Themed months and observances related to chastity, tease and denial, orgasm control, and erotic power dynamics.
Here’s a comprehensive list of themed months and observances related to chastity, tease and denial, orgasm control, and erotic power dynamics— encourage sexual discipline, submission, and partner-led control. 🔐
Though humorous in tone, many participants use these observances to deepen intimacy, submission, or explore female-led relationships and control dynamics.
Some dominant partners may use these months as a calendar to impose new rituals, challenges, or protocols.
From Fiscal Year 20xx to Fiscal Year 20xx
Locktober: The most well-known chastity month. Participants (typically men) lock in chastity for the entire month, often with no release, to show submission or devotion. Focus is on long-term denial and tease.
No Nut November: A widely known internet challenge where participants abstain from all forms of ejaculation. While not always kink-based, many in the chastity and denial community take a more erotic approach.
Denial December: A colder, softer rebranding of No Nut November. Often includes holiday-themed teasing, edging under the tree, and remaining locked for New Year’s.
Jailnuary (or Lockjanuary): Continuation of Locktober or a fresh start. Encourages being locked in chastity through the new year. Used for reaffirming devotion or as a "detox" from overstimulation.
Forced February: Emphasis on forced chastity, forced feminization, or power play themes—partner-controlled teasing with no option of escape. May overlap with Valentine’s themes of erotic power imbalance.
Milking March: Focuses on prostate milking, ruined orgasms, and non-pleasure-based release, often while staying locked or without full ejaculation. Popular among those interested in edging and denial.
Anal April: Though not explicitly chastity, this month focuses on pegging, prostate play, and submission, often as a replacement or inversion of traditional sexual roles. Many FLR (female-led relationship) dynamics incorporate chastity here.
Maydenial: A playful month often used to continue tease and denial after November No Nut November or Locktober holdovers: Less structured but still favored among T&D enthusiasts.
Jerkless June: A denial-focused month where masturbation and unauthorized orgasms are discouraged or forbidden. Often observed silently in chastity forums.
Just the Tip July: Emphasizes extreme tease without satisfaction, edging, or ruined orgasms. Often focused on sensual or psychological control.
Augasm Denial (play on August + Orgasm): Encourages long-term denial or multiple ruined orgasms without climax. Also used for preparation for the stricter Locktober.
Stretchtember: In anal and pegging-focused dynamics, this month is themed around stretching, training, and preparation for full submission—sometimes tied into chastity.
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