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candy, 27, she/her/it/its, love my sweetie treatie piggly wiggly life. 18+ how do i get my avatar to animate

[hogoutorlogout]

Candy's Rules. more will be added as i remember them

1. Never pay for parking

2. stay cultivating

3. remember "AA DAPE" (Always Avoid Digital And Physical Evidence)

4. DO NOT make photographs of your feet public

5. Chef's Choice: the chef can always take an indulgent sample, especially on things with secret tiny yummies like on a whole bird, before it is served

6. if it has black walnut bitters, order it

7. identify the axioms

8. be more stupid and wrong to learn why

9. Know when to ask "is this more effective than a guy with a shovel?" this can be extended to other tools and ideas but do not underestimate how often it should be about shovels.

10. Every person has many several things severely wrong with them

11. Desire beautiful things and lifestyles for all persons and others

12. Never kill yourself or others unless circumstances dictate otherwise

[kaylmao]

[hogoutorlogout]

piggy wisdom is knowing you can find enough fruit that you can have an underripe one when you want a snack if you want to and still have ripe ones later :(:))

[kaylmao]

[hauntedfragmentgeode]

Queer unity has been trying as hard as possible to downplay any possible transfem issue. Pay gap adding up to thousands a year? Not a big deal. V coding? Never mention it. Trans women are much more likely to be sent to an early grave than their male counterparts? Stop bringing that up. Trans people collaborating with kiwifarms? Just internet drama.

You know what IS an important issue? Getting called a fucking birthday boy. They get all hands on deck about it. They will write VERY long posts about how important it is you not use it, and that anyone who does must be punished as severely as possible

There's only one explanation. The lives of trans women are so worthless to them, so fucking disposable, that a trans man getting invalidated is actually more important to them. That's how these people, who demand we view them as family and allies, who think we should be ready to die for them, view us.

I know people who treat house flies with more respect than that.

[carriebeepo]

forever reminded of this fucking yt reply i got in a thread abt transmisogyny, this kinda attitude is so common. even when you do bring up shit that disproportionately or exclusively affects transfems the response is "what abt me" or downplaying it

[hogoutorlogout]

its crazy how widespread the "rape actually only occurs in the vagina region of the natal female, else it is just sparkling assault" mentality is. the whole sexual assault powerscaling thing is a tough region to deal with because the whole convo is distasteful but like. i dunno. what are the health risks of anal rape. what might a man attempting to rape a woman do to her when presented with an unexpected genital configuration? i dont wanna downplay the nightmare of havin a babby growin in there even if you can get it out expeditiously but like surely boiling it down to "it only counts if the Rape Organ goes in the Victim Hole #myvictimhole" isnt an expeditious approach to examining sexual violence

[hogoutorlogout]

like. it at least doesnt fly as a legal defense in the west too often anymore, but like. trans panic. even in otherwise consensual scenarios let alone rape when confronted with unexpected genitals you could even get a judge to be like NTA, murder is a completely reasonable and understandable response if girlygirl has peepee instead of pusspuss. theres a lot we could gain from examination of the shared basis and experience of sexual violence among cis and trans women and such if we looked even slightly beyond a view completely inscribing heteropatriarchal violence onto the existence of genitals!!!!

[hauntedfragmentgeode]

Queer unity has been trying as hard as possible to downplay any possible transfem issue. Pay gap adding up to thousands a year? Not a big deal. V coding? Never mention it. Trans women are much more likely to be sent to an early grave than their male counterparts? Stop bringing that up. Trans people collaborating with kiwifarms? Just internet drama.

You know what IS an important issue? Getting called a fucking birthday boy. They get all hands on deck about it. They will write VERY long posts about how important it is you not use it, and that anyone who does must be punished as severely as possible

There's only one explanation. The lives of trans women are so worthless to them, so fucking disposable, that a trans man getting invalidated is actually more important to them. That's how these people, who demand we view them as family and allies, who think we should be ready to die for them, view us.

I know people who treat house flies with more respect than that.

[carriebeepo]

forever reminded of this fucking yt reply i got in a thread abt transmisogyny, this kinda attitude is so common. even when you do bring up shit that disproportionately or exclusively affects transfems the response is "what abt me" or downplaying it

[hogoutorlogout]

its crazy how widespread the "rape actually only occurs in the vagina region of the natal female, else it is just sparkling assault" mentality is. the whole sexual assault powerscaling thing is a tough region to deal with because the whole convo is distasteful but like. i dunno. what are the health risks of anal rape. what might a man attempting to rape a woman do to her when presented with an unexpected genital configuration? i dont wanna downplay the nightmare of havin a babby growin in there even if you can get it out expeditiously but like surely boiling it down to "it only counts if the Rape Organ goes in the Victim Hole #myvictimhole" isnt an expeditious approach to examining sexual violence

[wolfderolfe]

i had a vision last night that absolutely ruined me. a bra, but it’s overalls. denim with the straps you have to tie and everything. but it’s a bra!

[wolfderolfe]

overbralls

[hogoutorlogout]

jean jock strap, overballs?

[hogoutorlogout]

ah, my amazing digital. apartment. my apartment digital circus. my apartment. downtown. cool. It's hot out and I like my room.

[pixeljade]

I feel like theres a tendency amongst TME trans folks to view and portray masculine features in TMA folks as a challenge to perceptions of gender but honestly to me it just feels like we're being used as a prop to further your own goals, and that it seems infinitely more radical to portray any transfem as openly enjoying femininity, because femininity is so rarely celebrated, instead portrayed as a cage or a costume.

Like. When us transfems get assaulted or murdered, it is not because we have stubble. We had stubble before coming out, it was never punished then. We get assaulted and murdered because we are embracing femininity.

So yeah. Stop drawing your transfem characters looking like a guy in a dress, you're literally just perpetuating transmisogyny and pretending its good because you use the right pronouns.

[pixeljade]

To be clear, I think this isnt really a hard rule or anything? I have seen clocky portrayals which are good. But I feel like the way I see many TME folks portray us simply proves they do not question transmisogynistic ideas. They are trying to make us into "genderfucks", supposedly to "challenge gender norms", but the norms being challenged are almost exclusively in service to masculinity, which simply reinforces misogyny and by extension, transmisogyny.

But letting a trans woman simply be a woman? That's what's transgressive, that's what's challenging! That's saying that your assigned gender can be fully escaped, and that femininity can be a good thing! Again, you dont NEED to avoid all clockiness, but ask yourself what you're doing with it. If we transfems are only useful as a prop to uphold your masculine-forward view of gender, you are being transmisogynistic, and fuck you.

[hogoutorlogout]

i feel like it kind of falls into a category of liberal thought i like to call "having all the same beliefs as a fascist but thinking it's like, cool." like the guys who will take structural critiques of banking and finance and push back based on their belief that like. yeah jews do control the banks but uh, good for them? that just goes to show how cool and good they are? sometimes i see it in folks like yea i tried some ayahuasca and im just rewired im totally on radical acceptance we should just appreciate our innate differences and get along and its like ok man thats nice but i think radical acceptance of hostile narratives built to exploit or annihilate isnt exactly it lol

[hogoutorlogout]

we need new discourses. these old ones tire me

-expecting someone to not full blast videos on their phone could be ableist because they could be hoh and have sensory issues with headphones

-you can't be a woman and a feminist, women are too tied to misogynistic ideas and tropes and you're just playing into them (wait fuck people think this)

-liking puppies is pedophilic

-you have a moral duty to spend your day phone banking false reports to police departments

-leftists need to burn more fossil fuels to heighten the contradictions

-advocate transhumanism as a fix to human rights violations

-should we normalize walking in the middle of the highway so that we can have a win-win of building more highway infrastructure and more walkable communities or is it actually problematically individualist to not drive your own motor vehicle to get to your destination (knowingly not taking responsibility for your transportation)

-should we go further than circumcision and grind the penis down to a stub as a baby to protect the women they grow up with from rape threats?

-anti-rabies measures are us expressing as an invasive species and altering the course of nature

-we shouldnt have public bathroom its disgusting and its degrading to think of other people exposing themselves and engaging in such acts in there, right beside you in such a vulnerable state. private bathrooms are also on thin ice as basically kink rooms within normal family homes (practically scat dungeons)

-we need more allies taking GLP-1s in solidarity

-the trump admin is showing too much favor to certain groups by unfairly (to other groups) targeting them disproportionately with negative policy (wait fuck people also think this one)

-video games are for children, making adult fans and creators of them pedophilic. Thus making video games art,

-you can eat grass. like lawn grass. ancient peoples did this. You are denying history

-we need underground and alternative spaces for organizing. we need to occupy Digg. come organize with me on Digg.

-if you stop to smell the flowers, you are stealing from critical pollinators

-if you think about it, by making all the stuff, China is actually kinda doing cultural imperialism to the united states

-we should be fostering more mom & pop LLMs

-three-state solution

feel free to add more of your own. please send all deposits to a brick wall, faithfully and forcefully

[hogoutorlogout]

-the only ethical form of intercourse at present is gay male homosexuality because women cannot be said to exercise pure unadulterated informed and uncoerced consent under patriarchy. if you want to express sexuality feministly and without exploiting yourself or others as a woman, you MUST fujo out

[theehorsepusssy]

[hogoutorlogout]

bad day to be a Sprinkle

[256x224-deactivated20240130]

I need to know what these things are

[256x224-deactivated20240130]

[hogoutorlogout]

this is gonna be the lovable blorbos in the next ghibli film. and were gonna cry when they go up in the sky all together

[hogoutorlogout]

nobody talks about how goated floor time is for creative work

[hogoutorlogout]

yes, if you are in a cubicle, in an office. yes, if you're in STEM. floor time. on the floor. the problem and its solutions shall unfurl. standing desk is a scam by big not-floor to trick us in the wrong direction out of our chairs. floor time.

[hogoutorlogout]

we need new discourses. these old ones tire me

-expecting someone to not full blast videos on their phone could be ableist because they could be hoh and have sensory issues with headphones

-you can't be a woman and a feminist, women are too tied to misogynistic ideas and tropes and you're just playing into them (wait fuck people think this)

-liking puppies is pedophilic

-you have a moral duty to spend your day phone banking false reports to police departments

-leftists need to burn more fossil fuels to heighten the contradictions

-advocate transhumanism as a fix to human rights violations

-should we normalize walking in the middle of the highway so that we can have a win-win of building more highway infrastructure and more walkable communities or is it actually problematically individualist to not drive your own motor vehicle to get to your destination (knowingly not taking responsibility for your transportation)

-should we go further than circumcision and grind the penis down to a stub as a baby to protect the women they grow up with from rape threats?

-anti-rabies measures are us expressing as an invasive species and altering the course of nature

-we shouldnt have public bathroom its disgusting and its degrading to think of other people exposing themselves and engaging in such acts in there, right beside you in such a vulnerable state. private bathrooms are also on thin ice as basically kink rooms within normal family homes (practically scat dungeons)

-we need more allies taking GLP-1s in solidarity

-the trump admin is showing too much favor to certain groups by unfairly (to other groups) targeting them disproportionately with negative policy (wait fuck people also think this one)

-video games are for children, making adult fans and creators of them pedophilic. Thus making video games art,

-you can eat grass. like lawn grass. ancient peoples did this. You are denying history

-we need underground and alternative spaces for organizing. we need to occupy Digg. come organize with me on Digg.

-if you stop to smell the flowers, you are stealing from critical pollinators

-if you think about it, by making all the stuff, China is actually kinda doing cultural imperialism to the united states

-we should be fostering more mom & pop LLMs

-three-state solution

feel free to add more of your own. please send all deposits to a brick wall, faithfully and forcefully

[hogoutorlogout]

nobody talks about how goated floor time is for creative work

[lumilamp]

drew some new zealand birds bc theyre silly

[dozydawn]

“don't worry, be sloppy” pig figure designed by mary rhyner, 1996.