welcome to my blog! 18+ ONLY!!
hi! im making a new pinned post because my other one is kind of rambly lol
as i said in the post title 18+ only, absolutely NO minors on my blog! i also am not comfortable talking to people a lot younger than me, if you're under 23 i most likely won't talk to you just because i'm uncomfortable with it 🙂 nothing against you otherwise!
i only have a tumblr, bluesky, and reddit, and i have a personal discord account, i am not on any other social media including telegram, twitter/x, snapchat, etc!
about me:
mel, 27, nonbinary and genderfluid + queer
im a feedee and specifically a queer fat admirer! i love all bodies but i have a strong preference for other fat people and other queer people as well. im not really a feeder or encourager at least not 99% of the time lol.
i am actively gaining, my current weight is 320 and my goal weight is 400
this is a just for fun kind of thing for me, im not a content creator and i most likely never will be. that being said, if you want to support my gain or anything i have a throne wishlist and a venmo! dm for my cashapp! like i said this is just for fun but if anyone wants to i wont stop you ;) keep in mind i do not exchange content for tips, if you tip me it is your own decision and does not require me to talk to you or send you pictures or videos!
im single but not looking for a relationship. i am down for fat chat and talking about feedism but i'm not looking for anything more than friends, maybe friends i do feedism stuff with, and maybe very casual dynamics still built on mutual understanding and trust.
i do have a life and job outside of this lol, i go to college and work part time. im usually pretty busy and im open to chatting with people but please be mindful that im a person!
asks are currently open, feel free to ask anything! dms are open too but keep the above point in mind
something i want to address: i am nonbinary but i do tag my posts with girl/woman/feminine terms. viewer discretion advised! you can see what i look like im comfortable with being assumed/perceived to be a woman, if you want to talk to me keep my gender in mind if you can but otherwise go wild
also im NOT into sex talk about myself or sexting, i don't want to discuss having sex with people unless i know someone pretty well. fat chat is different for me but anything more than that makes me uncomfortable. im also not into breeding/pregnancy or death feedism/health issues, have your fun but if you message me starting with either of these you're blocked! i also cant believe i need to say this but any variation of bigotry or sexual assault/r*pe as a kink, like (insert term here)breaking, is not okay and i will not entertain this.
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feel free to use this as a guide on what to (not) message me about, its usually accurate :p
