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Hi, my name's Ulises, I'm bigender, currently 18 years old and I go by any pronoun, but mostly He/him.

I'm from Argentina, and I speak english and spanish.

#criminal case #chip's art #chip's ocs #chip's sketches #chip's gifts #introduction #chip's hc #chip's commissions

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love me some doomed yaoi angst

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Lou Sullivan, trans activist (1951 - 1991)

genderkoolaid

Happy Birthday (June 16) Lou!

He would've been 75 today.

hcnnibal

the a in a1 stands for ally

Dumbasses.

#detroit become human #dbh #dbh fanart #dbh connor #dbh rk800 #dbh nines #dbh rk900 #dbh sixty #fanart #digital art #chip's art #paint to sai 2

genderkoolaid

When you said in your Katherine Hepburn post that you wonder how many transmasculine people kept their identities close to their chest to be the wife or mother that they were supposed to be, I always think of my neighbor.

I live in an extremely Mormon community in rural Northern Utah. I came out as a trans man as a teenager, about 10 years ago. My neighbor— someone who I had always known as a traditional Mormon woman in her early 40s, a devout housewife, a mother of several children, a valued community member from a very important family in our area (her brother is literally the mayor of our town), and at most SLIGHTLY more reclusive and quiet than most of the bigshots in our community— quietly told me on their front porch one evening that they have always seen themself as a man.

They wistfully told me about their college years, where they were involved in the lesbian community, before in their early 20s realizing that it was “more” than that. About how they only moved back home and got married after their college degree because the thought of being a disappointment to their family, and being disowned, felt impossible to cope with. So they got married to a man that they admit they don’t feel any ounce of attraction towards, and had several kids, and they’re not quite the pride to their parents as their siblings (due to being slightly more reclusive, not really having friends to speak of that aren’t just church ladies that they work with, and, admittedly, always seeming a bit depressed to me). They said that they were proud of me for doing what I needed to do, though, and they were happy that my family at least wasn’t disowning me.

Nobody else in our community knows. Not their family, not their husband, not their kids, not the people they do church outreach with.

And whenever I read stories of forgotten trans men, I always think of them. They’re still alive! They’re still here! And nobody but me will probably ever know! And if I hadn’t come out in this tiny little community, I’d never know either!

Idk. Sorry for the vent/rant. Thank you for listening. It crushes me to be the only one who knows them as a man, sometimes.

Thank you for sharing. These are the transmasculine stories we need to be telling more and louder.

genderkoolaid

if you are a cis woman in higher education looking to teach gender anything i think a tribunal of equal parts trans men, trans women, and various nonbinary people should make you undergo various test and trials at their whim first before you are allowed into a classroom. similarly if you are a white woman a tribunal of various people of color should do the same. some of yall are TOO COMFORTABLE!!!!

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I decided to make those stupid little square profile photos with Detroit Become Human characters to celebrate the game's 8th Anniversary!

Please credit me if you use these I put a lot of time into these ^^

Connor's Story - Hank, Gavin, Connor, Nines, and Sixty

Kara's Story - Kara, Alice, Luther, Jerry, and Ralph

Markus' Story - Markus, Simon, Josh, and North

Deviants - Blue Haired Traci, Brown Haired Traci, Daniel, and Rupert

Sorry if I missed some characters ;-;

Zoevid cause why not.

#criminal case #criminal case the conspiracy #david jones #zoe kusama #zoevid #criminal case fanart #fanart #ship #digital art #paint to sai 2 #chip's sketches #Los re banco #Unfortunately had to draw Jones' hair

hcnnibal

theres gonna be a flood in ur askbox now cause of that gender essentialist ask i just know it but hey im gonna put my two cents in too, though its not directed at you vati, I know you know:

the very point is that people feel like theyre "playing pretend" in recognizing someones gender on the basis of external characteristics that we've assigned to gender. when realistically anyone of any gender/sex could have any given characteristic regardless of whether theyre cis or trans or "how much" theyve transitioned medically. Cause you cant quantify it all cause of the metrics we're going off of. Gender is an identity, then sex is something we're assigned to, furthermore theres whats in the chromosomes and the chromosomes do not always align with what developed in the womb.

The external characteristics we consider "man" and "woman" and "nonbinary/androgynous" are socially made up and cannot truly, neatly, scientifically be assigned to any specific gender/birth sex/biological sex cause they naturally occur in anyone. And then people start trying to "transvestigate" based on bullshit and youve got people refusing to believe a trans person is trans or a cis person is cis or any person is really the gender they "say they are" because theyre deciding whos a woman and whos not purely based off of who LOOKS the "most feminine". And sometimes that will just boil down to "well im attracted to women and i dont think youre attractive so i dont think youre a woman"

^^^^^

hcnnibal

specifically about the healthcare thing though, the only reason trans healthcare is covered is because what to anyone else is a cosmetic surgery, to us its a medical necessity. when you remove the medicality of it, why must it be provided by the healthcare system (public or private)? of course one can make the argument that any aesthetic procedure SHOULD be covered, but that's completely missing the point of reality and pressing issues imo, and does not understand how healthcare services work at aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaall

hate to break it to you, but the non transitioning trans people are not the ones in charge of whether or not your medical procedures are covered

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ARCANE LEAGUE OF LEGENDS: 2x07 - “Pretend Like It's the First Time” ↳ "Didn't you try to kill him?" "Greatest thing we can do in life is find the power to forgive."