As I write this, I am soaring over the Mediterranean Sea at 857 km/hr. I canāt believe six weeks is over and that Iām really on my way home. Iām not sure it has set in yet that I have left Nairobi and U-Tena, but at least I have a lot of flying time to reflect on our journey.
Our second to last week was rough for me because I was sick. I threw up for the first time since I was five years old, so that was like a new experience in itself. I had the pleasure of really getting to know my lunch for a second time, as I had clogged the sink and had to spend a good fifteen minutes fishing about a cup of cabbage out of the drain. Letās just say I still canāt look at cabbage without having awful flashbacks. (TMI? Sorry...). I basically lived off bread for the next 3 days, and I wasnāt the greatest company. Those few days are slightly hazy in my memory. I managed to sleep through three hours of a graduation ceremony after finding a nice couch two floors below the ceremony. Albert was convinced that I was dying as he continued to get just a groan and a mumbled āI want sleepā whenever he tried to check on me. As sad as I was to miss the ceremony, that nap was definitely necessary. It was definitely the lowest point of the trip for me, but at least I was mostly recovered for the last few days.
Our last week felt like it was over before I could even blink. On Friday, Niki and I decided to get our hair braided, so Shiko took us to her co-mentorās salon in the slum. It took about four and a half hours, and was slightly (okay, more than slightly) painful, but the two girls did a very good job. However, a mzungu with braids? We looked a bit silly, and got even more stares (and even quite a few laughs) than usual on the way home. Ask Jonelle how much she laughed at us when she first saw us. I wish I had it on video. Niki and I also got to experience riding a boda boda for the first time. Boda bodas are basically like motorcycle taxis, and the drivers frequently donāt follow the rules of the road. But then again, who does in Nairobi? Niki sat behind the driver and I was behind her, with my butt an inch from the edge of the seat. I held on for dear life and spent half the ride imagining my death. We also went the wrong way on an entrance ramp, but again, thatās just the norm in Nairobi. Overall, the experience was slightly terrifying. But would I do it again? Hell yea.
We went to the KUZA Monthly Bash on Saturday, and it was great having all the girls together again. The bash included three motivational speakers, some dancing, lunch, and a Q&A where the girls asked the GROW interns anything Ā they wanted to know. āDo you have a boyfriend?ā āNo, I donāt.ā āI have an older brother...ā Looks like I have a potential boyfriend.
On Sunday, we left with Nikiās aunt and uncle for Maasai Mara, where we stayed for two nights in these really cool tented cabins. Mara is a huge park filled mostly with open grasslands. In areas of the park where animals have not yet grazed, we could barely see over the grass outside the car windows. Maasai Mara is the Kenyan continuation of the Serengeti in Tanzania, and every year, from July to October, there are huge migrations of wildebeest, topi, zebras, and gazelles from the Serengeti to Mara. And we were there to witness it! We also got to see two cheetahs and many lions - including two lions that were in the middle of, er, procreating. (āItās standing on something. A rock?ā āI think he has prey!ā āWait, thatās another lion.ā āOh....ā). When they had finished, we proceeded to drive up right next to them and capture some really great shots. As a side note, having a lion look you in the eye from a few feet away is very intimidating when your windows are down.
On Tuesday night, we were supposed to return to Donholm for our welfare party, but we unfortunately got caught in traffic and never made it. We moved about half a mile in 3 hours. We eventually gave up and returned to Nikiās uncleās house, where we stayed the night. Traffic in Nairobi is awful, especially at rush hour. No wonder why everyone is always late. Meeting at 10? Chances of it starting before 10:30 are next to 0, and it is likely to start closer to 11. Being a person that likes to arrive five to ten minutes early to everything, this lack of punctuality was tough to get used to. However, I embraced this lack of timeliness in the end. Life is a little less stressful when youāre never in a rush.
We had our second attempt of a welfare party on Wednesday evening. We got together for dinner and drinks at a club called Kuzima and we exchanged gifts after the table was cleared. Most of that day was spent running around town trying to buy gifts for family, friends, and every member of U-Tena, so we were excited to give them out. We were so appreciative of all of the gifts that U-Tena had gotten for us. I canāt wait to wear my sandals (made by U-Tena!) all the time. A few people couldnāt make it to the party, but it was great having almost everyone together one last time. Looking at all of the smiling faces around me reminded me of all of the memories we shared and how much I appreciate each member of U-Tena and each of my fellow interns.
While there were ups and downs along the way, these last six weeks have been nothing short of amazing. I know that these experiences and memories will remain with me for the rest of my life. After spending so much time with everyone, I leave with nothing but love for every member of U-Tena. I knew theoretically before coming that GROW is important for partnership, but I didnāt realize what a huge effect it would actually have. Everything that U-Tena does and everything GlobeMed at Brown does for U-Tena has become infinitely more meaningful now that I know the faces and minds behind the organization. I sincerely hope that the friendships I have made will continue long beyond my time at Brown.
There is so much that I will miss about U-Tena. Their never-ending laughter and jokes, each personās unique personality (and dance moves), the ease at which everyone interacts, and, most importantly, the passion that each member has for what U-Tena does. It is so evident in rehearsal, performances, and in how hard every member works; ask any member about U-Tena, and you can hear it in the way they speak about the organization. The majority have stayed with U-Tena from the start, with no promise of pay or knowledge of what the future of the organization will hold, but just the notion that they are making a difference. Even now, there is not as much funding coming in as there had been in previous years. Through conversations with members, I know it hasnāt been easy for them. Yet the amount of support they give each other and the obvious amount that they care about each other is truly inspiring. If one member needs help, the rest of the team will come together to do everything they possibly can do to support him or her. I can sincerely say that U-Tena is filled with some of the most amazing and inspirational people I have ever met.
Iām going to miss the craziness of life in Nairobi. The loud and crowded matatus with drivers who drive on whichever side of the road they please; the obstacle course of ditches, bumps, and muddy messes that walking anywhere entails; the groups of children that yell āMzungu! Mzungu! How are you?!ā in unison whenever we pass; the mind-blowingly cheap and delicious meals we ate and the ability to buy chapati on practically any corner; the nightlife that doesnāt stop until the sun comes up; the friendly security guards at Tumaini supermarket by the office; the two trainers, Juma and Nato, who pushed us through our workouts at the gym we joined; and even the random man that told me he loved me as he tried to sell me an American flag in the middle of the street in honor of Obamaās arrival. The list goes on and on. Leaving Nairobi and U-Tena wasnāt easy, but I know that this goodbye isnāt forever. Mpaka nitakuja tena. Kwaheri, Kenya.