FEELINGS

all you need to know about me is that i'm a girl with a heart that was broken by a boy whose eyes are full of galaxies

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You used to say you didn't believe in destiny, and I still believe that it was fate who put us together in the first place.

Where would we be now? // a.s

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For the past 3 years I've been in love with this guy but he moved away. I still talked to him and still had feelings for him and I finally told him about them and he said he wanted to be with me and we talked about how he might possibly love me as well but then a week later I had to find out from Facebook that he got a girlfriend. And he even told me I had no reason to be mad or upset with him. That was in December. And I'm still not the slightest bit over it. Kind of broken inside

It’s normal to feel like that. I mean you’ve invested so much into that relationship (whether he liked you in the same way or not) for 3 years, and when you finally gain the courage to tel him how you feel he doesn’t really care. You should just move on from that toxic relationship. Meet new people and leave everything that isn’t supposed to be in your life behind. Who knows what you might find once you open yourself up to the world again.

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Hi, I really like this guy but we haven't met up in years. And I can feel him slowly not caring about me. Anyway we were talking and he was asking if I saved his info so I can contact him when I need him. But I told him that I didn't need him and he took it the wrong way. Now he's pissed at me and won't open the msg where I said that I wasn't trying to be hostile. I think he hates me and I don't think I can salvage the relationship we have because we haven't talked or seen each other in a while.

Just because you haven’t met in a while doesn’t mean you can’t salvage the relationship you have.I bet he still cares about you and if he took it the wrong way, then just make him see the what you really meant.Make an effort to meet him, arrange some kind of plan with his friends to try and meet up with you or something like that. If you really care about him you have to try your hardest and try to make everything within your reach to get his friendship back.

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I love my best friend, he loves me too the only problem is that he is too tall and i'm too short and our friends say bad things to us and say that we can't stay toghether, we' ve talked and now we're just like nothing because we said: bestfirends not bc we aren't normal friends, boy-friend and girlfriend not bc of the other's thoughts, what can we do? What can I do? I can't love anyone else beacouse in my mind there's only him. Please help me i don't know what to do and I'm tired of all this.

I’m sorry but what kind of friends are those that say that a guy that’s too tal and a girl that’s too short can’t date? That’s simply stupid. If you like each other it doesn’t matter what others think. If you keep listening to your friends you’ll only be miserable and feel bad and one day you’ll regret it.

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HelloImTheOneFromTheAskWroteLikeThis😂The thing is that now when we go out it just feels perfect around him but we wont talk about our feelings so idk, when we text it looks like he's already my bf, but face to face and around other people it doesn't

Just talk about your feelings. If it feels perfect around him and you feel like bf when you text each other that has to mean something. If it doesn’t then just move on and find someone who actually deserves you and your love!

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ThisGuyWasJustVKind2MeAlwaysAndHeDidThingsThatFriendsDontDoSoHeMadeMeBelieveHeLikedMe.ThisYearHeToldMeHeLikedOtherGirl.ToldHimILikedHim&EverythingHeDidThatMadeMeDoSo.AMonthLaterHeToldMeHeLikedMeButImNotVSureBcUCantChangeUrMindOnWhoULikeThatFastRight?

In my opinion you kind of can? You and I don’t know how much he liked that other girl. Maybe he thought he liked her or maybe he felt something for her but didn’t really know what it was. He could just have maybe stopped hanging out with her or something like that. We don’t know what happened but sometimes it just happens.

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You always told me how good of a listener I am. Too bad I couldn't listen to what my heart was really telling me.

Excerpt from a book I’ll never write #15 // a.s

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And from here on now we’ll forever be strangers who share a too many memories. Strangers who share a glance and a smile when they pass by in the street. People who once shared so many secrets and now don’t even know one another.

Keeping your memory // a.s

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Ever since I met you it has been you. I don’t think I have ever cared about someone as much I care about you.

Excerpt from a book I’ll never write #14 // a.s

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Sometimes all you need is time. Time to process things out. Time to let yourself heal from all the wrong that has been done. Time to let it all go. Time to start a new chapter.

Just let life take it’s own course // a.s

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I took so many photographs of you so that I could keep the memory of you alive.

Saudade // a.s

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At some point you’re gonna have to choose who you love the most. Them or yourself.

Excerpt from a book I’ll never write #13 // a.s

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Always live life to the fullest. Be bold. Be brave. Be a better version of yourself.

Advices I wish someone would have given me a long time ago // a.s

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I just stumbled upon your blog and I wanted to share my boy problem. I'm not sure if I'm in love with him but, what I know is that I care for him deeply. I've known him for a short time (5 months) and in that short period of time, he healed and broke me. I don't know if that's possible. He hasn't spoken to me since the beginning of April, and I know it's not that long but, I miss him. And I don't know if he's okay and I'm really worried. he won't answer my texts. My heart hurts. Help?

I do think it’s possible for someone to heal and break you. I don’t know what happened exactly but maybe be the bigger person and just go up to him and talk to him. Even if he doesn’t want to hear it, make him. If you value your friendship above everything else try to at least salvage that. After all having his friendship is always better than having nothing and him not talking to you and not answering your texts.

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Your page is so amazing! You have no idea how much looking through it meant so much to me. ❤️Your quotes and advice helped me understand that I need to be stronger and to not give in to those who don't want to be part of my life even if I want them to be in it. No begging. No forcing. Just leaving the door wide open to let them leave.

Thank you so much! It means the world to me :)And yeah, you don’t need to make someone stay in your life if they don’t want to. It won’t do no good, just live life to the fullest like today is your last day and just stop worrying about things that won’t matter in 5, 10, 20 years.

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I have this guy best friend. We know each other for as long as I know and we're best friend ever since. He had a gf, then I confessed to him on New Year's eve. He rejected me and distanced himself from me. When he and his gf broke up, he became closer to me. And he kissed me, talked to me 24/7. He touched me, said sweet things to me. Suddenly, after we kissed (3 weeks ago) he became distant again. I found out he got back together with his gf. I was the reboud, yet I still love him. What do i do?

Honestly just move on. Just forget about him, he clearly only values your friendship when he has no one else. That kind of friends are not worth your time. It will be hard, but every heartbreak is but that doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your sake and your well being for someone who clearly only cares when you’re his last option. He’s not worth it, believe me.

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(continued) because before I was a virgin. I don't know what to do because my family are really religious and I know everyone will blame me for having sex because I'm only 17. I did a pregnancy test yesterday and yep, positive. I don't know what to do and who to go to and I don't know if there's even any point.

Honestly what I think I would do if I was in your situation is talk to your parents, no matter if they are religious or not they should be there to support you. Rape is a very serious thing and you should go to the police station and report the situation. Even though you were very drunk and you don’t remember much you should do it. And try to gather as much information as you can about that night. Next time you or your friends are very drunk don’t do and lay down on one of the bedrooms, go straight home cause things like this tend to happen.You should go to the doctor and weigh your options on what it would be best for you right now, being only 17 and so young with a life ahead of you. Talk to your parents and explain the situation, I really think they would understand and support you no matter what, that’s what family is all about anyway.I really hope I helped you!!