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dzylight

can’t remember what i used to fight for...

andichoseyou

red (taylor’s version)

(from the vault)

(+ a message from taylor)

ifitstorture

“evermore is fun” taylor says as if champagne problems doesn’t exist. as IF tolerate it doesn’t exist

selenastaylors

HDIOCOCODO

bievanbuckley

Dylan O'Brien auditioning for All Too Well: The Short Film

oliviairodrigo

TAYLOR SWIFT on Late Night With Seth Meyers (November 12)

sadbeautifutragic

i’m going to be real honest with you swiffers, i’ve barely processed anything that’s happened in the last 24 hours

allamericansbitch

all too well: the short film as animated movie banners (insp)

lanalovestay

the queasy feeling when dylan and sadie start to kiss.... the growing panic when you realize they’re fully making out... that’s exactly how people should have reacted to seeing jake and taylor. people either ignored this gut feeling or completely didn’t have it, and that’s a problem. how blatantly the film cuts to the chase and doesnt beat around the bush isn’t just a perfect demonstration of how taylor is committed to allowing herself to fully present and process what she really went through, but of how committed she is to using her art to prevent other young women and vulnerable people from finding themselves in similar situations, whether it’s from their own heightened awareness or the awareness of people around them who can step in if need be

flying-with-the-wind

The thing about All Too Well is not the age-gap itself, but the age gap at that particular stage in life. Because a 10 year age gap between a 20 year old and a 30 year old is not the same way as a 10 year age gap but between, say, a 30 year old and a 40 year old. With 30-40, we’re talking about two people who can consider themselves in similar stages of life, they are both full adults. But someone who is just turning 20 and someone who just turned 30 are two people who are in completely different stages of life.

When you’re 20, you’re just entering that awkward phase between being a late teen and a young adult, and trying to figure out how the fuck adulting works. When you’re 30 (I imagine, since I’m not 30 yet), you’ve already more or less have the hang of it. You can’t expect a 20 year old to experience life the same way as a 30 year old, no more than you could expect it the other way around. Expectations are different, needs are different, thought process is different, literally everything. I’m sure there must be some couples that make it work, and good for them! But they’re exceptions, not the rule. In most cases, the relationship is clearly too unbalanced to be called healthy.