fuck you (as in i want to)

luci or luis, he/they, sideblog for sex related things (mostly hornyposts.)

[swtbunnygrrl-deactivated2024013]

bulge pics will always be hotter than a straight up dick I dont make the rules however I should

[daddy-krueger-deactivated202305]

"casual sex" fuck that. POSSESSIVE AND UNHINGED SEX

[bekabfotbek193647291]

The first rule of dominance is be yourself and have fun with it

[bekabfotbek193647291]

Which sounds like a joke, but it's really not

There are other important rules; safety should be your highest priority, communication is key, always keep safety shears within arms reach when working with rope, etc

And there's nuance; it's OK to do something you don't get much out of for someone you care about, you shouldn't be afraid to experiment with the idea that it's not only 'you' within 'you' (system thoughts), etc

But a really good rule is; if you're not comfortable the role you're playing, if you're not having fun, if you're not happy, then something needs to change

[bekabfotbek193647291]

And this is for your sake, obviously, not doing things that you don't enjoy is pretty straightforwardly beneficial

But it's also absolutely for your submissives sake. If you treat dominance as a chore you need to do, as a job you have to do, as a duty you are required to complete, your submissive will know. They will fucking feel it and it will make them feel horrible and awful and selfish. It will wound them in a way they might never fully heal from and I just refuse to believe anyone want to do that to someone they care about

[bekabfotbek193647291]

So, ya know, be yourself and have fun with it

[15millionfireflies]

question, what if being myself and having fun makes my domming skills suffer?

[bekabfotbek193647291]

That's an excellent question

If you don't feel like yourself when you're being dominant. Than maybe you aren't dominant.

Or maybe you have a restrictive idea of what dominance looks like. A lot of younger or less experienced dominants take their image of dominance from porn and its this very angry violent picture. But dominance can be incredibly kind and gentle and loving too. Dominance can look like so many different things, so maybe you need to learn the steps to a dance style you enjoy.

Whatever the root cause of the problem the answer is you should take a step back and look at what you really want. Because if you continue down this path you will hurt yourself and others

[littlesislovesyou]

I want a bf who’s gonna jack off every time he sees me naked just because he can’t help it 💗

[sapphireart]

everytime you hear the devil on your shoulder saying "you've masturbated long enough, go to sleep" dont you listen. keep going. you can achieve nirvana just keep going

[alexandritefang]

I just love when men buck their hips when they get a little too excited. You need friction that much that you can't control your body responses, now what?

[bluerain3-deactivated20230129]

[dollsonmain]

[darthmaulscatgirl]

i love how this works no matter the result

[horny-lovesick-mess]

all I want is to be called a good boy while I give someone the best head of their life

[luuciferrrr-deactivated20250413]

I am the biggest sucker for grinding. You wanna sit me on your lap and kiss me? Sure, but you bet your ass I'm gonna wiggle my hips.

Even as the bottom, with someone on top of me, making out with me and grinding their hips into mine, I'd just melt into a fucking puddle of desire.

[qualifiedcutie]

[3000s]

if you dont like bush you literally dont deserve to fuck

[digitalslxt-deactivated20250306]

I don't care about your dick pics bro I want to know what you sound like when you cum

[sillytransfemmething-deactivate]

[seraphinesaintclair]

Madison Julius Cawein, “Dusk In The Woods”

[cuddi3r]

wear my hoodie while i finger you

[gentlyspellbound]

Sometimes I want a really cute lil traditional relationship where I stay at home and cook and bake you fresh bread, crochet us socks and blankies. And then you go work hard to further your career and support us. And then when you get home I cook you a nice lil dinner. And then afterward I want to rail you stupid. I want to ride and edge you so hard and long you forget about stress or any work frustration. I want to sit on your face while you turn to mush and let all of your stress fade away. I want to fuck all of the bad energy out of your body.

[odessagirly]

gentle? i want you to moan until your voice is hoarse, until you drool to the sound of my voice, until you're fucked out all you can do is whimper my name like a prayer since you're experiencing euphoria. I will never be gentle, i'll strive to break your mind each time and tease you until you're hooked on me like a crackhead is to crack. fuck being gentle