for a full weekend. You can embrace every bit of who you are as a dominant or submissive. But there’s always a break.

And if you haven’t figured this out, real dominant men provide Aftercare and take of their boys. Full stop. It’s not even a question. If somebody is going to put you through an intense situation and can’t even fucking bother holding onto you and caressing you to let you calm down, they’re just a piece of shit. There is something psychologically wrong with them and you shouldn’t be around them in the first place.

Let’s address this Alpha bullshit. No one is better than somebody else. No person is ordained as this creature that is meant to be superior to others. If someone honestly leaves that they are better than someone else on purely a basis of humanity, they are most likely a sad individual. They never achieved anything meaningful. Maybe one day they started going to the gym and realize that someone was attracted to them and then they could exert their low self-esteem on another. Can’t fucking stand people like this. And they spout their bullshit all over the internet.

And here’s the simple truth to all of this, you may read this right now and think that I’m completely wrong. But as soon as the fantasy wears off, you start to realize that a good man is far better than anything that this fantasy world could ever provide.

So please wake the fuck up. Believe in yourself. Know that you don’t deserve to be treated like crap. Submission is a gift. The dominant has to be worthy of it. You make that determination not them.

Stand up for yourself. I believe in you. Look past the bullshit.

Sincerely,

A good dominant man that’s tired of seeing people abused.

[the-master-john]

This man speaks the truth. Everybody has a worth whatever their level of dominance.

The posts on my blog are a true reflection of my life… although somewhat exaggerated, perhaps. The relationship I have with my boys is based on mutual trust and respect.

For most on Tumblr the whole master/slave scene is just a fantasy. However, there is a social hierarchy, a pecking order and this is true in every aspect of life… not just in the bedroom or in your dungeon! Having said that, your level of dominance is not fixed or permanent. I like to use the analogy of the wolf pack… The young pup works his way up the social order until one day he overthrows the alpha male and becomes the leader of the pack. 

There are some people who have little or no sense of self worth or self respect. They often throw themselves into a downward spiral of self-destruction. Even they can be helped… they can reverse the process… but, they need to make that choice themselves. Never write yourself off or give up!

[realpowerexchange]

Reblogged for @the-master-john comments.