helpingclarice

Good evening, Clarice. This is a safe place for those who seek advice, company or just want to rant about something. Tell me how was your day, how you're feeling, what are you thinking. I'll do my best to help and listen (while I eat this liver with some fava beans and a nice chianti).

[helpingclarice]

Hello.

Two years ago I started this blog cause I felt like it would be nice to try and help people with their problems, their conflicts, even if that meant to just listen/read about how their day went. It was all going pretty well, but after a while turned out I was the one needing help. I fell deeply into my depression and my anxiety problems. I was being mean to myself and to my own body. I felt useless, worthless. It took me way too long to admit to myself that  I should seek for professional help, but I did.

Now I’m back. And I truly want this to work out so please, come talk with me. It doesn’t need to be about something bad, it can be about anything, really. I’m here to listen. I want to help. I want you to feel good about yourself. I want people to know they are worthy. Unfortunately, I can’t help everybody and I can’t do anything else than this, but this much I can do. So I will. I’m here. I care. 

I’ll be waiting for you,

H.L.

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IVE WAITED ALL YEAR

[helpingclarice]

hiiiii. it's me, x. I just came to say that for anyone thinking they can't continue on, or that you have no hope of getting better: I've been clean for 18 months and 14 days. you got this. I want to thank you for all the support that you gave me when I was down. you've been awesome. xx :))

Oh my goodness, x, I’m so glad that you drop by!

Thank you so much for this kind message to my followers and thank you for letting me know you’re okay. I’m so proud of you! Merry Christmas!

[helpingclarice]

Well, hello there.

You may be asking yourself what is the purpose of this blog and I’m here to explain it to you.

I created this blog wanting it to be a space for those who seek for help, advice or just somewhere to rant about something that is in their mind. Good or bad.

I’m no expert or any kind of psychiatrist but I always liked helping people to find a way to solve their problems. And we all know sometimes all we need is someone to listen, so that’s why I’m here for: to listen. 

You can either send me an anonymous ask or not, I’m okay with both ways, just please, in case you send a non-anon ask, let me know if you want me to answer privately otherwise I’ll publish every ask, after all, maybe someone else is seeking for a similar answer. My submit is also open in case you have a lot to say! 

I guess that’s it for now. I look forward to talking with you.

With love,

H.L.

[helpingclarice]

hey clarice!! I just found out my crush likes me back and I'm so excited but idk this is probably just gonna be some typical quick relationship thing and I really don't want that to happen. idk whether to date him now and probably break up in like a month or just try to stay friends for as long as possible. I really like him a lot and I just wish we could be together forever or something ( that sounded so cheesy sorry)

Hello dear,

First of all, why are you so sure that it won’t last? After all, if you both like each other, you two should last?

But if you have doubts, I’d suggest that you stay a while longer as just friends and make sure that him likes you enough to work out between you two and then give it a try.

Good luck! And let me know what did you decided to do!

[helpingclarice]

xx

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[helpingclarice]

Well, hello there.

You may be asking yourself what is the purpose of this blog and I’m here to explain it to you.

I created this blog wanting it to be a space for those who seek for help, advice or just somewhere to rant about something that is in their mind. Good or bad.

I’m no expert or any kind of psychiatrist but I always liked helping people to find a way to solve their problems. And we all know sometimes all we need is someone to listen, so that’s why I’m here for: to listen. 

You can either send me an anonymous ask or not, I’m okay with both ways, just please, in case you send a non-anon ask, let me know if you want me to answer privately otherwise I’ll publish every ask, after all, maybe someone else is seeking for a similar answer. My submit is also open in case you have a lot to say! 

I guess that’s it for now. I look forward to talking with you.

With love,

H.L.

[helpingclarice]

Well, hello there.

You may be asking yourself what is the purpose of this blog and I’m here to explain it to you.

I created this blog wanting it to be a space for those who seek for help, advice or just somewhere to rant about something that is in their mind. Good or bad.

I’m no expert or any kind of psychiatrist but I always liked helping people to find a way to solve their problems. And we all know sometimes all we need is someone to listen, so that’s why I’m here for: to listen. 

You can either send me an anonymous ask or not, I’m okay with both ways, just please, in case you send a non-anon ask, let me know if you want me to answer privately otherwise I’ll publish every ask, after all, maybe someone else is seeking for a similar answer. My submit is also open in case you have a lot to say! 

I guess that’s it for now. I look forward to talking with you.

With love,

H.L.

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THATS RIGHT.

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REBLOGGED THIS ONE BEFORE BUT I DONT EVEN FUCKING CARE 

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[helpingclarice]

I know this is late but...

Happy Easter everyone! I've reeeeeeeally busy, I don't know how easter works in your country but here they have a holiday and I worked on my internship the whole extended weekend cause it's on a restaurant. I was exhausted, seriously. But it will end next week -finally- and I'll be back for real. I'm really sorry for those who are waiting for their answers, but I've been really stressed out and could manage to make my brain work. Until then, stay safe. With love, H.L.

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Notes to Thirteen Year Old Girls

When your best friend tells you all she had for breakfast Was a packet of Splenda and a Diet Coke, And she tells you that she’ll stop after she loses five more pounds, Do not believe her. Tell her mother. It does not matter how angry your friend gets. The pain of that will always be preferable to the pain Of seeing your best friend in four years Weighing as much as she does now Half-dead in the hospital.

When your father sneaks into your bed in the dead of the night, And he tells you that this is how fathers love their daughters, Do not believe him. Tell your English teacher. She will have read millions of stories of girls like you. There is a one in six chance that she will be a girl like you. There is a five in six chance that she will know what to say to you. There is a six in six chance that she will help you.

When your veins whisper to you in the moonlight And say that there are so many nightmares inside you That could be free If you would just open your arms, Do not believe them. Tell your school’s guidance counselor, No matter how scared you are Because whispers are liars, And opening your arms will only open the passage For more nightmares to climb in.

And when the therapists say that you are better, Totally better, And you don’t need to worry about the sadness again, Do not believe them. Always be cautious, because sadness has a way Of sneaking up on you When you’re not looking. Be careful. Be careful.

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Woah

[bandanabeth]

You did it. You made it. It’s Friday and you made it through another week of school and work and all that other not fun stuff Go you! Why not have a nap and a good dessert? You deserve it.

[helpingclarice]

Hi! I just made this account, which is similar to yours, and I was wondering if you could spread the word? I've spoken to you before, you're really great! Thanks, dear!(:

Of course. :) 

[helpingclarice]

Do you give advice like privately?

Yes, I do. Just send send a non anonymous ask and tell me you want to keep it private. 

[helpingclarice]

Important

I work from 8am to 5pm in a office and I do my obligatory internship in a restaurant from 6:30pm to midnight, that’s why I haven’t had time to answer everyone. I try to come here every now and then when my boss at the office isn’t looking though. But that will change next, when my internship is over and I will have plenty more time to answer y’all. 

I’m really sorry. 

Another thing, I answer everyone in order. So if you sent something recently, it may take a little more time for me to answer. But if it’s something truly urgent, write it on the beginning of the ask and I’ll and answer as soon as I can. 

Stay safe.

With love,

H.L.

[helpingclarice]

When I was 10 or 11 I was raped, more than once.I've only told 1, that family member died & I guess I was happy. Anyways I'm afraid of men, getting close to people, I have body image issues. I'm over weight. I make myself sick after I eat & I have no social life, I'm very quiet & shy. I only have1 friend, but I've made her upset with me. & tomorrow is my bday & I'll be all alone, spring is my favorite time of the year & I feel so sad. I'm failing my classes, for the 1st time. I'm scared.

I’m so so so incredibly sorry for taking so long to answer. Happy Birthday, sweetie, it’s a little late, but I really do wish you all the best in your life. I’m really sorry to know you went through so much already. Don’t make yourself sick after you eat, please. If you’re not happy with your body, find a healthy way to change it. But only if you’re not happy. It’s okay to be a little uncomfortable with getting close to people, but in your case, I strongly recommend you to search for professional help. About your friend, I hope you two are on good terms again.