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Alhamduilah ❤️ Allah is the best of planners.

This time last year Ameer and I scheduled my ovarian cyst removal surgery and he was trying to keep me positive despite all of the negative possibilities.

Now we are counting down the weeks until we get to meet our son InshaAllah.

Keep all 3 of us in your duas ❤️

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Salam, I have this friend who is constantly being overly critical about everything I do or like e.g if I like a show she would say its lame, I bought a lab desk once she said "only you would buy something so useless" and its getting on my nerves. I told her about it once but she's like its just to give an advice. Yea I get it constructive criticism but it doesn't mean you get to criticise e everything Am I overreacting PLZ HELP !

Sounds like you no longer need to be her friend. She sounds like she sucks the energy from you and you don’t need that. Just be real with her, tell her you need space.

Salam aleikum. Do you and your husband share Any nationality/ethnicity? Was it hard getting your parents’ accept? I’m an Afghan young woman trying to marry a Kurdish man, and my parents are ready to eat me alive.

He’s African American and I’m half African American, half European American. So we didn’t have any issues getting married but my father never cared about ethnicity.

Is your family religious? If so then you can use the Quran and Sunnah to convince them but if it’s purely cultural then the only advice I can give is to just try. If he means something to do then don’t give up.

Denying someone because of their ethnicity isn’t a logical or fair reason to deny someone.

As salamu 3laykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. I followed you before you got married, and now you're going to have a baby. Allahumma barik, may Allah bless you guys and grant you a safe birth and healthy child. Amin. 🤲❤

Wa alakium as salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh!

Aww you’ve been following me for like 5 years then!

Ameen!!

Hey, my brother just admitted to his father (my uncle) that he feels impressed to walk around with me since I am wearing the headscarf. I just feel hurt and I don’t know what to do? Btw I come from a Muslim family.

Sorry if I get this wrong but,

Your cousin is embarrassed walking around with you in hijab?

Then don’t walk out with him. If he cares about what other people think so much then leave him be. Don’t be like him by worrying about what others think.

Im a Muslim and the guy I’m in love with is a Muslim as well. So I have been in love with this guy for about 5 years now and I have never talked to him but my family and his family know each other and he has even visited our house with his parents but we have never talked and I’m just waiting for him to show if he is interested in me but I feel like he isn’t but I can’t help myself falling in love with him and it’s making me reject other guys. Please what should i do and also he is 5yrs older

It doesn’t really sound like you’re in love with him, more of you’re interested in him.

Why don’t you just ask your family to talk to his family about getting to know each other?

salam sister. im 26 y/o having a super hard time finding a husband. My family has been searching for 2 years now and almost going to be 3 years. sometimes i get really sad and upset and feel like i will never be able to find any1. i dont feel like i can talk to anyone about this. its really hard for me cuz sometimes i feel very lonely and feel like i really need a partner in life. i make alot of dua too and have had many proposals but nothing works out in the end. any advise :'( ?

W/salam.

I know that it is very lonely not being married and it’s especially difficult when everyone around you is getting married but honestly just keep making Dua that Allah blesses you with an amazing spouse.

Sometimes you may need to take a break from thinking about marriage. Ramadan is coming soon so InshaAllah take a break from looking and thinking about married and resume when you feel emotionally calm and relaxed.

May Allah bless you with a spouse who will be good for you, ameen.

Do you still do questions?

General questions, but I don’t like questions that should be directed to an imam or sheikh.

man how do you even have the enrgy to deal with all those rude anons... they really should mind their own lives, that's plenty to do. I might be more mad about this than you lol.

Man, idk. I haven’t been on tumblr in like months then the first thing I see is this BS. Like immediatelyy energy is drained.

I think what bothers me the most is that if someone was sincerely trying to give me advice, ya know the Islamic way, then they wouldn’t do it on anon or insult me.

Like how can a person try to belittle another persons level of deen, like their whole thread of messages seemed arrogant to say the least.

Why do your sisters not cover their neck? Hijab is more than a head covering, the awrah includes the neck and chest. Also, Allah is very clear in the Qur’an that a non-mahram CANNOT see your hair, yet you showed it to your husband before you married. All four madhabs agree. When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) told men to go see who they were interested in marrying, he did not mean that they expose their awrah.

Lmao why are you asking me, if you want to know something about someone else then ask them that. Tfreak do I have to do with the decisions someone else makes?

You don’t have to agree with the Islamic rulings my family follows. If you think it is haram then by all means be firm on that and don’t show your hair. I’m trying to figure out how my families choices are causing you so much distress lmao like dude what we do has nothing to do with you.

The more I hear what you have to say, the more immature and no Islamic knowledge you have. Birth control doesn’t just mean a pill, it’s any form of protection and is Islamically fine (if both parties know that it is being used). There is so much misconceptions about the pill, as there are about vaccines. Just because it hasn’t worked for some people, doesn’t mean that makes it the majority. You also have almost no Islamic knowledge. I used to look up to you highly but now, as I have grown up

Ohhh you’re talking about some stuff that was said like years ago lmao.

Oh gawsh, let’s do this again.

My opinion on birth control is my opinion. There are other methods that I mentioned like spermicide and condoms. These are non hormonal methods that work. I do not agree with hormonal birth control. I never said it was haram, I just don’t think it good for certain woman.

I never asked you to look up to me, I never said I was knowledgeable in Islam. I’m not a scholar, I’m not studied, I have made this VERY clear. My bio literally talks about this. I’m not here giving Islamic advice, or telling people what is haram or halal. I tell people why I BELIEVE certain things to be halal/haram based on the Islamic opinion I follow. Understand there is a difference.

I see you have no basis for what you say. You say things with no Islamic evidence. I really think you should take time to perhaps perfect your deen, especially for the sake of your baby. The love for Islam and the knowledge of it flourishes within the home. Perhaps you should take this time to grow in your knowledge, iA.

I honestly have no idea what you are talking about.

Salam. I just want to tell you when you do your YouTube videos, please site the hadith and ayat/surah you’re referencing or a scholar you’re referencing. In Islam, this is really important because otherwise you’re just spouting things without citing the source. I hope you implement this with your child, too. I see too many Muslim children who don’t understand the context or the source. I hope that all made sense.

Hadiths are cited within the video, the description, or the comments. You just have to look.

I recently got engaged to a man that I've practically known my entire life (our families are very close). I didn't want to, but there was just so much pressure put on my shoulders to accept. I feel like a lot of that has to do with the fact that I'm not in a very good place mentally or physically He's a very sweet and funny guy, but me on the other hand, I'm a complete mess and I'm worried he's going to end up resenting me... I'm scared out of my mind and I have no clue what to do

Have you talked to him about these fears? Communication is very important and maybe he’ll be able to ease your mind if yall talk about it. I definitely feel as though because you accepted his proposal that you should talk to him and if after you still feel like ending things then you should. Don’t enter a marriage you aren't ready for because you will be the one who ends up resenting him.

Are you from San Francisco?

Nope, but I am from the Bay Area. I grew up around that area.

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