Gimme love to give ♥

[kimberryberry]

I call this magic trick “one hour in the bathroom”

[kimberryberry]

After posting this i have been bombarded with some awful anon messages; “do you seriously look like a 60 year old woman”, “you’re really one ugly motherf*cker under all that makeup”, “i know you’re not naturally pretty but stop trying so hard” are some highlights. 

Congratulations, you have successfully made the observation I am not as attractive without makeup while pulling an awful face and freshly rolled out of bed. Well done. Gold star for the simple mind who can follow the rules of spot the difference. I guess i need to clarify why i posted this in the first place, because the underlying message wasn’t strong enough for some. 

I posted this, so girls especially, can laugh at me. Furthermore a reflection of themselves. Its healthy to laugh at yourself and be modest about your looks. To stop being so hard on yourself and others on purely skin deep observations. Because this is NOT important in life. ‘Natural beauty’ has hardly anything to do with physical features, but more a beautiful soul shining out from within. Being a good friend, family member, lover, worker, a human being. 

I’m not naturally stunning by the general publics ridiculous standards but I have learnt not to beat myself up about it because thats not fair on yourself or anyone else. After ten years of being sick I finally realised it got me absolutely no where. Save that energy you would use on self hate for more fulfilling moments like love, honesty, hard work and happiness. 

My point being, you’ll never find true happiness through beauty in a physical matter alone. Except those small precious moments where you put on a fresh face of makeup, do your hair, find a cute outfit and catch yourself in the mirror for a second and feel a little better. The ‘I can’t wait to wear my new lipstick/skirt tomorrow’ feeling and so on. Puts a lil skip in your step. We make these transformations for ourselves.

Other than that, really, I thought I looked pretty damn funny with my pose and awesome chins but I had to go all deep on you to make you think about the awful things you said to me. Cheers mate

[zedsdeadbabyyy]

best thing I’ve read all day

[theproserpina]

The feels.

[theodd1sout-deactivated20210101]

You can’t just go changing the script like that.

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[princess-baby-lickety-split-dea]

friendly reminder that this is a sympton of Anxiety

[demonicae]

If you have anxiety/issues communicating under stress and have to do this (i.e. no one to do the ordering for you.) Here is something you can do which helps alleviate the stress on remembering your order/ dealing with ‘scripts.’

1) take a notepad and pen with you (you can get little pocket sized sets for handbags etc.)

2) write down what you want *before* you join the queue.

3) Get to the front: if you can order verbally using the list as a prompt, fine. If not: hand them the paper.

P.S. Have a second choice written down (in case they’re out of what you want.)

E.g. 1x Double Cheeseburger OR 9x nuggets. 1x small fries. 1x medium coke OR medium sprite.

They won’t ask why if your voice gives up on you (they don’t know you don’t have laryngitis or some shit.) They won’t wonder about the list (they don’t know you’re not there ordering for someone else.)

This also works for sit-down meals.

Lots of love,

Someone who fucking hates ordering food with the burning passion of thousand suns going supernova xxx

[kingcheddarxvii]

do you think God ever gets sad like “what do you mean you don’t love yourself i worked so hard on you….”

[authocracy-blog]

…why is this so uplifting

[big-tiddy-goth-ghoulfriend]

I’m not even religious and this makes me smile.

[quotethat]

Marry someone who lets you have a bite of their brownie, even when you said you weren’t hungry. Marry someone who laughs at the same things you do. Marry someone who kisses your nose on a cold day. Marry someone who you can watch Disney movies with. Marry someone who is proud of you whether you earn £5 a week or £5,000 a week. Marry someone who you can tell everything to. Marry someone who isn’t afraid or embarrassed to hold your hand in public. Marry someone who lets you take over when decorating a cake. Marry someone who you can spend the day in IKEA with without feeling stressed. Marry someone who wraps you up inside their coat in the winter. Marry someone who accepts your fears and phobias. Marry someone who gives you butterflies every time you hear their key in the door. Marry someone who you don’t always have to shave your legs for. Marry someone who accepts you all day every day, even when you don’t look or feel your best. Marry someone who puts three sugars in your tea, despite telling them “just the two”. Marry someone who doesn’t judge you when you eat your body weight in cookies. Marry someone who doesn’t make you want to check your phone, because you know they will reply. Marry someone who waits with you to get on the train. Marry someone who understands that you need to be alone sometimes. Marry someone who gets on well with your parents and isn’t uptight about family events. Marry someone who calms you down when you get mad about stupid stuff, and never tells you it’s “only stupid stuff”. Marry someone who makes you want to be a better person. Marry someone who makes you laugh. Marry someone who you love. Marry your soul mate, your lover, your best friend.

Danielle (x)

[blossomfully]

Kiss her when she’s mad. While she’s yelling at the top of her lungs, pull her in by the waist and leave her breathless. Kiss her when she’s sad. And before you press your lips to hers, look her in the eye so she knows you’ll always be there. Kiss her when she’s happy. Run your fingers through her hair and comment on how her laugh is the most beautiful song in the world. Kiss her when she’s stressed. Tap her shoulder as she frantically complains about some seemingly trivial matter and make her forget everything - if only temporarily. Kiss her when she’s lying in your arms talking about the universe and how small she feels under the stars. Tell her that her thoughts are the most exquisitely unique thoughts you’ve ever heard and that her kisses are even more so. Kiss her spontaneously, without warning and let her fall for you harder with each one. And when you’re not there to hold her tightly and kiss her forehead to make her feel loved, tell her each and every day how much you wish you could.

(via im-sad-lets-have-sex)

[oxyjenn-deactivated20210115]

You never know how sick you are until you try to recover.

This is incredibly accurate and magnificently timed (via goldrave)

Du schaffst das genau wie ich.

(via beingbadfeelsfuckinggood)

[babyanimalposts]

[chronically-kyle]

Choose recovery <3

[notallbridgesburn-blog]

[chronically-kyle]

Choose recovery <3

[yasminacreates]

[chronically-kyle]

Choose recovery

[iamsmilingatyou]

[chronically-kyle]

Choose recovery <3

[nedafeedinghope]

[chronically-kyle]

Choose recovery

[bewilderedapprehension]

[healthbum-deactivated20120303]

[fit-foot-forward-blog]

This is Scarlett Johansson at a beach in Hawaii.

She is one of the most gorgeous women in the world and a huge sex symbol. She isn’t totally skinny, she only has a thigh gap if she stands with her legs apart and she has cellulite and stretch marks on her thighs and butt. Does she give a fuck? No!

Regardless of all this, she’s absolutely gorgeous. There’s nothing wrong with cellulite, or stretch marks, or not having a perfectly flat stomach, you are beautiful and these things are normal. 

I just wanted you all to see somebody who isn’t “perfect”, is still incredibly beautiful and doesn’t care about her stretch marks.

[edrecoveryprobs]

From the lovely katimorton. 

#1 Create a plan #2 Focus on friends and family #3 Be gentle with yourself!

[thisisbodypos]

all boobs are good boobs

all stomachs are good stomachs

all thighs are good thighs 

all bodies are good bodies

yes yours, too, and don’t you forget it

[deansurvived]

At 17, I was a depressed teenager who self harmed and wondered about just how painful it could possibly be to end my life.

Right now, I’m laying on the couch, and I can hear my husband reading our four year old a bedtime story using silly voices.

Life gets better. Make sure you’re there to see it.

[1-burstofcolor]

Thank you.

[lightup-yourlife]