(Basically same info found on this blog + aesthetics)
I will not tolerate hate in any form; asks, comments, DM’s, you will be blocked and your comment/ask deleted
This is not the place for anti-endos, general bigotry, or negative bullshittery
Requests Guide
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What I Will Do;
- aesthetigenders / color genders
- faunagenders / floragenders
- gastrogenders
- kingenders
- noungenders
- others that fall in similar categoriesOn A Case By Case Basis;
- fandom related
- game related
What I Won’t Do;
- nsfw
- exclusive to poc or cultures/religions i’m not a part of (most of them)
- related to ships for any fandom
- pronouns, names, etc
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All else fails, just ask and i’ll let you know! i might also attempt one and find im not getting anywhere with it, and let you know im unable to go through with it
Tag Guide under the cut
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Tag Guide:
[tags in italics]
- keeper identifies & keeper kins <- to keep track of identities
- just a cool gender, just another identity <- i dont identify as it
- keeper speaks is me just talking
- otherkin, xenogender / mogai, are the general post types i will have
- the ones starting with “not’ are to click on to exclude certain things, like not otherkin, or not an identity
- not a coin is for things that arent a coining post (but could still be about a gender)
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Coining Tags:
- gender coining, mogai coining, xenogender coining, and not my coin <- for general coining posts
- keeper coins, keeper coins a gender <- something i coined
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Gender Tags;
- gender types will have ‘[descriptor] gender’ tagged so that i and others can look on my own blog for certain types of gender
- gender coined posts, both my own and others, will have the name of the gender as a tag as well
- pronouns included <- genders that have pronouns with it
- smol related is related to either age regressors or syskids/kids in plural systems, and/or could be useful for either
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Other Tags;
- wiki related, <- for things related to various wiki’s
- helpful related, gender coining related <- for things that will help with coining
- anon [x] <- a specific anon, just anon is for all anons
- blog update is for updates to the blog, tag later is for me to go back and properly tag
because of the influx of discussion of romani characters in fiction due to today's dracula daily entry, i want to remind gadje (people who are not romani) that our culture is entirely closed, and it is not your place to be making romani headcanons, romani ocs, or otherwise making fictional content about our culture. we have been misrepresented so consistently that at this point most of us are not comfortable with gadje creating that content, no matter how good their intentions may be.
I've been using drone FPVs for quite a while to remember the joy and raw elation of flight, so here are a few of my all time favourites that hold a special place in my heart. <3
Very dizzying, vertical drops, lush forest and waterfall + curling, wispy rivers. Good for those of us who are divers (thinking mainly of falcons and similar but anyone who loves to plummet and then soar)
My personal favourite (one of), Dense forest, russet cliffs, dewy moss. Wonderful movements, the perfect pace for flight. Have watched this over and over.
The Faroe Islands- beautiful, isolated, stark cliffs and deep green fields. Positively freeing to watch (:
Hawaii! Stunning landscapes, 10/10 would reccommend.
Iceland. Perfect for those of us who yearn for chillier climates.
Brilliant azure water, sun baked rocks and red dust galore. Plenty of old, crumbling and beautiful buildings scattered throughout the video.
Last but not least, for those of us who feel at home in areas of rich brown pines, acres of snow, and sun warmed ochre grass.
I hope you guys enjoy these! I am in an alarming amount of pain so I am going to go lie down. This is the last post for today due to the previous point! No need to worry about me, this happens a LOT and it's not life threatening. Just, well, probably chronic in some way. I can manage, and it usually goes away within a few hours! <3
are you disabled or suffer from other chronic conditions that often leave you bed bound? do you often feel like you’re in the “damn bitch you live like this?” meme because cleaning is too exhausting?
my protip is get yourself one of THESE bad boys and hang it by your bed
it’s an over the door shoe rack and the pockets are perfect for holding a lot of household objects.
you can use the pockets to store trash, snacks, meds, and water bottles. if you worry about hygiene, you can also keep some for dry shampoo, deodorant, body wipes, clean undergarments, or toothbrush materials. on good days, you can clean it out and restock it, or have someone else help you. on bad days, you won’t have to worry about getting food and you’ll be able to feel a little better about hygiene.
it’s also really great if you want to keep your hobbies close by!! i can often only work on my bed, and then i have to worry about putting everything away if i have to lay down. if it’s a hobby that has materials that can be stored in the pockets, it can feel more accessible to jump in and out of and take less spoons to set/clean up.
honestly i think a good place to start for People Who Don’t Have Disabilities But Want To Help Out People Who Do is to just… take more breaks when you’re doing stuff. set a precedent where you are not always pushing through fatigue just because you can. it is literally humiliating to have to be the first and or/only person to take a break from stuff constantly. it makes me feel so terrible to be doing the least amount of work in a group setting even when i am doing as much as i am physically capable of, even in circumstances when i know no one else is necessarily judging me for it.
Went to Pride today with the people I babysit for and they brought along their kids' cousin, who was I think 16? When I asked them their pronouns, they kind of just shrugged and were like "any is fine."
Now mind you, the two other adults we were with were straight. Very supportive straights, but straight. And their kids I babysit for are like...8 and 5 (the 5 year old is figuring out gender expression, which we love). All that to say that after less than an hour of knowing me, the cousin was drifting to my side and hanging out with me more so than their own aunt and uncle. Queer finds queer lol
It was kind of crowded after the parade so we all went for lunch, and afterwards they were like "hey before we leave I really want to try and buy a rainbow flag" and we were all like "yeah ofc" and set out to find a booth that wasn't crammed with everyone in the city.
Nothing in the world more satisfying y'all than watching this kid eye all the rainbow flags, hesitate, look back at me, and then very slowly turn to point to the trans flag and ask for that one instead. Because it's the one they REALLY wanted, but I think if they had gone up to the vendor with a bunch of straight ppl in tow they might not have picked it. One (1) visibly queer person hanging out with them for a few hours was all it took for them to feel more comfortable in their own skin. And I'm not even trans myself.
This is not to say the parents wouldn't have been supportive with whatever flag they chose, bc they would have. This is just asking people to acknowledge how IMPORTANT representation is for everyone.
I hate that no one talks about just how distressing memory loss from adhd actually is. I always see memes that are like “haha I forgot my phone, I don’t remember where my laptop is, etc”, but no one seems to talk about how it can really fuck you up long term to just, not remember things that are completely mundane to non-adhd’ers. The memory loss is, however, so frustrating to us. I cannot physically count how many meltdowns I have had over the sheer mental frustration and torture of not being able to remember seemingly simple things
please teach kids that its not normal to be in pain all of the time, we also need to start taking kids seriously when they talk about pain or difficulty physically, kids and teens can absolutely have chronic pain, medical conditions and disability that you cannot see. a kid isnt going to lie to you about being in pain 24/7 repeatedly.
A piece of advice to anyone who’s been considering, avoiding thinking about, or waffling on:
Get the fucking cane.
I am very serious. Get the cane, get the assistive device (I’m going with cane here, because simplicity, but the device you’re thinking about goes here), do it. If you’re thinking “damn, if these Symptoms get much worse, I’m gonna need to get a cane”, you already need the cane. You’ve probably been in a state that would be improved by it for a while.
I get it, though. I had other disabilities, including physical ones, prior to Getting A Cane, and I heard this advice from other people and I thought “okay, but my situation is not that bad, and I’m sure I’ll know when it’s really bad” as I lay awake half the night in pain because of a short little walk that afternoon. It turns out, I am not immune to internalized ableism either, like I’m a person in an ableist society or something.
I thought “this is gonna be a hassle, and they cost money, and people will be weird about it”, and learning to use it did take a minute, thankfully mine was pretty cheap, and yeah, some people are weird but most importantly: fuck ‘em, I did in fact need the cane. I can do a lot more now, and probably could have prevented some damage if I’d gotten it earlier and it looks cool.
Stop putting it off. Stop worrying about unpleasant people being unpleasant. You don’t have to suffer at the highest pain/difficulty/etc to be allowed to get the cane, you’re allowed to get it now. If you only need it sometimes, that’s okay.
Macashric is a gender completely seperate from the Xenogender label, and as such any genders that fall under it are the same. It includes genders that may contain dark macabre themes - like cannibalism, gore, etc - while at the same time being very muffled or snuffed out.
This gender - while including those macabre themes or emotions - can also include wild or cryptid-like themes. It likes to give the illusion that there is nothing there in the place of your gender due to being muffled or smothered, but it is definitely there. As such - it may be something that agender individuals relate to.
So far, this gender has can have two parts to it - a loud part and a quieter, smothered part. Macashric can be a standalone as well, if this definition fits well enough for you. The name comes from the words Macabre and Shush, and is pronounced [mah•caw•sh•rick].
︔︉ UNKNWN. 08/06/22.
going to try and boost this ; tags below the cut, let me know if you'd like to be removed.
A gender that’s related to unusual pearls, like black or pink ones, and seems strange or off in some way. This gender may make people uneasy, or feel somewhat unexplainable.
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This gender was coined for @neopronoun-flags ‘s coining event, summer months of mogai, and can be used by anyone!
It doesn't matter what you think, stop doing it. When someone tells you you're doing something wrong, trying to argue around it just makes you a jackass. Just apologize and correct your behavior.
This, my friends, is what we call "weaponizing progressive language."
Because this would be a completely reasonable response in many circumstances. We've all seen similar things said to people who genuinely need to Stop, like celebrities defending their use of slurs (to name just one example). Devoid of context, this ask seems like someone fighting against an unreasonable asshole.
Except the thing I was most recently told to stop doing was...acknowledging that historical trans people existed.
The only reason I'm not simply ignoring this ask is that, once upon a time, I would have seen it and immediately started groveling. Because I don't want to hurt anyone, and I ESPECIALLY don't want to be doing so habitually. And very young people- like teens -in progressive spaces, I feel, are often cornered like this and made to apologize for "transgressions" that aren't real. They have the compassion, but not yet enough experience to recognize this pattern of behavior.
It's important to apologize and change when you hurt someone undeserving, or a group of innocent people. But it's also important to recognize when someone is trying to use that concern for others against you.
