Godly Relationship

Trying to be a Proverbs 31 woman To attract an Ephesians 5 man To create a 1 Corinthians 13 LOVE

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‘Til Death Do Us Part:

My parents just had there twentyth wedding anniversary, and they could’nt look more in love. My dad told me yesterday that he didn’t know it would be possible for him to love my mom more than he did twenty years ago, but he said that somewhere along the way he fell deeper in love and couldn’t be happier. I honestly can’t wait until God sends me the man of my dreams, and I hope that one day he talks about me just like that! I love to see that my parents love each other through everything, it hasn’t always been the best of times, but they said it caused them to love each other more because of it! I hope to one day have a relationship just like my parents, because they have shown me what it looks like to love another person more than yourself.

Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her."

Ephesians 5:24: “Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”

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Some people can’t go where God is taking you.

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Who we pursue or entertain can help you or break you. Don’t rush the process.

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I have liked the same guy for almost three years now. For some reason I just can’t shake the “crush” and attraction I have for him. There have been many times I have thought about telling him, but every time I find a reason not to tell him. Sometimes it’s fear of rejection, but most of the time it’s the desire to have him chase after me and not the other way around. Ladies, men are born with the desire to chase after the women God has planned for them. So my advice to you is to wait, because there will be a guy that comes along that will do everything to chase after you, and that is the man God has chosen for you.

All you have to do is wait until God says it’s time for your future husband to walk into your life...

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A man in love with love.

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Pray for your future spouse, because it’s a great way to connect with them via God, and also it’s less depressing than always wondering if you’ll ever be married–praying for them inherently assumes that you will be.

This is what I try to do whenever I remember, feel free to copy or adapt it. (Pick the appropriate response from the parts in parentheses)

Please bless my future (husband or wife) and make sure that (he or she) is happy and healthy and safe, and let (him or her) know that, even though I haven’t met (him or her) yet, I already love (him or her) more than I can possibly say, and I can’t wait to meet (him or her) and spend the rest of our lives together.

I almost posted something complaining to God about being ready to no longer be single (lack of sleep makes me whiny, lol) but instead I wanted to do something inherently positive, and I feel a little better now.

Hopefully this can help you, too. :-)

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“If you cannot appropriately replace his name with “love is patient, love is kind…” then he is not worth your time. He will either focus on getting you to Heaven or getting your clothes off. If you are convinced that the latter is true, run. You are firstly a soul and secondly a body, and if he really loved you he would wait with patience to connect to the second component of your being. You are sustained by your Creator, not His creation. Therefore no one will complete you; only compliment you. When a woman is truly loved her light shines brighter than before. If you feel suppressed, if he doesn’t remind you of your radiance and invite you to flourish, then what are you doing with him? You are a child of God. A boy should have introduced himself to both your Heavenly Father and your earthly father before winning your affections. Don’t make the same mistakes I did, baby girl.”

— Advice To My Little Sister// Godly Dating

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If we’re in a relationship, I am praying for you spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. I am praying for your family. I am praying for your grades. I am praying for your job. I am praying for your heart, your future. Basically, praying for your whole existence.

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Writing to my future Husband:

I occasionally write to my future husband. I don’t do it everyday or even every month, but I do write to him when something big happens in my life. I tell him about how my life is going, and then I end every letter by letting him know how much I can’t wait to meet him. I tell him how I pray for him and that I love him already even though I have yet to meet him. I plan to give him all the letters the day after our wedding. When I write him a letter it’s a way to be able to know that he will be worth the wait!

Ladies, try to know that there is a man out there that God has chosen for you, and he will be worth the wait!