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@help-ive-got-feels
“Sometimes we get sad about things and we don’t like to tell other people that we are sad about them. We like to keep it a secret. Or sometimes, we are sad but we really don’t know why we are sad, so we say we aren’t sad but we really are.”
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“Her heart sank into her shoes as she realized at last how much she wanted him. No matter what his past was, no matter what he had done. Which was not to say that she would ever let him know, but only that he moved her chemically more than anyone she had ever met, that all other men seemed pale beside him.”
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“I wanted him not only all over my thighs, but all over my heart, too.”
— sex and love (CM, 9:57 pm)
Quick... how do I stop myself from catching feelings from small interactions
“So I wait for you like a lonely house, till you will see me again and live in me. Till then my windows ache.”
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How’s everyone doing during this COVID time? Feel free to vent to my inbox or message me if you need someone to talk to ❤️
Note on Relationships: A time like this likely puts strain for relationships as this might be the first time you really learn how someone reacts during a crisis. Be patient and empathetic with yourself and whoever you are quarantining with and keep in mind that not everyone has developed the coping skills for a time like this ✨
Note on Health and Safety: I hope you all stay inside! If you go out for necessities stay protected (masks, gloves, keeping distance). As someone who works in the medical field and has family working in it, It hurts me to see others not take it seriously and only think for themselves. Do everyone a favor and take this seriously and hold your friends accountable for taking it seriously and practicing social distancing too✨
Ways to Cope with Loneliness: I know they’re are a lot of us who live alone/ aren’t in a relationship. And at a time like this the feelings of loneliness might be emphasized. Some of the ways I’ve found to deal with that is sort of framing it in a different way. Think without others around you can take time for you and practice things like, art, music, or writing! (Amazon still ships supplies) You can exercise indoors or indulge in a video game without anyone judging how you are spending your time. Most importantly, you can take this time alone to get some rest. You can give yourself a bubble bath every single day, or sleep for hours and nobody would be addressing you about. Reframe this as a time without outside opinion instead of loneliness.✨
🌼🌼If none of my tips above help there are some apps available for people who are having a hard time coping with the changes of the pandemic. One of my favorite ones is called: Sanvello! This app offers a premium membership for everyone right now. They’ve got licensed therapist speaking to you on the app on proven methods alongside meditation tips to help ease the negative feelings you might have. It also encourages you to write down/ log in your feelings, whether positive or negative, by sending you a phone notification :)
- ARD
ps. excuse my typos :/
Here’s the link to the iPhone app:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/sanvello-for-stress-anxiety/id922968861
The #1 app for stress, anxiety, and depression with over 3 million users A place to feel better: Sanvello premium access is free to every
GUIDELINES FOR BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP
Don’t assign blame when you’re in conflict
Don’t keep score on your partner
Speak for yourself using “I” statements instead of “you” statements
Don’t argue perceptions or facts
Don’t threaten abandonment in the face of conflict
Communicate in four sentences or less
Repeat what you hear them saying to make sure you heard it right BEFORE responding
Avoid critical remarks, blaming the other, or justifying your actions
Don’t worry about whether your partner is adhering to these guidelines–take sole responsibility for yourself and hold yourself accountable to healthy communication.
Need this kind of support in my life
How is everyone! I’ve been going through a breakup so I haven’t been on this much. Even the one running a dating blog goes through heartbreak so bear with me 🤧🥺
If you want advice or want to know how I’ve been dealing with breakup let me know! Or slide into my anons 🥴 OR if you’d like to share your own tips feel free to submit or send an ask :)
“PUT A NUMBER IN MY ASK ;)”
— 1. Who was the last person you held hands with? 2. Are you outgoing or shy? 3. Who are you looking forward to seeing? 4. Are you easy to get along with? 5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you? 6. What kind of people are you attracted to? 7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now? 8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind? 9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? 10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with? 11. What does the most recent text that you sent say? 12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? 13. Do you like it when people play with your hair? 14. Do you believe in luck and miracles? 15. What good thing happened this summer? 16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? 17. Do you think there is life on other planets? 18. Do you still talk to your first crush? 19. Do you like bubble baths? 20. Do you like your neighbors? 21. What are you bad habits? 22. Where would you like to travel? 23. Do you have trust issues? 24. Favorite part of your daily routine? 25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with? 26. What do you do when you wake up? 27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker? 28. Who are you most comfortable around? 29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up? 30. Do you ever want to get married? 31. If your hair long enough for a pony tail? 32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with? 33. Spell your name with your chin. 34. Do you play sports? What sports? 35. Would you rather live without TV or music? 36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them? 37. What do you say during awkward silences? 38. Describe your dream girl/guy? 39. What are your favorite stores to shop in? 40. What do you want to do after high school? 41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? 42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean? 43. Do you smile at strangers? 44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean? 45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? 46. What are you paranoid about? 47. Have you ever been high? 48. Have you ever been drunk? 49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about? 50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore? 51. Ever wished you were someone else? 52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself? 53. Favourite makeup brand? 54. Favourite store? 55. Favourite blog? 56. Favourite colour? 57. Favourite food? 58. Last thing you ate? 59. First thing you ate this morning? 60. Ever won a competition? For what? 61. Been suspended/expelled? For what? 62. Been arrested? For what? 63. Ever been in love? 64. Tell us the story of your first kiss? 65. Are you hungry right now? 66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends? 67. Facebook or Twitter? 68. Twitter or Tumblr? 69. Are you watching tv right now? 70. Names of your bestfriends? 71. Craving something? What? 72. What colour are your towels? 72. How many pillows do you sleep with? 73. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? 74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have? 75. Favourite animal? 76. What colour is your underwear? 77. Chocolate or Vanilla? 78. Favourite ice cream flavour? 79. What colour shirt are you wearing? 80. What colour pants? 81. Favourite tv show? 82. Favourite movie? 83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? 84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street? 85. Favourite character from Mean Girls? 86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo? 87. First person you talked to today? 88. Last person you talked to today? 89. Name a person you hate? 90. Name a person you love? 91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now? 92. In a fight with someone? 93. How many sweatpants do you have? 94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have? 95. Last movie you watched? 96. Favourite actress? 97. Favourite actor? 98. Do you tan a lot? 99. Have any pets? 100. How are you feeling? 101. Do you type fast? 102. Do you regret anything from your past? 103. Can you spell well? 104. Do you miss anyone from your past? 105. Ever been to a bonfire party? 106. Ever broken someone’s heart? 107. Have you ever been on a horse? 108. What should you be doing? 109. Is something irritating you right now? 110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? 111. Do you have trust issues? 112. Who was the last person you cried in front of? 113. What was your childhood nickname? 114. Have you ever been out of your province/state? 115. Do you play the Wii? 116. Are you listening to music right now? 117. Do you like chicken noodle soup? 118. Do you like Chinese food? 119. Favourite book? 120. Are you afraid of the dark? 121. Are you mean? 122. Is cheating ever okay? 123. Can you keep white shoes clean? 124. Do you believe in love at first sight? 125. Do you believe in true love? 126. Are you currently bored? 127. What makes you happy? 128. Would you change your name? 129. What your zodiac sign? 130. Do you like subway? 131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? 132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? 133. Favourite lyrics right now? 134. Can you count to one million? 135. Dumbest lie you ever told? 136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed? 137. How tall are you? 138. Curly or Straight hair? 139. Brunette or Blonde? 140. Summer or Winter? 141. Night or Day? 142. Favourite month? 143. Are you a vegetarian? 144. Dark, milk or white chocolate? 145. Tea or Coffee? 146. Was today a good day? 147. Mars or Snickers? 148. What’s your favourite quote? 149. Do you believe in ghosts? 150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line on that page? Source - catscuddlingandyou.tumblr.com
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“You deserve a relationship with someone who doesn’t leave you guessing where you stand with them.”
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