EVERYTH!NK ALOUD

A place to record the insights I receive on things that happen to me and around me

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If consciousness is like a blank screen, some people are watching a pretty crazy movie 😢

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The Witness is the one that can see everything happening but can’t do anything about it. Knowing this, one relaxes

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You were always the Witness, you just didn’t know it. You can’t actually do anything about any of it i.e, you are just the Witness 🙃

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Not needing her to come back is what keeps her coming back

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Knowing that you will learn from getting it wrong removes the pressure of trying to get everything right

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The deepest kind of love:

Not the kind that fixes, but the kind that holds steady while someone else finds their way back to truth

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Sometimes, love is quiet, grounded faith in the other person’s process

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Whatever unfolds is happening for my growth, not against me

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Speculation is the mind’s attempt to protect itself from discomfort. But discomfort is just a wave. If you let it pass without building a story around it—you become unshakable

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I’ll be present in love, but I will no longer abandon myself for it

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Emotional security doesn’t come from restricting your partner—it comes from regulating yourself and trusting the connection

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It’s easy to fall into the trap of wanting a romantic partner to love you more but that comes from a place of lack. When you truly love yourself then your romantic partner can’t help but love you more. So, remember to love yourself (in a good way) first and foremost 😊

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What is the point of thinking about something that you can’t change and which only makes you upset? 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Unsuccessful people do what they want to do whereas successful people do what works

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Don’t do something because you can but rather do something because it’s right

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A person’s coldness towards you can be the result of them caring too little or too much. When you’re in a romantic relationship, you’d do well to remember that it’s probably latter and to use the others coldness as a prompt to show them compassion and love ❤️

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When it comes to understanding other people’s behaviour, mostly I don’t know and I’m not going to waste my mental energy trying to figure it out