Humairah

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[poemswords]

“You have never loved me. You have only thought it pleasant to be in love with me.”

— Henrik Ibsen, A Doll’s House (via books-n-quotes)

[heaveneternal]

Best thing about being lonely?

You can't disappoint someone.

[depression-healthy-carrier]

“I’m fine, I’m just tired”. My depression is setting in but I don’t want to bother you with it

[anniespositivity]

Hey, my love. You made it. You made it through another year. Look how far you have come. Oh, I am so proud of you. You made it through every heartbreak, every bad day and every bad thought of yours. You took care of yourself when you hit rock bottom and tried to mend your own wounds. You may not feel like it but you have healed so much, darling. You have grown and recovered so much. Look at you now, my love. You are still breathing, you heart is still beating and you are still fighting. You are still here, trying to find life’s deeper meaning, trying to find your purpose. I promise you that you will be okay. You will find your purpose, you will find more reasons to stay alive and you will find more love. 2020 is going to be good to you, please be good to yourself as well. Do not be too hard on yourself, take it slow and be gentle with your heart. Just because it is a new year, does not mean your wounds have healed. Go slowly. But please know that healing, recovery and love await you. Happy new year. I love you dearly.

[salimbach]

Imam asy-Syafi'i rahimahullah mengatakan,

"Meraih keridhaan semua manusia adalah tujuan yang tidak mungkin dicapai. Sebab, tidak ada jalan untuk selamat dari (celaan) mereka. Itu sebabnya, hendaknya engkau melakukan hal yang bermanfaat bagimu dan konsistenlah."

[Sumber: Siyar A'lam an-Nubala, jilid 8, hlm. 423]

[islamicrays]

Some days it’s easier to worship than others.

Some days, your heart is in sync with your purpose—you plow forward, pushing the nonsense and distractions of this world to the side. You put your forehead to the ground knowing Who created you and why. Words of gratitude and hope slip easily off your tongue.

But then there are other days. Harder days. Days when the distractions and nonsense cozy up to you, piling themselves onto your chest until you forget why you’re Here. And when you come to speak to God, your tongue is stiff and heavy.

I have not found a cure to remedy the bad days except:

Keep moving your tongue to speak to your Lord, even if it’s stiff. Keep putting your head to the ground, even if you’re tired. Keep uttering words of gratitude, even if you can’t feel them in your heart.

There are times I’ve wanted to give up writing, to give up my business, to give up on relationships. I’ve wanted to throw in the towel so, so many times. But I didn’t because I know anything worth having is worth struggling for. And what is more worthy of struggle and effort than the worship of God?

You will get through the hard bits of this. Your patience will hold you upright. Your heart will soften again when you speak to your Lord.

It will. It must.

How could it not when the Most Merciful sees how hard you are trying?

Ibn Al-Qayyim says, “O you who are patient, bear a little more. Just a little more remains.”

Asma Hussien

[reverthelp]

Start learning how to enjoy your own company. Being alone and happy is better than being around people that aren’t good for your development. Also, keep yourself around people who respect you and appreciate you. Those who have a foul attitude towards everyone don't deserve your company.

[autumnintokyo]

Kalau Sholat Sudah Mulai Ditinggalkan...

Guru saya dulu mengingatkan,

“Hati-hati kalau sudah mulai gampang ninggalin sholat. Karaktermu akan ikut berubah seiring seringnya ninggalin sholat.

Kalau subuh sudah mulai ditinggalkan, biasanya kamu akan gampang jadi orang yang menyepelekan waktu; gampang jadi orang yang ingkar janji dan suka tergesa-gesa dalam segala urusan.

Kalau dzuhur sudah mulai ditinggalkan, biasanya mulai malas; mudah menyepelekan tanggung jawab atau amanah. Gampang bingung dan mudah lelah.

Kalau ashar mulai ditinggalkan, kamu mulai merasa biasa saat melakukan dosa kecil maupun besar. Gampang kesentuh dengan zina dan ghibah.

Kalau maghrib mulai ditinggalkan, akibatnya mulai gampang larut dalam kesibukan yang makin sibuk. Waktu terasa sempit dan urusan seolah seperti nggak ada ujung pangkalnya. Makin diselesaikan makin rumit, makin dikejar makin jauh.

Dan kalau isya sudah ditinggalkan, mulai hilang ketenangan. Mulai gampang gelisah dan was-was. Mudah bosan dan miskin kreatifitas.

Jaga sholatnya, biar jauh dari perbuatan yang sia-sia.”

©Dwi Lianawati

[reverthelp]

To get to where you want to be you have to make sacrifices. Nothing comes in life without going through struggles! Appreciate the little acts of kindness; feel the love and appreciate all things around you. Learn to swallow and ignore things that hurt you.

[taufikaulia]

Barangkali memang ada orang yang meremehkan pekerjaanmu, tapi camkan saja ini, bahwa selama kamu bekerja keras, pekerjaanmu tak akan pernah menjadikanmu hina.

— Taufik Aulia

[islamicrays]

If something is destined for you, never in a million years will it be for somebody else.

[poems-and-word]

“Millions of people have decided not to be sensitive. They have grown thick skins around themselves just to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost. Nobody can hurt them, but nobody can make them happy either.”

— Osho (via philosophyquotes)

[mufti-ismail-menk]

Be in the company of mature people. Those who admit they’re wrong. Those who don’t point fingers and blame others for their mistakes. Those who take responsibility for their actions. Those who don’t hesitate to apologise. These are people who will help you grow in life!

Mufti Ismail Menk

[chuyakasim]

Salah seorang dari kalian dapat melihat kotoran kecil di mata saudaranya tetapi dia lupa akan kayu besar yang ada di matanya.

— Abu. Hurairah

[islamicrays]

“Getting married isn’t going to solve our inabilities to wake up for Fajr or get up for qiyam. We need to develop our own selves without expecting marriage to somehow magically change our lives. Marriage can be a great tool of self-improvement and can help us change for the best, with Allah’s will. Marriage is amongst the greatest blessings that Allah (swt) can bestow on a person; and the creation of a family, and taking care of that family, is amongst the greatest acts of worship. But if we are not personally working on ourselves now, how can we expect that it will be easier with the additional baggage of another individual who is also imperfect?””

— Maryam Amirebrahim

[quotemadness]

Looks don’t mean everything. I’d rather have a beautiful conversation than a pretty face to look at.

Unknown (via quotemadness)

[nunnita]

لا تحسد احداً على نعمه فأنت لا تعلم ماذا أخذ الله منه

Don’t envy someone on a blessing, cause you don’t know what God took from him.