welcome darlings,
BEFORE YOU INTERACT: please scroll at the bottom for boundaries and disclaimers.
୨୧ you can call me dove, dear, any endearing term you prefer <3
୨୧ 26, stone femme lesbian bottom sub, pillow princess
୨୧ femme4butch, but my heart is fullest for the all of us <3
୨୧ i love books, stories involving lesbian princesses and knights (especially butchfemme), sapphic retellings, lesbian history, feminist literature, writing poetry and fiction, writing lots and lots of romantic things, videogames, forests, rain, flannels and more
୨୧ transphobes, terfs, cis men, racists, ableists, MINORS you are not welcome here. i tend to interact more with blogs over 21.
this blog is pro-palestine, anti-zionism, pro-abortion and a safe place for trans folks.
please, put the age on your profile or i will have to block.
୨୧ general important note: as a side blog, it gathers mostly nsft or certain types of thoughts more than i would normally express. i am in no shape or form trying to objectify, push a perception or reduce butch identity to the sphere of sex and kink. i love and respect butches, cherish and wish to protect butches with my entire heart, and i don't want to be around people that do not respect butches either. it is inherent to my identity as a femme and i ask to each of us to reflect on this daily.
୨୧ about my posts: i use specific pronouns because i imagine myself as i write them down, but any pronouns can be applied to the protagonists of my posts. every post i write is about lesbians.
please, do not repost or copy paste my words or change them and repost them. i can notice and i don't appreciate that.
chosen traces left in my inbox:
⚔️, 🐺, 💀, 🖤, 🐯, 📎, 🌕, 🧸, 🪢, 🤙🏼, ⛓️💥
limits, boundaries and disclaimers under this cut.
hard limits (please do not direct these themes to me.): stalking, obsession, localization, heavy gore, slapping, hard degradation, offensive speech, ownership, detainment, capturing/kidnapping, non-consensual abuse, slavery, heavy violence, public, suggestive non-con, heavy harming, scat/scum, vomiting, heavy blood mentions, death, intoxication with non-con themes, ageplay and actual incest, incest fantasies. (updating.)
i might interact less or stop interacting if you post a lot of these themes and it has to do with me, so please, don't take this personally.
personal boundaries and disclaimers:
୨୧ flirting and nsft interacting is okay and i accept it and am comfortable responding to it if in my possibilities, though i am thankful for anything kind that comes my way. i know i'm a nsft blog and such but feel free to interact in other ways, you don't have to necessarily flirt with me to establish a connection.
messaging preferred from people that have interacted with me before. i would prefer to be approached respectfully, which allows me to keep my messages open. i might not answer at times or it might take me more than predicted.
୨୧ i am single, however, i'm not ready for a relationship right now, so though i care for and cherish, handle with maximum respect any sweet advances in my regards, it is hard for me right now to put myself in that stable position because i'm going through a hard time emotionally and physically. i wouldn't be ready to welcome and cherish someone the way they deserve. i though include the possibility for myself in the future, but not now. please don't guilt trip me around this or try to make me feel bad, i really don't appreciate it.
୨୧ i'm affectionate as a person and i will find extremely enjoyable and lovable, a whole gift to take care of butches and fellow femmes seeking for care, sweet words or company. i truly adore giving out my love to others and it makes me feel joy and i treasure so much anyone i can get to, with it.
୨୧ i'm here to form long-term community and relations and build a stable and safe space, so i am here to help, listen and be around for you, if you need me. i have brought away for myself the chance to be myself for a long time but now i don't anymore. this blog validates me and brings me joy and i need to keep it safe as much, so i kindly ask to respect these boundaries and disclaimers i have given while being around me. i trust i have around me people that can respect me and be good to me so i don't doubt your intentions towards me.
wishing every each of my darling love lesbians sapphics dear ones here a kind beginning of this new cycle, hoping it has been tender to you so far. i hope you keep in mind that there is still time for every of your needs and that a new year doesn't mean an impending toll that time is flowing off from your hands, but it rather means that chances for you are always showing up anew because you deserve to retry, restart, be again however you need.
hope all of my femmes and butches here have been told lately how valid and dear their existence is, and i want to remind you i am grateful to be considering myself part of something greater that includes you. our existence and our person matters, and i hope you never think otherwise. your love matters. your being matters. all that makes your identity and you as yourself matters.
hoping this new year brings us all more safety, more space for action and defense and speech, and all what brings us existence in the way we need <3
i miss being around here so much, and i hope to come out with more writing in the future.
but more time will be taken off for various little personal reasons. meanwhile, you can explore my tags #butch appreciation or #lesbian yearning if you need a little sweet hint for your day.
i wanted to wish to my lesbians sapphics beloved ones here ahead a dear period of holidays, as well a sweet end of the year and an even sweeter beginning of the new year. <3
i hope that you can recognize yourself that you have done all in your power to keep things unraveling for this year, and that you did your best because in fact best is what has been done the moment you could do it. i hope you can spend this time knowing that someone loves and appreciates you, no matter where you might spot them across the space of your own happening. i hope you can stay hopeful for better times if you need any to reach you, and i as well do send my thoughts if that's what your person is asking for at the moment.
i am thankful for everyone that has crossed my path this year on this account, people that have come and people that eventually have gone, and people that in the present time still appreciate my presence in their lives. across every of these circumstances, i was lucky to be able to express myself in this space and receive affection and possibility, even during such a rough and deeply painful period of my life. might we all be fleeting moments on a screen, i still find every of you deserving of recognition and goodness and i hope i might, somehow, be seen remotely as such as well. and i hope you can consider me as someone unknown, and yet on your side. i hope to encounter a better year for myself, love, and eventually come back to use this space like i once have before, and spend more time out in the open where for now i have grown a bit fearful of spending.
i love you to bits and i consider every of you here community i belong to, butches and femmes, and this femme identity of myself that in the lowest times still is my certainty, solace and north star guiding.
be safe, take care, and speak to yourself gentle as you can.
i am proud of you, and so i will be, as long as you will keep being yourself.
see you in 2026 <3
forehead kisses,
dove
i wanted to wish to my lesbians sapphics beloved ones here ahead a dear period of holidays, as well a sweet end of the year and an even sweeter beginning of the new year. <3
i hope that you can recognize yourself that you have done all in your power to keep things unraveling for this year, and that you did your best because in fact best is what has been done the moment you could do it. i hope you can spend this time knowing that someone loves and appreciates you, no matter where you might spot them across the space of your own happening. i hope you can stay hopeful for better times if you need any to reach you, and i as well do send my thoughts if that's what your person is asking for at the moment.
i am thankful for everyone that has crossed my path this year on this account, people that have come and people that eventually have gone, and people that in the present time still appreciate my presence in their lives. across every of these circumstances, i was lucky to be able to express myself in this space and receive affection and possibility, even during such a rough and deeply painful period of my life. might we all be fleeting moments on a screen, i still find every of you deserving of recognition and goodness and i hope i might, somehow, be seen remotely as such as well. and i hope you can consider me as someone unknown, and yet on your side. i hope to encounter a better year for myself, love, and eventually come back to use this space like i once have before, and spend more time out in the open where for now i have grown a bit fearful of spending.
i love you to bits and i consider every of you here community i belong to, butches and femmes, and this femme identity of myself that in the lowest times still is my certainty, solace and north star guiding.
be safe, take care, and speak to yourself gentle as you can.
i am proud of you, and so i will be, as long as you will keep being yourself.
see you in 2026 <3
forehead kisses,
dove
persevering because one day i will be a femme wife and hurriedly get to the arms of a butch lover husband the moment they're past the entrance door reuniting after our own busy moments and everything will be okay
butch that has been having a hard time through the week and with themselves x femme that takes care of them in every way she knows it brings them back to themselves. holding their face every time she's kissing it, her fingers smoothing from their forehead to their chin to ease any headache. checking on them often, helping with tucking in blankets or them out of their clothing when they're feeling unwell. plating their favorite things and baking that sweet treat they once admitted to really like. holding them tightly to her chest if any worry gets too high, suggesting to watch their favorite movies or shows low in the background. waiting on their side in a soft silence, when there's not something specific she can do, but still would be ready in a heartbeat to help any way she's requested
thinking about doing those acts of love for a butch commonly placed in the sphere of the mundane. learning their favorite mug and how they like their favorite drink, especially for when they need it after a long day. folding their shirts or practicing on my own to knot their tie to be part of the process, if i may be. offering to massage their arms if they're feeling strained, keeeping a little pile on the side of snacks they like having. knowing the titles of their favorite songs, their favorite movies. combing my fingers through the back of their head while i ask them to tell me more and update me of something they really really like, only to catch a glimpse of that spark in their sweet eyes. keep them all for my care and lips tracking the pattern of lines on their face, all of my attention to what they need or say
want to help a butch beloved with applying lotion where they cannot reach well, or for the corners where their skin may need more care or soothing to feel more tender again. linger where softness pools to gently hold and adore with my fingertips, near my lips with feathery touches where traces of time have laid passage. whisper how much they mean to me as my fingers press devotion on their limbs. help them into comfortable clothes once i'm finished, hugging them close once enveloped. let myself be caught in their embrace if they prefer so better, kissing their cheeks to tell them how deeply handsome, gorgeous, they are before me
have a sweet december my beloved femmes butches lesbians sapphics <3 it is the last month of the year and although it might feel like all things are catching up on you before the past year is to rest, i hope you can comfort yourself with having done much, bravely and courageously. i hope you don't feel the pressure to feel perfect, i hope you don't feel the pressure to become else, because a passage of time is enclosing. stay safe and warm in your heart no matter the temperature outside, and all of my sweet thoughts will be turning into wishes as we reach the other year arriving. but until then, all of my forehead kisses and fondness in copious amounts. may this butchember be gentle and careful with you <3 i love you dearly
swooning over the thought of butches that speak softly and route over and over on the same spot while talking about their favorite things. butches with reddening knuckles, butches with warm palms that gather sweat to kiss. butches that flush for compliments and squeeze you a little tighter than intended when they hug you. butches with nerdy interests and butches that collect something they like. butches that fix your clothes without you noticing while you're talking to them, butches that pat their leg for you to sit. butches <3
to be so intimate with a butch lover in the most romantic way. embroidering their name on the side of your bralette, letting them choose your underwear for the day as you're kissing the side of their face. sleeping with little if nothing as tangled as it goes, the warmth of their presence a memory on your skin to long for the entire day after. tying one of your ribbons around the loop of their jeans, pressing a stamp of lipstick on their covered ribcage for them to carry. washing each other with tender accuracy, aching, tender touches of lips here and there across held limbs
butch that has been spending a difficult day x femme that notices something is off the moment her butch comes back home. nearing them closely but with softness, not pushing an answer on the spot. nevertheless, helping them out their coat and setting aside anything they're carrying, even with the soft protesting they would do it alone. giving them options on how to relax for the evening. whether they need to let their heart release what makes it heavier, offering a warm chest and the ends of a soft blanket tucked around their body. an ear that strives to profess devotion by listening to every worry, in silence or with words aiming to help what is to untangle. whether they need to let their body be taken care of, washed with warmth and soap, massaged, kissed everywhere muscles have hardened from tension. a small question for permission every time anything comes across, the towel on their body drying off tender and damp skin. whether they need to let the day just end as it is, praised without having to ask for anything. sliding in bed in comfortable clothes, soft words slowly unraveled into their ear, holding or held as they please. no matter how long it takes for them to surrender to sleep. the countless shapes love is to take when it wishes to care, heal and adore
yearning for the cold and a butch beloved to whom i can fix and knot a soft scarf under their chin and shield their hands from the cold burying them warm in the pockets of my coat and kiss better the reddened apples of their cheeks pinched by the colder weather
taking care everyday of a butch beloved, but also taking every occasion on which i would want to do something more. baths are such a classic, but to massage their hands and arms while they're soaked, to kiss their forehead while your sweetheart is all lost and relaxed. bringing them their warm beverage exactly the way they like it, listening to each detail while cradling their face with your fingers. circling their chest and softly rubbing their stomach if they are okay with it, while asking them little sweet questions about the movie they picked, because you know how they like explaining about it. being their pillow upon which to fall asleep, grazing the top of their shoulders and the back of their head with gentle swipes as if mild waves through their thoughts. whispering how much you love them while their breathing turns into that familiar rhythm of theirs in slumber
i hope this november treats you so gentle and kind the way you need, letting you breathe and exist, as we inch closer to the end of the year. but time does come second when it is about caring for yourself. i hope you never wait for a time to see yourself as worthy of care and love. and i hope our little community somehow makes you feel loved, for what you could have been missing or needing it. i love you my lesbians and sapphics very much <3 take care
to be so intimate with a butch lover in the most romantic way. embroidering their name on the side of your bralette, letting them choose your underwear for the day as you're kissing the side of their face. sleeping with little if nothing as tangled as it goes, the warmth of their presence a memory on your skin to long for the entire day after. tying one of your ribbons around the loop of their jeans, pressing a stamp of lipstick on their covered ribcage for them to carry. washing each other with tender accuracy, aching, tender touches of lips here and there across held limbs
butch in their nightwear that makes them look like those teddy bears with sleep pajamas set cuddled head on my chest while i sip on my chamomile reading them lines of the book i'm reading at the moment under thick blankets kissing their flushed cheeks from the warmth until they make little sleepy sounds melting my heart send post
