[hoolis]

I miss you. I wake up everyday hoping I wake up to a text from you. Not talking to you is hard as hell.

[hoolis]

It’s funny, the moment your love and respect for someone is replaced by hate and disgust.

[angelicbabydolll]

Can we normalise ‘I’m willing to work on that’ instead of ‘that’s just how I am’

[hoolis]

So Kate from Below Deck really did make a rocket ship

[writhe]

i have a hill to die on real quick

[writhe]

phrases like “you don’t owe anyone anything” and “relationships aren’t transactional” have the power to be used in ways that are very backwards and harmful

for example, no you don’t owe anyone anything in that if some creep is trying to get with you, you can block him without feeling bad. you don’t owe kindness to people who are transphobic or racist or bigoted.

but, you can’t use this as an excuse to fuck over people who have helped you. “you don’t owe anyone anything” isn’t an excuse to allow yourself to forget compassion and basic empathy, it isn’t an excuse for you to be an asshole just because you find it easier to be one

relationships aren’t transactional in that if your partner does something nice for you, you are indebted to them. they do these things because they love you; it is their choice to express love through these gestures

but they are transactional in that you both actively need to be putting time and care into the relationship. ignoring the dynamic of one person caring too much (and putting in excessive (emotional an literal) work and labor) while the other does nothing isn’t healthy. one person can’t solely take and the other person can’t solely give- that’s dangerous, and you can’t put the bandaid of “this isn’t transactional” over a relationship that is draining you in all capacities

i’m tired of seeing these things being misconstrued and used as an excuse to hurt people, while framing it as a way of taking care of yourself

[olivelinen]

not 2 be corny but. sometimes i think my purpose on this earth is to love people, make them laugh, be kind and share joy. that feels like enough to me sometimes

[bunnypets]

Apple Pie Pull Apart Bread with Maple Glaze

[alsudairy8-deactivated20170616]

Never really had a type. I just like the way I vibe with certain people

[willxiv]

when an ascian sees a body they like

[smutlikeus]

girls guiding your hand to touch them is the hottest thing ever

[thoughts-memories]

[anxietyproblem]

[thoughtkick]

“I think the best partner you can have is someone who makes you want to be the best form of yourself.”

— Jennifer Lopez

[boyy-bait]

Life of a Customer Service Rep.

[blvckgeezus]

Lmfao the pause

[xyinx]

Love her frames and braids… Aye she pretty

[pokemon-cards-hourly]

[1617]

“you look tired” bro i want to stop existing

[1617]

“i can make time” - a love language