Finch Is Completely Fine

[finchiscompletelyfine]

Hello!

Hi, I'm Finch-- thank you for coming to my page. A bit about me:

My pronouns are they/them and I'm bisexual I think? I love ducks, oxford commas, Seamus and Dean, Wolfstar, LoTR, art, and all genres of music. I am a socialist in theory, and certainly an anti-capitalist. I am also a free-range Christian/spiritual. I love history (the queer kind, not the war kind) and languages— I speak English, French, some German, and some Italian. I’m a Ravenclaw and I do a lot of different creative things (writing, digital art, drawing, singing, acting, song writing).

I'd love to talk, please send me asks! I used to be @janeiscompletelyfine, some people might know me by that name. I prefer to go by Finch now, thank you!

I'm here to interact with fandoms that I love, not argue with people, so if you're looking for a fight, respectfully-- please find another blog. I'm really glad that there's an online community full of queer nerds like me, so please don't make it weird.

Always mourning @awesome-wordspren. If you’re alive, you’re perfect, please stay with us. If you’re worried that someone’s going to commit suicide or hurt themselves, please use this, it could save a life.

Credit to Pinterest for the profile images.

My fandoms are Harry Potter, Marauders, The Penderwicks, Canon Sherlock Holmes, DPS, NATM, Newsies, and anything else that strikes my fancy at the time. My parent is @bitch-potatoes and siblings therefore are all of their adoptive children :). I love suggestions and am relatively new to many fandoms, so feel free to correct me if I get something wrong.

MARAUDERS INTRO AND INFORMATION DOCUMENT!

This document includes all important information about the Marauders fandom, for newbies as well as anyone who may be confused. If you have any edits or questions, please feel free to ask me. Hope all find this helpful!

Once More, With Feeling — Many Perspectives for Golden Trio Era

Broken Candles Burn the Brightest — Time Travel Marauders AU

NOTE- Despite the fact that I absolutely love Harry Potter, I hate JK Rowling and her fucking idiocy. I made a conscious choice not to support her in any monetary way— I only consume HP/Marauders content as fanfiction, things I bought before she did this, or things which I pirate. I refuse to let her take away one of the things that brings me the most joy in the world. Let us be queer in all of the spaces she’s created :).

I can’t donate anything or give money online, I’m sorry.

DNI homophobes, transphobes, TERFs, radfems, nsfw blogs (I’m a minor!), exclusionary queer groups, and people who perpetuate hate.

I'm probably not going to reblog or post any NSFW content, I'll update if that changes. Again, I love suggestions and am writing/making fanart purely for the GoOd vIbEs.

Thank you for coming!

[finchiscompletelyfine]

EXTREMELY IMPORTANT MESSAGE

I am changing my username!!

It’s changing from janeiscompletelyfine to finchiscompletelyfine!!

Because I am now going by Finch :))

[kyhemis]

HE MADE TEA. John Watson made tea for Sherlock every day since they started living together and asked him about his cases, and when he stopped, Sherlock came to him with tea. Sherlock Holmes made tea for him and then told him about a case.

No one will ever know how much I freaked out, I really did, hearing that. Sherlock Holmes doing something for another person to connect socially with them without receiving anything in return and without, apparently, any ulterior motives.

Also: John's Diaries!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And then Enola brought Tewkesbury a cup of something ( I don't care if it's tea or sewage water ) she, Enola Holmes, brought a cup of a drink to her love pair.

Fuck I love parallels. Holmes and their love language. The best? John was ready to give up on his tentative friendship and then Sherlock came with a cup of tea. Tewkesbury and Enola have a fight and he was, probably, ready to be abandoned and then she came with a cup of something.

Kill me.

[fangz-for-flying-by]

if you get upset by something thats fine. tell the people around you, and while there is some expectation of others to accomodate you, if the thing that upsets you is common, neccicary, or just something others enjoy, you need to understand that others dont owe you a perfectly 'safe' enviorment.

if you are upset by loud noises, and your family likes setting off fireworks for fourth of july, get noise cancelling headphones, or stay inside, its a joyful thing and while its not neccicary its also not something that people want to exempt themselves from. if you cant find joy in a celibration than dont celibrate, take a plate of food into a space where you wont hear the fireworks, then do your own damn thing.

you cannot dictate others actions always. boundaries are good and healthy, but accomodating yourself when you can is a polite thing to do.

[nihilisticlinguistics]

adulthood notes:

The Rodeo Rule: you only have to do it for the first time once.

The Rohan Rule: if you are at a social function full of new people and you want to be liked, find someone doing important work like setup or food prep and offer to help.

The Tutorial Mode Rule: to navigate an unfamiliar situation where you fear you will mess up an interaction, preface the interaction by mentioning that you've never done this before, and let them know if you have a specific concern or question.

The Rocket Science Rule: most new things you want to try seem very complicated but are simple when taken step by step.

The [X] Will Remember That Rule: if you need to make small talk with the same person on a regular basis, try to save one fact or current event in their life from a given conversation and bring it up next time you talk.

The Cool Binder Rule: by wearing clothes and accessories that are to your taste instead of trying to blend in, people will be more likely to compliment you and show interest in you as a person.

[maidslime]

Ok like. Imagine life without ads. You wake up, check your messages across a variety of apps, no ads. You get up and put on the tv while you prep your breakfast, no ads. Maybe you drive somewhere and switch on the radio, no ads. Maybe you drive a long distance, yet somehow, not a single billboard on your path. You pick up a newspaper or magazine to pass the time, no advertisements only articles. You turn on your game console, the home screen is just about your games, no ads to buy more. You open a streaming app, you don't pay extra for no ads, there's just no ads ever.

Think about how much of your time is spent looking at ads. "Download ublock" yeah I know, I have. But that doesn't change that the world is covered with endless advertising. Imagine never seeing that again. How much better our lives would be.

[jupiter-does-things]

I’m gonna be so sad when the pride flags go away. I really wish we could keep them

[macdenlover]

it came to my realization that 99% of my fandom related headaches would be cured if everyone understood this

[finchiscompletelyfine]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THÉ LITTLE PRIDE FLAGS ARE GONE

[poladroid]

Bonjour Evan (can I talk to you in French? I had no idea you were French, that’s super cool! I speak French but my orthography is quite bad unfortunately.) Anyway, FELLOW TOLKIEN FAN!

bonjour! (oe tkt tu peux me parler français)

AYY tolkien!!! which of his books are your fav??

[finchiscompletelyfine]

C pas une réponse très original mais Fellowship of the Ring probablement, j’adore tellement les Hobbits et les contes de l’Hobbiton et Bag End dans l’intro. Et toi?

[poladroid]

Sympaa

Moi je kiffe le Silmarillion mdr je l’ai lu tellement de fois c une dinguerie. Túrin ma cata pref ✌️🙂‍↕️

[finchiscompletelyfine]

WOUAH t’a de la DEDICATION ça, je n’ai jamais encore fini le Silm même une fois, encore moins tellements de fois!

Ma préf est Sam, avec Faramir, Eowyn, et Pippin en 2ème. Mais je suis aussi une défendeur de Frodo. J’aime aussi Le Gaffeur (le père de Sam). Comment il s’appelle en français?

[poladroid]

oe c des persos incrr j’suis d’accord 100%

pour le gaffeur jsp moi deso g tt lu en anglais mdr

[finchiscompletelyfine]

Ça va, tkt! C tellement chouette de lire dans les autres langues, je me souviendra toujours quand g commencé Harry Potter a L’École des Sorciers pour le premier fois et lu « Gryffondor, Serdaigle, Poufsouffle, et Serpentard », j’étais comme quoiiiiiiii. (J'étais petit, je n’achète pas les trucs de JKR maintenant.)

Oe j’aime bien tes slangs, j’apprends beaucoup! Je lis tes messages à voix haute, ça me donne les indices mdr!

[poladroid]

Bonjour Evan (can I talk to you in French? I had no idea you were French, that’s super cool! I speak French but my orthography is quite bad unfortunately.) Anyway, FELLOW TOLKIEN FAN!

bonjour! (oe tkt tu peux me parler français)

AYY tolkien!!! which of his books are your fav??

[finchiscompletelyfine]

C pas une réponse très original mais Fellowship of the Ring probablement, j’adore tellement les Hobbits et les contes de l’Hobbiton et Bag End dans l’intro. Et toi?

[poladroid]

Sympaa

Moi je kiffe le Silmarillion mdr je l’ai lu tellement de fois c une dinguerie. Túrin ma cata pref ✌️🙂‍↕️

[finchiscompletelyfine]

WOUAH t’a de la DEDICATION ça, je n’ai jamais encore fini le Silm même une fois, encore moins tellements de fois!

Ma préf est Sam, avec Faramir, Eowyn, et Pippin en 2ème. Mais je suis aussi une défendeur de Frodo. J’aime aussi Le Gaffeur (le père de Sam). Comment il s’appelle en français?

[eisenkrahe]

[flipocrite]

not she berry or he berry but no berry

and that is berry good

[ohcorny]

happy pride fuck the police

happy pride fuck the police

[kendermouse]

happy pride fuck the police

[finchiscompletelyfine]

Happy fuck pride the police

(Not “be proud of the police”, use the magic gay wand to make them all queer)

[busket]

wait, cis tumblr user!

before you reblog that seemingly innocuous transgender positivity or discourse post, here's some important things to look out for:

1. does this post uplift one marginalized group at the expense of another? specific positivity posts are great, like "protect black trans women" or "lets support intersex folks", but be sure that the post in question doesnt put down another group. examples: "trans women get all the love, so lets have some support for trans men for once" or "trans women are so strong for what they go through, trans men could never understand the struggle and dont experience even half of what trans women are put through" 🚨🚨DONT REBLOG IT!🚨🚨 find another post that doesnt have to put down another marginalized group or pit us against each other. remember, as a cis ally, its not your place to decide who does or doesnt deserve support, or to pick sides when misguided trans folks decide to play oppression olympics.

2. listen for dogwhistles! what seems like a harmless feminist post venting about cishet men can have hateful intentions towards marginalized people. terfs will often misgender trans women when they complain about them so it looks like theyre talking about predatory men, but theyre really meaning trans women. radfems/baeddels frequently omit the "trans" aspect of trans men to hide their anti-transmasculinity. if you have doubts, go to the OPs blog and search terms like "TIM" "TIF" "TRA" "TMRA" "radfem" "terf" "radical feminism" "theyfab" etc. you can also just search trans men/transmasc/trans woman/transfem and if you see anything negative, block and move along!

3. does the post operate under the binary for no good reason? does OP seem to forget that nonbinary and/or intersex people exist? does it use agab language when it seems to only be talking about trans men/women or cis men/women? does it use gendered euphemisms instead of specific and plain language, example: talking about periods and saying "women" "afab people" "females" instead of "people who menstruate". while it seems harmless, these small language quirks really build up in the psyche of trans folks and reminds us that people often are not willing to accommodate us. if your goal as an ally is to make us feel welcome and safe, being as direct and plain with your language is a good start

4. lastly, read the notes! watch out for "us vs them" language or advocating violence. even a common, unserious sentiment like "kill all men" that carries little weight in the cis world is a lot heavier in the trans community; cis men are rarely killed but trans men are murdered at high rates. watch out for malgendering, which is someone holding a trans persons gender identity against them, like "trans men really ARE men 🙄" or calling trans women hysterical bitches. remember that no demographic of trans person is "coddled" or supported by the status quo, we all live in a world that is increasingly hostile to us. if people agreeing with the post in question have this level of vitriol against other trans people, chances are its not actually a very friendly and positive post. again, as a cis ally, its not your place to involve yourself in community infighting.

with these simple tips, you can stop accidently spreading anti trans propaganda or harmful infighting that fractures trans unity and solidarity

[finchiscompletelyfine]

Important, I almost reblogged something like this the other day before checking their blog, turns out they call themselves a radfem.

[this-is-neuropsych-ableism]

"Its illegal to be straight during pride month!"

"If you think hateful thoughts about yourself, and you're queer, that's queerphobic, and it's illegal to be queerphobic during pride month!"

How about we not make straight queers* feel guilty and paranoid about being "not queer enough" during pride month? (*Aspec straights, trans & gender diverse straights, intersex straights, lesbihets, turihets, m-specs straights, polyamorous hets, nonrose hets, etc, etc, etc?)

How about we not make people with internalized queerphobia feel guilty for intrusive thoughts?

How about we stop making a billion posts encouraging moral OCD during pride month?

[PT: How about we stop making a billion posts encouraging moral OCD during pride month? /End PT]

[transmasclucario]

happy pride! especially to everyone who is in the closet, in situations too unsafe to come out and to everyone in queerphobic countries. I see you, and I love you.

[mother-of-horror]

Say it with me, everyone! This pride month, we're going to be kinder and more respectful of Non-binary people! We're not going to make fun of our names, pronouns, looks, or anything else. We're also going to include Non-binary people! Got it? Great