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ELLIE WILLIAMS The Last of Us, 01.09

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If you are mentally fatigued and your day to day life seems meaningless, please try to constantly remind yourself that you are living through a plethora of negative historical events. How you feel is a direct result of that. Be kind to yourself and take it easy.

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Nobody is easy to date. Everyone has their insecurities, flaws, and certain ways of doing things that makes us who we are. Perfect people and relationships only exist on TV. The most important thing is finding someone who loves you on your worst days and will fight through the hard times.

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"your [disability/disorder/mental illness] doesnt make you weak !!!"

okay, but... what if it does?

mentally, i'm not always strong. i have a lot of moments of weakness. i cry a lot, i overreact, i spend days isolating myself because socializing is so exhausting. my anxiety gets so bad that it physically exhausts me, it makes me sick to my stomach i have to sleep for hours to recover. physically, im weaker. i cant carry heavy things for long periods, i have to rest FREQUENTLY, im constantly exhausted.

so what, so why is being weak bad? does it make you a bad person? does it make you unworthy of love, of respect, of compassion? of course not.

your "strength" does not determine your worth. your value is not determined by what you can (physically or mentally) do for others or for society. you have value just by being.

take care of yourself. dont push yourself just because you feel like you need to be seen as "strong."

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I’m the cheapest date ever like we can just sit in a parked car and talk and I’d be thrilled af

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“One day, I’ll be the right choice for someone. One day, I’ll be the best pick. One day, someone will look at me and they’ll know they made the right decision.”

— (via shadowcastle)