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The first rule -well her rule- was never get attached. Getting attached was the recipe of disaster and distraction.

me, and the book that will never see daylight

#rules #disaster #neverloveagain #nolover

Accept your ugly so that when people call it out, you already know it and you won't dwell on it for you know it is apart of you. Your ugliness makes your beauty shine brighter

srsfunny

When Psychologists Change A Light Bulb

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you cant change someone who is not willing to change

SUMMER EMERGENCY!!

So I was applying for college and I signed up for summer quarter application...

So I am stuck with SUMMER classes and I don’t anything to do... ><

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I don’t get people who try counter the BLM movement with the “look, I’m not racist, I have black friends” line.

If you have black friends then

WHY 👏🏻 AREN’T 👏🏼 YOU 👏🏽 FUCKING 👏🏾 WORRIED 👏🏿 ABOUT 👏🏿 YOUR 👏🏾 FRIENDS 👏🏽

I live in fear for my black friends.

I worry that my black Jewish friends will be stopped by the cops guarding our synagogues because they don’t “look Jewish” enough

I worry that two of my friends who are both black men in interracial marriages with biracial sons will be suspected of kidnapping their own children because their little boys have fairer complexions

I worry that my friends in STEM will be stopped by campus police on suspicion of breaking into the labs in which they are PhD students and lab managers

I worry that my friend who is an AD for various films and TV shows will get pulled over when she’s on a location shoot somewhere rural and get assaulted

I worry that the black librarians I work with won’t make it home if they run an evening program or work a late shift on the desk one night

Like, forget political ideology for a minute. If you aren’t worried about your black friends being victimized by police brutality then YOU ARE A BAD FUCKING FRIEND.

Psst, come here, ya you. Come here and let me tell you something

When someone calls you ugly or tries to make conscious of your body image.

You either do one of these:

1) let it affect and DESTROY there way you think and feel about yourself.

2) Slap that BITCH’s face, you know you got swag. That bitch is just jelly.

3) Ignore it because you know and accepted both your ugly and beautiful side. Your self esteem is high, you go human

Remember that if someone only sees your ugly part then they don’t deserve to admire your beautiful side... this applies to all gender.. :)

#body image #self love #self esteem