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Unlearning How White People Ask Personal Questions
http://www.samefacts.com/2014/05/culture-and-civil-society/unlearning-how-white-people-ask-personal-questions/
Holy shit. I have ALWAYS thought the people around me were being unconscionably intrusive and power-playing in their starter conversations and they told me I was antisocial and oblivious to culture norms. Turns out, maybe I’m just from a different culture.
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by Keith Humphreys - May 5, 2014
When I met my fiance’s African-American stepfather, things did not start well. Stumbling for some way to start a conversation with a man whose life was unlike mine in almost every respect, I asked “So, what do you do for a living?”.
He looked down at his shoes and said quietly “Well, I’m unemployed”.
At the time I cringed inwardly and recognized that I had committed a terrible social gaffe which seemed to scream “Hey prospective in-law, since I am probably going to be a member of your family real soon, I thought I would let you know up front that I am a completely insensitive jackass”. But I felt even worse years later when I came to appreciate the racial dimension of how I had humiliated my stepfather-in-law to be.
For that painful but necessary bit of knowledge I owe a white friend who throughout her childhood attended Chicago schools in a majority Black district. She passed along a marvelous book that helped her make sense of her own inter-racial experiences. It was Kochman’s Black and White Styles in Conflict, and it had a lasting effect on me. One of the many things I learned from this anthropological treasure trove of a book is how race affects the personal questions we feel entitled to ask and the answers we receive in response.
My question to my stepfather was at the level of content a simple conversation starter (albeit a completely failed one). But at the level of process, it was an expression of power. Kochman’s book sensitized me to middle class whites’ tendency to ask personal questions without first considering whether they have a right to know the personal details of someone else’s life. When we ask someone what they do for a living for example, we are also asking for at least partial information on their income, their status in the class hierarchy and their perceived importance in the world. Unbidden, that question can be quite an invasion. The presumption that one is entitled to such information is rarely made explicit, but that doesn’t prevent it from forcing other people to make a painful choice: Disclose something they want to keep secret or flatly refuse to answer (which oddly enough usually makes them, rather than the questioner, look rude).
Kochman’s book taught me a new word, which describes an indirect conversational technique he studied in urban Black communities: “signifying”. He gives the example (as I recall it, 25 years on) of a marriage-minded black woman who is dating a man who pays for everything on their very nice dates. She wonders if he has a good job. But instead of grilling him with “So what do you do for a living?”, she signifies “Whatever oil well you own, I hope it keeps pumping!”.
Her signifying in this way is a sensitive, respectful method to raise the issue she wants to know about because unlike my entitled direct question it keeps the control under the person whose personal information is of interest. Her comment could be reasonably responded to by her date as a funny joke, a bit of flirtation, or a wish for good luck. But of course it also shows that if the man freely chooses to reveal something like “Things look good for me financially: I’m a certified public accountant at a big, stable firm”, he can do so and know she will be interested.
Since reading Kochman’s book, I have never again directly asked anyone what they do for a living. Instead my line is “So how do you spend your time?”. Some people (particularly middle class white people) choose to answer that question in the bog standard way by describing their job. But other people choose to tell me about the compelling novel they are reading, what they enjoy about being a parent, the medical treatment they are getting for their bad back, whatever. Any of those answers flow just as smoothly from the signification in a way they wouldn’t from a direct question about their vocation.
From the perspective of ameliorating all the racial pain in the world, this change in my behavior is a grain of sand in the Sahara. But I pass this experience along nonetheless, for two reasons. First, very generally, if any of us human beings can easily engage in small kindnesses, we should. Second, specific to race, if those of us who have more power can learn to refrain from using it to harm people in any way – major or minor — we should do that too.
I'm getting back into studying mythology- specifically Greek, but if I see other myth information, I'll post it, too.
SO, if you see an influx of posts about mythology... you're welcome? Lol
BEST WITCHY BOOKS FOR THE BEGINNER WITCH
Buckland’s Complete Book Of Witchcraft - This book is a most have in every Wiccan’s (If you are) collection because of how informative it is. I highly recommend this book to really every witch who hasn’t read it yet.
The Modern Guide to Witchcraft: Your Complete Guide to Witches, Covens, and Spells - This book is a nice add to a baby witches collection, for how simple of a read it is. Not to mention how aesthetically pleasing it is.
Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner - This book is also a very nice read, it has a perfect amount of information where you wont get information overload too quickly. Its unbiased and offers a great first start to starting the craft.
Wicca: by Harmony Nice - If you are a complete newbie to Wicca or the craft, then this is the book for you. This book is easy to swallow, and offers easy to understand information for newbies without being too difficult to process.
Of Witchcraft and whimsy - I think this is the book for newbies who want to seek the more modern practices of witchcraft. This is a book that focuses more on the craft than Wicca itself. It is also complete with plenty of unique and fun spells perfect for beginner level.
Pastel Spells - A perfect book for newbies looking to try out spells of all types at a beginner level.
The Green Witch - Perfect for a beginning green witch, this book is complete with all the basics of Green magick complete with the correspondences of herbs and food, recipes, and basic practices and morals of a green witch.
Spellcrafting: Strengthen the Power of Your Craft by Creating and Casting Your Own Unique Spells - Perfect for a new witch looking to formulate their own unique spells.
The Modern Herbal Dispensatory: A Medicine-Making Guide - Perfect for new witches looking to expand their knowledge on herbalism.
The Modern Witchcraft Guide to Magickal Herbs: Your Complete Guide to the Hidden Powers of Herbs - Beautifully illustrated guide to herbs and their magickal properties.
The Witch’s Herbal Apothecary:Rituals & Recipes for a Year of Earth Magick and Sacred Medicine Making - Perfect for the beginning witch interested in herbalism, ands its all around a pretty little book.
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Persephone: I don't like my last name
Hades: what?
Persephone: because it's not your last name ;)
Hades:
Hades: Persephone, we don't have last names.
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i drew this one for half halloween!
💛 mundane witchy things you can do in the fall 💛
🎃 bake pumpkin and pecan pies!
🎃 open windows around your house to let the autumn air and the smell of rain into your house.
🎃 charge your crystals in autumn rainwater/storm water mixed with spices.
🎃 carving pumpkins is a given, but decorate them afterwards with various crystals, leaves, dried herbs, and put dried flowers in them before you light the candles. It’s a little shrine to the dead.
🎃 sprinkle cinnamon around the outside of your house. This will protect you and your house from ill-intented spirits on Samhain, and your house will smell lovely. For added effect, wait until right before it rains. The rain will heighten the scent.
🎃 feed the neighborhood cats
🎃 listen to music that puts you into an autumn-y mood (this post has a nice playlist to start with!)
🎃 drink tea
🎃 watch spooky movies
🎃 interpret more spices and herbs into your cooking, like cinnamon, nutmeg, coriander, thyme, and sage.
🎃 light some sweet-smelling candles around your house (my personal favorites are Harvest and Autumn Wreath Yankee Candles, and there are a few really good smelling Woodwick candles that I would suggest buying. The crackling of the wood is relaxing as well.)
🎃 sit outside at nighttime to meditate or drink a cup of hot cocoa
🎃 go out into the forest and collect things from nature to represent the season; pinecones, acorns, leaves, flowers, fruits, and even some bones if you find any and are comfortable with taking them - MAKE SURE TO THANK THE ANIMAL BEFORE TAKING!
🎃 bake pumpkin seeds!
🎃 make seed balls shaped like pumpkins for the birds looking for food in the colder seasons, and hang them in trees!
🎃 wear all black
🎃 go to a corn maze or to a pumpkin patch, or an apple orchard
🎃 gardening! Though a lot of plants die in the colder seasons, some autumn flowers like chrysanthemums and dahlias are really pretty, and represent joy, strength, and elegance.
🎃 leave offerings for the animals looking for food and preparing for hibernation soon.
🎃 go on a night drive with no set destination in mind
🎃 collect lots of storm water, because with the cold front coming in with the new season, storms, rain, and cloudy days are likely.
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Incense correspondences
🕯Allspice - Money, fortune, luck, prosperity
🕯Aloe - Higher vibrations, prosperity, strength, love
🕯Amber - Bliss, healing, comfort, love
🕯Anise - Balance, meditation
🕯Basil - Protection, luck, focus, faithfulness, money, love divination, courage
🕯Bay - Mental powers, prophetic dreams
🕯Bergamont - Wealth, happiness, focus, protection, courage, balance, motivation
🕯Cardomom - Focus, courage, motivation, clarity
🕯Cedar - Purification, love, healing, psychic powers, nightmares
🕯Chamomile - Protection, calm, peace, sleep
🕯Cinnamon - Protection, wealth, success, prosperity, psychic powers
🕯Clove - Cleansing, purification, wealth, stopping gossip, healing, success, divination, protection
🕯Copal - Purification, happiness, love, protection
🕯Citrus - Brightness, courage, confidence, luck, accomplishing goals
🕯Dragons Blood - Cleansing, energy, courage, purification, love, strengthening magical powers
🕯Eucalyptus - Cleansing, protection, purification, healing
🕯Frankincense - Cleansing, astral travel, courage, purification, consecration, protection, meditation, luck
🕯Gardenia - Love, relationships, healing, peace
🕯Ginger - Money, love, power
🕯Heather - Calling and conjuring
🕯Honeysuckle - Wealth, bliss, relationships, healing
🕯Jasmine - Prophetic dreams, love, wealth, purification, astral projection, purification
🕯Juniper - Breaking curses and hexes, protection, psychic powers, healing, calmness
🕯Lavender - Sleep, love, cleansing, happiness, relaxation, healing
🕯Lemon - Love, healing, purification
🕯Mint - Cleansing, conjuring, money, sex, healing, protection
🕯Nutmeg - Psychic powers, meditation, prosperity
🕯Orange - Love, divination, wealth, luck
🕯Peppermint - Healing, animal magic, energy
🕯Pine - Purification, banishing, wealth, strength, grounding, cleansing, breaking hexes, healing
🕯Rose - Prophetic dreams, courage, fertility, blessings, healing, love
🕯Rosemary - Depression, purification, healing, youth, fairies, sleep
🕯Sage - Protection, purification, cleansing, wisdom, healing
🕯Sandalwood - Conjuring, spirituality, protection, healing, astral projection, wishes
🕯Sweetgrass - Conjuring, positive energy
🕯Thyme - Purification, healing, health.
🕯Vanilla - Sex, love, psychic powers
🕯Violet - Luck, love, wisdom, healing, protection
🕯Wormwood - Psychic powers
🕯Ylang-ylang - Hapiness, love, harmony