hiyo, poke

Formerly derederest. Kinky queer inclusionist and sick soot sprite. She/her/they/them/and that meddling dog, too.

[catcrumb]

[anthonyhurd]

Conscious Reminder - 16x22” acrylic on canvas. Available.

[mildmayfoxe]

1) any stretching is better than no stretching

2) any vegetable is better than no vegetable

3) statistically you will never be the worst person at anything, there is always someone in the world who is worse at stuff than you are

[spaceshipoftheseus]

4) any food is better than no food

[houndmother]

if you’re in my asks telling me that i’m defending sexual assault. if your only two settings are “none of my boundaries have ever been violated” and “sexual assault” then you are not a safe person. you are the person that post is about and for. you are the person i am begging to understand nuance. i’m thinking about like. i don’t like having my butt touched. sometimes in the heat of a moment an excited partner grabs my ass. that’s a violation of a boundary. but i’m not gonna fuckin break up with them for it. and this concept branches out. i tried bottoming a few times for partners. i thought id like it, i didn’t, and i felt kind of uncomfortable with the interaction later. those partners didn’t “assault” me, we tried something and it didn’t work. once or twice a partner has tapped out and i didn’t notice at first so they had to tap harder. this isn’t assault, they didn’t accuse me of abuse, we had a conversation and they understood it was a mistake. all of these are circumstances where a boundary has been broken or a line has been crossed, but not a situation of intentional harm, assault, or abuse.

[houndmother]

I'm thinking about this again. This, essentially, is why I no longer do hookups, ESPECIALLY with people who want to engage with hard kink on the first fuck. I'm not interested in sex without a conversation about consent and conflict resolution. Do you know how scary it is, as a hard dom and outspoken sadist, to do a scene with a new partner? If, for any reason, they decide they did not enjoy the scene, am i going to get rapist-jacketed? Will i be accused of assault at the first sign of a miscommunication? If they wake up tomorrow and decide that no, they actually aren't into that kink we tried together, are they going to blame me? I've seen this happen so many times to doms, especially trans women. Part of being risk aware, for me as a dom, is being aware of the risks of miscommunications. Discussions about consent ethics and conflict resolution are essential to pre scene kink negotiations for me. So, no, i'm not going to hurt you on the first date.

[houndmother]

“top shortage”

[spin-the-wheel-polls]

you are now a cat in the warrior cats universe! Spin these wheels for your name!

Do you like it?

YES!!!

yes

eh it's okay

no.

IM MOON MOON

results/other

Remaining time: 4 days 21 hours

note: I (the owner of this blog and maker of wheels) am not into warrior cats! I just thought this would be fun to make

(prefixes and suffixes from @yarrowleef)

[lemmmmmmmmmmonade]

HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP

[pom-prime]

[divorcedwife]

look at the republican calendar and see which animal/plant/item is associated with your birthday ok. if you're born january 14 you get the day of the cat

[divorcedwife]

solidarity for everyone who was born on the day of the cistern or the watering can or something like that

[almondmilkbitch]

superbat is a bad ship name. it should be manman

[februarytrash]

being sad and horny is a privilege

[yellow-cat]

(voice of a person spiralling) its embarrassing but i still havent figured out if its ok for me to be alive

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[valtsv]

it's always "you gnawed off your own leg to escape like an animal caught in a trap" and never "why didn't anyone try to help you out of the trap" or "why weren't you provided with any other resources to escape the trap with except for your own teeth"

[trufflesmushroom]

[valtsv]

it's always "you gnawed off your own leg to escape like an animal caught in a trap" and never "why didn't anyone try to help you out of the trap" or "why weren't you provided with any other resources to escape the trap with except for your own teeth"

[trufflesmushroom]

[marwyn]

Is your first name canon in asoiaf

Yes

No

Sort of (spelled differently, etc.)

Voting ended onJul 24

Here’s the character list on the wiki for reference

[graceebooks]

i’m just having fun. hatred is involved but i’m just having fun

[landsccape]

[mewvore]

"we detected a mature post" yeah I'm in my 30s

[were--ralph]

*injects you with mystery hormone*

[were--ralph]