Themostlyadultmillenial

The life and times of a 20 something, queer, almost grown up girl of the 21st century who doesn't always have it figured out......

[casuallyoverdressed]

Pride started as a protest, not a party. Pride is the only place where I feel safe holding my girlfriends hand because I’m unlikely to get abuse shouted at me for it. Pride is the only place I can feel normal. Pride is the only place I can pretend I have representation. Pride is the only place I can pretend my family aren’t homophobic because there are so many adults there with smiles on their faces. Pride is the only place I feel safe and loved and it happens literally once a year. You want a straight pride parade? Sure, but first you need something to protest. If you want a straight pride then maybe you should be treated the way we were/are. Maybe we should criminalise straight marriage, arrest straight couples for PDA and abuse them on the street. Maybe we should make it legal to fire straight people. Maybe we should ban straight marriage. Maybe we should keep children away from straight people - we wouldn’t want to have to explain it to them. Maybe we should let straight people feel what it’s like to worry about being yourself in public. Fuck your straight pride parade.

[inkbyday]

you have never seen faces

turn up in disgust 

when you hold her hand.

the barista has not raised his eyebrows

and shook his head

when you paid for her coffee 

(cream, no sugar).

when you were 17 

you didn’t have to beg her mother

to let her daughter go to prom

without a boy.

and you didn’t see her torn apart or

given nightly devotionals and

extra time at the church and

meetings with the pastor

to cure her of your time together.

you have never felt the guilt

of being the reason her family hates her.

or the fear

that because of you she will be 

sent to the streets.

you have never been so on edge with her

that the slightest whisper

makes you jump out of your skin,

knowing being seen could mean

she is ripped away.

mothers don’t pull their children away

or avert their eyes

when they see you hold her.

they do not think your love is a virus

they can catch through eye contact.

your space to love loudly

is not inhibited.

you can find it at every turn.

so do not tell us that 

in taking a fraction of this for ourselves

we have created the need

for an added month

of straight pride. 

we thought twelve would be enough for you.

–pride month, a.day (june 2019)

[latenights]

“I just want someone to be truly happy because of me. Someone who is happy to see me, happy to hear me, happy to know me”

[relatablepoetryandquotes]

“You are allowed to be alive. You are allowed to be somebody different. You are allowed to not say goodbye to anybody or explain a single thing to anyone, ever.” - Augusten Burroughs // This Is How

via @qvotable

[beamingsuggestion]

and here you are, continuing on, despite how hard it’s been

[doktorgirlfriend]

Brain: You’re a horrible, worthless, garbage person, and your life is going nowhere but to hell.

Me: I don’t know what the fuck you expect me to do about that at 11PM, my dude.

[mikedawwwson]

Why Did They Come?

[wobblyjimbles]

TOO FUCKIN’ phenomenal to NOT reblog!!!!

[thotyana-in-this-hoe]

History is bound to repeat itself when we choose to ignore it. What’s next? Segregation? Trail of Tears?

[addictionmarvel-deactivated2018]

This is fucking important. The whole ass reason we learn history is so we don’t repeat it. That’s what humans do. We just follow patterns, and unless we ACTUALLY learn and know what we’re doing, we’ll just do it all over again

[theafrodesiac]

this is too important not to share

[shadowthekitsunereturns-deactiv]

With all the news about the children being separated from their parents this message needs to be heard. We need to stop the cycle of hate.

[latenights]

I think it is time to let go of the things in my life that I cannot change or fix and move on with my life.

[ultraviolentangel-deactivated20]

Just because you did something wrong in the past doesn’t mean you can’t advocate against it now. It doesn’t make you a hypocrite. You just grew. Don’t let people use your past to invalidate your current mindset.

[ravenobviously]

Bruh. This needs to be a mandatory post on everybody’s blog. Y'all really be pullin out decade old receipts like woah.

[v3nice]

Someone: Are you taken? Me: Ya for granted

[lovelysuggestions]

if you like something, dont let anyone try to tell you its lame or whatever. embrace what you love & fuck anyone else

[lovelysuggestions]

november music suggestions!! – (link)

november– tyler, the creator rose gold– g4shi talking in your sleep– the romantics up in this– blackbear ft. tinache sunday candy– donnie trumpet vienna– billy joel lovebug– jonas brothers lady killers– geazy ft. hoodie allen cherry wine– hozier cool– zack villere i want to hold your hand– the beatles life is easy– afterpartees so young– portugal. the man what i like about you– the romantics nights– frank ocean ultralight beam– kanye west i wanna be yours– arctic monkeys same drugs– chance the rapper ask for it– future animals

[lovelysuggestions]

Dont be afraid to be a cliche. Go for long walks on the beach. Buy heart shaped chocolates for Valentine’s Day. Stay up late and theorize about aliens. If you think it’s sweet, do it. cliches exist for a reason.

[menpale]

[the-soul-tribe-deactivated20180]

Follow spree ✨☺️

Hey!! I want to follow a whole bunch more blogs and spice up my feed. Like or reblog this is you post similar content to me or are a nature/magical blog!

[be-happy-and-enjoy-the-life]

[hipsterandqueer]

me: *studying for 15 minutes*

me: i can't do this anymore