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[theprideful-deactivated20251201]

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Lesbian | Gay/Queer | Bisexual

Transgender | Pansexual | Asexual

Aromantic | Aroace | Nonbinary

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[theprideful-deactivated20251201]

Genderqueer | Demigirl | Demiboy

[coolestfinch]

can we stop sayin stuff like “they/them people” “she/her people” “he/him people” etc etc…. like. pronouns are not genders. someones gender can be literally anything, it isnt based on the pronouns they use. the amount of times ive been asked “how can you be a he/him and still be a lesbian” is so fucking weird to me because “a he/him” isnt a gender! it doesnt tell you anything about me or who i am! theres no such thing as being a he/him, those are just your pronouns. your pronouns dont define you and its time we stop trying to act like its ok to harass people because of their pronouns when you dont really know anything about their gender or their experience. 

[yaoibeast-deactivated20230829]

Made myself monster pride flag edits X] feel free to reblog and request more monster pride flags :]

[enby-life]

“Racists, lgbtqphobes, and exclusionists can get fucked” Another post brought to you by the “let people live their goddamn lives” gang

[enby-life]

Part two

[thatsheckingcool]

[Image Description:

The first image is a collection of nine pride flags with text on them.

The first flag is the pansexual pride flag. Text on the flag reads: “Being pan isn’t biphobic.”

The second flag is the bisexual pride flag. It reads: “Bi attraction includes trans people.”

The third flag is the polyamory pride flag. It reads: “Polyamory isn’t immoral.” 

The fourth flag is the lesbian pride flag. It reads: “Trans and nonbinary lesbians are incredible.”

The fifth flag is the asexual pride flag. It reads: “Asexuality isn’t ‘basically straight’.”

The sixth is the aromantic pride flag. It reads: “Aromantics aren’t sex obsessed and cold.”

The seventh is the gay pride flag. It reads: “Racists will never be welcome in the queer community.”

The eighth flag is the trans pride flag. It reads: “Straight trans men aren’t lesbians and straight ans women aren’t gay men.”

The ninth flag is the nonbinary pride flag. It reads: “Nonbinary identities and neopronouns are real and valid.”

The second image, contained in the reblog, is of the trans pride flag. Text on the flag reads: “Transmeds shut the fuck up for once challenge.”

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[aphobe-nonsense]

if you make fun of someone’s gender identity you’re transphobic.

yes, this includes “’‘mogai hell genders”“.

yes, this applies even if you yourself are trans.

no, you don’t get a free pass because you used to identify with a mogai gender.

if you mock/invalidate someone’s gender, ur a transphobe. end of story.

[tlirsgender]

So anyway fiction affects reality and there's a difference between exploring darker themes and jerking off to them and I don't want people who think otherwise to touch me with a ten foot pole 💚

[tlirsgender]

This is ok to rb but any anti antis crawling out of the woodwork are getting blocked on sight

[demolitionsocialist]

Since people don’t seem to understand why aces and aros are LGBT+ and not cishet, I made this. The credit in the corner there is my Instagram btw.

[voidpotatooooo]

As an possible aromantic and/or asexual, this is important for me

[gendersmear-deactivated20220227]

I need people to understand a few things about MOGAI identities and how this site approaches them. First off, I, personally, Do Not Give A Fuck how someone defines themselves because I have real problems. But I’ve noticed posts who mock the identities have some really bizarre shit going on with them.

1) MOGAI technically stands for Marginalized Orientations, Gender Alignment, and Intersex. This means that literally everything LGBTQ+ falls under it. So, when I see people being like “lmao look at THIS MOGAI identity” I’m always half tempted to sarcastically respond, “Yeah what the fuck is a lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender?” because turns out those are, also, identities that fall under the MOGAI category.

2) I’ve seen two main responses to a more obscure identity. One is the assumption the person is cis straight, which is always ridiculous to me, and it happens even if the person in question has an additional more typical marginalized identity in regards to sexuality/gender/etc. The OTHER is “Just say you’re gay”. Now, it’s never “Maybe you’re bisexual or trans” it’s nearly always “just say you’re gay”. As a trans person, my confused feelings and expression was always met with “Admit you’re a lesbian”. This happens to other trans people as well, and you all of course know transphobes love calling us trans mascs “confused lesbians”. So this kind of argumentation really doesn’t leave a good impression.

3) If you’re worried that someone is identifying incorrectly, mocking them is not going to help a fucking thing and I cannot believe how many are dedicated to bullying youngsters trying to figure themselves out. Look, fucking talk to and discuss shit with people if you believe they’re making a misstep along these lines, shame changes nothing. Anything that is, basically, a repackaged “lmao LOOK AT THESE FREAKS” is not only useless for your concerns, but going to fucking harm someone and they WILL dig in deeper into themselves.

4) Judging by those who get off to online harassment of “MOGAI IDENTITIES”, it’s really just cringe culture and “those people make US look BAD” and any true insight or sincerity has been crushed under a spectacle. And, look, people made fun of LGBT when it formed as an acronym and as it expanded it only received more mockery. When facebook added gender options, I remember fox news being like “lmao what the FUCK is intersex?” Nobody is going to respect dick about us all until we change the culture itself. Sorry that ruining the day of a demisexual doesn’t give you liberation or rights, maybe reflection is in order.

[trenderish]

i feel like no one talks about this, but if you as a transmasc person get dysphoria from another transmasc not binding, thats on you bud. youll see transmeds say this shit all the time on other peoples posts. drawing of a trans man in a skirt & not binding, they say "gee thanks for the dysphoria" and its like. okay man. thats a you problem though, i dont cater specifically to you and i shouldnt have to. if you have a problem with it, deal with it in private. the duty to protect you from things that make you specifically uncomfortatable should not fall on transmascs creating content for themselves and others who feel similarly

[trenderish]

at its core, transmedicalism really is just about people making their personal problem everyones problem

[kingjinxii]

Bisexuals, watch out for “bi positivity” blogs that promote panphobia.

Ex:

Pansexuals are transphobic/chasers!

Pansexuals have internalized biphobia!

Pansexuals just want to be special!

etc.

Pansexuals, watch out for “pan positivity” blogs that promote biphobia. 

Ex:

Bisexuality only means 2!

Bisexuals hate nonbinary people!

Bisexuals aren’t actually bi if they’re in a same-sex/different-sex relationship!

etc.

Don’t give them a platform. Let’s keep the solidarity up, yeah?

EDIT 4/21/2020: Turns out I’m a lesbian but panphobes and biphobes are still fucking awful, so don’t be a shitty person!

[suncatgriffin]

i HATE it that all the bi girls on TikTok (&probably also on other social media) hate on their attraction to boys (“I‘m attracted to EVERY GIRL, EVER and one (1) boy“). I mean, it’s cool that u have a preference for girls, but there are also girls questioning their sexuality, who actually have a preference for boys or have no preference at all and don‘t feel valid bc of this. I know that girls who post this don’t want to hurt anyone (hopefully) but they should know, that while questioning (and after) you can be insecure about everything and want to fit in perfectly (at least that’s what I experienced, but as far as I know, it’s the same with most other people).

To all the bi people:

It’s okay if u have a preference for boys!!

It’s okay if u don’t have a preference at all!!

It’s okay if u have a preference for girls!!

And it’s also completely okay if u don’t fulfill every stereotype!! You’re valid and I think most people don’t fulfill their stereotypes:)

[lgbtqiapsupportlove]

[aroloverboy]

Happy Non Binary day!

[mollyjames]

No one I know has had the same experience as me getting on hrt and honestly it's a damn shame

[mollyjames]

me, mentally bracing myself for months, if not years of psychological evaluation: "So I think I might be trans?"

doc: "cool cool cool cool"

doc: "so... do you wanna start estrogen today or...?"

[radar-one]

This is the blessed post of ungatekeeping. Reblog this to never again have to barter with a medical professional regarding treatment of your mental or physical health.

[elf--shot]

if you are in the united states, this is a map of every us clinic which practices the informed-consent model of hrt; as you can see, there’s a fair amount, although great plains/basin and range/deep south coverage is lacking. i went to the san diego family health center after discovering that the in-house process covered by my insurance would take a long enough time and involve enough gatekeeping (especially considering my personal approach to gender and transition) that there was no chance of my getting on testosterone through them before i left the country, and the fhc not only got me fully processed and on hrt within a month but gave me an 80% discount. this is to say that even if your insurance doesn’t cover your nearest informed-consent clinic, or you haven’t got insurance, it’s still worth investigating.

[holoputtygender]

your organs? agender. hotel? trivalgo.

The is very funny thank you

[holoputtygender]

I'm genderfluid and I want to talk in detail about my experience with my gender so content warning for mentions of genitals and secondary sex characteristics

Genderfluid is often misinterpreted as identifying as a boy when you wear clothes marketed towards men and identifying as a girl when you wear clothes marketed towards and while some people may use their clothes to express what they are feeling that simply isn't the case for everyone I personally wear women's clothes regardless of how my gender feels and how does my gender feel you may ask?

Sometimes I feel full male and want facial hair, deep voice ,and a penis and testicles and all the other male characteristics, sometimes I feel somewhat male somewhat female and I want a penis, testicles,a vulva/vagina, and breasts , sometimes I feel inbetween male and female and want body and facial hair and androgynous voice with a vulva and large clitoris, sometimes I want breasts with that and sometimes I don't. There are probably more that I can't think of

Other genderfluid people feel free to add on your own experience (18+ only please) and non gender fluid people are free to ask questions but please don't reblog and say "but what about brain sexxxx..." Because it's not real

[itscoldinwonderland]

I definitely dress feminine p much all the time. If I'm feeling particularly dysphoric I'll just wear sweats and a tshirt but it's not because I'm trying to present more masculine, just don't want people to see me lol. Most of the time I feel a connection to womanhood, even if my gender in the moment is 90% man, I often still have the 10% woman. Sometimes I do feel completely as a woman or completely as a man, and rarely I feel as if I have no gender (but I don't feel anyway about my body when that happens). How I feel about my gender in a given moment does not necessarily reflect how I'm feeling about my sexual characteristics. Whenever I feel my gender is leaning strongly towards man, I get genital dysphoria. I don't ussually feel chest dysphoria unless I'm feeling completely like a man. I've never cared about having facial hair. The way I feel about my voice is funny because when I'm talking I don't feel I sound feminine, just neutral, but when I hear a recording of my voice it's definitely feminine and I don't like it whenever I'm not a woman....

[holoputtygender]

I just saw a transm3d say that you can't be agender because you can't live without a nervous system and it's like wow I did not know the nerve endings in my toes are nonbinary I thought brain sex was just this little portion of the brain being shaped a certain way