[plstnyan]

Yafa, Palestine

[werenotreallystrangers]

final notes

[disc80s]

x

[inloveforevr-deactivated2025041]

[frachella]

[allsadnshit]

I think it's an unrecognized practice to allow yourself to outgrow and shed versions of yourself that were more socially successful than who you want or need to be now. Not every new chapter is bigger and bolder and hotter, I think that's a very modern social media "glow up" mindset and doesn't actually have any room for what real transformation looks like. Sometimes we change exactly as we need to and it's not what anyone else was hoping for and that's part of it being important and true.

[imoutsidelookingin]

Oneinteriormag

[vicecolder]

Sunrise Drive from SC to NC this morning

-vicecolder

[pagewoman]

Bellcrag Flow, Wark Forest, Northumberland, England

 by David Taylor

[the-influencer]

ig: ironnsalt

[allsadnshit]

"Growing Around Grief"

Lois Tonkin, 1996

[demiiwhiffin]

can you imagine … the bliss of it all

[9710144]

@1617

[librablossom]

[depressed-goblin-nightmare-girl]

Wildflowers by the lake :)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to like yourself

1. Cultivate self-acceptance. That means you accept yourself for who you are right now. It means you don’t say things like “I would accept myself if … or … I’ll accept myself when.”

2. Stop going over all things you’ve done wrong, the mistakes you’ve made, and your (perceived) inadequacies.

3. Where there’s something in your past that you feel bad about say: “This is what I learned from that situation … And that was THEN and this is NOW.”

4. Don’t compare yourself to others. Instead notice the areas where you’ve grown and changed, and chooses to focus on those changes.

5. Don’t fall into the trap of judging other people – as that often lead to being self-critical.

[opaltear333]