Not Her Dad… Yet

25/M Mostly just random kink related thoughts. Ex professional fetish writer. Drop me an ask or a question! NMIK - under 18 please DNF / DNI

[imnotherdadyet]

I don’t know why I need to say this so many times but please please PLEASE DO NOT FOLLOW MY PAGE IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 OR INTERACT WITH MY CONTENT!

I can’t be any clearer - Politely fuck off. This is no place for you.

[imnotherdadyet]

how does one find a daddy bf? specifically one like you with the yk forced regression 🙈 i feel likes tinder isn’t really a option and tumblr mutuals are sooo far and most kink focused rather than a relationship that also has the lifestyle 🤧

The internet is a wonderful place and I’m sure there are (better.) people out there than myself. But I understand your frustration, conventional dating apps don’t work, kink specific accounts on websites such as this are filled with too many pervs and creeps and it’s very hard to find what you actually want.

It’s hard, it’s tiring (I honestly get it.) but keep persevering and the right person will appear in due time, that’s my best advice and it’s worked the best for me in the past where these relationships just happen. I’m not in a rush to get back into one again as I know when the time is right the universe will just magically make that happen again with the right person.

[imnotherdadyet]

Questionnn

If a little girl wasn’t allowed to ask for a change, do you think crying in front of a responsible adult would help the change come faster? Would it tug enough on your dad-heartstrings or would you ignore it and leave her to stew in it a bit?

m jus curiousss

Maybe it would… Or maybe instead it would result in just putting her paci in her mouth to quieten her down and they an few knee bounces on her smushy butt to make it worse and instead of a change just get some cuddles and butt pats on my lap until she settled down and still not change her… or is that just mean?

[imnotherdadyet]

I’m scared about buying diapers for the first time but I really want to buy them - can’t get them online delivered so want to go into a shop and buy them any advice?

In the words of that great sports brand and the one actor from 10 years ago - “JUST DO IT” no one in the shop cares no matter how much you perceive them to. Have some courage, prepare yourself and just go buy some.

[imnotherdadyet]

How would you suggest implementing forced regression into the bedroom?

By forcing her to sleep at the food of your bed in a crib, wearing a thick nappy, a paci gag and a onesie while you have grown up time for a real women in front of her to show her what’s she’s too little to have herself.

[imnotherdadyet]

“What do you mean you get a kick out of someone forcing you to dress like an oversized baby, that you get wet over the feeling of someone forcing you to wear an use a nappy all while your helpless and powerless to do anything about it - that’s so gross and weird…

… come be grows and wired at mine and I’ll give your exactly what you want.”

[imnotherdadyet]

Normalise keeping girls in ridiculously thick nappys that can’t be hidden under any clothes and makes they do that adorable waddle when they walk because there not ready to be grown ups and should be easily identifiable as such so the rest of us can tease and humiliate them for being pathetic, adorable, embarrassing immature baby’s that still require nappies cause of how many accidents they still make in there pants.

[imnotherdadyet]

As much as I love the concept of “all girls need nappies and chastity” wouldn’t it be even more embarrassing if only your girl was the one subjected to that. Just your girl safely locked up and permanently denied, while all the other big girls get to have silly adult things like sex, orgasms and use the bathroom like proper adults one special little missy doesn’t get any of that. Some girls are even too little for orgasms in there nappy so why not just keep them locked up and denied for good, realistically why would you unlock them when there are so many nice adult women out there to do that sort of stuff with.

Pent up, fussy girl, forever locked up, denied and forced to go to the bathroom in her napping like the humiliated cuck she is. Kept safely away from all adult activity, forcefully but gently kept in her own work of pinks, pastels and subdued colors, keeping her as far removed from all things grown up as possible. Longing to be like everyone else but firmly divided. Everyone teases her, everyone humiliated her about how embarrassing her situation is, but she can’t control any of it. Her designated grown ups keep her in her rightful place with no chance of escape: the only stimulation she has is her futile attempt to hump and squish her messy well used nappy but the cold hard metal of her chastity belt prevents even that. Defeated, frustrated and crying in anger just to have her pack firmly strapped into her mouth. Kept gagged to keep her quite white she’s firmly locked in her crib. Listing through the walls to the grownups enjoying there much deserved adult time away from the pathetic little accident prone girlie. But they love her all the same.

[imnotherdadyet]

Hot girl summer was last year - it’s forced regression girl summer now.

[imnotherdadyet]

I want to ensure my future gf has a stuffed toy and an adult paci regardless if she’s an ABDL girl or not. Think about it for a second - not only is it incredibly adorable but also provides a great source of support, comfort and emotional stability after a long day or times of stress. Every girl should have healthy ways to unwind and those are two great options so why not incorporate them into every relationship. ☺️

[imnotherdadyet]

Soft girl love is such a special intimate form of attention that I absolute melt for. There’s nothing cuter to me than a girl who wants nothing but your attention via means of unlimited cuddles while she’s sitting in your lap softly, attempting to give you small kisses but her pacifier is stuck in the way. Listening to her gently and reassuringly chew her pacifier while you hold her; hearing her nappy felty squish as she shifts around. (Making sure to keep your other hand firmly on the back of her nappy.) offering an equal form of soft unspoken care and acceptance. Honestly this is something I genuinely miss and have such a needful desire to experience again as it’s truly unmatched by anything else.

[imnotherdadyet]

Hey girl wanna come back to mine for some “hardcore sex”?

…And by “hardcore sex” I mean cuddle up and watch a film or something where I look after your physical needs and you get the emotional release of feeling safe, looked after and cared for, then get a good nights sleep and pancakes in the morning and nothing to do with actual sex at all cause your a human being not a sex object.

[imnotherdadyet]

(Girl.) who is comfortable enough to be herself around you Vs. (Girl.) who is comfortable enough to pee herself around you.

[imnotherdadyet]

A lot of your posts are really hot. Have a reality meets fantasy sort of question though.

Have you worked with girls that have trouble using diapers? From experience it just feels impossible to get my body to relax enough to go even when I feel desperate about it to the point of pain.

I've heard from some people that that's not uncommon and that even if they manage to go once they take off their diaper they still have to use the toilet to sort of finish emptying...

How would you train a girl to accept her diapers completely if her body isn't cooperating?

“Worked with” I usually prefer the polite term of girlfriend instead 😂 honestly that’s a completely valid question and a lot of people struggle to let go when they first start with nappys an that. My only advice is to drink lots, try to relax as much as possible as 90% of resistance is a mental block more that anything, some people (from experience.) have found it easier to go in there nappy by sitting on the toilet and trying to be as familiar as possible. Familiarity and relaxation is the key. Try not to force yourself to the point of physical pain that’s not good for anyone…

Practice makes perfect and the more you learn to overcome that mental barrier the easier it becomes and soon you lol be able to casually go like everyone else. Hope this helped. ☺️

[imnotherdadyet]

I think it’s important milestone for girls to start waking up wet. It truly reminds them there just small girls through and through. Making sure to give her an extra large bottle (Or two.) before bed so she has to go pee pee during the night but being safely secured into her crib there’s no way she can get out to use the bathroom. Forced to submit and go in her nappy like a good girl. Eventually she’s fall asleep again and wake up in the morning in her crib, warm and safe with her squishy mess between her legs from her “accident” (she’s defiantly have to go atleast one more time before she’s let out for the morning.) making sure to throughly check her and lightly tease her in the process. Only to repeat the same process everyday. Overtime she’ll stop waking up to pee and subconsciously start going in her sleep. Retraining your adult girlfriend to make her accidents in her nappy is only a fraction of her overall age regression.

[imnotherdadyet]

The phrase “I’m just a girl” to me always translates to “I’m small, I’m not an adult, please baby me, please take care of me and validate me.” And that’s exactly how I’m going to treat her - Because she precious and deserves it!

[imnotherdadyet]

I think it’s extra important that no matter how good girlie behaves that she’s forced to sleep in an oversized crib with an added restraint set. Make sure she’s all nice and secure for bedtime or nap time. The helplessness of being tied down, barely able to move no matter how much she fights, kicks or struggles coupled with the safety of sleeping in her oversized baby bed with the rails up on the sides creates such a confusing emotionally haze at both ends of the spectrum that can be disorienting and hard to process. But she’s just a girl and doesn’t get a choice. The end goal is for her to feel completely helpless by herself and depend on her adult of choice to offer all the love and care that she needs and desperately craves at the same time.