GirlTalk358

Girl talks about self love, femininity, and romanticizing our lives!

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Good evening angels. Tonight we are going to talk about self care routines. In yesterday’s post I said I would share my routine and I’m here to deliver. I am not able to keep up with self care routines during the week. It really doesn’t work with my work schedule, but Sundays are just for me. Let’s get started :)

I wake up and fix my bed

I tidy up my room and put up and laundry laying around

I sweep and mop my living room, kitchen, and restroom

I do any other necessary cleaning that may be needed

If time allows me, I like to lock into a hobby of mine until about 5pm

I make a good dinner and eat

I do an everything shower and I really do mean everything. (Hair masks, shaving bikini, legs, and armpit) Then put on a cute, cozy pajama set

After my shower I go to my room alone and put on self care YouTube videos

After I’m all settled, I clean up my eyebrows

After that I put on my red light therapy mask for 30 minutes

When that’s done I’ll put on a face mask

While my face mask is on I open my IPad and plan my week in google calender

Then I’ll journal in my notebook

By 11pm I will go brush my hair and put it in a protective style

At 11:30 I’m in bed and ready to sleep

Do you have a self care routine?

Yes, of course

No, but I would like to

Voting ended onMay 14

That is my Sunday self care list. There’s something truly special about starting the week completely clean and refreshed and it sets me up for a more confident week. I hope this inspires at least one person. Until next time Xoxo Sarah

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Good evening my angels. I’m sorry I haven’t been on the past week. It’s been one of those weeks, but I’m ready to dive back into our evening sessions, so let’s get right into it! Tonight I want to discuss different hobbies to romanticize our life and keep us from doomscrolling.

Make a cut garden. ( I haven’t done this one, but I’ve seen videos and it definitely has my interest )

Embroidery. ( I’ve made some pillowcases for my mom and it was so fun )

Get a penpal. ( I use the Lettre app, but you could also write real letters to fully disconnect from your screens )

Jewelry making. ( Create pieces for yourself and/or friends and family )

Baking/Cooking. ( Try a new recipe once a week and see what you like )

Nature walks. ( Take in the fresh air. No phone or music or podcasts. Really take in your surroundings )

Flower arrangements. ( Imagine waking up every morning to a bouquet you made )

Scrapbooking. ( This is something I’d like to pick up as a hobby )

Learn a new language. ( I’m trying to sharpen up my Spanish )

Create a self care routine. ( I’m going to share mine tomorrow )

Dancing. ( Pit on a just dance video on YouTube and get in tune with moving your body )

Journaling. ( Write down all your thoughts. Put everything to paper to clear your mind. Even if it’s just your to do list )

Okay angels try at least one of the hobbies this week and let me know how it goes. Until tomorrow Xoxo Sarah.

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Good evening pretty angels. Tonight’s discussion is self love. Let’s be real, we can’t be our true feminine selves if we don’t love ourselves. So let’s get deep and honest with ourselves, pull out your favorite journal and pen (or even a piece of paper) cause tonight is a writing session. Now get into your favorite pjs, grab a fun drink, and let’s begin. I’m gonna leave some questions down below. Feel free to answer on here or keep it private if you’d like.

What parts of myself do I hide from others? Why?

What would my life look like if I really embraced my uniqueness?

In what moments do I feel the most like me?

When do I find it hardest to accept myself? Why?

What parts of myself have I been neglecting and how can I nurture it?

What is one thing I’ve always wanted to do for myself, but haven’t?

What parts of myself have I been told to quiet down, but actually love?

What is one thing I’m still figuring out about myself and am I okay with that?

How do I want to be loved? Am I offering those things to myself?

What does my ideal relationship with myself feel like?

Okay angels these are the questions I want to leave y’all with tonight. I want you guys to really dig deep and answer yourselves truthfully. Truly loving yourselves is the KEY to living a softer, feminine life. Until tomorrow. Xoxo Sarah <3

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Good evening angels. Tonight I want to dive into living a soft life. It’s more than just lighting candles and wearing matching sets. It’s about how we show up for ourselves and allow others to treat us. Here’s some tips that will hopefully help you.

Prioritize your boundaries. This goes for yourself too not just others. You are allowed to say no to things and stand your ground if it’s not something you align with and you can do it guilt free.

Set standards for yourself and others. Do not settle for less than your worth and do not allow people to treat you poorly. You are the main character in your life and you should never forget that.

Limit who has access to you. Not everyone deserves to know you and be in your presence and that’s okay. Surround yourself with feminine women and people who have the same mindset, goals, and truly align with yourself. It’s okay to keep a small, safe circle. Protect your peace.

Live life at your own pace. No matter how much the media tries to tell you theres a clock to have your dreams accomplished, you have to know it’s a lie. There is no clock. God will open doors for you on his timing. He knows what’s best for us, so block out the stigma with time.

Make your space sacred. It should bring you peace, calmness, and a sense of joy. It shouldn’t be a chaotic frenzy. Make it yours and take care of it.

These are just a few bullet points to step into your soft life. You got this angels! Xoxo Sarah <3

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Welcome angels to the first girltalk358 blog. I’m your host, Sarah, and I’m here to share my journey to living a lifestyle more built to my liking and no one else’s. I am constantly in a cycle of trying to better myself and upgrade my life, but never sticking to the new habits and routines. I watch video after video, but never truly act on my goals and dreams. Well that stops now. I plan on breaking out of that cycle and really implement these new things into my life. I want to romanticize my life and add whimsy to my everyday. I decided I’m done waiting for the right moment because that moment will never come unless I act on it. If you are experiencing the same then please follow along as I share ways to upgrade our self care day to days. Also if you have tips and tricks of your own please share with me, let’s go on this journey together.