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Emergency Commissions

Me and my wife have been kicked out of our home a need a new car in order to go live with my parents half way across the country. My wife is the only one with a job at the moment and with us both being 20 and disabled we dont have much savings. We've had to give up pur truck since its a family car and are needing to be able to move next month, any help would be greatly appreciated

And so im doing emergency commissions to help us reach our goal of $600 to help with a down payment

This is my first/serious style of icons (with rendering)

And this is my second/simpler style ( with flat colors )

I dont have set prices, i just need proof you either donated to our gofundme

https://gofund.me/8ba696dc4

or i also accept cashapp ($battybella333) venmo (@oceanshepard) or paypal (@coolcat7881)

And even if you can't help, sharing this would help me so much, thank you

#emergency commissions #emergency commisions open #commission #commission open

dorokora

fairycosmos

a small thing i learned from my sister dying is that i really would rather the people i love be a burden than be whatever the hell else they'd be if they weren't. yes even if it's messy and not always fair and hard completely inconvenient for everyone involved. even if it's weird. even if i'm rolling my eyes a bit inside sometimes. i just want you to bother me. please always bother me

fairycosmos

like "it's rotten work" "not to me not if it's you" actually sometimes it's still rotten work. even if it's you. and i'd still do it a million times over

thediscossessed

Everyone say thank you black women

noireservoir

THANK YOU BLACK WOMEN

creatingblackcharacters

LOUDER!!

it's sad to me that cis people never apply their "loved one with a wanted-pregnancy" script to medical transition. like cis people often indicate they don't know how to react to hearing about medical transition, but a huge portion of that social script is directly applicable.

tell someone "congratulations!" tell them "I'm so happy for you. I know you've been trying for a really long time." ask them "do you need help with anything?" throw them a party with loved ones where you all give them some gifts in acknowledgement of how expensive it is. celebrate how far along they are. take photos with them so they have a record of being loved while their body changes. allow them to voice fears and doubts and anxieties about how it'll go, and reassure them that they'll get through the intense medical procedure coming up & you'll be there for support no matter what. let them tell you about the gross parts and laugh together. really listen to them when they talk about how amazing and profound it is that the human body can do this. share in their excitement for beginning a new stage of their life.

If there are complications, comfort them and help them navigate what's next. If they lose access suddenly due to finances or criminalization, treat it like a miscarriage and hold them while they grieve.

Happy 4/13

#homestuck #homestuck 413 #413 #kurloz makara #kurloz

#your ai slop bores me

#tumblr snek

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lesbianjaxsondart

if you put the new harry potter show on my dash in any way it's gonna be an automatic unfollow from me, guys. like. it's 2026. come the fuck on

what-even-is-thiss

I think that we as a society should get more comfortable with the idea that sometimes our friends will be attracted to us and sometimes we will be attracted to our friends and nothing needs to come of that.

You don't have to date. You don't have to stop being friends. You can just keep hanging out. Self control and respect exists.

And sometimes you will date your friend and figure out that your dynamic worked better when you were friends. And then you can go back to being friends. It's really quite simple. Mature and cool, even.

miseriathome

Even requited attraction doesn't need to be acted upon. Two people can be mutually attracted to each other and still decide not to date or not to change the dynamic of their friendship. People who are dating can mutually decide it worked better as a friendship, even if the attraction persists.

Feelings are just feelings. Not all feelings need to be realized as actions. It's very mature and cool to still treat people like people even after learning about their feelings, whatever they are.