clara details

the defeated failure side of me 

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Miss Carmila Box Lareine scanned by 太田香奈子

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[jetix]

azugishi8 on ig

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faye dunaway, 1994.

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sacai

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Reyn Spooner

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“bits to use in everyday conversations”

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[charl0ttan]

[milksockets]

We have all been the objects of hatred, but it is hatred denied or refused that for Winnicott is the problem for both mother and child. Right from the beginning we have been hateful without knowing it; our mothers have had to hold this very difficult line between feeling this inevitable hatred and protecting the child from feeling too much of it. This is the trauma of motherhood, the containment of excessive hatred, the living out of excessive love. But the real bond, Winnicott insists, has to include hatred. Without felt hatred–without the acknowledgement of harm and frustration as integral to human relations–kindness becomes a protection racket, fellow feeling becomes a denial of the feelings actually held in common.

On Kindness - Adam Phillips + Barbara Taylor

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[iamheavymeta-lll]

working with Jupiter be like

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[we5150wanderlust101]

[shiva-mizani]

[theimpossibleconversations]

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