Happy Pride Month everyone ! :3
I ' m wearin ' a skirt today for the first time in I think a couple monthz ? It ' z taken so so long to remind myself that it ' z ok to be feminine an ' to dress fem if I ' d like to as a tranz guy , that it ' z ok if wearin ' a skirt or somethin ' with frillz on , or growin ' my hair out , makez me happy .
I already accept other tranz guyz I know for dressin ' an ' presentin ' fem , so I know it ' z ok for me to dress that way too . It ' z just difficult to not worry about bein ' misgendered for it ⋆˃~˂⋆ Even if I wear a kilt ( half scottish for the record ) I still get misgendered usually TvT Hopefully that won ' t happen today , but I ' m glad I at least got the courage to dress how I want to again :']
I just wanted to make this post to remind people that ur valid regardless of if u fit another person ' z narrow standardz for " passing " , ur still the genderz u identify with regardless of if u present fem , masc , an ' or androgynous ! An ' it ' z alright if the way u present doesn ' t match the typez of clothez typically associated with ur genderz , an ' if wearin ' those clothez makez u happy :3
I don ' t want to " pass " anyway if ur idea of passin ' doesn ' t include fem guyz or masc girlz ( this quite obviously includez fem tranz guyz an ' masc tranz girlz , as well as non-androgynous genderqueer people )
Also goin ' to include here that multi gender people are valid as hell ! ⋆˃ ᵕ ˂⋆ I ' m bigender myself ( I ' m a guy but I ' m also separately aporagender , which I literally found out today is the word for a gender that ' z neutral but not within the gender binary at all ꒰ა(/ˊᵕˋ)/✩‧₊˖°✮ )
Also shout out to aplatonic people , cuz I know we ' re literally never talked about . It ' z ok to not be bothered about friendship or to not want be close to or involved with anyone platonically , we ' re valid an ' a part of the queer / LGBTQ+ community too ! Also bein ' aplatonic doesn ' t make u cruel to any extent , not wantin ' friendz doesn ' t mean u don ' t care about people , it doesn ' t mean u lack empathy for otherz , an ' it ' z not selfish to prioritise non-platonic relationshipz . You do not owe anyone friendship / pos ( an ' u have every right to set boundariez regardin ' ur acquaintancez an ' partnerz ! )















