Dear Diary...

minors & cishet men dni!!! 21 | she/they | lesbian | obsessed with fashion and pretty women

[charnel-grounds]

Norman Lindsay (1879–1969), “Treasure,” 1925

facsimile etching, 1996 — source

[theshunbun]

Lacye reminder worth remembering~

[angels1ut]

sadistic domme that likes spanking you until you’re bruised so they make you lie on your stomach with a toy buzzing away between your legs to distract you from the force of their hand against your skin.

sadistic domme that tells you, “The harder this is for you, the better it feels for me,” quickly followed by, “Good girl, you’re taking it so well, making me so proud,” as the toy is turned up.

sub that just wants to please their domme, thanking them between sweet moans and guttural cries, knowing the pain is worth the marks they’ll be admiring for the next few weeks.

[vampirequeen04]

on one hand, I just want to be cuddled up in her bed, her arms wrapped around me. letting my tears fall down my face onto her chest, letting all the pain and sorrow wash away. on the other hand, I need her to fuck me so hard that my brain short circuits, ceasing every single thought that could occur, fucking the pain out of me.

[mango-kitty-art]

[somethingusefulfromflorida]

[sirme99]

[uuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Gaza Forever by Sarah Fitzgerald

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[the-joyous-work-continues]

Reblogging because I don’t see people talking about Dom drop nearly enough!

[babiexmilk]

more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs

[naught-skull]

cnc kink 🤝 praise kink

"stop stop it's too much" 🤝 "shhh it's ok you feel so good. you're being so good for me"

"please I can't take it please" 🤝 "you can. you were made for this, made for me. you're so perfect"

[heycallmered]

Everytime someone jerks off to me, I should get a notification about it. My phone should buzz and a little popup should say "so-and-so is touching themselves and thinking about you" and then however later I should get another one that says "so-and-so is cumming for you". I should get to have that.

[cimicherrychanga]

"i lost weight" girl i'll help you find it??? get in the car

[fanghusband-remade]

sorry i tried to drink your blood i think you're cute

[becauseth3internet]

My type is weird little nerds who can fold me in half but will also get on their knees for me

[pr3ttypunisher]

feeling her grind against my hand until her underwear is completely soaked through and pulling them aside to show her. watching her face. “look at that.” making her look properly. watching her go pink. “good girl.” sliding my hand inside. “now look what you get.“​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

[formativeage]

soft n squishy

[angelsaxis]

I haven't seen this version anywhere so I made one!

[angelsaxis]

This flag is pissing off TERFs of course but i am seeing so much colorful JOY from trans lesbians and other lesbians in the notes like I've never seen a set of tags so happy before omg

[butchcockweilder-deactivated202]

everyone should reblog the bipoc transbian flag. It should be law.

[juliedillon]

A watercolor painting of a swimmer encoutering some sapphic mermaids, edited slightly for tumblr. (The titty-out version is over on my bluesky at juliedillon.bsky.social )