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WHO IS CURIO AND WHAT DID HE DO? More information on blockcurio. Tldr;

Track record of enabling proven abusers

Claims to be anti callout & drama, yet consistently badgers and commentates on callouts instead of blocking OP

Notorious block evader. It uses the excuse "I'm a person, not a thing, I should know what I did wrong and not be cast away like an object" when most of the people who blocked it never even wrote with him, so it isn't even "ghosting".

30 year old white person who seems to be a bit too invested in w/w ships & calls people cops over online drama.

Doesn't hesitate to drop people's URLs despite supposedly being against DNIs doing the same thing.

History of causing petty duplicate drama. Manipulator is implying it's somewhat good at social engineering but he sure as hell tries to be one.

Engages with people who openly write subjects such as incest in a fetishistic manner. This blog is specifically for asks relating to it, as we would prefer to keep things a bit more organized over here. Please send us asks, anonymous or not, testifying;

Experiencing block evasion

Odd anonymous messages after blocking Curio

Curio attempting to follow you on other blogs

New blogs he's made as of late

Anyone outright enabling it / letting them into its spaces

For anything Curio related

Screenshots are preferred, do not throw urls other than Curio's under the bus without proof that they're aware of Curio's behavior and still engaging with it. Thank you.

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blockcurio

PSA ON CURIO.

CALL this a callout, this is merely a TLDR of the behavior that's been repeated for literal years, including enabling abusers, block evasion, and inserting itself into situations out of spite to perpetuate drama. We initially made this blog last year and were content at leaving it at that. However, as of this year, things have spiraled and Curio has not changed. Ergo, new doc for archival purposes.

PLEASE read the document in full and make your own choice on what to do with this information. Do not harass anyone involved, Curio is more likely to victimize itself and those it surrounds itself with. Do not give it ammo. Knowing how long it's committed to acting like this it is not worth your time and will not listen to you. Block and move on at most.

Known active URLs: paradoxicalcurio / fantasyconcrete / violetragnarok / fantasycumcrete / spectacular-solarflare

UPDATE: CURIO GOES BY IT/ITS PRONOUNS AS OF LATE NOVEMBER. PRIOR USAGE OF OTHER PRONOUNS WERE NOT MISGENDERING ON ANYONES BEHALF, THIS IS A RECENT CHANGE.

#rbing here as well as the update does relate to previous ask. repeated patterns of behavior

So I just had an experience with their blog Fantasyconcrete.

All I did was reblog a callout post about another situation involving my friend and the person they interacted with to get the word out and make sure they couldn't do it to another friend of mine.

They DMed me saying "Congrats on getting on my block list, enjoy your circle jerk bullying"

Even though all I was doing was bringing awareness to a genuine problem. (The PSA i reblogged was about Whiskey)

Posting as is. Merely proof that Curio hasn't changed.

I want to say this here too since anons can't behave

Blockcurio was in their full rights to callout my behavior. I still feel terrible about the situation and they were in their full rights to be disappointed. I'm still disappointed in myself after everything.

Me leaving fuckhouse2 had nothing to do with them! I was in a scary irl situation and honestly I just couldn't handle the stress at the time. Everything happening at the same time was a shitty coincidence 😔. Hell it lead to a whole ass break down. As far as I know none of them know me personally. They aren't bullies or hypocrites. Stop saying bad things about people who don't deserve it in my name! I hold no ill will towards anyone involved.

Blockcurio isn't bothering me, you are nonnie! 😭 they're allowed to comment on situations! If you actually cared nonnie you'd leave the situation alone, leave them alone, leave me alone! We've all said our peice, and after the shitty last stretch of the year I've had I just wanna be left alone! If anyone else gets anons from this weirdo. I'm so sorry. I wish everyone and Blockcurio well! Go touch grass nonnie. This is the last thing I wan to say on the situation. I'm just happy to have made it out of everything safe!

#posting as is.#frankly the anonymous messages no matter who is sending them is simply trying to goad a conflict that has long since passed.#getting on us calling out what we saw as bad behavior from a fellow community member is very manipulative and shitty.#especially when you drag fuckhouse's mental health into it in an unsolicited way. the timing was just very bad. that is all.#sorry that blockcurio bullied you. you say as you try to drag out the situation. you totally care about fuckhouses well being. sarcasm.

THAT IS THE SAME PURPLE OC CURIO USED TO BLOCK EVADE ON MY HELLTAKER MULTI! I RECOGNIZE THAT PURPLE FUCK ANYWHERE LMFAOOOOOOO 😭😭😭😭

We would say take a shot for every person that Curio block evaded because he "just wanted to communicate like adults", but that would be a lethal amount of alcohol.

#This is a weird mindgame of... Is he technically block evading us? We never blocked him to keep the line of #Communication open. But he certainly blocked our blog on his personal at least #So is it. Rules for me not for thee blocking or something idrc

What part of 'I have never followed or interacted with Shep' do you people not understand?

You sure as hell found Shep's callout on a 15 year old "valid" enough for your very strict standards. You were indeed involved with some of Shep's former friend group, liking vagueposts about the situation before Shep's victim spoke up. While we didn't imply you blatantly enabled Shep as you did/are doing for people currently, we found it weird that you were able to drop the whole "all callouts bad" song and dance for Shep's callout, specifically.

It's wrong because you're a fully grown ass man who thinks he's owed an explanation by strangers on the internet. A grand majority of people who blocked you out of the blue were people who interacted with you RP-wise maybe once, if even that.

We don't know if you know this, but a lot of the people you enabled over the years did this thing called "guilt-tripping". So what many people experience online is they go into someone's private messages, explaining why they're being blocked, but then the other person cries and desperately tries to guilt them into not blocking them. It's actually a very common experience, especially in the RPC.

You are tweaking, by the by. We don't see how you incessantly engaging with this blog and adding meaningless commentary to callout posts you are not involved in is "anti-drama". If anything, you seem to thrive more on drama in contrast to actually roleplaying.

What was up with you trying to get involved in a rp event that you were not only not invited to, but the event hoster was the person who made the whistle blowing callout post your best fwiend "Spork never victimized ME personally so Spork is fine my book". That was weird. I don't think we focused on that, enough. If you want to argue that you can join any RP event as you please, it goes against your own morals as people who make callouts are stalker cops who want to socially isolate people. Apparently.

#You can argue you never directly interacted with Shep. Fine. But you still stood by Shep's callout!#Even if everyone had no idea the callout bar for bar was petty and biased. Against a 15 year old.#That you personally chewed out in private for reblogging callouts in the past.#But thanks for the confirmation that you indeed do not have these blogs blocked and have 100% been stalking us as well #If you want to use your own definition of stalking mind you.

Idk if you saw it from Fuckhouse, but I mentioned how I beat Curio's ass for going against what they said they'd consider when I told them acting the way they are isn't gonna get them anywhere. He then responded with "I'll respond to the ask separately" and I just now noticed he blocked me and turned anon off. What a coward.

We have been more quietly observing nearby situations and mostly went quiet to see how much Curio would flip out on his own, if he would even acknowledge the Shep shit. But of course he's still happily riding the coattails of Patch and trying to act like we ever encouraged hateful anonymous messages, so.

You tried. Curio isn't going to change at this point, he's too far up his own ass that it would make an ouroboros blush. Mind you, we never claimed these blogs were here to "help" him, moreso be the consequences to his public actions, but! Dude is not going to talk about how he listened to a groomer who wrote a callout on a 15 year old because Shep was clearly his friend and he holds very blatant bias to his friends, and this isn't even the first groomer he hung out with and gave free reign to interact with more potential victi-- We mean, his mutuals.

But surely, he has everyone's best interest in mind. Everyone else is the selfish one, and not him.

#He isn't going to get anywhere. It's just a shame to see him continue to give abusers a platform #And not take any accountability.#Oh but guys. Guys he acknowledged he “sorta was bad” when he block evaded people but he TOTALLY doesn't do that anymore guys totally #But also blocking people is selfish and fuck you if you're a victim who makes a callout

This is more of a blanket statement, but I hate that behavior like this has become SO much more common. You would think it wouldn't be so bad as time goes on, but no, it fucking sucks. I hate that people like these guys are able to cultivate their own farm of enablers that will always be at their beck and call whenever they dramatically drop their handkerchief just because... they're just that desperate for writing partners and don't want to lose a mutual??? I guess??? Because I don't see ANY sane reason why ANYONE would want to actively enable someone into blatantly disgusting shit, or someone who is treating everyone around them like garbage.

I've literally seen someone disgusting be defended to hell and back by basically the entire RPC they were in. Like, you would think they were GOD or something with how much they were defended--giant paragraphs and all enabling... *checks notes*... pe.dop.hilia. But when the pedo actually deactivated and left??? Suddenly nobody bats an eye. It's like it never happened. All of that BUHHH DRAMA BADDDD was for absolutely nothing at the end of the day--they all moved on like nothing happened. ._. It was SO fucking bizarre. They all outed themselves as idiots for NO reason.

Like. I bet you anything if one of these assholes deactivated, their enablers would never talk about it ever again and that is HILARIOUS to me.

Very bluntly speaking we would not be surprised in the freak scenario that Curio deactivates, anybody around him would comment. Maybe at worst there'd be a vaguepost but other than that? Dead silence.

A lot of people in the RPC just need to get better standards. I personally would block someone if they put "blocking people is immature you NEED to communicate more with that person you barely interacted with that you realize now gives you the ick" posts on my dash.

We're fine with OOC posting! Your blog, your rules. We draw the line at vagueblogging alongside bitching and moaning. Notice how most of these people don't even properly tag their supposed "vent-posts" for blacklist purposes?

#anonymous #If you're THIS desperate for writing partners you're willing to write with someone who openly does all of this?#Maybe find a different hobby. or put more effort into seeking people out that isn't just “mutual of a mutual” or something #You're commenting “wow i'm sorry you're dealing with that” on a vagueblogging post without all of the context you need to realize #You are being parasocial. either get all of the facts or shut up #Enablers are so tiring since they tend not to get as many concequences.

I love how Curio thinks his friend group speaks for all lesbians on tumblr 🥴 lmfaoooooo!

Curio "I spoke to two lesbians at most in discord so nobody can critique my writing of them, let me reblog this meme 80 times in a row" Fantasyconcrete.

#fuckhouse2theelectricboogaloo #nsfw in link but #Christ almighty.

as someone whos been stalked online, his use of the word makes my blood boil. its abundantly clear hes never actually had that happen to him.

We would never wish for any of Curio's private information to leak, despite everything he's done. We can't stress enough how awful it is to have some creep dangle your real name, real location, and more over your head. Not because you posted it online public, but they did some very intense digging. Maybe you slipped up and an email you used years ago had your first name, god knows.

Stalking is a genuine problem, but if you don't want people looking at your public accounts, either write in a not-public discord or find some private website where you're not publicly engaging with other people's mutuals?

Don't get us wrong. If Curio wasn't so persistent with being a treasure trove of bad takes, we wouldn't even be looking at his blog every other week, or other people wouldn't get those screenshots for us, which happens most of the time.

We can't be stalking your blog if someone else sees your behavior and shows us. We technically didn't touch your blog, but we guess the block evader who consistently interacts with groomers and abusers is the victim here.

#anonymous #We hope Curio doesn't know any victims of abuse IRL if we're going to be harsh.

hey, this is just kind of? a thank you, i guess? i followed curio mostly for his cultsim posting (insaaaanely small fandom) and he actually namedropped this blog so i went to check it out and! wow! hes kind of a shithead!

also in the tags of one of his posts (i can screengrab if needed) he said something about "if actual lesbians dont think im a creep about wlw im probably not" and. well. i personally am a lesbian who thinks what ive read of his writing is Not Great

Trust us. We would not even have made these blogs if Curio was just a minor annoyance, or the brunt of his 'old' behavior documented on this blog (this blog also has a good culmination of the callouts of people Curio defended and continue to positively engage with at the time) has came and went.

We... Did not see that. If we could get a screenshot of that we'd love to see it and document it. But from our understanding, he's a nearly 30 year old cis white guy. We don't know what his orientation is nor will we assume, but saying that shit as anybody is fucking weird.

Outlined in the OG callout, he reblogged this particular meme about letting other characters do very nsfw things to his characters tits multiple times in a row back in the day to an absurd degree, so apologies for assuming everything he does with his wlw muses is just some white dude licking his lips and fetishizing lesbians.

EDIT:

We found it. We weren't cherry picking you weirdo. But thanks for making yourself look even grosser to lesbians.

#anonymous #We genuinely forgot when he namedropped us since the only time he's engaged with us was...#Deleting his blog in 2023 when we called him out for bringing up his autism when he was getting flak for block evading someone #Including someone who was asexual and didn't want to engage with his random nsfw #He always calls people prudes for asking him to tag his nsfw. So.#Before anyone asks no there's nothing wrong with men writing lesbians. It's the way you write them though #And you're right. It's not great!#Just because like ONE lesbian says you're fine doesn't mean you're??? ??????????#We know many lesbians. Maybe we're a lesbian ourselves! And even with context removed they find his posts talking about #Lesbians weird or writing them sexually weird with the added context that he's a white dude

How are you so certain Patch never apologized when he's so adamant in his vent posts that he has done so? /Gen /NotMad

A clown can say they're not putting on a performance while honking a horn.

We have not seen a proper apology to those who blew the whistle and testified against Patch, as Patch even denied that harm was caused.

Also, if Patch was genuinely apologetic, he'd... Stop? Talking about the subject in such a public manner? Why did he like the post where Curio namedropped the callout makers, causing them to get asks asking them about it?

#anonymous #other: Patch #We get it. People aren't going to act perfect #But Patch denying his BF did any genuine harm. Look at dentedsporkofficial and see the behavior #The Patch situation is really messy. We wouldn't have commented on it had Curio not been around him.

Patch is vile and it really doesn't surprise me that his only remaining friends are all enablers of multiple assholes.

He's also pissed someone took his "real name" as a url when he was fucking dumb enough to have listed all over his social medias if you Google his handle.

Save your urls if you don't want them taken. That's Tumblr 101. And internet safety 101 is to NEVER LINK YOUR REAL NAME TO YOUR SOCIAL MEDIAS IN PLAIN SIGHT of my God the stupidity is off the charts and he is SO fast to plug his ears call it harassment and blame his victims as always just because they want him to take accountability

Admittedly. Air flew out of our lungs when we realized Patch was in the Art CC. You know, the one currently going to shit because none of the people in there can handle serious situations with any grace, and/or constantly surround themselves with guilt-trippers at best and groomers at worst? Glad to see the downfall. Fuck Hopeless Peaches by the by, the Art CC is the only place where someone can be called out for petty shit by a major manipulator and then in the FUTURE have that callout be valid.

I don't understand how Patch is mad over URLs. I noticed someone took the initative to steal Curio's former URLs. Never encouraged this but at the same time it's your damn fault if you don't nab them. It's a dick move, arguably so, but...

We personally always saved my old URLs because the bots on this site are ravenous. We wouldn't want a bot blog stealing my old url and people being confused by some bot spamming tags and such, at least back in the day.

None of the information currently out about Patch was gained through illegal / private leaks. Patch posted all of that stuff himself, in and out of tumblr. Same thing with Curio to a lesser extent.

People like Patch & Curio are not fit to be in the RPC on the basis that this is a collaborative hobby. Manipulators and people who enable abusers only cause more harm. Neither of them apologized, ever. Curio was put into a corner and only gave a shit private apology when he was kicked out of Isola, good on those mods by the way.

#anonymous #other: patch #We very bluntly don't trust anyone at the Art CC or anyone who willingly involves themselves with it #We won't give a history lesson but good fucking lord. Big yikes!#The fact that one of the biggest people in the community is an edgy robot with shit politics who thinks blackwashing exists #Yeaaaahhh doomed from the start

i sent this originally to crystalline - just wanted to share my small and funny story with curio - i forgot to block one of his many blogs and a few days later woke up to a dm from him saying it was 'interesting' i had one of his blogs unblocked when i just genuinely missed one? lol he just came into my dms to say that and then blocked me before i could even respond lmao.

If Curio could actually list his blogs in say, a pinned post like every other person with their blogs for more reach, that would be great.

He really needs to get the last word in. Ridiculous. He needs to realize how to just leave people be. He can claim we're being hypocritical given the blogs we've made on him but truthfully, he can stop the cycle.

#anonymous #testimony #Condolences to crystalline + anyone who deactivated. we get it. we try not to sit on the blogs #But FUCK these last few weeks these people can't help themselves

fantasyconcrete

Hi Crispy, you hypocritical block evading cop-wannabe dumbass.

followcurio

Hey Curio, projecting much, are we? If you want to get on our case for block evading, then please make a list of your URLs which you have previously used on record to block evade so we can inform people to block all of them to avoid you. Viewing your public account isn't stalking, by the by.

Plus, a majority of people who have you blocked never interacted with you in the first place. Nobody has "thrown you away like a toy", you are not a victim.

Any comment about how your formal mutual who made a callout on a 15 year old (which is against your anti-callout stance, mind you) is a groomer? Or are you, a white person, going to continue to throw around the word cop as if you'd ever get a speeding ticket by glance alone? Or are you going to pull the autism card yet again since that's somehow relevant. We wonder.

#Hm.#You claim to hate drama but call people stalkers and make posts like this.#Why are people following you again? For your OOC whining posts or your catalog of wlw muses.

I just found out one of my mutuals interacts with C/urio. Is there something I should do? I've never been in a situation like this.

Ask yourselves these 3 questions;

How well do you know the mutual? Are you on DM terms, or have you only written with them passively?

Is it worth the time to inform them, and do you think Curio is enough of a danger in your community to do so?

Has this person been hostile towards callouts / 'drama' in the past?

Keep things private. Do not go on anonymous and inform them, try to IM them and explain what Curio has done, linking to the callout blog if they ask for proof. Personally, as someone who has been in situations such as these, if I don't know the person and maybe had like, barely a thread, if even that? I cut my losses and unfollow them & make sure I have Curio still blocked.

Some people may just not be aware, but then again Curio does post shit like "DONT TREAT ME LIKE AN OBJECT" when some random who never interacted with him blocks him, so. Do what's best for your mental health, the worst thing someone can do if you inform them in private is completely blow you off, tell you off, and maybe even block you, which then shows they aren't worth interacting with anyways.

#anonymous #TRUST us Curio sadly gets around. He follows everyone his mutuals interact with. So.

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