Hate to see genuine people put down
As I mentioned in a post I wrote a while ago, I stepped away from the scene for my own mental health and well-being. Even so, I've always stayed in touch with the people who have helped and supported me over the years. One of those people is Mistress TsAbbeyChase (@ts-abbeychase).
From what I understand, some of her other accounts have recently been put on hold. I also read a post on her blog about someone sending her a hateful, entitled message. It seemed obvious to me and, I imagine, to anyone else reading it that this person believed paying for Patreon meant they had the right to demand a Mistress be at their beck and call. I honestly don't understand where that sense of entitlement comes from.
What people often fail to appreciate is how much of her own time Abbey gives freely throughout the week to support those in the community. She has never been anything but kind, encouraging, and genuine in my experience.
When I was at one of the lowest points in my life, she helped me find myself again. She encouraged me to step outside my comfort zone, to try things I had always avoided because I felt inadequate, and to see value in who I am. That support made a real difference to my confidence and my well-being, and I'll always be grateful for it.
Not everyone will have the same experience, but I felt it was important to speak up and share mine. Behind every account is a real person who deserves to be treated with respect, not abuse or unrealistic expectations.
Thank you, Abbey, for everything you've done for me and for so many others. I hope you know how much you're appreciated.
Anyone is welcome to come and ask me about her
Since my last visit, I've heard from others that Mistress Abbey still makes occasional appearances at clubs and, every so often, meets people in person, although these days her work seems to have shifted primarily online. That makes perfect sense to me she has a life outside of the scene, and I respect that she's found a balance that works for her.
For anyone who may be curious, I can genuinely say that she is an incredibly beautiful trans woman. She carries herself with confidence, elegance, and authenticity, and it was easy to understand why she had such a commanding presence from the moment I first met her. She left a lasting impression on me, not just because of her appearance, but because of her wit, warmth, and personality as well.
Even so, I'd be lying if I said I didn't hope our paths cross again one day. The atmosphere she creates is unlike anything else I've experienced: welcoming, immersive, and full of personality. If I ever had the chance to spend more time in that world again, I'd gladly take it.
Until then, I'm simply grateful for the memories I have. Some experiences stay with you long after they're over, and meeting Abbey was one of those. I wish her nothing but continued success, wherever her journey takes her, anyone wanting verification of anything about her can, then contact me.
