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[venustrology]

Astrology & Dicks

After a two year long intensive research, I was able to collect information about dick sizes and shapes and how the astrological signs influence them. For this particular scientific investigation in this unexplored realm, I concluded that more accurate results could be collected through the use of several methods. The methods were primarily pretested to validate the use of those particular approaches. The used methods of research concluded surveys (through Snapchat, Skype Calls and Twitter DM’s), observations (on various cam boy sites) and even personal, intimate Interviews (through the help of apps, such as Grindr). 

With the astrological foreknowledge on sexual intercourse, lust and the body, the consensus was to focus on the following areas: 

Sun Sign

Mars Sign

8th house 

The results (*Disclaimer: Genetics exist*): 

Aries: 

Size and girth: They’ll usually either have very short and less girthy dicks, or very big, juicy ones. It’s hard to find an Aries dominant (Sun, Mars 8th) who’s in between. You either don’t feel it or you start walking side to side. 

Shape: Not the most pleasing to look at for many people. They’re not clean cut dicks, but rather the kind of dick, where you can count the veins. They also often have a foreskin, that they can not fully pull back. Very distinctive is the fact, that their dicks are almost always shaped in some weird way/angle. 

Recap: They are rough and wild as fuck. Even if you don’t like the D at first, they’ll make you love it. 

Taurus: 

Size and girth: It’s hard to find a Taurus that’s below average, but it is also almost as hard to find one that is highly above average. If you are not a total size queen, they have the perfect size for you. Almost all of them are girthy, definitely above average. (though proportion-wise, so do not expect a small guy to have a dick as girthy as a red bull can) 

Shape: Very clean-cut & straight. Very pleasing to look at, very good to suck on. Not really about shape, but they usually trim their bushes, but the trimmed hair make the dick even more appealing. 

Recap: They won’t ever disappoint you. Very sensual and attractive.

Gemini: 

Size and girth: Congrats Gemini Sun/Mars/8th house people! You guys are definitely above average (most of the time). Sadly, most of you guys also have pencil dicks. 

Shape: Mostly straight or banana-shaped. Not the best dicks in the zodiac, but DEFINITELY not the worst. Clean - looking. 

Recap: They know how to please you. Sneaky, charming, sexy. 

Cancer: 

Size and girth: Usually really juicy, which makes everything better automatically. They’ll either have a slightly above average dick or a reaally small one. I’m sorry cancers. Your girth is alright though. But who cares anyways, they’re all bottoms. 

Shape: Nice to look at. As I said, very juicy. Either straight or banana-shaped. 

Recap: Great dicks to suck. There’s something special about their dicks. Cancers can be really kinky sometimes, so fun is guaranteed. 

Leo: 

Size and girth: You’d think all of them have huge dicks, but that is suprisingly not the case at all. A lot of them have really small ones. Maybe that’s why they have so many self esteem issues. The ones that don’t have small ones, are definitely above average. (7+ inches)

Shape: Nothing too wild, nothing too weird. Dicks are usually straight, could be curved downwards. 

Recap: They know (!!!) how to seduce you, they’re literally one of the, if not the best at making the experience one you’ll never forget. They know what to say and they know what to do. You won’t give a damn about the dicks shape or size. 

Virgos: 

Size and girth: Usually, petite, not the biggest dicks in the zodiac. Girth is proportion-wise alright.

Shape: They have nice looking dicks. Probably the sign with the least deformed looking ones. Their dicks can look like Taurean dicks, which is supposed to be a compliment. 

Recap: Well, I guess they’ll try their best to please you. Many would describe them as boring, though that is not their dicks fault. 

Libra: 

Size and girth: There’s nothing to discuss here. Big long, girthy perfect dicks. 

Shape: Usually straight, some of them are curved left or right. The longer and cleaner looking versions of Taurean dicks. 

Recap: Not the most passionate lovers on earth, however they are charming, still really good at sex and usually have nice looking dicks too. 

Scorpio: 

Size and girth: The best dicks in the zodiac, don’t even try to argue with me. Big, long, girthy like the Libra dicks, however, Scorpio dicks look a bit rougher and realer, which is what you want in a perfect dick!!! 

Shape: PERFECT LOOKING. Girthy as fuck, really long, beautifully shaped (mostly straight or upwards curved). 

Recap: You wanna suck on that dick, till you make it cum. Besides Aries’, the most passionate lovers! Not as rough and wild as an Aries, but more emotinally intense sex, that will make you crave their dick at any time!

Sagittarius:

Size and girth: Their dicks are really similar to Gemini dicks, their opposite sign. Really long dicks (longer than Geminis), not that girthy though.

Shape: Juicy and clean looking. They usually have a long flaccid dick too. 

Recap: If you’re looking for size and quality sex, hunt a Sag dick. Though, do not get emotionally involved. 

Capricorn: 

Size and girth: As their fellow earth sign, Virgo, petite in size, but an average girth. Strong Saturn influence will not give one a huge dick (except genes say yes).

Shape: Nice to look at. Not rough looking like an Aries or Aquarius dick for example. Either fully shaved or a full bush. 

Recap: If they care about you, they’ll try their best. Like Sagittarians, not emotionally involed in the act. 

Aquarius: 

Size and girth: They’ll usually have long dicks and good girth too. (But just like their opposite sign, Leo, cases of small dicks are not rare.) 

Shape: A bit rough looking, they may have the same foreskin problem as Aries’. Though, rough looking is always a compliment. 

Recap: Freaks in bed, definitely not boring. They can be real wild and hardcore. 

Pisces: 

Size and girth: Often said to have the largest dicks in the zodiac. I don’t want to go that far, but they’re definitely (!) one of the bigger signs. Very girthy too!!

Shape: Usually, curved upwards or simply straight. It’s somewhere inbetween rough and clean looking. Nevertheless, very good looking dicks.

Recap: Not boring either, they can be real freaky. However, most of the time, it is more emotionally intense than physically. 

[onp4012]

Can u pleasseeee do transit chart notes 😔

I’ll just do 10 because for now and I will return with more when I’ll finish all the requests ^^

1. Natal Moon conjuncting Transiting Moon can make someone be very spiritual at that moment and the native might get messages from the guides in their dreams.

2. In a woman’s chart, when Jupiter is in 3rd, 7th or 11th house she has high chances to meet her soulmate/future husband. For men, you use the same technique but with Venus. That’s why many soulmate connections have the native either born on the same year as their soulmate, either 12/24/<...> years older/younger than their soulmate.

3. Be careful when any personal planet enters your 5th house (if you’re a woman), the planet aspected by other planets can mean a prossible pregnancy. (I wrote this at the 4th part of “10 astrological observations no one asked for”

4. When natal Mercury is in conjunction with transiting Jupiter, the following period (most likely 2 years) is about learning and developing philosophies/philosophical ideas.

5. When the natal Mars is conjunct transit moon the person is easy to turn on and usually have very dirty minds.

6. When transiting Mercury is in your 11th house you tend to speak your mind to your friends. Not only close ones, but also people you just met.

7. When your Sun is in conjunction with the transiting Venus in 7th house you fall in love easily.

8. Having Pluto conjunct your natal moon can make you be pretty blunt and strong when facing changes. It’s like you are already trained to need to change (you actually are lmao)

9. Uranus transiting your 6th house can bring you unexpected illnesses

10. Natal Ascendant conjuncting transiting Sun can make someone feel very confident about their looks

[neptunianmuse]

Marriage in Transits and Solar Return charts 💍

I know this is a topic a lot of people interested in astrology care about. So I thought I should make a post about it. In the past couple of months I have read A LOT of solar return and Transit charts of married couples; from famous couples, my friends, my friends parents and family members. I have noticed these recurring placements...I hope you guys enjoy this 💗

Transits

- Mercury in the second house - Sun in the second house - Lunar nodes in the 4th/5th house - Pluto in the fifth house - Chiron in the seventh house - Uranus in the first house/Conjunct the ascendant - Moon in the first house/Conjunct the ascendant. - Moon in an air sign or Pisces is very prominent in many charts I’ve looked at, like MOST of them. - Uranus in the fifth house - For women briede asteroid in the first house. - I've noticed in a lot of charts asteroid groom is in the same sign in the birth chart and when it's transiting. If it isn't conjunct then it is trine. - Mars at 12°. - Pisces moon at 10° I saw In like 8 charts. - Moon at 15° I also saw a lot of.

Solar Return Chart

- Sun in the first house - Vertex in the seventh house - North node in the seventh house - ASC in Leo, Virgo, Libra, and Cap - Moon making an aspect to Uranus - Juno in 3rd, 7th or 10th house - Stellium in the 7th and/or 10th house - ASC at 19° or 27° - Pluto in the fourth house - Sun conjunct Mercury, this was also shown the year people got engaged. - Moon trine/square ASC. - Jupiter making an aspect to Saturn/Uranus. - Moon at 1° or 29°, I saw this in every married family member of mine solar return chart. EVERY SINGLE ONE. - Mercury at 16 degrees was in SO SO many charts, also at 13 degrees but it didn’t come up as much as 16 degrees. - Venus in Cap, Libra, Cancer and Pisces - Vertex aspecting Venus mostly square and opposition. - Venus sextile/trine mars. - Vesta at 15° - North Node/Vertex in 5th house - A lot of the solar return charts I've looked at when people had prominent 5th house placements or a stellium they had kids right after marriage.

Asteroids I've mentioned (Juno 3, Groom 5129, Briede 19029, Vesta 4)

I hope you guys liked this post, let me know if you have any thoughts or questions. I would love to hear them 🙈.

[iloveyoursign]

SOLAR CHART GUIDE // YOUR LOVE LIFE

solar return chart is your yearly agenda. we can see your docket through the year with important dates. if you compare your solar return to your natal chart, you will reach more specific things about what’s happening in your life right now.

if we want to know about your love life in that year we look at your venus, because it represents how we want to be loved, how we show the love to others, so it basically means that we want a relationship or not, how our relationships will be…

also the venus, the venus sign represents your money, your blessings in that year…

so if your venus sign is…

IN ARIES IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : it means you are looking for rush in your relationship. maybe you will not be in a serious relationship. if your venus in aries in your natal chart, you are going to find love the same as you are looking for. you maybe want to feel thrill in your relationships. your relationships maybe will not last. your relationships may start quickly and may end quickly. you get caught in love so easily and you get sick of them so easily. also you are looking for certainty in your relationship: like what are we now, a serious thing or a causal thing?

IN TAURUS IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : it means you are looking for a stable relationship. you would not get attached to someone who is not trustworthy. you may look for trust, sincerity also physical sexual tension in your relationship. you are looking for your comfort zone. your relationships probably will last. this position is also can be a marriage sign in a solar return chart. 

IN GEMINI IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : it means in relationships you are looking for a good communication. a sincerity relation should include attentive communication. you would not want a someone who will text you back after five days. your relationships may last or may not last because you are just going to fit in the relationship, like you are not going to beg someone to stay. 

IN CANCER IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : it means in relationship you are looking for someone who makes you feel like you are home, feel like you are with your family. you may end up one of your exes, because cancer represents the past. also you are going to give them a family warmth, your exertion in the relationship. so in that year the most giving person is you in relationships but be careful! your relationship will last as you give something.

IN LEO IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : it means you are going to show your love as you can. maybe you can make an announcement about your relationship, like you can tell everyone, talk about it to everyone. also unlike other years, in this year you love getting attention from your loved ones! your relationships will last though.

IN VIRGO IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you are looking for purity in your relationships. maybe you are going to loathe of sex. you want someone who loves you, who wants you for only you. also maybe you do not want anyone else, maybe you can have obsession on someone else. you will not be in a relationship if you do not let go of your rigorous standarts.

IN LIBRA IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you are looking for someone who is kind, fair to you and compatible with you. you are going to be fair in your relationships. you are going to give the attention as you get from them. nothing less or nothing more. maybe you are not going to be in a relationship will last long.

IN SCORPIO IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : in your relationships you always end up with fights. you are looking for chaos or you bring it. your relationship will last but it can last in toxic ways. it can hurt you.

IN SAGITTARIUS IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you have a long distance relationship. you can get attached to someone who’s different from your family, from your culture. you can bring the prejudge to your relationships. also you would like to feel free in your relationships. you may have a trip for someone who you love.

IN CAPRICORN IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you may have a serious relationship. your relationship will last. you are looking for serious relationships. you are looking for someone who will loyal to you. this position is also can be a marriage sign in a solar return chart. you may end up someone who is older than you, mature than you.

IN AQUARIUS IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you are looking for someone who is creative, intelligent. also you may have weird relationships unlike other years. like an open relationship, like you have never experienced it before. the relationship will not last probably because you would not want to get attached to someone. you may end up with your friend, you may get in a frienzone or maybe you put someone in a friendzone.

IN PISCES IN YOUR SOLAR RETURN CHART : you are looking for someone who can sacrifice himself/herself for you. also you can find yourself as victim position in relationships because you can give everything from yourself to others. also you want someone who wants you for your soul. you want someone who you can heal, who you can heal you. also you can marry this year ( this is the most position that i see who’s getting married in solar return charts)

if your venus sign is same as in your natal sign, if the degree and the sign are all the same, maybe you are going to find what you are looking for in relationships!

[astrolovecosmos]

Mars in Gemini vs...

This series focuses on conflict and the Mars Signs “against” each other. Because of this the series will explore some more negative topics and themes. Mars also covers a lot more than conflict such as attraction, energy levels, will, ambition, physical intimacy, competition, etc.

Gemini vs. Gemini

There can be a lot of excitement and energy between these two. They can relate to each other and find each other fascinating. However their conflicts likely come from them spiraling out of control together. These two will not hesitate to argue with one another, curse, and say straight up insulting things. Their fights may seem more intense than they really are - having “bark is worse than bite” theme. They may bluff, threat, and over promise. This highly communicative warfare can be messy and chaotic or it can create an environment where they know a lot about each other and there is a closeness through their fights. They can be encouraging to each other and have never-ending fun or connection. Both will try to define winners and losers all the time. The unseriousness of their conflicts or insensitivity in them can cause both to feel unloved, not heard, and easily irked. Both being forgiving and flexible their fights may not last long and with good communication and willingness to change or heal they can grow a lot together.

Gemini vs. Cancer

There can be a lot of misunderstanding here, but both being adaptable can be what keeps them moving forward together. Gemini uses facts and logic and tries to draw lines in the sand while Cancer is all about feeling and tries to get Gemini to validate their emotions or understand them. Their major hang up is heart vs. head conflicts. Gemini wants to win arguments and doesn’t understand why Cancer gets so hurt, won’t admit they are wrong, or apologize. Mars in Cancer doesn’t understand why Gemini is always on the attack, out to antagonize, and won’t see how important it is to consider other’s feelings. Gemini can get frustrated at how guarded Cancer is but may be a good sign to help open them up. Cancer can find Gemini to be annoying or too erratic with their high energy approach. But Mars in Cancer can give Gemini depth, understanding, and comfort that they may lack in themselves or at least in the area of passion, conflict, desire, and other subjects Mars signifies. Mars in Gemini can admire Cancer’s intuition, strength, caring, and maybe even vulnerability. Mars in Cancer admires Gemini’s flexibility, intelligence, and persuasion or charm. Mars in Gemini may appear to “win” arguments however Mars in Cancer isn’t afraid to take things to the next level or too far when really heated. While Mars in Gemini can be active, maybe impish, and an instigator they take things more lightly than Cancer and can find Mars in Cancer to be too intense secretly. Their fights can be all over the place but there is a lot they can learn from each other.

Gemini vs. Leo

Is this a contest to see who can agitate or yell the loudest than the other? Mars in Gemini may be easygoing in nature but their desire to be triumphant in an argument or to always make a point can keep things heated with an arrogant OR passionate Mars in Leo. Having Mars in Leo and Gemini tends to = boisterous but this isn’t always the case. For the more introverted or low-key Mars signs Gemini is still observant, quick-witted, opinionated, and highly detached in conflict whereas Leo is still likely heated, takes a lot of pride in themselves, opinions, or work, and can be stubborn. A chill Mars in Gemini can still find it thrilling or justified to tease a sensitive or unapproachable Mars in Leo. A quieter Mars in Leo can still boss Gemini around, take advantage of them, or be discouraging. Leo can find Gemini to be too cold or insensitive and Gemini can find Leo to be too dramatic or selfish. Their fights can be drama filled BUT there can be a lot of playfulness in this pairing too. They can be an unstoppable duo with Leo’s confidence and power alongside Gemini’s smarts. To keep the peace there needs to be understanding, admiration, and plenty of matching up to each other’s energy.

Keep reading

[novy2sirius]

Predictive energies in the destiny matrix

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Predictions for each year in your life can be made by reading the numbers on the outside of your destiny matrix chart, also known as your “yearly forecasts” or “predictive energies”. These can tell the type of energy you’re going to experience each year, similar to solar return charts in astrology, if you’re familiar with those. None of these energies are inherently good or bad. The energy is what you make of it. We have free-will in life although I do believe that these yearly energies can show the type of changes in your life that can occur, whether they’re positive or negative ones

A brief overview of what each number can indicate:

To my knowledge it’s not possible to have the 1 or 2 energies in your yearly forecast. I’ve never seen them before at least ⋆˙⟡

✧ Number 3 (Empress): This should be a year of abundance. Finances should improve, especially involving your family. This is a period of growth in your life. You will feel more connected to your feminine side during these time periods. You could even get pregnant since the empress card is associated with fertility. You can benefit from a lot of self care during this time and pursuing artistic careers or hobbies. If these years manifest lower vibrationally then you could struggle with emotionally sensitivity

✧ Number 4 (Emperor): These years are about stability being created in your life and taking on new responsibilities or finally taking on ones that you should’ve taken on in past years and having more self discipline. You can benefit from being very active in this time period. During these time periods you could gain some type of leadership role. You can discover more about your true dreams and what long term goals you want to achieve in life. I perceive it as a reality check for most I’ve seen experience this energy. If this energy manifests lower vibrationally it could indicate lack of growth or disharmony

✧ Number 5 (Hierophant): During these years you will learn lessons about commitment and establish stronger beliefs. You could even get married during this time period since the hierophant card is associated with marriage. There could be a major focus on sharing your knowledge with others or gaining wisdom from some type of mentor in life. These are good years to make money. If this energy manifests lower vibrationally then it could indicate experiencing challenges in relationships

✧ Number 6 (Lovers): During these years there will be a focus on your love life and relationships in general. It's more likely to be a harmonious year and one where you can resolve many conflicts from previous years. Major decisions will be made during these years. The lovers card is also associated with sexual connection, so it's possible to not only experience a relationship during these time periods, but also to have an active sex life. During these time periods you could meet your soulmate or a long term lover. Aside from romance though, these are years that can help you create balance within and that can help you learn to understand the things and people that you value in your life. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate lots of conflict occurring, lack of accountability for your actions, trust issues being created, or just lots of disharmony in general

✧ Number 7 (Chariot): During these years you can achieve lots of success through having determination and self discipline. These years are all about overcoming obstacles, working hard, and being ambitious in life. You can also find yourself achieving success in competitions of any kind or athletics. You could travel more with this energy as well, especially for reasons related to your work. If this energy manifests lower vibrationally then you could feel as though you have lack of direction and are lost a lot in life or struggle with lack of self control and aggression

✧ Number 8 (Justice): During these years balance will be created in your life and you will be able to overcome self doubts you had in your past. This time period will help you become a stronger person by overcoming challenges although these will be inner challenges rather than outer challenges more than likely. Your confidence shines through during these years. If you're already in a relationship or friendship you could find your relationships becoming stronger during these years. If you had been having health issues in past years this can often be a good card for health and indicate health improving and feeling more fit. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate challenging legal matters arising, having to make hard decisions, or having lots of self doubt in general

✧ Number 9 (Hermit): During these years you will experience lots of spiritual enlightenment and deep personal development. These are time periods in which you will self reflect a lot and gain clarity on many things. You may experience more isolation during these years, but this time will allow you to grow. You will withdraw yourself from chaos and bad energy in your life during these years. When this manifests lower vibrationally there could be a lot of feelings of loneliness or paranoia during this time. You could also feel restricted in some way or paralyzed by fear

✧ Number 10 (Wheel of fortune): During these years you can have a lot of good luck and opportunities come your way. There can be major shifts in your life and fated events that were meant to occur such as meeting a soulmate. These years usually bring lots of change to your life in general. During this time period you must embrace these changes regardless of ups and downs you go through. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate challenging unexpected changes, delays/set backs, feeling like you have a lack of control in life, or bad luck

✧ Number 11 (Strength): During these years you will learn many karmic lessons and experience the aftermath of your actions. These years are about learning the importance of karmic justice as well as cause and effects in life. These are great years for healing from the past and mastering your emotions. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate troubles with the law, unfairness, or taking a lack of accountability for your actions in the past

✧ Number 12 (Hanged man): During these years you're meant to finally let go of things that have been holding you back in life or anything negative such as your fears. You're meant to gain new perspectives in life and will learn to see things from different angles of life. If this energy manifests lower vibrationally then you could feel very trapped, act impulsively, or have a complete lack of direction in life. These years may feel as though they're slow moving or difficult, but just trust divine timing and embrace the challenges you're enduring by allowing them to help you grow

✧ Number 13 (Death): During these years there will be lots of endings that lead to new beginnings in your life and lots of spiritual transformation. You're meant to let go of the past. Relationships or friendships could come to an end. It's best to not attempt resisting the change this year will bring though as it can lead to even more difficulties. Many perceive these years as negative, but they can be very positive if you embrace the changes during them, although shocking in some ways. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally there could be traumatic events that occur or you could be repeating negative patterns and struggle to move forward

✧ Number 14 (Temperance): During these years you're meant to heal. Often balance and more peacefulness is created in one's life during these time periods. You must have lots of patience during this time. Harmony is likely to be created in your relationships. You could possibly meet a soulmate during this time period. This year could feel like a breath of fresh air compared to past years. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it could indicate acting reckless or too much self indulgence occurring

✧ Number 15 (Devil): During these years your self discipline will be challenged and the universe will test you in order for you to let go of toxic attachments and addictions. During this time period there can be a focus on materialism, overcoming addiction, reclaiming your power in life, independence, and freedom. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally you can get cheated on, struggle with depression, or feel hopeless in life

✧ Number 16 (Tower): During these years can potentially be chaotic and full of lots of ups and downs, but the energy will clear out what's no longer serving you in life. Major changes and shifts will be made. There can be lots of shock and unexpected changes that surprise you, but you will have lots of breakthroughs and revelations. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate divorce, resisting change, or losses in life

✧ Number 17 (Star): During these years you can strongly connect with your higher self and grow spiritually. These years will cause you to be very inspired and bring new hope to your life. You'll feel more creative during this time. You can heal a lot and will likely have a more positive year under this energy. If fame is something you're interested in, these are years where you can become very famous as the star is associated with being in the spotlight. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally you may focus on negativity too much, feel bored, have lack of faith that everything will fall into place, or lack creativity

✧ Number 18 (Moon): During these years you should trust your instincts and allow your dreams (the one's you have when you sleep) to guide you. This time period is great for emotional and psychological improvement. Truths can come to light and secrets can be unveiled. You're more likely to have psychic experiences during this time. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally you may feel emotionally unstable, live in fear, or have lots of insecurities

✧ Number 19 (Sun): During these years you will experience happiness and more joy in your life. These time periods are all about positivity and and good luck. There can be an emphasis on success, feeling free, having fun, or truth during these years. You will often find a creative outlet that allows you to express yourself during this time. These are great years for achieving success in your career or even for gaining fame. You could also get pregnant or have a child during this time. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally one could deal with ego issues, have unrealistic expectations, or experience a miscarriage

✧ Number 20 (Judgment): During these years you will experience lots of renewal and will be tested by the universe to self evaluate and forgive both yourself and others. You're meant to assess the path you're on in life and making life changing decisions. These years are powerful for spiritual breakthroughs. If this energy manifests lower vibrationally then one can be overly judgmental, unwilling to learn karmic lessons, receive false accusation or make them, and have lots of self doubt

✧ Number 21 (World): During these years there can be milestones in your life and lots of success/achievements. You may travel a lot. You will likely feel a stronger sense of wholeness and that you belong wherever you're at in life. These years are all about fulfillment and completion. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally one can experience disappointment, stagnation, or experience lack of achievement

✧ Number 22 (Fool): During these years you're meant to master your potential and will have lots of new beginnings in your life. There can be an emphasis on adventure, traveling, freedom, and innocence during this time. This year can bring divine opportunities your way, but may be filled with very unpredictable turns. When this energy manifests lower vibrationally it can indicate acting foolish, reckless, or having a lack of fun in general

Note: I was too lazy to circle them all but it’s every single tiny number around the outside as well as the big numbers under ages 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, and 70. Make sure not to confuse the matrix numbers with the age numbers, some of the ages will say “years old” under them if that helps

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♇ capricorn ascendant people usually have the essence of handsomeness, people see them to be someone who can be relaxed and chill. and they're usually people who are a pleasant to be around and can carry a conversation, and since they're saturnian ruled, there's this easy demand of respect they have when they enter the room. so people can easily see them to be leaders.

♇ they could identify themselves to be people who are hard-working and ambitious. they're usually people who work towards a goal, and even it may sound arrogant, they are people who likely identify themselves as successful, or as people who have been worked by life. like they owe a debt they're unaware of.

♇ thus, the impression they make on other people is being an individual who are wise, and sometimes others could deem them to be a know-it-all, but it's likely because they've been through a lot in life, they usually have the answer to things other people ask for. the impression they make on other people is a sense of inspiration, what they've achieved whether it be big or small influences other people to become better versions of themselves.

♇ their personality involves them being people who are laid-back, but sometimes they could have the negative trait of being someone who can be too negative or cynical. if they're not people who are confident within themselves, they could have the bad habit of second-guessing themselves and creating a stall in their own life. capricorn ascendant personality does involve them having authority over other people as well, feeling like its their responsibility to guide others.

♇ with capricorn's planetary ruler being saturn, this means they're people who usually have harsh trials and tribulations, and because of this, much capricorn ascendant people that i've done research on, or have come across, are actually very depressed people. though most people don't see it because they mainly see the side to them that is accomplished. being ruled by saturn means that they're people who usually have karma follow them like a shadow, either is be good karma or bad. most of the times they have to be more careful about how they treat other people in life, because saturn would usually punish them.

♇ i remember when someone said almost all capricorn ascendant naives look like handsome squidward, and they were not lying, like at all. and this isnt to poke fun of their appearance, its just that they just look very handsome! most of their faces are sharp, and chiselled and very features are finely placed on their face. most capricorn ascendant people grow into their features, and they're literally the epitome of fine wine. most of the women look very frail, like ariana grande, but overall, most of them have lean bodies, and usually come off as tall.

♇ when it comes to their personal ambition, like their sister sign, cancer. capricorn ascendant people want to make a foundation for themselves. a legacy themselves [and the people they love, only if they want] can fall back on. capricorn ascendant people strive to be the best people, normally because they feel like they're punished by life if they're not. people with this ascendant sign natives usually look for wealth, or a prize, like the bright light at the end of the tunnel, they believe that they shouldnt go through all these life troubles for no reason, as they should.

♇ their strengths and weaknesses involve them being someone who is business minded, being someone who is productive and practical. and due to this, people could either feel comforted in their presence or intimidated because they come off as people who have high expectations. on the other hand, they can be people who are pessimistic, mean and depressive, if they're unaware with how their behaviour impacts other people, they could have the habit of bringing the mood down.

♇ capricorn ascendant people project their personalities to usually display themselves as the bigger person. being entrepreneurs and being people who usually know what they're doing, and sometimes this causes them to come off as a know it all, but majority of the time their behaviour doesnt come from malicious intent, sometimes they like to use themselves as a guide map for other people. they can sometimes give advice when no one is asking for it.

♇ as it comes to how they view the world, much capricorn ascendant view the world as a burden, as a continuous life lesson. as saturn/capricorn are one of the main commodities in astrology that governs over karma, usually they feel like they cannot catch a break, and this does lead them into depressive cycles. the type of people to think life is playing a sick joke on them.

♇ with how they view themselves? linking to the previous paragraph, much capricorn ascendant natives feel like they're life's punching bag, and because they've been through so much, they're usually individuals who give up on being angry and just move on with life. for example, ariana grande's no tear left to cry song. capricorn in the ascendant remind me of druids, most of the ones i have met have a laid back energy and are usually prone to thinking that they're not good enough.

♇ lastly, with the impact on others, they're the type to not realise how they impact other people. they inspire others to chase the career they want, like a capricorn actress could inspire other people to want to chase the film scene, another example is kylie jenner, another capricorn ascendant and she had many people copy her aesthetic, the same could be said for ariana grande. but this could be because of their aquarius in the second house.

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Hi💗

I saw your post about how in composite charts the sun (and mars) shows how the more masculine in the relationship feels about the connection and his traits while the moon (and venus) shows how the more feminine in the relationship feels and her traits.

I thought this was interesting and I was wondering how you think the masculine feels and acts if there is a sun and mars in cancer in composite. We have a cancer sun, mars and mercury stellium (and north node in cancer).

Hi!

Love your message! Yes exactly, you can't even imagine, how true this is everytime I open a Composite chart. Like your man for example is Aries Sun in his own Natal chart right? But the Composite Sun is Pisces Sun? This means that you won't see your person behaving as an Aries AT ALL, to YOU they will come across more as a Pisces Sun.

And yes, the foremost and the most important is the Composite Sun, which represents him. But then for the second view of him, for the second impression that you also think of him, is you look at the Composite Mars.

I swear I stand by this, even if it doesn't make enough sense to people in astrology, but I see it right away when we are talking about Composite charts and friendships, partnerships. Because you can immediately see what your friend is talking about when she is for example describing her and this man's relationship. Because you don't see this through Natal charts, Synastry at all. So this comes in handy, when you don't understand what your friends sees in that one dude, because you have to be looking through the lense of Composite chart, so what the connection is for her and him.

Yes, now Moon is the first and foremost important sign to look for the feminine energy and how he sees you. Then the second is Venus yes.

Cancer placements in the Composite that I liked. Just a Cancer Stellium really needs a push from one or the other. Speaking from real life, I noticed, with too much Cancer energy in the Composite, things can be stagnant, shy and overall more so you are feeling all that but not doing much in reality. Because it's such introverted energy. Like Cancer Mercury is shy communication as fuck between the two, it's better that as soon as possible, one of you is the first one to start sending those messages, reaching out more and first.

However, Cancer I also like, because it gives comfort, familiarity, a sense of being at home with each other. It's great also for starting a family with Cancer North Node. However, this is not always literal, especially if you are both really young. It can just mean learning to open up emotionally, become more transparent with your feelings and vulnerable. You may just learn that people are your chosen family and you don't have to start an actually family with the person, but more so create a group of people (including your person) that feels like family or familiar.

Cancer, any Cancer in the Composite also gives me first love vibes, very hard to move on from I would presume. But you will soon grow to learn that you can be incredibly moody with each other and changable, which can present itself as a bit of a challenge.

I just don't like as much Cancer Mars. Hmm, this to me, it's a bit of a warning sign as to what could possibly happen. Maybe you just don't have a parenting style in sync when or if you decide to have children, you could not be on the same page when it comes to having children or you could have actually tension, conflicts around children.

How the man feels and acts as Sun and Mars in Cancer? Could be a bit immature, but also very compassionate, nurturing, caring, kind and considerate. They may be sensitive or easily hurt, possibly even younger, but not always. They may also take things too personally too quickly.

[starsandsuch]

Observations about how men from each Nakshatra act in dating & relationships 🏹 👩‍❤️‍👨 💌

Spilling the tea on men through the nakshatras , thank me later ladies 😌😉😏

Disclaimer : Mostly observations of public figures / personal experience/ what I’ve heard from friends. Feel free to add your experience!!

TW: some of these are really honest or 18+

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Ashwini men: very childish no matter how old they are. Can be possessive, kinda psycho with a violent streak.

Bharani men: don’t have much notes about them but from what I heard they are extremely possessive// many girls haves told me they’ve been stalked by bharani men. When their love is unrequited they will never let it go. Traditional and takes care of women. Masculine.

Krittika men: goofy and funny personality. Enjoys being babied by their partner.

Rohini men: know how to be the perfect storybook gentlemen. Prince Charming vibes. Very devotional to their partner. Seemingly innocent but are very s3xual individuals. Lowkey perverts. Can be stalkers.

Strives to satisfy their sexual craving within a relationship but will cheat on their partner to do so. Don’t put anything past them.

Mrigashira men: very intentional with who they chose to date. Specific criteria that only makes sense to them. The type to have a bunch of exes that all look identical to each other.

Seem like big heauxs but are loverboys on the low. They know how to please women on a fundamental level, theee most romantic and thoughtful gifts ever.

They like dating outside of their race, they tend to like girls who are flawless looking. If a Mrigashira man likes you, just know you’re probably a 10.

They can be misogynistic but are simultaneously obsessed with the opposite sex. They are really cute when they’re in love. They love playing mind games though.

Tend to be pretty boys, I notice they often have gay allegations on their reputations. They give bisexual vibes even if they’re straight.

Ardra men: similar to Mrigashira they are lover boys. They are used to dealing with rejection or unrequited love connections. They love hard but have trouble finding the right person for them , causing heartbreak in their love lives.

They are traditional in relationships. They act sad and emotional to get girls to like them. Their sad boy act is authentic sometimes but they are huge fboys too. Emotionally manipulative. Loves doing romantic gestures for their lovers. Very thoughtful gift giver.

Punarvasu men: they are like the ideal husband archetype . Caring, traditional, effectionate, generous. They are naturally feminine and understands what a women needs. However, they are very passive tho and end up being cucks in their relationships.

They attract more assertive women that energetically over power them. Classic Jupiter dominant man trope. Gets played a lot. Often friend zoned a lot too. Has weird fantasies.

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Pushya men: traditional and like taking care of a woman. They love pretty b!tches so if a Pushya guy likes you , you’re top tier. They are heauxs tho.

Ashlesha men: have serious mommy issues that get in the way of their romantic relationships. They are innately feminine and struggle expressing their masculinity in a healthy way. Very draining individuals. Tend to be romantic and generous, they are promiscuous tho.

Magha men: enjoys princess treatment from women, they like to be pursued by women. They are withholding with their energy and resources and usually women who date them leave the relationship with less then they started with. Misogynistic tendencies.

Purva Phalguni men: they tend to have all the qualities that women desire from men in relationships. Romantic , protective, generous , they are good at s3x. They are very devoted and romantic in a monogamous relationship. However they often have scandals in their love life that spoil their relationships and reputation.

They are very sexual and will go to great lengths to satisfy their sexual desires. These men have HIGH body counts. Usually involved in taboo relationships.

Uttara phalguni men: seem innocent and orderly but are s3x freaks. They are womanizers and pretend to treat women well to keep a good reputation but can have a negative side to them in private. Pervert-Chad vibes.

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Hasta men: cheap and feminine. They lie a lot. Haven’t heard great things about them.

Chitra men: feminine and tend to be himbos. I don’t think I ever met a straight chitra man? If they are straight they like being chased by women. Pretty boys.

Swati men: “Prince Charming takes you on a whirlwind romance” they like impressing women and like to be traditional. They have hot and cold vibes tho most women find impossible to deal with. They are eccentric and flighty. Emotionally unstable.

Vishaka men: will fight for the woman they really like. “Warrior/solider who defends the honor of the princess he’s in love with”. They are thots tho. Have a lot of drama in their love lives.

Anuradha men: falls in love hard. Devotional and romantic, will do grand romantic gestures for their partners. But tend to have addictive personalities and violent tendencies. Can have s3x addiction. Will stalk their love interests. Some have really creepy vibes and weird fantasies. Emotionally turbulent.

Jyeshta men: treat relationships like a game, they like collecting trophies and prizes, so they will date many women at once. They are generous and manly and good at manipulating women. Seemingly enjoy the attention of relationships more than the actual relationship. They like to chase. Lie a lot.

Mula men: traditional and kinda boring. Epitome of “she’s Barbie and he’s just Ken”. They are goal oriented, ambitious and logical. They tend to prioritize their career and desire a “trophy wife” to compliment them. Have stoic personalities and are straightforward and blunt.

Purva Ashdha men: traditional gentleman archetype. Very romantic in relationships. Kinda tend be players though. Pretty boys.

Uttara ashdha men: traditional and fatherly. Usually dates Sun nakshatra/ Leo women or women who have solar qualities like them. They like dating the “female version of themselves”. Doesn’t really understand the complexities of women. Typical “he’s just Ken” vibes.

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Shravana men: not really assertive in relationships. Likes hanging with the bros more than devoting self to a relationship. Not the most committed, but can be, but only if it’s connected to their social status. Usually marries their high school sweetheart. Not much notes for them.

Dhanishta men: complex relationships with women. A “bachelor” Nakshatra. Some of them hate women or only have a partner bc it’s socially acceptable. Likes the social status that comes with being with a beautiful woman. Doesn’t have successful relationships till later in life. Best suited towards “friends to lovers” relationships. Some are kinda innocent and virginal. Haven’t heard great d reports about them.

Shatabhisha men: surprisingly act very fatherly in relationships, enjoys taking care of the partner. Not the most emotional in relationships but tend to handle responsibilities well. Likes hanging w the bros prob more than their girlfriend. This nak in general is like the “ghost nakshatra” they will ghost pretty much anyone , and are hard to connect with. Sneaky & secretive. Tall & handsome.

Purvabhadrapada men: acts like a gentleman. huge heauxs. Although when they find “the one” they’ll move heaven and earth for her. Gomez and Morticia Addams vibes. Nonchalant about most relationships but women tend to go crazy for them. Usually has the hots for one women but will entertain many he doesn’t really care about. Makes great fathers.

Uttabhadrapada men: odd personalities in general. Can have trouble connecting with the opposite sex. Don’t have much notes about them. Kinda boring.

Revati men: are generous, assertive masculine. If they want you they’ll show it. Tend to like having a mommy figure as a partner. They are heauxs tho and always have a big roster. Very s3xual individuals. Major players. Immature.

[balsamicdarkmoon]

Future Spouse guide through Darakaraka Part 1

Yep I am starting a new series on Darakaraka. The Darakaraka reveals the "soul nature" of your partner. It signifies the specific qualities you are karmically destined to experience through a spouse. Despite everything else this is the one of the most simplest and the most prominent thing you can know about your partner This post might seem simple but trust me with this series I am not even getting started yet! (Note: can be applied to 7th lord as well as for synastry)

D1 Chart shows our physical reality & public face

In the D1 chart, the Darakaraka (DK) represents the manifested reality of your spouse. This is not just how they think or feel (which is D9), this is who they are in the 3D world, their body, their job, their social standing, and how they physically enter your life.

The "Lowest Degree" Before looking at the house, remember why a planet becomes the Darakaraka, it has the lowest degree in your chart. Because this planet has the least "longitude" (experience) in your current chart, your spouse often comes into your life with a "freshness" or innocence regarding that planet's traits. The spouse is often more flexible than you. You (represented by the Atmakaraka/highest degree) are set in your ways, the spouse (Darakaraka/lowest degree) is willing to learn, adapt, and mold themselves to fit your life. You often have to "carry" or "lead" the spouse in the areas signified by the DK planet, because you have "more degrees" (more experience) than they do.

1. Darakaraka through Planets

Sun (Surya) DK

When the Sun is the Darakaraka, the relationship operates on "The Rock" dynamic, where your partner serves as the stable center of the union and rarely wavers in their decisions. Professionally, they are often found in government, executive management, politics, or running their own business, as they possess a natural dislike for working under others. However, the challenge lies in their fragile ego; if you criticize them publicly or disrespect them, they tend to shut down because they have a deep-seated need to feel like the "King" or "Queen" of the household. Physically, this partner often possesses a strong bone structure, a broad forehead, or a distinct, commanding presence that demands respect.

Moon (Chandra) DK

With the Moon as the Darakaraka, the relationship is defined by "The Flow" dynamic, meaning it fluctuates significantly. Your partner changes like the phases of the moon sometimes extremely available and loving, while other times withdrawn and moody. They typically thrive in caring professions such as nursing, HR, teaching, culinary arts, or anything involving public interaction and hospitality. The main challenge is their high sensitivity to the environment, if your home is chaotic, they become anxious, as they prioritize emotional security far more than financial security. In terms of physicality, they often have a soft, round face, expressive eyes, and a gentle, approachable demeanor.

Mars (Mangal) DK

A Mars Darakaraka creates a "Team" dynamic. This is a true "power couple" placement, but it requires shared activity; you bond best when doing things together, such as working out, building a business, or hiking. Their profession is often in engineering, police or military service, surgery, sports, or technical fields where they can act as problem-solvers. The difficulty here is that they have a short fuse; while they don't hold grudges, they explode quickly, and the relationship can feel like a battlefield if you don't give them a "mission" to focus on. Physically, they tend to have an athletic build, a reddish complexion, intense eyes, and possibly scars or marks on their face or body.

Mercury (Budha) DK

This placement signifies "The Best Friend" dynamic, where romance essentially dies without conversation. The partner is usually adaptable, witty, and doesn't take life too seriously. They are likely to work in media, writing, sales, data analysis, IT, or accounting, as they are naturally good with details. The challenge arises from their tendency to be indecisive or overly analytical, they might intellectualize feelings rather than actually feeling them, for example, saying "I think I feel sad" rather than crying. Physically, they often look younger than their age (the "baby face" effect), possess a fit or slender build, and move quickly.

Jupiter (Guru) DK

Jupiter creates "The Growth" dynamic, where the partner acts as a moral anchor who likely introduces you to new philosophies, cultures, or belief systems. They are often found in professions like teaching (professors), law, banking, spiritual mentorship, or consultancy. The challenge with this partner is that they can be dogmatic or "preachy," sometimes thinking they always know what is best for you, and they may struggle with practical details, such as forgetting to pay a bill while pondering the meaning of life. Physically, they often have a larger or "healthy" frame, a broad smile, and a comforting physical presence.

Venus (Shukra) DK

When Venus is the Darakaraka, the relationship follows "The Pleasure" dynamic. This partner prioritizes comfort above all else and will not tolerate a harsh or ugly environment, teaching you the art of enjoying life. They are typically employed in the arts, fashion, finance (specifically wealth management), entertainment, or luxury goods sectors. However, they can be high-maintenance or superficial, and they may avoid difficult conversations to keep the "peace," which often leads to passive-aggressiveness. Physically, they are generally attractive, well-dressed, and charismatic, with a distinct focus on grooming and style.

Saturn (Shani) DK

Saturn indicates "The Legacy" dynamic, this is not a placement for a "summer fling." The partner is serious, grounded, and loyal, and they may come into your life later or be significantly older or more mature than you. Their profession is often in construction, real estate, mining, labor-intensive jobs, or high-level bureaucracy. The challenge is that the relationship can feel dry or heavy at times, as they are not naturally expressive or romantic, you have to learn that their acts of "service" like fixing your car or paying the mortgage, are their true love language. Physically, they tend to have a thin or bony frame, prominent veins, a serious facial expression, and may look older than their actual age.

2. The Nodal Influence (Rahu & Ketu)

If the Nodes are conjunct your Darakaraka planet (within roughly 5-7 degrees), they modify the partner significantly.

Darakaraka + Rahu (The Amplifier)

Your spouse may be from a completely different caste, culture, religion, or country. The relationship often starts with intense, obsessive attraction. Rahu blows up the qualities of the planet (e.g., Venus + Rahu = Extreme luxury or highly unconventional romance). The partner is a rule-breaker. They do not fit societal norms.

Darakaraka + Ketu (The Dissolver)

The partner feels familiar, like a past-life connection. The partner may be introverted, spiritual, or "hard to pin down." They might be physically present but mentally elsewhere. Ketu indicates high proficiency in abstract languages (coding, astrology, mathematics) but a lack of social desire.

3. Aspects to the Darakaraka

Conjunct (0°)Fusion

The qualities of Planet A are permanently fused with your partner.

(e.g., Jupiter conjunct DK Venus: Partner is wealthy AND wise/traditional.) Opposition (180°)Mirror

You and your partner are polar opposites regarding Planet A.

(e.g., Saturn opposite DK: You may feel the partner is restricting you, or they balance your chaos with order.) Trine (120°)Flow

Planet A supports the partner easily.

(e.g., Mars trine DK: The partner has natural energy/drive and supports your ambitions without friction.) Square (90°)Friction

Planet A creates a "blockage" or stress that the partner forces you to address.

(e.g., Moon square DK: Emotional needs conflict with the partner's nature. This forces you to "work" on emotional regulation.) Sextile (60°)Spark

Planet A offers an opportunity or excitement to the relationship.

(e.g., Mercury sextile DK: Communication flows well, and the partner stimulates your intellect.)

4. Darakaraka through houses/signs in D1

See which house DK sits in your Rashi chart.

A. The Dharma Triangle (Houses 1, 5, 9) – The "Inspirational" Spouse

DK in 1st House/Aries:

This placement signifies a dynamic of total identification where the spouse effectively becomes your life, often resulting in couples looking or dressing alike after marriage due to the partner being physically present 24/7. This intense connection is common in "Love at First Sight" scenarios where the physical attraction is instant and overwhelming, though it carries a significant risk of codependency; you may find yourself losing your own identity because the spouse's influence is so immediate and heavy on your personality (Lagna). The general vibe is that the partner is deeply connected to who you are, potentially constantly "hovering" around you or being very involved in your personal affairs. You might meet them while working on yourself, such as at a gym or self-improvement class, or they may simply "walk into" your life directly. The long-term impact is a distinct influence on your personality and physical appearance, where you often become more like them over time, but it is important to note that if the Darakaraka (DK) is afflicted in this position, the partner might try to dominate your life or identity.

DK in 5th House/Leo:

In the 5th House, the partner is characterized as "The Romantic" Spouse or "The Muse," creating a highly creative, romantic, and potentially dramatic connection that serves as the classic "Love Marriage" placement. You are likely to meet them at a party, a creative event, in an educational setting, or through sports and entertainment circles. Their impact is profound as they bring luck stemming from Purva Punya (past life credit), and the relationship focuses heavily on children, fun, and speculation. Because the spouse is viewed as a primary source of joy, creativity, and romance, this is rarely an arranged marriage; it is almost always born of passion or courtship, causing the relationship to feel like a perpetual date. The spouse is deeply connected to your intelligence and your children (whether future or present), but the stability of the union relies on excitement; if the "fun" stops, the marriage shakes, because this spouse expects to be entertained and courted forever.

DK in 9th House/Sagittarius:

The "Guide" Spouse. In the 9th House, the partner acts as a "Guru," mentor, or lucky charm, fostering a relationship based on shared philosophy and travel. You likely meet them at a university, a place of worship, during long-distance travel, or because they are from a different culture or background that you find fascinating. They bring "Bhagya" (Luck), and often the native’s rise in fortune happens specifically after the wedding ceremony. After marriage, your worldview expands, and you likely engage in higher spiritual learning or travel the world. The spouse may be a teacher, professor, or spiritual guide whom you look up to. However, the risk is that you might put them on a pedestal, if they make a human mistake, your "faith" in the relationship can shatter.

B. The Artha Triangle (Houses 2, 6, 10) – The "Practical" Spouse

DK in 2nd House/Taurus:

In the 2nd House, the partner is characterized as the "Asset" Spouse or the "Banker," creating a relationship vibe grounded in family values, wealth accumulation, and security. The spouse is often viewed as a resource or a "gem" of the family, becoming intertwined with your family lineage and liquid assets. You might meet them through family gatherings, in banking or financial settings, or perhaps at a restaurant given the strong connection to food. The marriage essentially functions as a financial merger, where your bank balance usually changes, often growing, after the union. This partner typically has a very distinct speaking voice or singing ability and cares deeply about food, family lineage, and verbal communication, often being the one to organize family gatherings and manage the food or kitchen. However, because money is central here, arguments over "who paid for what" can dominate the relationship, potentially including the withholding of money if there is financial dependence on either side. Also, it is the house of possessions so they are going to be extremely possessive of you. You are their prized possession.

DK in 6th House/Virgo:

In the 6th House, the partner is characterized as the "Healer/Helper" Spouse or "The Fixer," creating a vibe that can be tricky as it often manifests as a spouse in a service profession (such as a doctor, lawyer, or social worker) or a relationship that inherently requires "work" and conflict resolution. You often meet them in a setting of crisis, work (as colleagues), service, or health improvement, such as at a gym, a hospital, or even during a conflict or legal dispute. The impact of this partner is that they may help you organize your daily life or improve your health, with their primary love language being "Acts of Service" showing love by fixing your problems, fighting your battles, or organizing your chaotic routine. However, arguments or bickering can also become a form of "love language" here, and the significant risk is that the relationship can turn into a battleground, if the planet is malefic (like Mars), the spouse might be litigious or argumentative.

DK in 10th House/Capricorn:

The "Power" Spouse. Here, the partner is "The Executive" career-oriented, famous, or holding high status, making the marriage a "public" union that is seen and judged by society. You typically meet them through your career, at a work conference, or because they are a boss or authority figure. The impact is that your social status rises after marriage, and you might even be known as "So-and-so's husband/wife." The partner is very busy with their own ambitions, so the home life might be managed more like a business contract or project. While they support your career, they expect you to maintain a certain public image. The negative traits here are that they may neglect the home or treat the marriage like a business deal.

C. The Kama Triangle (Houses 3, 7, 11) – The "Social" Spouse

DK in 3rd House/Gemini:

In the 3rd House, the partner is defined as the "Teammate" Spouse, creating a youthful and active relationship vibe based on friendship, communication, and shared hobbies. This is a relationship of equals who play together, making it excellent for shared hobbies, travel, and media projects. You might meet this partner through siblings, neighbors, during short trips, via online dating apps (emphasizing communication), or in shared hobbies and skills classes. The spouse is likely very skilled with their hands, excelling in areas like crafts, writing, or coding, and they generally get along famously with your siblings. Their impact on your life is significant as they encourage your courage and initiative, and you will likely travel frequently together over short distances. However, there is a distinct risk of boredom; this partner needs constant mental stimulation, and if communication dries up, the marriage essentially dies.

DK in 7th House/Libra:

The "True" Partner. In this placement, the Darakaraka is in its own natural home (providing Digbala for some planets), creating a vibe where the spouse is strong, present, and the relationship functions as the central pillar of your life. The spouse is purely "A Partner" or "The Mirror," meaning they are relationship-oriented by nature and focus entirely on you. You usually meet them through a direct arrangement, a business partnership, or a very clear "courting" phase. The impact is that you feel "complete" with them, and they are your equal in every way. However, because their focus is so strong, their mood dictates the mood of the house, if the relationship rocks, your whole life rocks. They can be demanding because they give 100% to the partnership, expecting 100% back, and they can be highly sensitive to any perceived imbalances.

DK in 11th House/Aquarius:

The "Social" Spouse. This placement signifies "The Networker," where the partner is your best friend who connects you to the world and larger networks. The relationship feels very light, social, and gain-oriented. You usually meet through large social circles, networking events, or older siblings. The marriage fulfills your major desires and ambitions, as the spouse is often financially successful or helps you achieve your dreams through their network, bringing financial gains (regular income) into the household. They are social butterflies who connect you to the world, but they may have a very active social life outside the marriage, which can trigger jealousy if you are possessive.

D. The Moksha Triangle (Houses 4, 8, 12) – The "Private" Spouse

DK in 4th House/Cancer:

In the 4th House, the partner is characterized as the "Domestic" Spouse or "The Nester," creating a vibe where the partner acts as the anchor of the home and private life takes clear precedence over public life. You might meet them through your mother, real estate dealings, or perhaps as a childhood connection, such as a schoolmate. Their impact is profound, heavily influencing your peace of mind and property ownership, often leading to a situation where you live in a house that the spouse specifically chooses or designs. As "The Nester," the spouse is obsessed with the home environment, vehicles, and comfort, serving as your emotional anchor. They may be very close to your mother or take on a mothering role towards you, but this dynamic carries the risk of emotional suffocation; they may not want you to go out or socialize, preferring instead to stay inside the "castle" they built.

DK in 8th House/Scorpio:

The "Transformational" Spouse.This placement creates "The Occultist" dynamic, where the relationship is intense, private, sexual, and perhaps secretive, going "deep" very quickly rather than remaining superficial. You are likely to meet this partner during a crisis, through occult or research interests, or in secret and private settings. The marriage brings a total transformation of your life direction and often brings "unearned wealth" (such as inheritance, insurance, or lottery wins), but it requires you to share everything, emotionally and financially. The spouse may have a secret side or a job involving research or secrets. Consequently, this placement brings volatility; the relationship goes through "death and rebirth" cycles where the highs are very high and the lows are very low.

DK in 12th House/Pisces:

The "Foreign/Spiritual" Spouse In the 12th House, the partner is "The Foreigner" or "The Dreamer," appearing either as very spiritual and introverted or coming from a foreign land (very far away). You might meet them in a foreign country, a spiritual retreat, a hospital, or online (unseen places). The impact is that they teach you to let go; the relationship may require sacrifice or long periods of separation, such as a long-distance marriage or a partner who travels for work. Alternatively, this creates a very intense private or bedroom life that the world never sees. The spouse may love sleep, meditation, or isolation, and at times you might feel like you don't really "know" them because they can be elusive or escapist, potentially using substances or spirituality to check out.

4. Retrograde Darakaraka in D1

If your DK is Retrograde (Vakra) in D1:

It means "Revisiting." You have known this soul before. The relationship often starts, stops, and starts again. The spouse behaves unpredictably. If DK is Mars Retrograde, they might be surprisingly calm until they aren't. If Venus Retrograde, they might have unconventional views on love. The relationship will not follow a straight line. It will have a "U-turn" quality where you think it's over, but it returns.

Thank you!

[rowandnotrosa]

my relationships in a post:

[astroismypassion]

Hello 👋 How is the physical aspect of each rising sign?

Hello! *waving enthusiastically back* 👋🏻

Here’s a very straight-forward comprehensive guide to Rising/Ascendant signs!

It’s purely based on my experience and what I noted. It also may vary.

ARIES RISING

❤️ straight brows

❤️ feline eyes much like Leo, but more strong, robust and combative

❤️ probably there is a more dark feature, like darker skin complex, hair colour, brows

❤️ very prominent and strong brows

❤️ forehead may stand out or be prominent

❤️ nice jawline fam 💖

TAURUS RISING

💖 button nose

💖 elegant features, classic beauties

💖 oval face

💖 there might be roundness in their facial features

💖 heart shaped lips like Libra Risings

GEMINI RISING

💛 it’s the round forehead, similar to Virgo Risings

💛 there are two smaller feature on their face, either very small ears, small nose etc.

💛 deep in thought look

💛 might have squinty eyes, but look at the sparkle in them🌟

CANCER RISING

🌚 very round chin

🌚 in fact the whole lower side of their face is more rounded, the chin is not prominent

🌚 can have big, round eyes that look welcoming

🌚 might look stresed out because they are emotionally drained (or drank too much caffeine)

🌚 can have lighter skin like Libra Risings

LEO RISING

💛 feline eyes

💛 very seductive, alluring eye contact with them, I call them eyes charmers

💛 did I alread mention they ooze charm??

💛 charming, charismatic mothercrackers

VIRGO RISING

🤍 it’s either the forehead or analytical nose (very straight nose)

🤍 very clean pale skin

🤍 can have freckles

🤍 look like they smell good 🌸

🤍 great taste in deodorant, perfume, cologne or body lotion

LIBRA RISING

💗 the typically conventionally considered attractive people

💗 symmetric facial features

💗 might have lighter, more pale skin

💗 heart shaped lips

💗 small pouty lips, big sparkling eyes

💗 prominent cheeks, full round cheeks

SCORPIO RISING

💗 it’s the nose (hawk like)

💗 dark underbags

💗 a lot of beauty marks on face, it’s like a constellation of them

💗 similar and can be easily mistaken for Aries Risings, because of darker hair and strong brows. But they are far more calculating and deliberate in movements, action and speech

💗 prominent forehead bone

💗 might look sad, angry, annoyed or worried

SAGITTARIUS RISING

🧡 bright, child-like aura and care free attitude

🧡 either would laugh the loudest out of the friend group or very serious, there’s no inbetween

🧡 the one to constantly make laughing noises to fill in the silence or to laugh just to break the awkward silence

🧡 The ones to keep telling you they were just joking

🧡 Have you heard their latest new opinions??

🧡 bouncing in between two moods: 1. very grateful for everything in their life 2. or constantly complaing about the harsh cold facts about “the reality” of life.

CAPRICORN RISING

❤️ Similar to Scorpio Risings in attitude

❤️ doesn’t talk about themselves much, hard to open up

❤️ when they do open up, it’s probably about their accomplishments or what they are currently working on

❤️ probably gets blamed for shit they didn’t do or aren’t responsible for

❤️ social status climbers

❤️ amazing bone structure

❤️ usually bone-y small noses

AQUARIUS RISING

💚 the eyes are soo wide apart

💚 there’s at least one feature on their face that is out of proportion with the rest of them

💚 their style is like no other💖

💚 naturally looks spaced out or deep in thought (sometimes both at the same time)

💚 you feel like they are not physically present when you are talking to them and they probaby look like they are somewhere else too

PISCES RISING

💙 soft features

💙watery, dreamy eyes (might be blue or greyish or even green)

💙 well you can’t really decode which colour are their eyes, it’s a mystery✨

💙 can be similar to Cancer Rising in features

💙 big fucking lips, they usually have some very kissable lips

Any planet in the first house or aspecting Rising sign can alter the physical appearance and impression of the typical Rising sign.

P.S.: Sorry if I’m being too straight-forward in my written word. It’s rather late when I’m writing this and I’m getting a bit sleepy.

[lilmajorshawty]

I hope this isn’t to vulgar to ask but have you experienced men of every rising sign? More so would you be able to speak on the genitalia of all the eighth house signs in men you’ve encountered? I would like to see if there is any merit in the general depictions of the eighth house when it comes to sex organs

Haha you’re fine my love! I don’t mind being of help!

I personally attract virgo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Scorpio rising men the most. I have had sexual encounters with men of all 12 zodiac signs and I’ve managed to get rising signs for a great deal of them! Sadly I can’t speak broadly on many of the rising signs considering the higher volume of the four I just mentioned being the majority of the ones that come my way.

Aries rising men: in my experience? Sweet, they are very much what you see is what you get types considering their entire chart is a reflection of the natural traits of all 12 zodiac signs in their comfortable houses. Sexually I would say their sexual organs look dark, like literally they have a darker tone then the rest of their body. They aren’t rough sexually but they can be very intense, if I could describe them? I’d say it felt like I was swimming in a pool at night with strobe lights at the bottom. They know how to have sex and it feels good, they are very much so emotionally available during and after. Very violent orgasams and can seem very spiritual during.

Taurus rising men: in my experience? Babies. They can be needy and distant at the same time, very weird mix. They want things at a very specific time and can be hard to compromise with especially sexually. the thing that stood out to me is how fast they ejaculate, and I don’t mean this in a bad way, they are just very easily aroused much like a literal bull. They tend to love foreplay but if you’re too good at it they’ll cum fast. They can be very vibrant and bubbly during sex lots of laughter, but if they’re not laughing they’re usually just super into it lmao. They have very big and long sexual organs. I wouldn’t say thick, I would say more like a long sword in typical sag style. They are very out of tune emotionally during sex so that’s the only downside.

Gemini rising men: in my experience? Sad boys. They got issues and they’re not good at hiding them. They can seem moody, aloof and slightly misunderstood. I can’t peg them sometimes, they seem like they have a mixture of mommy and daddy issues but then they can seem arrogant and self assured at a moments notice. Domination kinks and restriction plague them. I would say the sex is often sensual and deeply attentive in its nature. They want to feel all of it and none of it at the same time. Touch and physical intimacy is the thing they adore the most in sex and I think that’s what makes them so special. They’re really sweet and good natured and you get to see that part of them more freely during sex as contrary to the belief of Capricorn in the 8th these natives are tremendously affectionate and loving during sex. I will say that they get sad or more serious after climax and I have no idea wether Saturn does that or if it’s something deeper. They may be a bit on the smaller side when it comes to sexual organs in most cases but they know how to use it for sure. They are very horny like the goat

Cancer rising men: in my experience? I’ve dealt with some who have cap and others who have aqua in the 8th, for some reason the result is still similar in a way. They can be soooo receptive, they know what you need better than you do. They are present but not overbearing. They feel parental but in a way that feeds the parts of you that felt like they were missing something. I’d say sex always comes with a lesson with them. It’s never just casual sex. They tend to nurture during sex and can be very emotionally deep and connective during. They are definitely the type you spend the night with naturally or hang out with the next few days or unexpectedly end up dating. The sexual organs are usually pretty unique! Some curve, some have like those cute beauty marks on em. They also tend to be well hung.

Leo rising men: in my experience? I found them to be distant, perplexing and heavy. They seem a bit disengaged but can have moments of affectionate behavior and romantic burst that come from nowhere. Sexually though they can be passive, they feel real wet and liquidy I dunno how to describe it. Sex with them just feels very moist and like there’s a lot of fluids everywhere but idk it doesn’t feel like a bad thing. They precum a lot and can be very submissive. They are not horny per say? They are more on the “if you wanna” side of things. So Neptune and Jupiter rule Pisces so as you can already imagine these men tend to be packing some heat. They sorta dunno how to use it though? For some reason they have a very clumsy way of having sex as if they’ve never done it before? They don’t really have boundaries either so you’ll need to make sure to ask them if they’re okay cause a lot of the time they might not be.

Virgo rising men: in my experience? I’m gonna try and not be biased. These men are very ethereal. They are very quiet and genuine. They have this very honest and blunt way about doing and saying things. They carry a lot of pain though and you can see it in their eyes which I will say they have very intense eyes. Sexually? They are VERY passionate. They treat sex like a sport but not a fun sport, rather they treat it like a life or death ring match. They definitely pack a punch and will rock your shit. They can be deeply sensitive and intimate all the while being completely in tune with every part of you during sex in such a way that’ll make you feel like you’re freefalling. The genitals in my experience are veiny, very masculine in the way they look. Every time I see a guy with a Virgo rising it never ceases to amaze me how rough and aggressive their penis are. They are also very intense ejaculators and can be very big on equal ejaculation(my pleasure is your pleasure theme) contrary to the Aries myth, they can go and go and go for hours without cumming so as a warning please try and build your stamina

Libra rising men: in my experience? Confused? They can seem like they’re waiting for something to start but also won’t do anything to make something start. They can seem aggressive but are secretly hoping you make the first move. They are very touchy and very adorable in their being but they definitely can be the types to let the other person take the lead. One thing I’ve always liked about libra rising men is their cute butts and their charming way of seducing you without oversexualizing the situation. Sexually they are AMAZING Jesus. Once you get them going they will really run rampant. They are very sensual and they love slow touching and intimacy. They are emotionally present and can have a personality change during sex, they turn into a whole other Individual. A warning I will say is that they get very caught up in the moment and you’ll have to snap them out of it from time to time if they’re to caught up in the pleasure. They’re sexual organs like most fixed signs is pretty thick and heavy. In my experience the length is normal but the girth is what will really kill yah.

Scorpio rising men: in my experience? Fuck these guys are HOT. They don’t have to try very hard either which is annoying, they literally just exude this strong, mysterious and emotionally unavailable energy that makes you want to strip right in front of them. Are they into you? Do they care? Are you more into it then them? Who knows and they probably won’t tell you. They can be very manipulative and tend to gaslight(and I’m not joking about this nor am I jokingly using the term) they tend to have mental detachments from their emotions which can give them sociopath like tendecies. Sexually they are curious, very control oriented. They want to watch you go crazy so most times they leave you in charge. Riding is one of their favorite positions because they get to see you fein for them. They are senstive to your feelings during sex but don’t mistake this for them being emotionally invested in you, the Gemini in their 8th house is playing whatever role gets you to respond in the way they desire. They are very loving nonetheless when they do truly care for you. The sexual organs are usually very thick. I think they’re the ones who invented the word chode. The penis tends to be girthy and also has a pretty good length to it, and they definitely know how to work it.

Sagittarius rising men: in my experience? These guys are some fucking heartthrobs! I hate to say it but man they are so rugged and masculine you can’t help but love their boyish nature. They are definitely obnoxious, loud and ridiculously dense when it comes to reading the room. What makes them so hot though is how reckless they are with all things. They don’t give a shit. Sexually though? Emotions run HIGH they tend to be very drawn to feminine energy. A lot of guys like this adore feminity in all forms be it in men or women. If you have that feminine glow to you, they’ll eat you up. They tend to have a strong desire to impregnate and the idea of being connected and having that sort of emotional receptivity with the person their fucking drives them wild. They are very intense sexually and can be very overwhelming the first few times mainly because adjusting to them is impossible, you never know what emotional spectrum you’ll get. Their sexual organs aren’t that big, sometimes they can be girthy but most times long and or average size tends to be what I see more. Are they good at using it? Yeah, you’ll fall asleep right after trust me.

Capricorn rising men: in my experience? They are very unassuming. They are so fucking calm, so fucking unmoved and so fucking ahead of you every time. They don’t rush things and can really make you feel so comfortable with how respectful and real they are. They have a very boy next door or upstairs neighbor vibe to them. Sleeping with them feels naughty sometimes other times it feels like it was a long build up. Sexually they are exhibitionist. They definitely will fill the hell out of you with their more modest persona at first. They want to enjoy all parts of your body but they also want the show to be about them. They want to hear you want them, how good they make you feel, they want it to feel like a performance where the crowd is watching. And dare I say they are constantly mastering their art, sex gets better and better and better with them. There’s never a dull moment and every time they have sex with you it gets more personal, more intense, more all consuming. They have a high libido and they are practically insatiable. They are selfish but I will say this, if you can’t get them off they definitely will do it themselves. Their sexual organs are often brighter than the other parts of their body. Very pretty too look at and also a bit on the hairy side.

Aquarius rising men: In my experience? They can seem really standoffish and for a good reason. They tend not to like ignorance and the more they see you trying hard to relate to them the less they’ll acknowledge you. They like the idea of someone who is down for them but not the idea of someone who is groveling, don’t and I mean don’t by any means act like a fan. They tend to run hot and cold for ever even if they like you. Sexually they can be meticulously planning the whole thing. The meet up, the positions, the foreplay all of it. They tend to need warnining or to know both parties had time to clean up. They’re not ones for sex on the fly or random sex as it can lead to a lot of unnecessary accidents. They’re attentive and very much the types to make you feel like you’re clay and you’re being sculpted into something magnificent. Their amazing at sex, they are like gallileo, or Mozart when it comes to the act. They move around your body like a serpent, then a leaf in the wind, than rain touching your skin. They are more focused on your pleasure than theirs so orgasms/reaching climax can be tough for them. The sexual organs are pretty small or average in most cases. If mars/Jupiter or Neptune/Uranus is there that augments things.

Pisces rising men: In my experience? They are definitely ass men. Everything revolves around booty. They are definitely soft and very sweet, but they have a sweetness to them that is fake. The real them is far more serious and self aware then they give off. They know what they’re doing and they know what you’re doing, so don’t ever be fooled by the veil they put up. They’re incredible receptive and sensitive and a lot of their internal feelings come out at some point just not at the moment it needs to. Sexually they can very hotel sex types. Like I don’t know how to really explain it and it’s so opposite of what you would expect of libra but they are very impersonal people. Like sex can feel very romantic and as if they are treating you like a significant other but something about it is detached, far away and unavailable. They are good at creating the engagement aspect of sex but can fall short at the emotional part which is semi-strange considering what you’ll get up to that point. They are very experienced but at the same time they may need to be taught to connect a little deeper or to open up more. They have very soft and gentle sexual styles that will still make you feel cared for but sometimes in the back of it all you’ll still feel that “I’m fucking a stranger” vibe. Their sexual organs tend to be very beautiful, nice length and nice width. They’ll definitely be a lot better at the sex part once you guys are committed though.

So obviously this is a general word of mouth and does not take into account planets being in the 8th house nor does it mention decans which can greatly alter much of what I’ve said. And honestly you can apply the decan rule here if you’d like! Simply use the decan lord so if they’re a third decan Virgo rising and have Aries in the third decan in their 8th house which is Aries/Sagittarius: you would mix those interpretations. Anyways hope this helps love.

[cancerjupiter]

cancer moon: observations

ps: this all varies according to your other placements, etc etc.

Your feelings are very sensitive, which means that you link in very quickly to other people’s feelings to the point where you can feel whether they are unhappy or in pain. You can sense a strange atmosphere as soon as you walk into a room.

The negative side of this coin is over-sensitivity. Like the other feminine water signs of Pisces and Scorpio, you can take things too personally, brood, sulk and shut yourself off from others. 

Women with the Moon in any of the water signs will be very susceptible to period problems and hormone-related mood swings. The very worst aspect of this placement is that you may indulge in emotional manipulation by shutting off from others and sending out disapproving vibes.

You can also be over-critical and fault-finding on occasions. This kind of behaviour is rare because you are much too kind and thoughtful a person, far too receptive to the needs of others to be this unpleasant for long. 

You may complain about the situation you find yourself in, but you will make the best of it and will often find a way of changing and manipulating the circumstances to suit yourself. Remember Cancer is a cardinal sign and the Moon represents one’s instincts. Your instinctive reaction is to put things right and create a better atmosphere.

You are considerate towards others, especially your family, whom it would be almost impossible for you to leave - you would only do so under extreme circumstances. I think that you would try several times to put things right before giving up on them. You have patience with children and young people, and are probably very fond of animals.

You are not entirely selfless; it is only when you are settled and satisfied that you can relax and give sustenance to others. Your greatest requirements are for emotional security, likely through a partner you can rely upon, and harmony in the home.

You like children and enjoy having them around you, and are not only good to your own children but kind to other people’s as well. Your gentle inner nature responds to the vulnerability and honesty of children. You may remain a bit too close to your own children after they have grown up, or you may want them to be independent but find that you can’t get rid of them (in my case lmao).

You react to any difficult situation by worrying. You genuinely worry about your family way too much. There is a tendency for you to attract parasitic people who hang themselves onto you and order you around. This is most evident among those of you who have your Sun or Ascendant in a steady Earth sign or an enthusiastic Fire sign.

 You probably enjoy good wine, but there is no evidence of this Moon placement leading to overindulgence. You could be a good cook yourself, but this will depend upon other factors in your birthchart.

You can put up with any amount of chaos around you at work, but you need peace and harmony in the home. You may have the Cancerian trait of collecting things, ranging from valuable antiques to junk. You don’t like losing anything - or anyone.

You enjoy the company of new people and visiting new places, but also you have an attachment to old ones. You enjoy gossiping almost as much as your Gemini cousins do. You have a habit of observing the behaviour of others as a form of self-protection.

Being emotionally cautious, you are slow to fall in love and open yourself to the prospect of hurt and rejection. Others may fall in love with you because you have an immediate understanding of their problems. You seem to know others psychically.

You are basically honest both with your money and in most other senses; you can be trusted in any kind of confidential situation and with any information.

Both solar and lunar Cancerians find it hard to get rid of anything. There is too much sentiment attached to your junk for you to be able to throw it out. Unless there is a strong dose of Libra or Virgo on your birth chart, you are not over-fussy about the appearance of your home; you could make a home anywhere.

Lunar Cancerians have a long memory; therefore, you can hold a grudge if you are hurt, but you also remember those who have helped you. Being rather sentimental, you like to remember birthdays and anniversaries and you feel peeved if yours are forgotten.

In relationships, you play the part of a parent and may take an over-responsible attitude to others and try to organize them too much or dictate to them too much, or play the child hoping to be forgiven for bad behaviour just one more time.

The Moon in this position suggests that your mother gave birth to you easily. Your parents’ home will have been comfortable, and the relationships there will have been pleasant. The chances are that you are the eldest in your family (although this is much more likely if the Ascendant is in Cancer).

[cancerjupiter]

aquarius moon: observations

This placement of the Moon overemphasizes friendliness, humanitarianism and kindness. Your need for emotional independence can lead to loneliness and difficulty with emotional relationships; you may brush these off with indifference. Your feeling nature can be cold because you don’t understand the emotional needs of someone else. You act warm and friendly but not especially intimate.

You likely see your mother as a friend. She raised you to stand on your own feet; she is a humanitarian and not very conservative in her approach.

The power of the Moon is muted in this sign, the greatest effect being to reduce the feeling element from the emotions. Inwardly you are detached, independent and rather cool. Although controlled and bottled up at times, you like others around you to show that they need and want you. 

You have a strong sense of self which leads you to take a calculated risk in a career or even in a relationship. Although sensible, you are not over-cautious; therefore, you accept most of life’s challenges whether they put your finances or your feelings at risk. This ability to inwardly weigh and measure could confuse to those who fall in love with you because, although you discuss feelings in an articulate manner, one wonders just how much you can actually actually feel.

Your inner nature is off beat. Like Aquarius suns, you are probably educationally minded and will choose a career where you can stretch your mind and also broaden the minds of others. 

You are kind, helpful and humanitarian, but this may be directed more towards the world than those closest to you. Although you are helpful in practical ways, there could be embarrassment and helplessness when you’re faced by other people’s emotional pain. You are afraid that if you allow people to latch themselves on to you they will drain you or, worse, bore you.

Being strongly independent, you prefer to cope alone with your problems, however self-destructive this may be. You could reject help in case it makes you look weak and incapable. You may even view help as interference. You’re not keen on people who try to own or manipulate you, although you can be adept at manipulating others. 

I noticed some of you really enjoy cooking by yourselves, though your favorite thing is seeing others eat the stuff you make.

You can take any amount of chaos going on at work, but you need peace in your home, where you can be in control of your own environment (creating chaos for others lol). You enjoy visitors but don’t appreciate people who dump themselves on you. Many of you are clever and handy around the house.

Your memory is strangely selective, easily recalling things you find interesting but ‘tuning out’ the irrelevant details. However, you don’t run from really important issues, as you have high standards of honesty.  You really need a creative or useful outlet, or you can become bored, depressed or aloof.

Some of you are lazy and too easygoing, especially if there are planets in Libra on your birth chart; yet others can be truly eccentric, especially if there are other planets in Aquarius. Mostly, criticism brushes off you. You have a strong ego, and you feel that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, even opinions of you. You are not likely to change in the face of criticism anyway lol

In close relationships, you are kind and passionate; you could be rather romantic. Aquarius being a fixed sign suggests that you don’t easily walk away from situations. You may stay in the same house, the same job, or the same relationship long after when you should move on. However, if the day comes when you move on, you do so decisively, looking mentally forward rather than backward.

If you become bored with your partner, you may look outside the relationship for change and excitement. Your famous Aquarian detachment may allow you to work out logically what would be for the best. You need a stimulating partner. Without shared interests, you would gravitate towards interests of your own, and this would begin allowing the marriage to drift into failure. You can be strangely blind to both the needs and the feelings of those you love. You may never really get to know them on a deep level.

You don’t seem keen to have a large family, but the relationship between lunar Aquarian parents and their children is usually very good. There is a natural sensitivity to the needs of children, and you would offer help without making unfair demands or smothering them. It is just possible that you could expect too much of a shy child, but mostly you make a good parent. 

People with fixed Moon signs can cope with a lot. It would take a great deal for you to break up a relationship. In relationships, as in all things, you need freedom and independence, and may show this by being deliberately forgetful, erratic and hard to pin down. If your partner started laying the law down to you and restricting your movements, your first impulse would be to get out of the relationship.

You like sex for its own sake, but are much happier when it’s in a loving relationship. You can adapt sexually to various partners and, personally, my best lover had this moon placement lol.

Your temper can be a problem when you’re young; but later you learn to sit back and control it. However, if hurt, you can wound verbally. There may be a lack of adaptability in your attitude to others. You will only go as far in order to fit in with their wishes. You think that other people ought to take or leave you just as you are. 

A lively person who has many outside interests would attract you; if they have the same sense of humour and look nice, even better. Lunar Aquarians of both sexes prefer an equal partnership, and will do all they can to promote the interests and job of the other, even trying to help the partner enjoy their hobbies. 

You take work seriously, and don’t enjoy changing jobs, preferring to find a career into which you can settle. You are interested in ideas and willing to learn; therefore, you likely do well at school and continue to learn later on. You prefer doing something that’s useful for everyone.

You had a good childhood, mostly. At least your practical needs were certainly attended to, even if there is a poor background.

Your mother may have been a busy woman or poured her energies into some personal interest. Some of you will have had the kind of mother who did little outside the home, making you feel that families are definitely better off when the mother has outside interests. Some Aqua moons had religion shoved down their throats, putting them off it for the rest of their lives, at least formally.

It is possible that you loved your father, but lowkey considered him weak. He may have had poor health. Mother was the more organized and capable parent, especially as far as money is concerned. You probably come from an average family of two or three children, and are the older or more capable one of the group, or of a different gender than the others. They taught you not to make scenes or allow your emotions to annoy others. You could never feel very close to your parents. People who have the Moon in Air signs tend to be rather emotionally self-contained, though, and you may just have been born that way.

[thepradapariah]

Mars ☄️ and Your Sexxx Language 🐱💋✨

QUICK MESSAGE TO THE BADDIES

HELLO!!!! To all of my sweet, sweet Kosmic Baddies, Oh!! How I’ve missed you!

I cannot believe it’s been over a FRIGGIN year, but GOODNESS….believe me, when I say this past year has been a roller coaster for me, I truly mean it. I can only imagine what’s been going on in your lives as well. Just TOO MUCH!!!1111!!!!!111!!!!!1 But welcome to 2024! A universal 8 year and the year of the Dragon!!! WE IN THIS THANNNNGGG!!!! Hard work, discipline and accountability is the theme, and we can’t lose!!!!!

Believe it or not, I actually STARTED writing this to have to you for Halloween, but ummmm….this is looking like a Valentine’s Day post instead! HA!!!! Blame it on my Saturn in Pisces– my relationship to time is….non existent. But, I think this timing is better anyways. The theme is very fitting so we are going to turn apples into oranges.

***Even funnier update, now it’s past Valentine’s Day….GOODNESS!!! This has been the longest it’s taken me to write anything. Like…INSANE. Almost 6 months I’ve been steadily working on this!

Thank you to those who have continued to support me! Thank you to those who have continued to share and interact with my post through my…let’s say, hiatus! I am planning to put more energy and effort into this blog post. I LOVE writing for y’all, it is really one of my favorite things in the world.

I am going to take a moment to apologize in advance and say, the typos are probably going to be real with this one. Because I’ve been working on it for so long, I’m just ready to get it out, so it won’t be my cleanest work. I will probably be updating and editing, so bare with me!

🕯 INTRODUCTION 🕯

Sooooo….where to start? I wanted to do something fun and interesting this go round because I missed y’all so much, but I also wanted to do something light so I could get back into the rhythm of writing again….aaaaaaaaaand I thought you would enjoy something a little smexiiiii as we move into cuddle buddy season. So, in this post, we are going to talk about Mars and Your Sexxx language.

One day, as I was driving around town, it dawned on me that we always talk about Love Languages (check out my Mercury post if you haven’t already) and we never talk about sex languages. And y’all know me, and if you don’t know, you’ll soon find out, I am a Bharani moon (atmakaraka at that); and the blending between Mars and Venus is my soul’s most valuable asset to share with the world…(Did I mention my moon is the 11th House?) Sex is one of the most taboo topics (in Western puritan culture, at least), yet such a powerful resource in our human tool box and it’s ridiculously important in our relationships. The 7th House is followed by the 8th House for a reason. Intimacy, of course not always sexual, is what leads to self-discovery, the 9th House. So we cannot overlook the important step that is sexual relations. Even the word “orgasm” means “little death” and death baby, is as close as you get to God. (See how those houses flow together so well?) Hence why things such as Tantra are a sexual AND religious experience all in one. Don’t be fooled by western/christian ideals into thinking that sex is unholy or ungodly. If you think Jesus was a virgin, think again. I mean, what’s the point of turning water into wine if you’re just going to roll over and go to sleep? Y’know what I mean?

Don’t worry! If you’re a less experienced reader, and haven’t engaged in aaaaallll thhhaattt… this post is still for you! In fact, this is one of the reasons I love astrology so much, because hopefully this post will give you some context about yourself and what your SOUL craves, not just your body, so when you do start “doing the do” you can be spiritually comfortable with your wants and desires instead of ashamed or even afraid of them.

Not to put all my business on the street…but, hey, I love y’all, so I won’t keep too many secrets from you (mercury in the 8th, HA)…but, I had to do quite a bit of bumping and grinding to discover what my soul needs in an intimate relationship and I wish there was more of “guide” for me on that journey! So HERE…I’m giving it to you!

WHAT IS A SEX LANGUAGE? 😈

To be completely honest, a “sex language” isn’t something as defined as a love language, so please, bear with me as we discover this together. Please feel free to share any experiences or insight with me. Although I may not always respond, I TRULY appreciate you taking the time to share with me. I try to read everything that I can!

I’m defining sex language as how one creates and shares intimacy in their close relationships. This is particularly expressed through physical interactions and outward expressions. Mars is a planet that governs our passions, drives and desires, meaning our sex language is guided by what we deeply want and crave from our partners on a spiritual level. Venus represents more of the external notions that we have for love and relationships, while Mars represents our internal needs from love and relationships. Mars is inherently a more personal and “self-centered” planet, so interestingly enough, your sex language is all about you! I go as far to say, when you find a partner, don’t forget to check your Mars compatibility as well. If you have extremely incompatible Mars signs, you will have to do a lot more work in the relationship to overcome the constant friction. Moreover, if you have more compatible Mars signs, then WOOOO BABY, the sexual tension could be off the charts!

✨ ABOUT MARS ✨

Mars placements won’t make or break a relationship, per say, but it is a very important layer to help maintain a relationship. How many of you have heard of sexless marriages and people being unsatisfied in their relationships in a sexual way? Does that mean the couples always break-up because of the lack of sex or chemistry? No…..But does it help a HECK OF A LOT when you are wildly attracted to your partner? YES! (Of course this isn’t always a good thing…but for the sake of this post, we are only talking about rainbows and sunshine.) Just keep this in mind as you start to use this knowledge in your journey. Mars is a really important planet that is easy to overlook because it’s not in the Big Three! (Yet, it iiissss the natural ruler of the 1st House).

WHY IT ALL MATTERS 🌚

I truly believe there is a shift in the collective and many couples are going to be coming into union over the course of the next year or so. Why? Because Ketu is FINALLY transitioning out of Libra and entering Virgo. If you’ve noticed, we’ve seen quite a bit of celebrity break-ups and covid relationships coming to a screeching halt. Hence why I say, if you’ve been single, or haven’t been in a serious connection in the last few years or even ever, now is the time that your next partner might be going through some significant ending with an ex. Union is on the horizon for a lot of souls who have been doing theeee spiritual work. That’s why I couldn’t think of a better topic to get started to set the mooooooooood. Bow-chicka-wow-wow.

So without further ado, let’s get into the nitty gritty. I’m going to do something different and start with Mars in Pisces/12th House and work backwards to Mars in Aries/1st House! I thought “Hey! Why not switch it up a bit? Pisces shouldn’t be forced to scroll ALL the time!”

***Note: If you’re feeling extra spicy, you can read for whatever sign is in your 1st House and 8th House as well because those are traditionally Mars ruled Houses. And you can read for your 12H, because the 12H is also the house of bedroom pleasures! Always keep in mind that we are complex creatures and astrology is like a puzzle, so it’s okay for some things to resonate and other things to not. Learn as many perspectives as possible so you can define yourself!

With Love & Lust,

Enjoy!

A-D 💋

Mars in Pisces/Mars in the 12th House

“Cut me like a rose, turn me like a beast” Only- Ry X

If your natal Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, you may actually have a hard time knowing what your desires are. Why? Because Mars can feel as if it’s drowning in the deep spiritual waters of Pisces. Your wants can be quite dreamy. You crave a sexual experience that transcends space and time, forcing you to leave your body and touch God himself in ecstasy. (I’m a western Mars in Pisces, so…I get it). When it comes to your sex language, you want your partner to just get “you”. You don’t want to have to explain or talk or direct, you’d rather just receive and give a special type of unconditional love that knows no bounds. Because of this “boundless love”, you may actually, literally, lack boundaries. This doesn’t have to be a bad thing, so we are going to focus on the positive. You are truly accepting of those who are accepting of you. Because Pisces is a mutable sign, you are willing to fit into whatever box your partner wants to put you in…and you receive great pleasure from making a deep seeded fantasy of your partner come true. You could be just as playful and imaginative when it comes to role-playing as a Gemini.

Because Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, you’ll find that a lot of partners will project their wishes and dreams onto you. Hence why you want a love that is really deep, because people can get washed away in the shallow end of your energy without ever fully realizing how deep your waters flow. This can be frustrating. And because Mars isn’t the most comfortable here, you can have some unhealthy ways of expressing your sexual frustration. Particularly if your Mars is in the 12H, you can be attracted to self-gratification through self-pleasure and also self-harm. You may even conflate the two, harm & pleasure, and have a dark side to your sexual fantasies. Your passions and desires can end up being repressed because people may not understand them, or be able to meet your high expectations. Amd babes, I love you, but just know, your expectations out of partnership are OTHERWORLDLY. But no worries!! You are SUPER DUPER freaky and almost a guaranteed partner that will go down in history books, particularly after you get comfortable in your own sensuality.

One of the things to watch out for with this Mars, is you can be passive-aggressive in the bedroom. You can take a more passive role, expecting and energetically demanding that your partner take the lead. You may not realize you even give off this energy, but the internal need that you have to dissolve into your partner, like sugar into water, can be very intense. And the gag is, sugar doesn’t really fully dissolve, so what you’re seeking can be impossible to satisfy on the earthly plane. Because of this, it is IMPERATIVE for you to have spiritual outlets within your sexual connections. It may be that you and your partner practice Tantra, or you simply pray together. With this Mars, you can absolutely use sex as a tool for manifestation. Watch your thoughts during sex, because you truly can create MAGIK!

Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th House

“I believe in aliens, I don’t believe in love” Familiarity by Teezo Touchdown

If your natal Mars is in Aquarius or the 11th House, you are something special. Why? Because out of all the signs, you are the most unique lover. I KNOW!!! How friggin’ cliche, Aquarius=Unique, blah blah blah…boring. YES! It’s said all the time, but it’s the truth. In Vedic Astrology, it is important to note that Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Rahu. This is hugely impactful as to why you are unlike anyone else. Even as you read this, you won’t be exactly like the next person reading this, because the Saturn Rahu combination can be influenced by so many different factors. Aquarians are the hardest sign to write for in general, simply because you are going to be very individualist when it comes to how you express yourself. Now, all that being said, you still crave, very deeply, a sense of belonging. So please, don’t ever take for granted how special you are. If someone is lucky enough to break through your hard exterior, they really are in for an extraterrestrial experience!

Because Mars is in an air sign here, you may or may not be the most sensual and/or sexual person on the planet. You could be. But you could not be. And that is the gift…or curse…of this Mars placement. I have Mars in Aquarius myself, and I remember reading an article that said “this placement can be infuriating to your partner because you are so nonchalant.” And I can definitely say I’ve lost relationships because the other party assumed I was disinterested because I wasn’t the most expressive when it came to my emotions. It’s important to remember that Mars in Aquarius/11H is actually a neutral placement. It isn’t a death sentence or the worst thing on the planet, but it’s not necessarily the best. So don’t be too hard on yourself if your partners don’t understand you very easily. You will just have to do more work to learn how to communicate and accommodate in your relationships. This may be something that follows you throughout life…and forget your partner….it could be infuriating to you! BUT NO WORRIES! Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th house is usually more concerned with developing and nurturing friendships, which seems to contradict the more lustful side of Mars. Longing for friendship and connection versus longing for sensual pleasure and connection can be seen as two different things.

What Mars in Aquarius/11H wants more than anything is L. O. Y. A. L. T. Y. Because this Mars placement can grant so much freedom, it is imperative for the person with this placement to feel safe and secure in the sexual relationship they are building. This is NOT to be confused with possession. Expecting loyalty from a partner isn’t the same as feeling as if you own your partner. You believe that your partner should have freedom to express and live their life the way they want to, and you expect the same in return. However, you do expect your partner to consider you when they make their decisions in life. It is very much “give a dog a bone, leave a dog alone, let a dog roam and he’ll find his way home” (S/o DMX, may he rest in peace). Meaning, in your sexual language, you want your space and privacy, but you want to feel a belonging no matter how far away you are from your partners.

NOW, for the fun stuff. You are one of the most explorative lovers on the planet. You may have a “the more the merrier” type attitude and be interested in group smexii time or oragies. You may have a dream to experience Amsterdam and the Red Light District. The beauty in having your Mars in an air sign/house is that you can remain detached from the sexual experience and partner– therefore, you may not experience jealousy because you aren’t super possessive. Again, you’re all about freedom baby!!! You may also have some pretty “far-out” kinks. You may be interested in different genders, or same gender, or mix gender or no gender or latex or pantyhoes or dress up or furries or hentai or tentacle porn….and if you’re not into it, chances are you will at least click a questionable link or two. You don’t carry the same shame as others do when it comes to what turns you on sexually. You don’t like anything boring or too routine, so your search history could be a bit…odd….BUT HEY!!! As long as it’s not hurting anyone or anything and pleasure is being derived from all parties involved, then let adults do what adults do is kind of your attitude.

Friendship is the key to your heart…and to your…uh…biological box….lol. When it comes to long-term relationships, I can bet my bottom dollar that you’re far more interested in the friendship aspects than the inherent relationship drama. When your friends ask “why are you still dealing with them”, you will follow up with “well, we are friends before anything else.” And you mean that deeply. The really funny thing is…on the other hand, you are also very likely to get down with complete strangers and never think about it again. You can hook-up and detach with the best of them, or your loyalty to a confidant can keep you in a relationship for a very long time…it. Just. depends.

The one thing that is true about your sex language, is that you speak ALL different kinds. When you look back at your life and your experiences, if you are more of an adventurous Aquarian, lets say you have a lot of air and fire in your chart, you will most likely have all kinds of stories from all different people and places. You will be one of the most interesting partners and friends to talk to about all the mixed bags of experiences that you’ve had..which is awesome. If your Mars in Aquarius/11H is paired with a more “earthy” sign or even water, you will most likely have a rom-com type love thing happening…that tugging “will they/won’t they” energy at the beginning of relationships, only to fall head over heals with the “guy/gal next door”. You may also find your sexual partners online, in a group setting or be hooked up by natural friends. “How’d you meet?” “Oh, I heard from a friend of a friend that that d*ck is a ten out of ten!”

Mars in Capricorn or Mars in the 10th House

“My vicious love, My lethal heart, I wanna screw you up into me” - Bad Bad Bad by Ramsey

If your natal Mars is in Capricorn or in the 10th House, then your sexual language is money, money…and….uh….more money. I kid, I kid…but not really. It would be easy and predictable for me to say you just lust after money, but it goes much deeper than that. Believe it or not, Mars is actually exalt in Capricorn, so, you couldn’t have a better Mars placement. Your natural ruler Saturn and Mars truly are the best of friends. And if you’re familiar with Tarot, then you know The Devil represents Capricorn energy and The Devil is all about seduction and temptation. Unlike some of the more dreamy Mars placements like Pisces/12H or Cancer 4H that use their sexual language as an escape from reality, or the detached air placements like Gemini/3H or Aquarius/11H, who are too aloof to harness Mars’ energy, YOU my Capricorn/10H individuals are acutely aware of how powerful the nature of sex can be…and most importantly, how it can be used to your advantage.

To the average person on the street, you may not seem like the super sexual type. You prefer a sophisticated lover to a “cute” one, so people can assume that your standards are too high. And perhaps, your standards are high, because you understand the value of your presence and your time. In fact, you HATE wasting time, so why would you waste time on lovers who don’t bring anything to the table? Sadly, for most of the public, they won’t ever have the experience to be with a Capricorn/10H Mars because quite frankly, they can’t afford it.

Funnily enough, I’m sure as you’ve been reading this, you’re like “dang…am I that shallow?” And the answer is yes and no. You’re shallow because we live in a shallow world– and you know in order to survive it, you have to use what you got to get what you want. The other side of this is, you’re not shallow at all because you are willing to work and discipline yourself and sacrifice for those that you truly care about. There is such a depth to you in the long run, that it makes sense that you make it really difficult for people to get to you. Because you know and I know, once you’ve committed to someone, you’ve committed for as long as you possibly can. Your sexual language is all about stamina and endurance. This is true in and and out of the bedroom. As an earth sign/house, you are a sensual being. You enjoy each and every bit of romance that you can get. A nice meal, some good perfume, dressed to the nines is all considered foreplay to you. You entice your partners with a certain dignified class and only the brave will approach. In your younger years, you could find this extremely frustrating at times because men will really have to get their sh*t together before they can even THINK to approach you on that level. But the more that you use your Mars to get you where you want to be in life, partners will follow behind you and constantly buzz around as if you are the Queen Bee and they are mere workers for your attention.

Funnily enough, you are quite the heart-breaker with this Mars placement. Because you are so focused on your goals outside of love, and yet, you can crave sensual pleasures, you will be very direct with a partner, but they may not be aware of how serious you take yourself. How can this manifest? Let’s say you meet a partner and everything is groovy, but you are working on a big project for work, you’re working on a degree of some kind, or you’ve said you won’t rest until you make partner at the big company…unlike other Mars placements, you won’t let romance sway you or take you off track. You are probably the best example of “right person, wrong time”. You don’t have as much of an issue as other signs walking away from a situation that is distracting you from your more worldly desires. This can leave people utterly confused, because you seem like a perfect partner, but honestly, you’re just not focused on aaaalll the drama that can come with fully committed relationships. People may actually take this energy and say that you’re a player…or worse…a floozy (one of my favorite words lol, definitely needs to make a comeback). You actually aren’t. You will be one of the most committed partners they could find, but if it’s not the right time…it just ain’t happening. So your partners will have to maintain some level of patience or they will miss out. On the other hand, because Mars is a planet of extremes, you may go through periods in life where you are celebate. It may take you awhile to stop channeling that Martian ambitious energy into your career and put it towards your sexuality. That being said, you will enjoy the more sensual side of sex. You could have great stamina and endurance. Because sex may not come around as often as you’d like, you will learn to savor every drop of your partners and please them in a calculated, thoughtful and masterful way! How smeeexxxiiiiiii!!!!!

Mars in Sagittarius or Mars in the 9th House

“I’ve been everywhere, man, looking for someone. Someone who can please me, love me all night long” Where Have You Been by Rihanna

If your natal Mars is in Sagittarius or the 9th House, your sexual language is that of many languages. You fall in love with the exotic, unknown and unexplored. You like your partners like James Bond likes his cars– foreign. You appreciate partners who expand your understanding of reality. Your partners have to expand your mind…and body…into positions that you never thought were possible. If you don’t attract partners who are of a different race, culture or class from you, then you will be attracted to partners who are otherworldly and spiritual or are just as serious about their religious beliefs as you are. Like Mars in Pisces/12H, your planet is ruled by the planet Jupiter, aka Guru. You NEED to learn from your partner. You NEED to explore with your partner. And you NEED to be able to teach your partners something as well. “I wanna know…can you show me…I wanna know about the strangers like me”...It’s giving…Tarzan and Jane. I have Mars in the 9th House, and it has manifested in a very fun way! So with my bias, I believe that this can be one of the more fun placements if you just go with the flow. Unlike other Mars placements, you don’t necessarily feel the need to control your partners. You’d much rather experience them, learn the lesson and move on to the next new shiny thing. Much like your brother, Gemini, you are equally as invested in getting the knowledge and seeking more knowledge. You of all signs are unlikely to overstay your welcome in a relationship. You can come off quite restless and unsatisfied…UNLESS you are just fascinated and enamored with an individual.

You can find yourself attracted to people who have accents, or speak a different language than you. But you will be even more turned on by someone who shares the same religious beliefs as you. You may actually be willing to convert religions for your partner OR, and this is more likely, you have a partner who is a different religion than you are, and instead of being ashamed by it, or making it an obstacle, you embrace it– ultimately respecting their religion, while maintaining the traditions of your own.

You will naturally desire to travel with your partner. Making some of your favorite memories in life when you made-love in some far off land. If the sentence, “I made love to a Frenchman I met while eating a baguette at the local cafe under the Eiffel tower and I’ll never see him again, but he’s the love of my life” turns you on…congratulations, you’re in the right spot.

This Mars placement is fueled by your deepest desire to see the world and its deepest truth, and then just imagine how much you can learn about the world through the lens of an intimate partner. Your sexual language, like I said earlier, involves language in and of itself. You want to hear the stories of distants lands, fascinated by the foreign nature of your divine counterpart. You will want to be intimate with partners who can speak for hours and hours about their adventures and endeavors. You need to be intrigued at the very least.

I also find that with this placement, there may be an age difference in your relationships. You either will be attracted to someone who is much older and wiser, OR, interesting enough, you could find yourself with someone younger. Why is this? You will appreciate a person who still has zest for life. You will be equally attracted to partners who are bright eyed and bushy tailed! Plus, I know I’ve talked a lot about your partner entertaining and teaching you, but the truth of the matter is, you will want to be as much of a sage to your partner as well. You will enjoy teaching them the ways of life and the pursuit of happiness. They will look to you with eyes of wonder as you paint beautifully vivid pictures of your life experiences that have shaped your view of the world.

Another element to this Mars placement, is you are one to challenge authority. This may manifest in your sex language by liking to explore BDSM culture in some way. Because this Mars is all about freedom, you may be turned on by the thought of your partner controlling you…just so you can say no. You can come off as a “well, make me”...kind of lover when it comes to foreplay. You love a challenge and you like partners who challenge you in some way when it comes to living out your sexual fantasies. Another way this may come out is you AND your partner may have a knack for getting into trouble or enjoying sex with some kind of risk involved. You get off being able to sneak away for a quickie. You’ll have sex in the backseat of a car. Joining the mile club is definitely on your bucket list…all the things! Because you are such a rebel, you tell stories that have “normies” clutching their pearls and leave their mouths open. You want to have memorable sex that is worth writing a book about!!!

I can not drive home enough how spiritual your sexual relationships have the potential to be. You are not a shallow lover. You are a lover full of wonder and full of lust…wanderlust…if you will. Sagittarius/9H is a very serious zodiac/house. You're destined to seek truth– so your sexual partners HAVE to enlighten you in some way. You don’t want to get stuck in the mundane, boring stuff of a relationship, (and please, don’t get too carried away, because we do live on planet earth!) you want to experience shrooms, talk about God and make love in the forest! Smexxiiii!!!!

Mars in Scorpio or Mars in the 8th House

“Every breath you take, every move you make, every smile you fake, every single day, I’ll be watching you” Every Breath You Take by Sting

Okay, okay, it would be all too easy to say your love language is stalking, and more stalking and even more stalking, but…that’s only a small fraction of what this Mars placement has to offer. If your natal Mars is placed in Scorpio or in your 8th House, your sexual language is that of raw passion and intensity. That being said, it is also about restraint and self-restriction, and sometimes self destruction. I tend to find Scorpionic energy and 8H energy to be radically internal. You, actually, may not be the most expressive lover. You are more comfortable waiting, studying and planning to pursue a lover, rather than going in full force. Because Mars is your natural ruler, Mars is more than comfortable here, but unlike your brother sign, Aries, you are more of the “planning” part of war, rather than action. This is the strategy of self-defense more than anything. You don’t want to walk into an intimate situation to be intimate yourself, you want to extract vulnerability from your partner like a detective solving a murder crime. Your sex language is more of a riddle than a question. And you would like a partner who intrigues you and leaves a lot of mystery. In my many many years of dating, and many many encounters with Scorpionic energy (I attract them like flies…it’s crazy) I always find that Scorpios are nowhere near as mysterious or hard to figure out as they perceive. Behind all that black and dark stares and gazed is usually a pretty pretty boring, but shy person. There is such a caution with this sign when it comes to acting on those very deep and sometimes all consuming desires, so you are very careful to not put yourself in harm's way. Another hot take that I have on this placement that may seem a bit contradictory to the Scorpionic stereotype is YES YES YES, you are smexxxxiiii and all of the things, but that doesn’t necessarily make you the most sexual person. You take intimacy and sexy very seriously, more seriously than most, because for you intimacy and vulnerability can be used against you and be seen as a weakness, so you are hard pressed to just be going around willy-nilly swinging from partner to partner. You also view sex/intimacy as more of a “power” thing than a “love” thing. And what do I mean by that? You know that deep intimacy and truly being intertwined with another individual gives you an unreal amount of access to that person on a personal and spiritual level. It is always important to remember where Scorpio/8H lines up in the grand scheme of things. It follows the Libra/7H of partnership. The 8H is actually the house that dictates how a relationship will play out. This. Is. Imperative. To understand this placement. You are far more focused on how the partnership plays out, rather than the partnership itself. Again, unlike your predecessor, Libra, who is ruled by Venus and may be more interested in the looks of a relationship and romantic partner. Your sexual language is more interested in the psychology of your partner. You don’t care nearly as much about the outside as you do the inside. What draws you to your partner is a need to access the ultimate truths through your partners. Hence why, you are followed by Sagittarius/9H of Truth and Liberation. Your sex language involves restraint, power and hidden truths.

As I said before, it may be really difficult for you at times to truly connect with your partners because your energy can demand sooooo much from them. You will require partners to go through such depths in their relationship with you, that they may not be able to handle it. And on the other side of that, you may stay away from relationships because you may mistakenly feel like it brings out some of your “worst” qualities. With this Mars, you may go through a very intense relationship when you’re young, one where you give your all, I mean…you would kill or be killed for those you love, and because that relationship fails, you may never want to experience those types of lows again and stay away. You are one of the most loyal of the Mars placements, so you are very careful to study who exactly you are giving your loyalty to. I recommend with this placement, you may find yourself oddly attracted to Aquarian/11H energy. It sounds weird, water and air, but in this case, Aquarian energy is endlessly fascinating because they are so unorthodox, you will never truly figure them out, so you’re constantly intrigued by them. Aquarians also value loyalty the same way you do. They will allow you the freedom that you need to sit in your own emotions, but value the friendship in such a way, you won’t feel abandoned by them. Even if the people you are attracted to don’t have Aquarius in their chart, I think that quality is something you should consider when looking into intimate partners. It is probably the partner who gives you the most space and it is the hardest to figure out, that will give you the most in life. If you have a partner that is easy to conquer, not only will you be bored, but you can easily slip into those darker energies of control and manipulation to get you way…even when it’s unnecessary.

AAALLLL that said, you are still a hell of a lover! I mean…wow. You intricately know how to please and conquer. You use sex as a language itself when you’re ready and willing. And man, do you have a way with words. You can easily hypnotize a lover to fall under your command, so be careful with this gift. You are more than comfortable in this arena once you move past your fears in the subconscious. You can channel this energy, much like the exalt Mars in Capricorn to succeed with some of your greatest ambitions. You will put your sexual energy into your work and projects in a way like no other! Just don’t take everything so seriously! It’s okay to have a good time. Be intimate and open up some! You’ll enjoy getting your head out of the sand!

Mars in Libra or Mars in the 7th House

“What a rush & what a high, cause when your love don’t fight, smoke gets in your eyes” Smoke In Your Eyes by Skepta, Ossie, Harry Stone

If you came to this section thinking that I was going to talk about how sweet and balanced you are when it comes to your sexual language…THINK. AGAIN. BABE. You are nothing of the sort. Seems contradictory, huh? Because Libra/7H is all about balance, right? Well…not when it comes to this Mars placement.

If you have your natal Mars in Libra or the 7th House, you are quite the spicy lover. To be completely honest, Mars is VERY uncomfortable here. Why? Because Libra is naturally ruled by the planet Venus, which is essentially the opposite frequency of Mars. I like to think of Mars and Venus as the brother and sister planets of the Milky way. Traditionally ruled by Ares and Aphrodite in Greek mythology respectively, they are technically half-siblings. So when you think of this Mars placement, this of how a girlie-girl would feel surrounded by all boys at a football camp. Sure, she may attract a lot of attention and she may have plenty of options…but she will CERTAINLY have to set clear boundaries to command the respect she deserves, as well as deal with the fact that no one around her may have the same interest. See how this can be uncomfortable? It’s not the worst thing to happen, but it can cause you to feel like you have to play the field a little bit differently because of Mars being in the House of Libra.

Okay, so now that we covered why this placement might be different than what you were imagining, let’s get into what this post is actually about!

If you have this natal placement, your sex language is all about breaking up to make-up. Because you’re on this constant quest of seeking balance, YOU will subconsciously or consciously seek chaos in order to regain balance. Your indecisive and somewhat aloof nature in relationships can be a source of frustration when it comes to your sexual expression with your lovers. If you have Mars in your 7H, you genuinely LOVE conflicts and attract conflicts to your relationships. You can be quite passive aggressive, honestly, and stir the pot to get attention. AAALLLL this being said, you still enjoy the finer things and love the idea of love, even though you may not have the most direct way of going about it. Your partners may even find you hard to read, and this can frustrate you, because your wishy-washy-ness is so innate to you, you may have a tendency to think that everyone is as back and forth with decision making as you are.

Ironically, more so than any of the previous placements I have discussed before, I will focus more on what sexual language you like from your partner rather than yourself. Of course, you like good food, good wine, good clothes, good banter, good company…you have Libra, like DUH, but I want to offer a different perspective on this placement.

So when it comes to your partners, you truly like a partner who takes charge, regardless of sex. You crave a level of masculinity and directness in your love language because as I stated earlier, it can be difficult for you to make decisions for yourself. You overemphasize how people will perceive you, and this can cause you to stunt your decision making, so you’ll find yourself craving a partner who can be unabashedly unapologetic in their approach to life. You seek partners who are brave and courageous and you will find yourself testing anyone you fall in love with to see if they have that spark of passion in them. You may find yourself seeking different things from different people, so you may have multiple lovers– and just like how it may take you forever to pick out your outfit in the morning, it may take you forever to figure out what you value in a partner. It is important to note that Libra/7H energy is indeed a masculine energy. I’m sure most would assume it’s feminine because of the “sophisticated” and charismatically social nature usually associated with Libras, but when it comes to sexual relationships, Taurus/2H energy is the feminine side of Venus. Libra energy in this way is more detached than people would think. As stated earlier, because you enjoy dates, chatting, getting to know people, you may be a really good casual dater! This could send mixed messages to potential lovers because you may have never really had any intention of dating them long-term– or, you really just haven’t decided yet. Now are we starting to see how this Mars placement can attract certain conflict? You will desire and crave a partner that can make decisions for you. This may lead to some kinkiness in the bedroom because you’re open to compromise and you can be bossed around in this regard.

Overall your sexual language is complex because of the inherent contradiction of this natal placement. You can make this work in your favor as long as you keep open communication with your partner, even if it’s to tell them that you need some more time before you’re comfortable making any lasting decisions. When you date, you will have to allow your partners to understand your up & down nature. Most people will probably take your pragmatic nature personally, so if you can find a way to channel this into being sexually playful with your lovers, it can be a great way to keep romance fun and interesting. As stated in the beginning, you are most likely to end up in an on-again-off-again kind of relationship because you like for the scales to be tipped, so you can rebalance them. You are far more detached in commitments than most people would assume, so it is essential for you to date like-minded people who understand that your coldness is not a reflection on your feelings. You choose to remain objective in your judgements and seek fairness in your relationships—even if you are the one who was unfair to begin with! Kiss it kiss it better baby!!!!

Mars in Virgo or Mars in the 6th House

“I got commitment issues, but I’m tryna fix that for you…I don’t believe in love, but that doesn’t mean I don’t take you serious” Commitment Issues by Central Cee

With Mars in Virgo or the 6th House, you may be surprised to find how non-committal you are when it comes to relationships. Why? Because you find relationships to be impractical. So when it comes to your sexual language, you are quite all over the place. Lovers can find you hard to catch, almost like trying to keep a fairy in a jar. You prefer to flutter around and keep things light in the sexual department. To you, sex can scream responsibility. After all, sex can be a pretty risky and dirty affair. All the fluid exchange and, ultimately, the required vulnerability, can make you quite uneasy. With this Mars placement, you can go between the two extremes of putting too much emphasis on sex or not enough emphasis at all. This is due to the natural ruler of Virgo/6H being Mercury, which, I find to be, an asexual planet. You are more interested in the intellectual connection than the physical connection.

BUT PLEASE, don’t get me wrong! You know you’re way around the bedroom. Your sexual language is constantly evolving. You do well with long-term partners that you can trust, study and get to know. You prefer a lover that is loyal, so you don’t have to worry about where they’ve been, or better yet, who they’ve been with. You find joy in repetition with one partner. OR, you are really open to “protected” one-night stands. You are either all in or all out. You don’t like to waste time on sexual relationships that you don’t see a return for a long-term investment. That being said, if you are unable to invest in the long-term, you can find yourself in a position of sexual frustration. You may really desire a person, but because of your deep need for perfection first, you may stall connections & find a lot of pleasure in masturbation for the time being. You, like your opposite sign, Pisces, can really get into your fantasies. You may find that erotica and romance novels can be great resources to pass the time while you likely toil between celibacy and being a whore (this is particularly funny to me because Virgos are known for being the Virgins of the zodiac– hence the contradiction in Mars in Virgo. The planet of sex and desire ruled by a “Virgin” is, uh….a difficult juxtaposition to say the least.) – again, it’s all about mental stimulation with you.

When you do meet a partner that you can FINALLY settle down and feel comfortable with, you will be a very giving lover. Because Virgo energy is usually associated with servitude, you better believe that you will make it your duty to service the object of your affection. You care very deeply about the satisfaction of your partner— far more than you care about your own. As stated earlier, you don’t mind finishing up solo as long as your partner is satisfied. You will find every nook and cranny, every deep desire, every love spot that your partner has, because you will analyze their body with astute detail. You will break your partner’s sexual language down and adapt it to be your own, because after all, you are a mutable sign. As well as being an earth sign, you do have a very deep sensual nature to you. Although you can come across as quite guarded with new partners, once you blossom, you really enjoy heavy petting and physical touch. You can spend so much time in your head and alone with your thoughts in other aspects of your life, you may find it very powerful to have a partner that literally grounds you and brings you back to planet Earth by holding you in their arms. Again, after you’ve bent over backwards (pun intended) to please your partner, you, more than any other sign, except maybe Leo, really needs to be acknowledged and celebrated for your hard work. You don’t take kindly to being undervalued or under appreciated when it comes to your romantic relationships in this context.

Believe it or not, this placement can actually be quite kinky! Why? Because of the influence of Mercury again. As stated before, you want to learn your partner’s as well as you possibly can to make sure you are seen as perfect in their eyes– sooooo, that means you’ll have some exploring to do. Mercury is such a curious planet, that it may not be kinky for the sensual pleasures of it all, but it will be interested in testing out sex & kinks for “research purposes”. This can give you a sort of detached feeling when it comes to sex, which may or may not work in your favor– you’re able to disassociate in a way that makes sex almost an out of body experience…it may take you some time to actually feel pleasure from sex. You are so focused on the other and pleasing your partner, you can forget that sex is supposed to be a two way street! I just want to reiterate, that this placement is so mutable, that you may find yourself pretty ambivalent towards sex at different times in your life. You’re kind of like “eh”. But there is hope, when you find a partner that lights your fire– you will find yourself wanting sex like a child wants candy! There is plenty of potential here for a beautifully active and engaging sex life– it just may take more time to develop than others.

Learn your own kinks! Have fun! Explore the more sensual side of life for yourself!

Anyone who is able to win you over (which is NOT an easy feat by any means) will be able to revel in the fact that you are such a wonderful lover! But don’t forget, sex is not a test that you can get an A + in, it’s supposed to be the culmination and celebration of it all!

Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House

“She may be the queen of hearts, but I’m the queen of your body parts” - Cockiness, Rihanna

If you have Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House, you are Britney Spears, all eyes on me in the center of the ring just like a circus, bay-bee. You LOVE to put on a show. Your sexual language can make love-making a spectacle! You’re over the top, you’re loud, you roar. You LOVE LOVE LOVE the attention. So much so, you may not even need sex to fulfill that internal desire for you. Huh? What do I mean? I mean, you may be satisfied using your creative gifts for sexual gratification. Chances are with this placement, you are highly creative and charismatic. You find sensual pleasure in being able to share your creative gifts with other people. Haven’t you heard of entertainers saying they had so much fun on stage, it was orgasmic? That’s where you come in.

Ironically, I don’t naturally find this placement to be the most sexual. Don’t get me wrong, you are DOWN DIGGITY for a good time, but you really use sex as an ego booster. You may even be quite lazy in the bedroom. You could easily live by the code “my present is my presence” and be a dazzling pillow princess. This isn’t a bad thing, and it definitely doesn’t have to be the case all the time! When you’re turned on, you’re turned on, but when you’re just casually engaging in sex, or are in a long-term commitment, you may feel like sex is something that is owed to you. Not in a weird entitled way, but more like a Queen sitting on a chaise lounge being fed grapes– like, “duh, you should have sex with me, I’m beautiful”, type energy. This, if you haven’t been able to guess already, can lead to a selfish attitude in the love-making department. You must remember that sometimes, your partner wants to be catered to as well. That being said, you won’t shy away from Valentine’s Day. You are the type to go all out! You’ll put on the lingerie. You’ll lay out the rose petals on the bed. You’ll pay extra for that honeymoon suite. OR, you will expect your partner to do all of this without you asking. You treat holidays and sex as if it’s a royal affair.

Due to your standards being so high, I cannot express to you enough that you may really put all your sexual energy into your creative pursuits until you find a lover of high-value and high sex drive. You love and somewhat need to feel desired in order to break down your walls. You don’t play hard to get– you ARE hard to get, so this may leave you with extended periods of non-sexual activities. You are more than willing to give up sexual pleasure for your own personal pursuits– in fact, you are more likely to do that if you have specific career goals.

You may be a tad bit surprised at my interpretation of Mars in Leo, perhaps you were assuming it would be a bit spicier, but I challenge you to look at your ruler, the Sun (yes, the actual burning ball of fire in the sky) . Not literally…well, you can, but make sure you wear sun-glasses. But in all seriousness, the Sun shines alone. The Sun is too hot to let anything near it, and it carries such a gravitational pull, that things simply orbit around it, but can never get too close. With Mars in Leo/5th House, you may find yourself in this position when it comes to your sexual nature. You attract a lot of people towards you, but they are unable to get too close, for fear they will burn up in your presence. Or, you shine so bright, you are forced to do it alone. Being the Sun and the center of the Universe is a hard job, but ultimately an isolating job. Your being, your creative gifts, your star power and the way you shine can cast such a shadow on those who dare come near you. It really can be one of the most challenging placements because you probably won’t understand why people can’t/don’t come near you. Again, you’re just soooo great, people can have an overwhelming and unrealistic ideal of what it will take to make you happy. It’s a double-edged sword. On one hand, it’s flattering, but on the other hand, you can suffer from being put so high up on a pedal stool that you never asked for!

One tip for you, is to keep your hair beautiful and lushes! People will be attracted to your wild side and want to bring that out of you. You can either really love having your hair pulled or be turned off by it because you spend so much time making it look perfect. Either way, your hair may be an essential part of foreplay for you and something that suitors may find undeniably sexy.

As long as you are mindful to share the spotlight from time to time and not always prioritizing your needs & your desires, you can be a remarkably loyal partner. Fierce is the word that comes to mind and you can be very fierce in the bedroom. (When you want to be.) You can outshine any of the competition. Most people truly can’t hold a candle to you when it comes to how committed you are in an intimate relationship. You are proud and you protect those that are around you and that you deem worthy. You have a royal air that surrounds you and it loudly and proudly screams `bow down bitches' when it's time to get down and dirty!

Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th House

“Let me kiss you hard in the pouring rain, you like your girls insane” Born to Die- Lana Del Rey

If you have Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th house, ironically, your sex language involves a knack of overwhelming emotional destruction. Dramatic, yes, yes, I know, but very true. Mars is VERY uncomfortable in the deep waters of Cancer/4H. Mars in the 4th House, in particular, is a naturally difficult placement because it sits in the House of happiness, as well as aspects the 7th House of partnership and the 11th House of friendship– making that native, uh, a little difficult to deal with. Why? Because your emotions can be so erratic and illogical, it can be difficult for people to understand what you want. Heck, you probably don’t understand what you want most of the time. I promise I’ll get to the good stuff, but keep in mind that this Mars placement is in detriment! (It’s exalted in Capricorn, the opposite sign.) So when it comes to your sexual language, you value such a deeply emotional commitment from your partner, you could constantly try to test them by pushing their emotional boundaries.

There is a mixture of pleasure and pain. You love an emotional outburst– this can be good and sexy, or bad and scary. Emotionally bonding make-up sex, is your cup of tea…ESPECIALLY if you are the one who caused the “break-up” in the first place. You truly enjoy engaging with your partner in a loving way, when you can, but because Mars is so unstable here, it can be hard for you to maintain emotional consistency within long-term relationships. You can find that your passions wax and wane for your partner. Sometimes, you just want to run into their arms and kiss them in the pouring rain, other times, you want them to LEAVE YOU DAFUQ ALONE. This can be quite jarring to your intimate partners, but also to yourself. I recommend embracing this quality and being as honest as possible! Instead of literally creating a sh*t storm in order to be left alone, just communicate to your partner that you need a little space from time to time. But also be willing to give your partner that same courtesy and grace if they ask for the same.

You can feel a need to wrap yourself up in your partner's desires. It may come from a genuine place, but because Mars is an aggressive planet, you may be quite aggressive in how you demonstrate your love to your partner because your deepest desire is to be able to emotionally control them. This can manifest in an extremely emotionally manipulative way through passive aggressiveness and just causing overall uneasiness within your dynamics and partnerships. One of the lovely sides about this particular placement, is when you mature, you can have an extremely high emotional I.Q. Because you are naturally very sensitive to your surroundings, you can literally sense the emotional and physical needs of your partner without them having to say a word. You can be so emotionally intune with your lovers, it can feel like telepathy if they need anything from you. You just know, y’know?

In the bedroom, you can go from one extreme to another. Sometimes you want to be dominant, and sometimes you want to be dominated. It is important for your lovers to be able to ride your waves and learn what is needed from them at any given moment. Again, Mars is all about conquest. So when Mars is in the 4H in particular, you want to be able to be the leader in your home, but you also want someone who can take the reins when necessary. Again, this can be a difficult balance to strike within your sexual relationships because people may not understand the method behind the madness, typically because there really isn’t a method…it’s just kind of madness AND THAT’S OKAY!

Because Mars is so uncomfortable here, it is imperative for you to be able to channel your energy in creative ways or you can fall victim to your own emotional tirades. You want a clear line of communication with anyone you are interested with and they absolutely need to have some emotional intelligence or else they will drown in your water. You don’t want to suffocate your lovers with so much emotional intensity, that you both are unable to remain somewhat grounded in the chaos. You of all people understand just how powerful emotions and sex can be together, so be careful to use it wisely!!! When done right, you can have anyone wrapped around your finger.

Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House

“Talk is cheap my darling, when you’re feeling right at home. I wanna make you move with confidence. I want to be with you alone” Talk is Cheap by Chet Faker

If you have Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House, then you are all about an intellectual connection when it comes to your sexual language. You want to catch viiibbbeezzz. You want to be razzle-dazzled with the lingo. You want someone hip, cool, in the know…because, well, you’re hip, cool & in the know, y’know? It’s only fitting that your partner be the same. You, of all placements, may truly crave “your other half”. And I know, I know, we live in a world now, where people are saying “you are a whole person and you’re looking for another whole person yadayadayada…”, but you’re a TWIN. You want to be able to connect with someone as if you share the same brain, the same thoughts, the same…everything. This isn’t to say that you’re not sexual…you just enjoy mental jousting for foreplay. Think of how beautiful the dance between two evenly matched fencing partners is– the ebb and flow of tension – playing both parts of the aggressor and the defender– gliding almost effortlessly with a weapon in hand. It’s like the tango…but with swords. That’s how you envision your love. Beautiful art, yet dangerous. You may not be the most sensual lover at first, but in time you will certainly warm up. Why? Because at the very least, you are a curious partner! You. Want. To. Explore. You may be the type of lover to want to try almost anything once. You want to be surprised. You don’t want your bedroom to be boring. You resent repetitiveness and you welcome new experiences. You may even fall into the “switch my wig, make ‘em feel like he cheating” category. You like to switch up your look, your style…sexual positions (lol). This can even translate into role play! (Especially teacher/student).

I cannot express to you enough how much learning from your partner turns you on. You love asking questions & consider getting to know someone a conquest. The more difficult the puzzle, the more you yearn to solve it and this type of stimulation oozes over into your sexual pleasure. You’re curious to know what your lover’s love. You can have an objective perception of sex, because you aren’t the most naturally emotional person, so you can look at the love making process as getting to know every nook and cranny of a partner’s body– learning what makes them tick & “ick”. You become more emotionally open with a partner, the more confident that you are that you know them. You like learning, but you don’t like unpleasant surprises. This may be counter intuitive, but I find that after you go through your “lemme try any & everything era”, you will genuinely enjoy one partner. It will make you feel secure and like you have that missing piece in life. You don’t come across as the most committal type, but when you do commit, you commit fr fr, you just need a certain level of freedom in life to continue to expand your horizons far past the mundane in life.

Another element you may add to your sexual reservoir is……drugs. “DON’T DO DRUGS, KIDS & STAY IN SCHOOL”...alright, there is my disclaimer. Now back to what I was saying, you may be curious to try mind-expanding drugs & smex. Because you can be so cerebral, drugs like ecstacy can help you actually feel your body. The tingle will start from your subconscious mind, and venture into your conscious body, possibly making love-making a more pleasurable experience. If this doesn’t interest you, don’t worry, no pressure! Just making a note that this placement is more likely to think outside of the box when it comes to making their sex lives thrilling and exciting! Not saying that vanilla sex is boring…just saying in general. You do you!

Overall, this is a curious placement. It’s a fun placement, but it can be an extremely flighty placement in the beginning. Don’t let your fear of getting stuck, stop you from finding a true partner that you can really see the world with. You can find that “other half”, that “twin soul” that really knows how to light a fire in you and warm your cold cold cold gemini heart. In your moments of passion, you will prefer to keep things fun and light. Only when someone truly captures your mind, can they capture your body and soul! SEXYYYYYY!!!!

Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House

“People stop to ask me, how do you please your man? Take it from the black sheep baby, any way I can. Sometimes it’s with fire and sometimes, with ice…Just don’t get it twisted, his body’s gunna pay the price.”

- Rock My Boy’s Body by Joseph Stephens

If you have Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House your sexual language is about sensuality, sexuality, & seduction. You believe in making love an all encompassing experience and you will stop at nothing to make sure your partners have an all exclusive pass to your BO-DAY. IF it is earned. Because Taurus is naturally slow moving energy, you may be slow to open up. As I’ve studied astrology for years now…I’ve come to realize that Taurus energy is just as private and cautious and it’s opposite sign, Scorpio. If you have this placement, you feel the need to study your lovers and you wait and wait and wait and wait and wait before you make your move. But if you are able to wrap them in your warm embrace…you won’t want to let go and they won’t want you to either.

Like Leo, when it comes to your sexual language, you believe in putting on a show. But your show is subtle, quaint and slow burning. You will have the candles burning, the scented lotion and fresh out the shower smell, you will have the most luxurious sheets on the most comfortable mattress. You don’t believe in cutting corners when it comes to your comfort and whoever is lucky enough to wind up in your bed, simply gets to enjoy how you live your life. I could bet you have an impeccable taste in music and truly know how to set the tone when it comes to seduction. As stated before, you are able to create a world of pure pleasure for those you love and make them spell-bound to you, because chances are, they haven’t been able to match with a sexual partner who cares so much about the details of ALL 6 senses. (I’m including intuition because, y’know, I’m a tarot and an astrology girlie.) For example, I dated this guy with heavy taurus placements a few years ago. I very much remember and very much miss this awesome TV room that he made for himself. Instead of having a regular degular couch, he had a couch that was also a bed. It wasn’t a couch that converted into a bed….it was just a couch that had a bed in it…and massive 70 inch television mounted on the wall. When I TELL you, I wanted to marry that man because….UGH!!! I was so comfortable! I could melt into the floor when I was with him. And I have YET to be with anyone who has a room set up quite like that. The feeling has stayed with me long after we have been together. THAT is what I mean by the power of Mars in Taurus. It lingers when you’re done!

On the other side, you of all signs, can be extremely jealous and possessive over your sexual partners. You DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE. AT. ALL. The 2nd House is all about owning and possessions and you may take this mindset with you into your romantic relationships. To the right person and in a healthy way, this can be enduring and make your partner feel safe and secure in your presence. In turn, you also want to know that your partner is crazy about you and cares deeply about your well-being. Again, in a healthy dynamic, a little jealousy and possessivness isn’t bad. It can show that someone does have an interest in you and takes pride in the fact that they are able to claim you as their own. This is just something to be mindful of in this placement, because if underdeveloped, it can lead to issues of selfishness & strong resistance to allow your partner’s freedom. Of course this can bleed over into the bedroom as well. You don’t want to get so focused on your own comfort that you end up putting your partner into a routine that they no longer enjoy. Your favorite position may not be their favorite positive. It can feel like eating lobster every single day. Like, yeah, Lobster is great day 1, maybe even day 2, but by day 5….yuck. Depending on other placements in your chart, you may attract partners who are very much like you, in the sense they prefer routine, OR you may attract partners who are so wild and out of the box, it forces you out of your comfort zone. All I can do is say embrace whatever floats your boat.

There is no doubt that you are one of the most sexual, sensual and passionate lovers of the zodiac. Your innate knowledge of pleasure makes you an expert in the bedroom and you can be hard to beat. Although it may take you a while to warm up, either physically or emotionally, you eventually show your partners that it is absolutely worth the wait! Because you tend to be safe and secure in yourself (the 2nd house rules self esteem) you share that safety and extend your protection to those you love the most. Your sexual language is unforgettable. You know how to love someone head to toe! WOOOOO!!!

Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House

“Dollhouse, dressed up, perfect messed up, Torture me to sleep, paint the air I breathe. Fishbowl, chokehold, dirty water, I’m cold. Dirty as can be, have your way with me.” Dollhouse (with Lily Rose Depp) by The Weeknd

If you have Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House, your sexual language is intense & powerful. You have a way of pulling people into your orbit just by being your unapologetic self! The force is with you! Best believe! And people feel it. You get what you want and you want what you get and you have a way of luring in your prospective sexual partner by projecting your lust onto them– so much so they feel it when they walk by you. Much like your sister, the Mars ruled Scorpio, there is a carnal desire that surrounds you. It’s magnetic. It’s magnificent. And it’s very fleeting.

When it comes to your bedroom pleasures, you can be a pioneer of the “Wham! Bam! Thank you ma’am or…sir” (not as cute of a rhyme) mindset. You may have a habit of treating your lovers like conquest– wanting to overpower them and wrap them up in your passionate fantasies. You deeply enjoy power play in your sex life. Yes, you could easily be the dominant one in your relationships, BUT you could also seek refuge in being submissive to your partner. How? I know it seems contradictory. But chances are, with this placement (unless it’s in a water sign in your first house) you are more than likely the boss and the leader in your everyday life…so when it comes to sex, you may want to just “relax” and let your partner do all the hard work for once. If that’s the case, you may be a bit of a brat in the bedroom because you still like to challenge your partner for shizz & giggles, but you are certainly fun and definitely unforgettable.

Your sex language is raw and real. You don’t like to hold back your passion and you appreciate a partner who can match your enthusiasm in the bedroom. You love the runner chaser dynamic, and again, you can easily play both parts. You are strong and competitive and don’t like to lose the interest of your lovers, even though you can get bored pretty easily. You may prefer quickies over long drawn up love sessions, but that doesn’t mean you don’t like to indulge your sinuses from time to time– you’re just not one of the most lovey dovey of the zodiac and prefer loud, wild, hot, steamy sex opposed to soft caresses and whispers of sweet nothings. You may also be a person who uses sexy time to advance a certain agenda. You could use sex as a tool of manipulation to get what you want. That may seem extreme, but think about a stripper using her sensuality as a means to make money so she can pay her way through law school. THAT’S what I mean. Because you may not be so shy about your sex appeal, if used correctly, it can be your weapon of choice when it comes to getting what you want from someone.

Passion matters to you more than most. You would prefer a risky lover than a predictable one. You also may be a fan of the ole’ break up to make-up trope. Make-up sex is always better. And you don’t mind starting a fight in the streets, simply to uh…you know…end it….in the sheets…..if you catch my drift. You aren’t one for subtleties. You are probably one of the most straightforward and upfront people in the world and you may play shy, but once you allow a person to get to know you, you don’t hold anything back. Because you are a cardinal energy, you always have a childlike flair to you! You keep things interesting and youthful. You’re not afraid to cross boundaries and push the limits of yourself & your partner in the midst of a sexual act. You really may think that sex is something that can be “won”. You want to be the best. You want to be the one that lovers can’t get enough of. You don’t appreciate being compared to others and honestly hear partners talking about their past as if it was some sort of challenge. You definitely have a jealous and possessive streak, but like I always say, when this is a healed energy it can be enduring to the right partner. As long as it’s not obsessive and unhealthy, you can provide comfort to your lovers that you are there for them and only them. You expect loyalty in return, of course, but you don’t mind protecting and defending what you see as your own. Your love is real. Your love is honest. Your love is young and wild and free!

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fuck, marry, kill: the wound that won’t heal, the past you can’t undo, the ghost that keeps returning

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Relationship Compatibility #2 - Mars & Venus Part 1

Mars and Venus Pt 1

Romantic Compatibility is a many faceted thing.  Your birth charts can tell many stories about your relationships.  You should never rely solely on your Sun Signs to decide if you and your partner are compatible.

Many factors are at play.

In my first Compatibility post, I introduced the Moon Sign, which, in my opinion, is  most important in determining the nature and durability of your romantic relationship.

The next most important is the placement of Mars and Venus which helps to determine the nature of your sexual relationship. If you don’t already know your Mars and Venus placements you can find out quickly using a birth chart calculatr.  It is important to know your time of birth and place of birth to get the most accurate birth Chart:

I have included a birth chart calculator at the bottom of the page. Scroll all the way down.

It is important to remember that the Mars and Venus alone cannot tell you if your relationship will last or even start.  I have had relationships where our Mars and Venus were incredibly compatible and though we may have had fun sex our relationship did not work in the long run.  Other factors in my chart surely told me why though. Mars and Venus will definitely be helpful in determining the nature of your attraction, as well as understanding your partner’s sexual needs and relationship expectations.  But it is up to YOU to decide if you want to do the work to have a long lasting relationship or to deal with the fact that it simply was not meant to be.  

Let’s get started!

In Astrology, Mars represents your drive to to win, what you want out of life and the way in which you go after it.  In Relationship Compatibility this includes your Sex Drive. Mars represents how you go after what you want sexually.  

Mars in a Man’s chart represents how he expresses his masculinity, the way he behaves during the act of sex, the way a man approaches sex in his life.

Mars in a woman’s chart represents her sex drive as well, but it also represents what she finds masculine and attractive in a male and the way she expects her ideal partner to behave.    

(Note: I realize that gender roles are not always so clearly defined and sexuality is varied.  Nevertheless, I have noticed that gay men are still attracted by another man’s Mars and lesbians are still attracted by another woman’s Venus. The gender roles may shift depending on each relationship. But. both Mars and Venus will play a role in attraction in both gay, straight, and transgendered relationships. For the sake of keeping it easy to read, I will keep it simple and just say “Man"and “Woman” and feel free to interpret the gender roles as you wish.)

Mars is very selfish.  Mars wants to please himself only.  He wants to fight, win, and then feast.  There is not much consideration of others where Mars is involved, only self fulfillment.  This is a necessary element for survival.  We must all possess a certain element of selfishness in order to survive.  

Venus represents our desire to please. Venus represents what we enjoy, how we have fun, and all that is beautiful about ourselves as well was what we find to be beautiful.  

In Relationship Compatibility, Venus represents your feminine sexiness, your beauty, the way you in which you give love, and the types of relationships that please you.  

In a woman’s chart Venus represents the way she expresses her femininity, they way she behaves during sex, how she behaves in relationships, the way she shows love for her partner. 

In a Man’s chart Venus represents the type of woman he will be attracted to, what he wants from relationships, how he behaves in relationships, as well as his sweeter, more considerate and giving aspects of his nature.  

Venus lives to please.  If you are not happy she is not happy.  She wants everyone to be in bliss. 

Mars and Venus aspects to each other.

Please note that for the following relationship aspects to function best, Mars should be interpreted for the Male or more dominant partner. With these combinations, having the female in the Mars position may result in the male feeling emasculated or the female feeling less feminine. So, even though they may be a compatible pairing, it may lead to problems in the relationship due to confusing gender roles. 

Male Mars conjunct Female Venus [Conjunct = In the Same sign, preferably within 0-10 degrees of each other]

Ideal Scenario.  Very strong instant attraction. Very similar sexual desires, patterns, and expectations.  Natural friends as well.  You should be very comfortable communicating your sexual desires.  Even if the relationship fizzles out, you are likely to remain close friends throughout your lives.

Female Mars conjunct Male Venus - Example of Gender Role Reversal

Though the attraction may be strong this combination may lead to problems in the relationship.  Male can feel emasculated.  Female doesn’t feel very feminine. Female may feel that the male is weak. Male may feel female is too dominant. Great for a close friendship and can be sexual advisors to each other. Can be the type of relationship where the female is always “on top”.  The attraction will still be very strong and if either of the partners don’t mind the role reversal the sex can be very hot.  Either way this can be a close bond and long lasting friendship. 

Mars Square Venus [Square = same Modality, Different Element without being opposites -  Example Mars in Taurus (Fixed Earth) and Venus in Aquarius (Fixed Air)]

Strong Attraction but can be a turbulent relationship.  There can be jealousy, fights, sexual misunderstandings.  Very passionate affair.  Can turn to enemies.  Can run hot and cold. 

Mars Opposite Venus [Example -  Mars in Aquarius and Venus in Leo]

Very Strong Attraction.  Similar to square but less turbulent.  You may have some sexual misunderstandings, jealousy, and may sometimes not feel attracted to each other at the same time. Your sexual rhythms may run opposite to each other. One is horny when the other is not.  But your are each very attracted to each other.

Mars Trine Venus [Trine=Same Element  - Example Mars in Leo (fire) and Venus in Sagittarius (fire)]

Very Strong attraction. Mutual appreciation of each other.  Lasting friends.  Very sexually compatible. Hot Sex!

Mars Sextile Venus [Sextile = Same Polarity, Different Element without being opposites -  Example Mars in Virgo (Earth) and Venus in Cancer(Water)]

Very fun sex.  You may not be instantly attracted to each other. But should you find yourselves together, you will realize that it was a great decision! You are sexually very compatible but also very experimental.  You can teach each other new things and are always excited to try new things together. It may seem like an odd pairing to the rest of the world but you both are having loads of fun.

Mars and Venus through the Houses

Pretty much anywhere your partner’s Mars or Venus falls in your chart will affect your relationship. I will cover this in another post.   

Venus and Mars in the Signs

Its important to note that just because a person has a planet in a certain sign does not necessarily mean she will be attracted to partners with that sign.  It just means she will be attracted to the quality that the sign represents in her life.  

Please also note that the following interpretations are for planets in the signs only.  The house position will greatly effect the way Venus and especially Mars behaves.  Some house positions can really dampen the effect of certain planets. Venus and the Moon represent the female aspects of personality, while Mars and the Sun represent the more male aspects of the personality. The following interpretations are for Mars and Venus mainly but can often be interpreted for the Sun and Moon as well.  The following interpretations are for a man’s chart.

Man with:

Venus or the Moon in Aries - May be attracted to an Aries Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of an Aries including but not limited to:

Firy,  Hot-tempered, Independent, Confident, Athletic, Energetic, Bratty, Bossy, Toned, Sexy, Wears alot of makeup, Wears alot of red, Creative, Competitive, Loud, Mean, Fussy.

May prefer to meet women at Sporting events.  May enjoy a relationship that is very active and/or competitive. May enjoy lots of rough housing and playing games with his partner. May prefer his relationships to move at a face pace.  May like his sex quick, rough, and dirty.

Mars or the Sun in Aries - Will be very forward and confident with women. (May be slightly intimidated by Water Signs especially Scorpios) May be very direct and blunt about his sexual needs and desires.  May be somewhat selfish during sex focusing only on his own satisfaction and not much on the needs of his partner.  May prefer sex to be quick and dirty. May be a bit of a player, insensitive though usually very honest about his intentions.  

Venus or the Moon in Taurus - May be attracted to a Taurus Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Taurus female including but not limited to:

Earthy, Voluptuous, Quiet, Reserved, Materialistic, Stubborn, a full and distinct voice, Sensual, Wears vintage or very well constructed clothes, Can cook, Very Stylish, Comfortable in her skin. Comfortable in her own neighborhood, Clear Headed with her feet on the ground.

May deliberate a long time before committing to a relationship but once he commits he is in it for the long haul.  May prefer a relationship to be financially beneficial or come with some sort of material gain. May enjoy cooking for his partner and buying her expensive gifts. Very sensual love maker.

Mars or the Sun in Taurus - May be very carnal about sex, not much talk or foreplay, but lots of stamina.  Very sensual and responsive to touch during sex.  May prefer more animalistic sexual positions like doggystyle or other positions that don’t have much eye contact.  Will love to use ALL of his senses during sex.  Will love for sex to last a long time and may prefer to go all night, though it may take quite a while to get him started.  

Venus or the Moon in Gemini - May be attracted to a Gemini Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Gemini female including but not limited to:

Talkative, Friendly Social, Casual, Versatile, Multi-lingual, Loves to Read, Loves to Write, Maybe a bit of a gossip.

May bounce quickly from one relationship to another, May be very casual about relationships and sex.  May like women to talk a lot during sex.  May meet his lover on the internet or through a personals ad. May love to talk on the phone a lot with his partner or send frequent texts and emails. May get aroused from just the sound of his partners voice.  

Mars or the Sun in Gemini - May seduce a woman with lots of words before having sex with her.  He will be a big talker who may talk a bigger game than he can deliver.  He may like to try A LOT of different positions during sex. He may be more aroused by the changing of positions than the sex itself.  He may love to talk dirty during sex.  He may be particularly interested in a Menage a trois or he may have more than one sexual partner at one time in his life.

Venus or the Moon in Cancer - May be attracted to a Cancer Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Cancer female including but not limited:

Nurturing, Very Feminine, Sensitive, Cries Easily, Shy at first then Loud later, Good Swimmer, Motherly, Big or Especially Beautiful Boobs, Passionate, Moody, Good Singer

May be a bit of a Momma’s Boy.  May be attracted to women that his mother approves of.  May want a woman who is good with children.  He may very much want children.  He may enjoy a relationship that is centered at home and not a lot of going out.  May want a woman to baby him and take care of him.  May enjoy the beach as a date or to meet women.  He may have very sensitive nipples. :-)

Mars or the Sun in Cancer - He will be a very passionate lover. Don’t be surprised if he cries during sex.  He may seduce a woman by appealing to her maternal side and saying things like “I want you to be the mother of my children”.  He may be a bit of a brat in bed and somewhat selfish, demanding that you please him while not caring that much about pleasing you.  Or he may be incredibly nurturing in bed and focus more on kissing and fondling and less on the act of penetration.  Probably very aroused by breasts.  

Venus or the Moon in Leo - May be attracted to a Leo Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Leo female including but not limited to:

Confident, Dynamic, Universally appealing and beautiful, Gorgeous, Great Smile, Fun Loving, Bossy, Colorful Clothing, Somewhat Insecure, Self Absorbed, Independent, Loud, Dramatic

May only date women who get a lot of attention, like models or actresses or really aggressively beautiful types.  May prefer a relationship to be very showy, may like going out a lot in public places.  Very Loyal and committed Lover.  Passionate Love maker.

Mars or the Sun in Leo - Incredibly confident sexually.  He will try to impress you with his sexual prowess and will have hundreds of sexual tricks up his sleeve.  It will be very important to him that you find him sexy and that you are satisfied by him.  He wants you to finish very satisfied and idolizing his sexual persona. He will be very passionate and treat you like a queen during sex.   He will be very jealous if you are not loyal to him though he may or may not be loyal to you.  

Venus or the Moon in Virgo - May be attracted to a Virgo Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Virgo female including but not limited to:

Reserved, Analytical, Perfectionist, Modest, Picky, Nervous, Highly Strung, Health Conscious, Flexible, Neat/Neatly Dressed, Fit, Well Groomed/Maintained, Critical.

May enjoy relationships that are centered around health or exercise like a yoga partner or a natural juice making partner.  May enjoy acting out a naughty nurse routine. May have a thing for the maid or women who work for him or in service positions.  May enjoy lots of S&M or roleplaying in his relationships.  May enjoy a woman who has an insatiable desire to please and serve him regardless of her own pleasure.  May enjoy dating Virgins.  May have an obsessive need to “help” his partner in some way improve her body or life.  May enjoy things like white cotton underwear or sex during your period.  May be very obsessive about cleanliness in relationships, even if it gets dirty, he may want to his partner to be the type to tidy up before and after sex.  

Mars or the Sun in Virgo - Will be exceptionally attentive during sex and his arousal will be based entirely upon pleasing you. The more you respond to his touch the more he will touch.  He will have lots of stamina and will last as long as you need him to.  He wants  you to be satisfied and won’t stop until you are.  He will be very sensual.  He may be very picky about his sexual partners.  He may go a very long time without having sex until he finds the “perfect” partner then he will work very hard to please her.

Venus or the Moon in Libra - May be attracted to a Libra Sun, Moon, or Venus female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Libra female including but not limited to:

Dependent on a Partner, Talkative, Shallow, Fashion conscious, Laid Back, Very Pretty with Symmetrical Features, Non-Confrontational, Manipulative, A nice butt.

May be the type to always be in a relationship and not comfortable going out without a partner.  May prefer his relationships to be light, easy, and casual.  May enjoy chic and cosmopolitan relationships that might include, going to art galleries, fashion shows,  or or the latest hip club.  May always want his partner to be fashionable and hip.  May not be very passionate.

Mars  or Sun in Libra - May literally charm the pants off of you.  He may prefer to have sex in a beautiful setting and may obsess on mood and lighting.  May talk a lot during sex. May try to look good at all times during sex and shy away from the dirtier or uglier looking positions though ironically he may have a fascination with anal sex.  May be incredibly casual about sex and not especially picky about partners, they simply must find him charming and gorgeous.

Venus or the Moon in Scorpio - May be attracted to a Scorpio Sun, Moon, or Venus Female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Scorpio female including but not limited to:

Mysterious, Sensitive, Sexual, Passionate, Driven, Quietly Confident, Bitchy, Obsessive, Moody, Jealous, Independent, Powerful, Witchy, Secretive, Curious

May have a very strong sex drive. May want a lot of privacy in his relationships. May have secret relationships and affairs.  May prefer women with dark or exotic features or with a dark personality. May like women that dress in dark colors.   May love going out at night and not feel very comfortable in daytime dates.  May need his partner to be a bit of a sexual professional.  Can be very loyal in relationships.  May be obsessive in relationships.  

Mars or Sun in Scorpio - Quite simply a sex monster. A sex master mind. Nothing is off limits and everything is on the table. Whatever can be done sexually, he will do with expert skill and will enjoy to the core of his being.  He will be very passionate, loyal, and committed though.  Sex is very important to him as an expression of love.  It is not frivolous.  He chooses partners carefully and ravages them completely.  He understands sex better than anyone and knows the dangerous power that he has over his partners.  There is a danger that sex may become a compulsion or an addiction for him though.

Venus or the Moon in Sagittarius - May be attracted to a Sagittarius Sun, Moon, or Venus Female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Sagittarius female including but not limited to:

Optimistic, Playful, Fun Loving, Easy Going, Rock and Roll lifestyle, Philosophical, Smiles A lot, Laughs A lot, Goes with the Flow, Nice Athletic Thighs, May wear fringy boots and clothes/cowgirl type of style, Party Animal, Adventurous

May be the type to fall deeply in love at first sight and then swiftly out of love as soon as reality hits.  May need his relationships to always be fun, adventurous, and romantic.  May find love in Church, in a religious group, or on some religious quest.  May prefer to date foreign women or may find love over seas.  Very passionate and fun lover. Lots of horse play during sex.  

Mars or Sun in Sagittarius - He will have a very healthy appetite for sex.  He will love sex to be fun, physical, with screaming orgasms though he has the ability to detach his emotions from the act.  Sex for him is an adventure. He will love to hunt a sex partner, catch them, have fun with them and then find someone new.  He will have the ability to be sexually involved with more than one partner at a time though he may or may not act on it.  Sex is fun and necessary for him, though not the most important thing in the world.  He may find Tantric Sex especially purposeful for him as it incorporates an element of religion with his strong sex drive.  

Venus or the Moon in Capricorn - May be attracted to a Capricorn Sun, Moon, or Venus Female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Capricorn female including but not limited to:

Hard working, Reserved, Conservative, Pessimistic, Depressing, Cold, Calculating, Materialistic, Sensitive, Insecure, Modest, Goal Oriented, Wealthy, Makes her own Money, Earthy, Practical, Realistic, Loyal, Determined.

May find relationships with people he works with.  May prefer relationships to be long, treacherous, tiresome, but rewarding in the end.  May be attracted to older women.  May enjoy being a financial benefactor to his mate. May be attracted to women who can bring him some material gain or help him to make money.  May be attracted to executive types who own or manage their own business. May like women who wear vintage clothing or appear mature.  May be somewhat cold in relationships and may appreciate being beaten into submission.

Mars or Sun in Capricorn - He may find it very difficult to be sexual at first and to express his sexual desires, but in the act of sex he is viciously carnal.  He will have a stamina that is out of this world and may be very focused on his own orgasm and pleasure during the act of sex.  He may totally loose control during sex. Be careful that he doesn’t hurt his partner because he will get so into it he may loose control of his senses.  He may also be interested in S&M.  He may be so frigid and pent up that he needs his mate to be aggressive with him in order to loosen up or he may derive pleasure from seeing his partner suffer in some way or have to “work” for her orgasm.  

Venus or the Moon in Aquarius - May be attracted to an Aquarius Sun, Moon, or Venus Female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of an Aquarius female including but not limited to:

Relaxed, Intelligent, Unique, Aloof, Weird, Independent, Whimsical, Cool, Boring, Know it all, Likes to Share, Helpful, Goal Oriented, Curious, Talkative.

May prefer open relationships.  May prefer to be friends for a long time before intimacy happens. May prefer friendship over intimacy.  May prefer weird or unorthodox relationships.  May prefer relationships to be centered around technology in some way.

Mars or Sun Aquarius - Not especially physically sexual.  Sex is very mental for him.  He may be very into internet porn or phone sex.  He may prefer kinks and fetishes that don’t involve actual intercourse.  He may enjoy group sex or sex with strangers.  There is a detachment between his thoughts of sex and the act of sex itself.  What he desires in sex and what he is able to deliver may be two completely different things.

Venus  or the Moon in Pisces - May be attracted to a Pisces Sun, Moon, or Venus Female or a woman who exhibits the qualities of a Pisces female including but not limited to:

Dreamy, Escapist, Drug User, Spacey, Pessimistic, Selfless, Quiet, Sensitive, Intuitive, Emotional, Loves the Water, Goes with the Flow, Adaptable, Unrealistic, Musical, Artistic

May prefer relationships to be overly romantic and dreamy. May get lost in relationships. May prefer to do drugs or alcohol with partner. May enjoy sex on drugs.  May have the tendency to lose time when in a relationship and forget about responsibilities.  May fall in love with really impractical and unrealistic partners.  May approach relationships in a very impractical and unrealistic way.  May fall in love with artistic partners or collaborators. 

Mars  or Sun in Pisces - May fantasize about sex all the time but may be too timid or shy to act on it.  Will be a very sensual and romantic lover.  May need drugs or alcohol in order to have sex.  May prefer to be seduced rather than to do the seducing.  May be very unpredictable in his sexual exploits, may seem to be controlled by some unknown force rather than his own conscious desires.  For this reason he may not always be loyal.  He goes with the flow when it comes to sex and may not stick solely to his current relationship partner.  He may use sex to become spiritually awakened in some way.

This is a lot of information to absorb. In the next compatibility post I will describe the way Mars and Venus behave in the signs of a woman’s chart and they way they behave in the houses.