Princess Soapbox

Here for the princessfur tea, all information here is alleged and opinion based

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Can we actually address Toycowboyexpress’s racism now? I don’t care if Harmony is a POC, that doesn’t put her above criticism or make her incapable of being racist. The whole “indigenous washing” narrative was gross. Accusing an indigenous person of “stealing representation” from a design they legally bought and made indigenous, like themselves, is still racist. I’m indigenous, and this is exactly the kind of behavior that makes me hesitant to be open about my life and culture, especially online. And debating someone’s “percentage” of indigenous vs. white ancestry just because they’re mixed is genuinely nasty. Just because someone is mixed race doesn't mean you get to openly debate their proximity to whiteness. It shouldn’t need to be explained why this is harmful. Harmony is always calling others out for racism, so the same standard applies here. You don’t get to preach accountability and then dodge it, or call it harassment the moment your own behavior gets questioned.

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[havingaprincessteaparty]

i am really uncomfortable with harmony's pattern of using real names and bringing family members up in their posts to try to dogpile the people they talk about. miorjah's mother has no part in any call out post, as well as emybun's father [their rapist/abuser] this is dangerous, dehumanizing behavior. we can call out problematic behaviors while respecting eachother's privacy and truama. re-raumatizing a random person because they happen to be friends with Miorjah is abusive behavior itself. I would be terrified to have someone like Harmony is any position of power.

That’s exactly what I’ve been thinking, I didn’t know any of this before they exposed it and it shocked me they’d be so casual about someone else’s trauma

[havingaprincessteaparty]

The problem with Toycowboy is that they don’t actually want any sort of accountability. They don’t want people to admit that they’re wrong and try to do better — they don’t care if people improve. They just want corporal punishment. They want people to suffer.

It’s not an uncommon mentality in this day and age, what with the rise of fascism in the west. Rejecting the notion of rehabilitation in favor of perpetual, eternal punishment is the name of the game for them.

It’s sick.

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[havingaprincessteaparty]

No one deserves to be harassed, people who send in hate like that are losers. In the same breath whining about being harassed when you run an anon account that's been imo way too overzealous about posting vile commentary for the sake of it is ridiculous tbh. Do these people deserve critique and accountability? yes! but you can do that without calling victims pedos. Pushing the blame onto the person you started harassing for the harassment you receive back has to be a joke. It's gone way past the point of genuinely wanting to criticize and straight into bullying, it's muddying the actual problem here and ensuring no one is being held accountable. But then again, what do you expect from an anon blog, let alone one that pins a list of victims without consent and in most cases, against their will.

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[havingaprincessteaparty]

Abused people are afraid to become like their abuser, I thought that was obvious but apparently not.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

I’m going to encourage people not to ask the account toycowboyexpress about anything remotely serious, they seem to have extreme bias and spread misinformation.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

just an extra heads up for anyone engaging with toycowboyexpress. if you include any evidence in your ask that disproves what she's saying, she either won't answer your ask, OR, even weirder - she'll re-type a paraphrased version of your ask with the evidence removed, add in something to make you look stupid/wrong, send it to herself on anon, and answer that instead. she did it to my ask when i sent her proof of Miorjah publicly stating on bluesky that it was their mother's leg/ankle that was injured, not their own. Miorjah is a nightmare person and deserves scorn for the things they actually do. we don't need to be making up fake things to accuse them of lol. especially when it's about something as serious as injury or illness

the proof in question: https://imgur.com/a/SGtLkEn

The images for anyone who doesn’t want to click the link

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Toycowboyexpress spent weeks calling Emybun’s art CSEM and labeling her a predator, comparing her to her own father and accusing her of continuing a cycle of abuse. And now Harmony is shocked people took that and ran with it? You don’t get to pour gasoline on a situation like that and then act surprised when it explodes. Saying that someone draws CSEM has consequences. You can’t escalate things then hide behind “I don’t condone harassment” when the outcome was completely predictable.

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[havingaprincessteaparty]

I’m a little bit shocked at how genuinely cruel Harmony is. The way they talk about people is just awful.

It’s honestly so disgusting and disrespectful

[havingaprincessteaparty]

I’m going to encourage people not to ask the account toycowboyexpress about anything remotely serious, they seem to have extreme bias and spread misinformation.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Treat doxxed information like it’s a bomb: don’t touch it, don’t pass it around, and don’t blast it to your followers with “everyone report this now!!!”

If that info is posted on an account, that account is a bomb. If it’s in a tag, that tag is a bomb too. Report it directly to site staff, stop sending asks to the account posting it, and disengage completely.

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[havingaprincessteaparty]

“But they posted their name!!!”

That doesn’t mean you find their Facebook and post the link publicly to instigate people to call someone’s work place, that’s doxxing, doesn’t matter if you can find it

Someone could probably find your own social medias that have your parents/family members and share those links, that’d be doxxing

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Using a post from 2015 to justify doxxing someone is bs, stop posting links, you’re encouraging harassment

“It’s public informationnnn”

I wouldn’t have been able to find them or know their names, there’s a strong likelihood that a lot of their audience wouldn’t have either. You want people refunded but you want people to report them to their job? I’m not defending their actions at all, they deserve to be called out but stay in your lane, sharing information someone doesn’t want you to is doxxing !

[havingaprincessteaparty]

You can put your own self drawn art, free resources, and free stock photos in an AI generator all day long. Who cares. But when you start using it out of spite and inserting other artist's work (even if you paid for it or it was a gift), that's crossing the line.

On the off chance that the artist gives you permission (which I doubt anyone would do), you can do it, but it's still morally wrong.

That's the problem with many of these so called princessfurs, they cross boundaries, but demand that everyone respect theirs.

Ai image generators are detrimental to the environment as well as being harmful to other artists to use, stock/free resources are also immoral to throw in there imo

But putting someone else’s art into a generator without their permission/knowledge does add another layer of bs 🫠

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Tuli and Beau's little clique putting on the moral superiority act about Mior using AI is simultaneously baffling and hilarious.

They’re hypocritical on most things they call Mior out for, it doesn’t shock me but it is hilarious 🤭

[havingaprincessteaparty]

miorjahs AI use and problematic behavior is EW but with all the talk about it circulating i'm just confused why we don't have the same energy for foolbloom since they also used generative AI and just like miorjah, there's no way to be certain if they'd sill be using it or not tbh all creatives that use AI are ignorant and we can be critical of both

This.

I’m also confused why we don’t have the same energy for them, they used art that isn’t theirs out of spite and there is no way to know if they’ve done it again 🫤

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Hey so don’t dox people. It’s incredibly pathetic, especially when you’ve made yourself anonymous