Overthinking - Fear or Gear!
Overthinking comes with many siblings : doubts, uncertainty, fear, weakness, mistrust, headache, etc. you will be tired if you start counting the cons. If you ask me, overthinking is not a disease or something to get scared of, instead it is a hidden side of you. We all have this side of overthinking but “Few knows to play and many knows to hide.” We humans are the most greatest and funniest creatures of god. We love the things we do but we also have the fear for everything we do and what happens around. Overthinkers always have a boom in their mind for all questions – What am I doing ? “Boom”, Will I do something in my life? “Boom”, Will I get a job? “Boom”, Am I able to fulfill my dreams? “Boom”, and many more booms follows. We all have doubts and fear but letting them intimidate you on every decision is a big blunder. Overthinking ceases your heart and mind from being confident and independent. It is such a strong self-made emotion which takes you away from all the real and natural emotions like falling in love, being happy, sad and angry. We start questioning ourselves, our abilities, our strengths and our decisions. In short, we lose our faith in everything we do and think. Somewhere we know that we are right but our fear and doubt is so over whelming that we keep thinking. It’s like taking away life from your soul. Everything has its own limit. Overthinking also has a limit and if you know how to limit your emotions you know it all. Questioning yourself is good but you must not question your faith. Having doubts being confused can be hilarious not a serious situation you have to think about. We have heard people advising, “Think 100 times before you do this.” Here comes a fact thinking on what you have decided is called rethinking but thinking what you must decide again and again is called overthinking. You can have doubts on what you have decided but you must not be confused on what shall your decision be. Everything done in a limit is fun but anything done limitlessly cannot be fruitful anytime anyway.
For example if you want to plant a small sapling you will dig a small hole just to fit the roots but if you keep on digging it will not be useful for you anyway. We all think, rethink and also overthink but few know the limits and many of us get carried away. We keep digging for an answer without knowing that we already have the answer but we forgot to stop. I know there are a lot of things in this big looking small world which we need to figure out everyday, everywhere doing anything but you need to stop chill and restart. Don’t lose yourself , believe in yourself , have faith in whatever you do. We cannot be just perfect but we can be imperfectly perfect.