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BDSM what it is and what it isnât. BDSM is not abuse, it is not going against someones will, it is not something you spring on someone who has no idea what they are getting into, it is not something one can do alone, it is not for stature, it is not a game, it is not something a person does without complete knowledge of what they are doing or training. BDSM is for consenting adults, it is for pleasure, it is for enjoyment, it is an active session/play or scene, it is to learn, it is to educate yourself and partner, it is to be explored with and ONLY with a person you trust with your life and you are sure will not jeopardize your well being and your mental state of mind. It is to be practiced with care and compassion and LOTS of communication. It is to grow as partners together and explore new things together. BDSM is not a Dominant and submissive relationship, they are 2 separate things but can be combined to fit your lifestyle. It is included as part of the abbreviation only because it takes a top (dominant one and a bottom a submissive one) to create a scene or play. And can also include a Dom and submissive switching rolls during play (No you are not a switch) a switch is someone who is in a D/s relationship and both during play and in daily life both will switch rolls as they agree upon. Does not make them any lesser of a Dom or submissive. How ever you can be in a D/s, M/s, D.D/babygirl relationship and not have BDSM as a part of it at all. Again does not make you any lesser of a sub or Dom than the guy who enjoys BDSM. Remember BDSM is not for stature.
You are who you are and no one should make fun or judge your path or journeyâŚ. it is not theirs.
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Etiquette in BDSM (Part 2)
Hello slut, whore, bitch, cunt!
This type of name calling is, usually, only to be used during a scene in BDSM. A lot of submissives like to be called names and/or feel degraded BUT, now hereâs the one amazing fact⌠only by their Dominant! Randomly calling a submissive any degrading name is verbal and unwanted abuse. Itâs sexual harassment. You call any girl a slut, whore, etc. and sheâll probably want to rip your balls off and feed them to you with a rusty fork. But when she hears the silky tones of his/her dominant say these words to him/her, theyâll melt. Would a person walk up to a girl in a bar or the street and call her these names to her face? No, they wouldnât and doing the same over the internet is no different.
 Send me a naked picture of yourself.
There are many submissive girls (and guys) that have a NSFW blog. Many of them post pictures (selfies) of themselves nude. Itâs their blog, their body, their choice and their decision. They post them for their own reasons. They donât post them as an advertisement like a piece of meat on offer. Itâs NOT an invitation and itâs NOT consent for the douches to harass them for their personal pics or to attack them for posting whatever they want to on their own blog. Â If you like their pics, reblog them. Donât get offended and name call because she refuses and wants to keep herself safe from internet predators and maybe, just maybe she doesnât want to take the risk of having her personal pics in the hands of a complete stranger who could do goodness knows what with them? As in the previous post, a person wouldnât ask this of a stranger IRL and hiding behind the internet does not make it acceptable or okay. Running a NSFW blog is not consent. It does not mean that the blogger is horny 24/7 and masturbates over Tumblr like itâs an occupation. Most are bored and on Tumblr to pass the time. Theyâre not here to get douches off. Please show some respect.
Iâm going toâŚ.
This kind of message that submissives receive with a long list of what âanonymousâ would like to do to them is another area that needs to be addressed. Most subs do not want them. There are some that like them. Have a look through their blog and read the âabout meâ. If theyâre owned/have a Dom Iâd suggest moving on, or better still just donât send them unless you are certain that is what the sub is asking of their followers. A submissive may like to talk dirty (and express this on their blog) but maybe thatâs only with their dominant. If in doubt, donât do it.
Iâm Master ***** Â You will kneel before me and call me Sir!
This is a red flag to begin with. No âgenuineâ dominant would say such a thing. He/She would want to get to know any potential partner before agreeing to a D/s relationship. âGenuineâ dominants are respectful, polite, courteous and generally do not try to impress. They certainly donât shout their worth from a rooftop saying âlook at me!â They donât try to âDomâ a submissive after the first hello (if they are lucky enough to get a hello first that is!) Â
Any submissive, but especially new submissives that are BDSM virgins should always be cautious when talking to a new potential dominant partner. Donât give personal information, your address or even your home town until you feel comfortable enough and never meet anyone who you have only just recently met. This is doubly important if itâs an online meeting. I have known submissives in the past who have just started talking to âDomsâ online and right from the off they have wanted a meet to do a scene. Itâs very real and it happens.
Think about how they first talk to you. Are they more interested in your underwear and what youâre wearing or if you swallow or are willing to do anal than they are in you? Do they ask questions about you or just your sex life? Listen to what they talk about or even if they talk about themselves at all. Constant sexual talk = red flag. Not talking about themselves = red flag.
A dominant that boasts about their previous subs and what they did together is another red flag. If you are constantly being asked, âwould you be willing to try X or YâŚâ again, thatâs a red flag. Follow your instincts. If you feel something just doesnât add up or something doesnât feel right, your gut instinct is trying to tell you something and chances are, itâs right. Walk away. You owe them nothing. Until you consent and agree to be their submissive you are free to do whatever you please.  You are free to talk to as many potential dominants as you wish.
Letâs say you are talking to a potential dominant. He/She is really nice. But do they ask about you or how was your day? When was the last time you were asked how you were? You told him/her about what was planned for today at work, have they remembered it or asked about it? Do they even remember about the terrible day you had yesterday freaking out over it? These are the kind of questions to need to be asking yourself. After a conversation with your potential dominant, have a think back to what you spoke about and recap. It should tell you a great deal as to where his/her best interest are focused.
 I know this has gone slightly off the etiquette topic but I feel it was warranted and needed to be said. Predators are real in BDSM. Please, stay safe when searching for a partner.
D~D
Etiquette in BDSM
So youâre a Dom?
Just because you call yourself a Dom, donât expect every submissive girl/boy in BDSM to bow before you and call you Sir/Master/Daddy/Mommy or any other title you bestow on yourself. The fact is simple. Submissives are normal everyday people who happen to have one thing in common. They choose to submit to one person (after He/She earns said submission) and then it is the submissives choice to choose how to address that person. And remember this important fact: she/he maybe a submissive but they are NOT your submissive until you earn the trust, respect and consent from said submissive. Submission is never demanded, taken, asked for or assumed. If you want to call a submissive Yours then earn their submission and show him/her you are worthy of it.
Submissives must do as they are told?
Submissives are not doormats or second class citizens. They are equals in a power exchange relationship. They have rights, the same as a Dom. They have choices, the same as a Dom. They can say âyesâ and ânoâ just as a Dom can. They can ask questions. Demand answers. Surprised by this? Then you need to re-evaluate your Dominant role. All D/s relationships are based on agreements, limits, understanding, choices, rules and boundaries. Every aspect of the relationship is discussed and agreed by both partners. This may come as a shock to some, but itâs the SUB who has REAL power in the relationship. A submissive will bow down to his/her Dom because he/she chooses to do so but he/she can also kick a Doms ass out the door if that trust is misplaced and the Dom abuses the authority thatâs been given to Him/Her. You have been warned!
It has to be my way? Rules and punishments.
So youâve earned his/her submission. Now you decide to throw an encyclopedia sized book of rules at him/her and demand they are followed to the letter or a punishment will be given because YOUR rules were broken. No. Just, no. Rules are to be discussed and agreed by both partners. There are a few too many Doms whose rules are non-beneficial to the submissive and are more geared towards themselves. E.G. You can only wake Me with a blow job, or do not call/text me without prior notice, etc.
Rules should be in place to help a submissive. A Dom should know everything about their sub and this takes time so rules should never be set in stone and always be open for revision. However, when rules are in place, do not let them down and shirk Your responsibilities. If a rule is in place, for the best interest of a sub, then please be consistent. Submissives need consistency.
See HERE for help with rules in BDSM
Punishments should also be agreed by both partners and should be reasonable and fit the infraction. DO NOT â EVER â punish a submissive who tries their best and gives 100% but fails a task. Encouragement is needed for them to do better. Otherwise youâll just make them feel worthless. The same rule applies to ignoring a submissive as a punishment. By ignoring a sub, a Dom is saying âyou are only good enough when you are perfectâ. Each relationship is always going to be different, as each Dom/sub are, so using common sense and getting to know the submissive is the key to their discipline and punishment.
See HERE for advice with punishments in BDSM.
 Hi Daddy/Mommy? Hi Baby girl/boy?
Being called Daddy/Mommy or baby girl/boy is a term of endearment in a D/s relationship. Itâs special to the partners and ONLY they are truly allowed to use those terms. So addressing every Daddy/Mommy Dom or baby girl/boy with these personal terms dilutes the meaning so please do not do it.
 Etiquette in BDSM seems to be largely misunderstood by those who are new to the lifestyle or who are just plain ignorant to it so I hope in some way that this will help to address the balance and make this lifestyle a little more understanding.
D~D
A major part of many kinky dynamics is a focus on discipline. While âdisciplineâ can be a fun part of your everyday activities, it can also mean something more specific in terms of punishment. âPunishmentâ differs from the general sense of discipline in that it has a specific goal to focus on that changes a submissiveâs behaviour.
Many people engage in what can be called âfunishment,ââpunishment-type activities, like regular spankings or other forms of play, that are not meant to alter the behaviour of the submissive but rather to provide enjoyment to either/both/all parties. However, it is important to distinguish the difference between playful discipline and serious punishments. Punishments are consequences of negative actions, whether this is based on officially-written regulations or unspoken general behaviours like brattiness, defiance, or dangerous behaviours.
The idea of punishment is based largely on psychological research in the area of behaviourism. It consists of techniques that are supported by science to effectively alter the behaviour of an individual. (If you want to learn more about the research behind punishments, look up B. F. Skinnerâs work in this area.)
Two types of punishments exist: positive punishments, which add undesired consequences to the behaviour, and negative punishments, which take away desired privileges.
Now, before I get into some specific ideas for punishments, there are some important key points Iâd like to make. Please be sure to read all of these before deciding on a specific punishment.
Punishments do NOT negate the right to a safeword. Some people are mislead into dangerous situations by being told they cannot safeword during a punishment. This is completely untrue. All parties have a right to safeword at any time during any kind of play or punishment. Taking away the right to safeword equates to abuse, plain and simple. Donât ever tell your partner they cannot safeword or ignore their safeword for the sake of punishment. This is not effective and is extremely harmful to your partnerâs mental and/or physical well-being.Â
NEVER punish out of anger. Anger is never a healthy motivation for punishment. Punishments are meant for the submissiveâs benefit, at the core. If the submissiveâs behaviour has made the Dominant angry, they should have a cooling-off period where they can calm down, think about an appropriate punishment, and resolve the matter at a later time, after healthy discussion about what happened.
Limits are NOT to be used as punishments. Many people have activities they donât particularly enjoy that arenât on their limits list. Some people have specific ideas for punishments that suit them best. However, regardless of you or your partnerâs experience with punishments, it needs to be understood that hard limits are not punishments. Hard limits are never to be used for punishmentâs sake because âhard limitâ means âI do not want to do this under any circumstance.â Using a hard limit as a punishment would be an abusive act, as hard limits come with an automatic safeword attached, since they are specificly stated as things the person does not feel comfortable with. Never, ever, threaten or use hard limits to punish a submissive.Â
Use healthy discretion. This one should seem obvious, but donât follow through with punishments if rule-breaking was out of the submissiveâs control. Say the submissive has a 11PM bedtime, but they recently suffered a trauma or loss and canât sleep. Let them engage in healthy coping skills instead of punishing them for something they arenât doing on purpose. Above all else, make safety and well-being a priority.
Make the punishment fit the crime. Punishments that are relative to the defiance are much more effective at changing the behaviour than random punishments. For example, if the submissive cums without permission, try a punishment from the âorgasm controlâ section. This will better reinforce the reasoning in the submissive and more effectively guide them to make better choices in the future. There are also punishments that work best for specific dynamics like for littles or pets, so be sure to read into those, below.
Aftercare is absolutely required. Like any kind of play, aftercare is required at the end of the scene. This is especially important during punishments because often times, the submissive is consumed with feelings of guilt and disappointment. After a punishment, Dominants need to give their submissives aftercare that includes a conversation about why they were punished, how proud the Dominant is for them taking the punishment so well, and that there are no negative feelings between them. The submissive should leave the punishment scene feeling forgiven for their mistakes and proud of themselves for making things right with their Dominant. Do not leave your submissive alone after a punishment without aftercare, ever! This is highly abusive and can seriously harm your partner.
Humiliation
A great way to get a submissive to stay in line is to humiliate them when theyâve done something wrong. There are several ways to go about this, depending on your dynamic and kinks, but itâs an effective and amusing way to get the message across.Â
Clothing Restriction
Clothing restriction can be done both domestically and in public. Restriction can be as much as not allowing any clothing (in legal or private settings), ordering a certain amount of skin be showing, or choosing a specific outfit or collar for the submissive. For shy submissives, clothing restriction can be intense. This is an especially good punishment for submissives who have said negative comments about their bodies.
Diapering
For ABDL or little submissives, this can either be a reward or a punishment. Depending on the comfort level with diapers, they can be used as a punishment that ties into humiliation. Making them relieve themselves in only the diaper for a set amount of time or wearing it around the house as their only clothing can be very humiliating for some people.
Sissification
Sissification is a kink that is most common in submissive men. Itâs the act of dolling a man up like a girl and humiliating him based on his presentation as such. This can be very effective for some people but can be very problematic to others. Be careful not to use this kink as punishment with trans or gender non-conforming subs without their explicit consent, as it can very easily trigger dysphoria and cause severe emotional problems.Â
Public Humiliation
Public humiliation can be done in any subtle way that embarrasses a submissive without breaking any obvious laws. Some examples include making them wear an anal plug or remote-controlled vibrator to dinner, public leashing, or making them kneel at social gatherings. Work this idea into the submissiveâs specific kinks and limits to be sure itâs just enough to embarrass them, without making them unbearably uncomfortable.
Orgasm Control
Orgasm control is simply thatâcontrolling the submissiveâs orgasms. Most of these types of punishments are used for submissives who break rules about orgasms, be it without permission or when they were told not to touch themselves. Controlling orgasms is an amusing way to teach the submissive who their orgasms belong to.
Edging
Edging is the act of getting your partner right to the edge of orgasm, then denying them release. This can be done multiple times, even in short amounts of time. Itâs a little psychological torture, best for those who cum without permission.
Toy Restriction
For a submissive, like myself, who is accustomed to using toys during masturbation or play, toy restriction is a very effective punishment. This is especially good for submissives who have a difficult time reaching orgasm without toys, as it makes things very frustrating very quickly. An evil punishment may even combine toy restrictions with a quota of orgasms for the day that they must reach in order to get off restriction. Desperation will sink in very quickly and this lesson will be easily learned.
Forced Orgasms
Forced orgasm is another great punishment for submissives who cum without permission. It turns a great sensation into a torturous experience very quickly. This is especially great with toys like the Hitachi or a Sybian. Focus on a goalâeither for number of orgasms, or a specific amount of time. An hour spent riding a Hitachi can really be the most agonizing thing for some people due to heightened sensitivity after each orgasm.Â
Denial
Denial is the complete opposite of forced orgasms. Itâs like edging, but there is no orgasm at the end of the scene. This can be doing while using toys and not allowing the person to orgasm or it can be done by restriction orgasms or even touching oneself for a longer period of time.
Chastity
Chastity, much like denial, is the refusal of orgasms. However, with chastity, the submissive is completely unable to touch themselves, even if they wanted to. Devices for people with penises and vaginas are available to purchase online to assure your submissive is following orders properly.
Domestic Discipline
Domestic discipline includes things that can be done within the home. Some of these include behaviour modifications or restrictions. While some of these can be done outside the home, these are good examples of things for couples who live together can do for punishments.
Chores
Chores not only benefit the entire household, but they can also be an effective punishment for unruly subs. Added chores can be especially fun if you make her clean the bathroom with a toothbrush or make him do dishes with nipple clamps on. Combine with other punishments for your amusement!
Furniture Restriction
Especially fun for people into pet-play, furniture restriction involves limiting where the submissive can sit or lie down. Require that they sit on the ground instead of the couches or sleep on the floor next to the bed if theyâve been defiant.
Caging
Another good one for pets, especially. Caging can be used to make the submissive reflect on their reasons for being punished. Be sure to use a cage small enough to confine them, but still large enough so they arenât going to hurt themselves by spending too much time in the cage.
Bedtime
A great one for littles! Bedtimes are good for college students who donât do their homework, or easily distracted adults with work to do. Set up rules that require all obligations get done and enforce an early bedtime to be sure they are well-rested (and easily frustrated) when they donât follow these rules.
Time-Out
Another punishment for reflection. Time-outs are good for brats and littles because it makes them analyze what they did wrong. Put them in a corner or a special âtime-out chairâ so they know they are being punished. Increase the time or add in other punishments if they break rules more than once.
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory deprivation is a lot like time-out, but can be used for added psychological torment. Plug the submissiveâs ears or use headphones, blindfold them, bind them to a bed or chair, and completely ignore them for a set about of time. This desensitizes them and not only makes them reflect on their reasons for punishment, but makes it very uncomfortable, assuring they wonât want to end up in isolation again.
Objectification
Objectification is fun for Dominants who like their submissives in service to them during punishment. Make them kneel and become your footstool or coffee table while you watch TV or catch up on work. This is even better when you make them do it completely naked and/or in front of guests.
Dietary Restriction
If a submissive has done something against the rules, you can make them follow a strict diet. This is especially useful for those using behaviour modification to lose or gain weight. However, be careful to ensure the submissive is still getting enough nutrition. For littles, see how much they want to be a brat after you take away their dessert privilege. For pets, try making them eat out of a bowl on the floor for each meal.
Speech Restriction
For disrespectful submissives, punish them by taking away their right to a personal pronoun, making them refer to themselves as âthis girl,â âYour slut,â âMasterâs puppy boy,â or anything else you want to use. You can also make it a rule that they must refer to you by your Dominant title at all times, even in public. Having to remember their restrictions on speech will keep them thinking about their punishment all day.
Corporal Punishment
Corporal punishment is enforcement by physical contact. These types of punishments involve pain, which is a tricky subject for punishing. Typically, pain punishments donât work as well to change behaviour, especially if the submissive is also a masochist. Be sure to carefully choose what kind of pain if youâre going with one of these methods.
Impact
If your submissive likes thuddy pain, use stingy pain. If they like stingy pain, use thuddy. Push their limits carefully, but make it clear this is a punishment and not for fun. Have them apologize as you strike them. Tell them why they are being punished and make it clear that they are to be good and learn from their mistakes.Â
Rice Kneeling
Kneeling on uncooked rice is an age-old technique that leaves painful marks. Be careful with time, as this can scar if done for long periods of time or used constantly. Be present during this to be sure the submissive can take it and listen carefully for safewords. Use this as a time out or have them recite an apology to you as you do this.
Figging
Figging is done by carving a plug out of ginger and inserting into the anus. This causes a stinging pain that ranges in intensity depending on the person. Frozen ginger is a milder form of this punishment.
Writing Assignments
Writing assignments are usually meant to bore a submissive into obedience. Whether itâs writing lines or a random homework assignment, the punishment focuses on making it undesirable for the submissive to misbehave.
Lines
Writing lines is effective if you use it reflectively. For example, for a submissive who is disrespectful, you can have him write, âI will always be polite around my Sir,â a hundred times. For a submissive who cums without permission, you can order, âI will ask permission from Mistress before I cum,â until they fill up five pages. Whatâs even more fun is making them be stuffed with a toy or on their knees with nipple clamps on while they write.
Apology Letter
An apology letter is a simple task meant to make the submissive think about what they have done, analyze why it was wrong, and have them apologize formally by writing it down. Have them read their letter to you our loud or crumple it up and put in their their underwear for that added perk of remembering all day that they were punished.
Essay
An essay is a good assignment for submissives who donât seem to understand their rules. Make them come up with reasons as to why these rules are in place and write a formal essay about the reasoning and purpose of these rules. Making them analyze the fact that this is for their benefit will remind them that rules are not just there to be mean, but to guide them to healthier behaviour.
Homework
Especially fun for people with school girl or teacher fantasies, assign a random homework assignment. Ever wonder about a certain subject but never have time to actually research it? Assign a paper to your submissive about a subject of your choosing and have them report back to youâbecause knowledge is power! Grade their paper and reward/punish again as necessary for the quality of their work.
Itâs important to remember that reinforcements are also important in addition to punishments. When your submissive follows directions, reward them. Give them a treat or praise them and thank them for being so good. If you mix positive reinforcement with punishments when necessary, theyâre sure to be trained in no time!
xx SF
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