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🤔-How do you let go of someone who was never really yours? You don’t. You learn to live with the absence of something that was never meant to stay you replay moments in your mind conversation, smiles, things that felt real even if they weren’t and deep down you wonder if maybe they felt the same as you do.The truth is not everyone you love is meant to belong to you. Some people come to show you what your heart is capable of and then life takes them away leaving you to carry the lesson not the person. That’s what love really is sometimes not having, not keeping but feeling something pure, even when it was temporary, you don’t let them go by forgetting them. You let them go by forgiving yourself for holding on too long tell me, are you missing them or the version of yourself that loved without fear?

The empty void.

Im actually in a period of my life where I’m a bit lost in fact, I’m not even sure I’m sad because in the presence of others I laugh and talk but as soon as I’m alone in my own home, I feel no emotion. Nothing I simply find myself face-to-face with myself. I dive into my thoughts searching for a spark of clarity. I try to understand this inner our emptiness this absence of emotion that sets in when distractions fade I realize that sometimes silence and solitude, are necessary they force introspection yes it’s uncomfortable. Yes it’s confusing but maybe it’s my mind‘s way of telling me it’s time to take a moment for myself. Maybe this apparent calm is an opportunity to ask some fundamental questions to reconsider what I really want to redefine my priorities.

Know your value

"You must come to understand the weight of your own worth. And with that understanding, you must also learn the art of letting go. There is always a voice within you that whispers, perhaps one more chance will make things right. Perhaps this time will be different. You wrestle with the idea of holding on, convincing yourself that if you could just endure a little longer or try a little harder, the outcome would shift. But beneath those fragile hopes lies a truth you cannot silence. You have walked this path before. You have seen this cycle play out again and again. What began as something radiant and seemingly perfect, a love that mirrored everything you thought you ever wanted, has become the very reason you question your own value. The harsh reality is that another chance will not rewrite the story. It will only postpone the inevitable."

Choose To Live

🤔💬Why do you stay with someone who only remembers you when it's convenient? What you're holding onto is a memory of who they once were, not who they are now. Humans cling to comfort even when it destroys them. They choose the familiarity of pain over the uncertainty of freedom. But love is not meant to keep you small. It is not meant to make you doubt your worth. If being with someone requires you to disappear piece by piece, then what you have is not love. It is slow destruction. The truth is harsh, but necessary. Sometimes the most loving act you can choose is to walk away. Because walking away isn't giving up. It is choosing to live.

Her Beauty

I COULDN'T TAKE MY EYES OFF HER. I THOUGHT TO MYSELF HOW CAN SOMETHING SO BEAUTIFUL EXIST IN THIS WORLD. IT WAS LIKE SHE REACHED IN AND STOLE MY HEART. THERE IN THAT MOMENT I FIRST UNDERSTOOD WHAT THE WORD BEAUTIFUL MEANT. NOTHING ELSE COULD DESCRIBE HER AND NO OTHER WORDS SINCE THEN COULD BE USED TO DEFINE THINGS THAT ARE THE MOST PRECIOUS TO ME. SO I DON'T SAY BEAUTIFUL AND PRETTY UNLESS IT COMES FROM THE HEART.

Toxicity

isn't always obvious. It isn't always about yelling or manipulation. Sometimes it's about love, or maybe they don't see the harm they cause. But good intentions don't erase real damage. These relationships make you shrink yourself, ignore your needs, and tolerate behavior that hurts you. You sacrifice who you are just to avoid conflict. They're not villains, but they're not right for you. Not for your growth, happiness, or future. Love isn't always enough. Caring about someone doesn't mean they're good for you. Sometimes the ones we love hurt us the most. Life is hard enough without relationships that drain you. You can't keep damaging yourself just to hold on. Putting yourself first isn't selfish. It's necessary. Whether it's ending a relationship, distancing from family, or walking away from toxicity, you have the right to protect your peace. Your happiness matters, and most importantly, so do you.

All I am is a man I want your world in my hands. Hate that you’re taken but here I’m stand at the end of your bed why you giving me head with my Head in the clouds but my gravity centered if you touch my neck bitch I’ll touch yours and you in those little high waisted shorts you know what I’m think about and what I’m thinking about one love, two mouths, one love , one house , no shirt, no blouse just let me turn you out baby i will take your breath away there's not much to say anyway Sometimes the silence will guide your mind To a place so far away that your arm start to goosebumps. The minute that my left hand meets your waist and I love to watch your face when put your finger in my mouth because you know I love the way taste.

😓💭Have you ever noticed how you are a different person to different people?. Annoying to one. Talented to another. Quiet to some. Unknown to many. But who are you really? You lie-first to yourself, then to others. Each small lie demands another, creating a web that traps you. You don't realize how one lie becomes another, how each story pulls you further from your true self. With every fabrication, you lose a piece of yourself Nobody truly knows who you are not even you. You feel tired, not from talking but from the weight of all you haven't said. Your lies become a mask, a story you're constantly trying to maintain. You're building walls around your heart, keeping yourself hidden. So you create versions of yourself-some beautiful, some broken, all incomplete. And in the middle of all these stories, your true self waits, quiet and patient.

😌💭Sometimes, you must learn to not see the good in people but to see exactly what they show you. People will always reveal their true intentions—if they want to be in your life, they will. Their effort speaks the simple truth of their interest in you. Stop making stories about what could be. Stop hoping. Instead, see what is real. When someone truly wants you, their actions will be clear and soft. Your worth isn't about how hard you try to be chosen, but how deeply you know your own value. The world has a way of bringing what truly belongs to you. Real connections won't make you shrink or beg. They will come naturally, like finding a quiet home inside yourself-gentle, true, certain. Trust that what is meant for you won't slip away. Trust that your heart knows more than uncertain promises. Your energy matters. Your time matters. Keep both for connections that see and honor all of you.

😔🗯️Sometimes, loving someone means letting them go. It's a cruel irony someone who once occupied every corner of your mind can fade into silence. They become a distant memory a fleeting image at the end of a long hallway, only resurfacing in casual stories, a chuckle at something they once did, the warmth of their embrace, or the way they saw parts of you that even you had forgotten. But then, memories stir the pain again the sleepless nights spent wondering if they ever truly cared. Sometimes, love isn't about holding on it's about knowing when to let go. It's about recognizing the time and heart you've given, realizing that now, it's your time to leave.

📝😌🗯️The truth is, we all carry our own battles. Each of us running from something, whether it's our past, our fears, or our pain. It's part of being human-that instinct to flee from what hurts us, to guard ourselves against being seen too closely. That's why when you meet someone who genuinely wants to understand you, to stand by you despite the messiness within, it's worth holding onto. Don't let pride or ego sabotage something meaningful. These moments of connection are rare, and often they slip away because we're too wrapped up in our own defenses. Because what we truly fear isn't being understood. It's being left behind once we are."

🧐🗯️It's better to admit you walked through the wrong door than to spend your life in the wrong room. It takes courage to acknowledge a misstep, but staying where you don't belong out of fear or stubbornness leads to a life of quiet dissatisfaction. It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop. Recognizing you're in the wrong place isn't failure-it's a step toward finding where you truly belong. The longer you stay, the harder it becomes to leave but true strength lies in admitting that a change is needed and in finding the courage to walk out the door. Growth requires movement, even if it means starting over. Don't settle for the wrong room when the right one is still out there, waiting for you to enter.

😔🗯️We are all trying to survive someone's absence, so we keep telling ourselves that we are okay without them, that life goes on. But deep down, we know that it hurts a little more every day to wake up to nothing but a void. We keep telling ourselves that better days await us, but deep down, we know the best days were the ones they spent with us-the days filled with echoes of laughter, calming silence, and tears that were wiped away with love. We are all trying to forget someone. Love hurts in unexpected ways. So instead of letting them go, hold on to them. This life is too long without the ones who make you feel alive in your darkest days.

Your significant other may love you... But if they can't choose you, you must let them go and walk away. You are way too valuable to linger and wait. You deserve to be chosen unconditionally. Soon you will understand that people who are at war with themselves can't give you peace. People who lie to themselves can't give you honesty. People who betray themselves can't give you loyalty and people who can't love themselves can't really love you at all. They can't really give you what they can't give themselves, and that's where it all starts. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on, and we fight to let go. Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than hanging on.

"If I asked you to name everything you love, how long would it take before you named yourself? Most people hesitate to put themselves on that list, lost in the idea that loving oneself is somehow selfish or undeserved. We're quick to express love for family, friends, passions, and even material things, but when it comes to ourselves, we often fall silent. It's as if we forget that we too deserve the same care and compassion we so easily give to others. Learning to love yourself is not just an act of kindness but a necessity. Without it, we rely too heavily on external validation, waiting for others to fill a void only we can fill. So, next time you think of what you love, remember to start with yourself.

I’ll never love anybody the way that I love you that’s a fact. With you, breaking up was just never on the table it’s never even occurred to me. So in a sense our love was entirely deferent type kind of love. I remember someone once said losing this of love it like a piece of tape that you rip off and try to reapply it’ll stick again maybe but it won’t be like the first time. When i really think about it again it makes me sad that we can never stick the same way twice.

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I’m Paradoxical. I like to be happy but I think about sad things all the time. I don’t really like myself but I love the person I’ve become. I say I don’t care but I care too much. I crave attention yet I reject everything that come my way. I healed people but broke my own heart trying to fix them. I love to listen but I never tell them what going on inside me.

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