Hotwife on a knife edge: The anguish of maybe
“Do you like the look of him?” Maybe.
“Will you sleep with him before the end of the month?” Maybe.
“Do you want the struggle of taking a bigger cock?” Maybe.
“Will you sleep with other women too?” Maybe.
“Do you definitely want to go through with this?” Maybe.
The tension between your desire for her unfaithfulness and her willingness to be unfaithful can be summed up in that one word: Maybe.
Maybe. It encapsulates all that is exciting and frustrating for the hopefully to-be-betrayed husband. ‘Maybe’ tells you quite definitely that it is not your decision, that it is up to her whether she does fuck him or not. But ‘maybe’ can also mean that nothing is certain, that there is no point in raising your hopes (or any part of your anatomy) at the prospect of watching her fuck other people because she is not prepared to commit to a simple yes.
Maybe. Maybe I will, maybe I won’t. You will have to wait and see. Maybe I will flirt with him all night. Maybe I will get you all excited and then let things cool down so that you experience the drop of disappointment. Maybe out of the blue I will then grab his hand and place it between my legs, or my tongue in his mouth, just when you had given up hope. Or maybe none of that, maybe I will just lean over to you and tell you that we are going home without so much as a kiss from him.
Maybe. Maybe I will, one day. Maybe I will pluck up the courage to agree to your desires. Maybe I will find the confidence to believe that I can pick a man up without having to be obvious. Maybe I will discover that men are interested in me and are prepared to chase me, to make the effort to romance me, to court my affections, to find my exquisite sweet spot. Maybe I won’t have to worry about rejection, fakes or flakes at all. Or, maybe I will give up hope of ever finding a man that is worthy of me breaking my marriage commitments. Maybe I will find that most men interested in fucking someone else’s wife only do it because they are not capable or interested in sustaining a loving relationship with a woman of their own with all that that commitment entails. Maybe that won’t tempt me to give them the best of me if they are not committed to loving all of me.
Maybe. Maybe it will be the best thing that ever happened to you. Maybe it will feel like entering a sweetshop as a child with limitless cash and no fear of the impact of so much sugar in your life. Maybe it will be the start of a journey that you will look back on incredulously, asking yourself ‘why didn’t we take the plunge sooner?’. Or maybe it will mark the end of your relationship. Maybe I will love you for my new found sexual liberation, or maybe I will despise you for not loving me enough to demand exclusivity.
In the mind of the future hotwife there are a thousand unspoken uncertainties and these are expressed through the pseudo-positive word ‘maybe’. For most potential hotwives and their horny as fuck husbands, ‘maybe’ is a perilously ambiguous word. The cock thinks ‘maybe’ means ‘maybe tonight’. The pussy thinks ‘what can I say to him that is not as blunt as no, but which buys me more time?’. It is the classic clash of two horizons. The uncertain hotwife is not sure she can say what she wants, for fear that it will prove unacceptable. Often she is not even sure exactly what she does want. She needs to think things through very carefully and to consider the ramifications of all possible outcomes. She needs supportive and totally unpressurized love. She wants to please you with her body and with her mind but deep down she fears she just won’t be able to go through with it all, as the price to her self esteem may be too high, and is borne only by her. She is definitely ‘maybe’, her uncertainty is certain. Treat her very gently, be patient and accept that if she remains at ‘maybe’ forever, she deserves your love for trying to avoid saying ‘no’. There are worse things in life than not getting what you want, being unappreciated for what you can offer is one of them.
But if you are a man who is hearing ‘maybe’ all the time, I understand how frustrating that is and how it negatively impacts your beautiful big, throbbing cock. Come and unload that cum on me whilst I talk you through the game plan.
So… be smart. Sure, ‘maybe’ is an ambiguous word, an ambiguous mental state, but make ambiguity your friend. Your wife’s version of ‘maybe’ means she feels uncertain, but instead of trying to move her from an uncertain place to a more certain one, embrace her uncertainty. Make her uncertainty a thing that she can play with, rather than a guilty admission of lack of commitment. How to do this? Through one tiny shift in perception from ‘maybe as uncertainty’ to ‘maybe as unpredictability’.
It’s a tiny, almost imperceptible shift. However, this small change in perception has a significant impact on what your wife may consider to be in the realm of ‘maybe’, since there is a world of difference between unpredictability and uncertainty.
The unpredictable hotwife, like me, does what she wants, when she wants, on a whim, when the mood takes her. Don’t even think of trying to tame or contain me. Don’t think you are in control, whether bull or stag, in fact especially not if you are a bull, you haven’t learnt the right to control me: only the right to impress me with the size of your cock and (much more importantly) the ability to use if for my sexual delight. This is my body and my mind and I will give it or withhold it from whomever I please. No silly bull posturing for me; I am the honey. I am not ‘maybe’, I am ‘give me what I want’.
Maybe I want to chat with you at the bar and nothing more, whilst I play with the idea of letting you touch me. If I do, then I will, and neither you, nor my husband will be able to predict which choice I will make, because I am not uncertain, I am unpredictable.
Maybe I will lean in to kiss you, maybe I will run my long slender fingers over the bulge in your trousers as I do. You won’t expect it, nor will my husband, because I am unpredictable. Or maybe I will just lean in to whisper, “I like my bulls a little more respectful of my desires and the way I want you to behave.’ Maybe I will tease you all night but not let you feel my wetness, maybe I will take you to my home to fuck me wildly whilst my husband films us. You won’t know which outcome your are going to get from this unpredictable hotwife.
You see, uncertain hotwives are on the back foot, feeling the pressure of expectation, and as you boys and your cock-length egos know only too well, nothing blunts the horn like the weight of expectation. It is no different for the hotwife. The expectation of appearing a certain way, moving a certain way, attracting a certain way, surrendering a certain way, all of it is simply a massive turn-off, not a turn-on. It is disempowering, intimidating and threatening to feel the weight of expectation to do that rather than the freedom to do whatever comes naturally, and having a husband that is constantly requesting hotwife performances and character traits is actually completely counter-productive. You say the hotwife has the power to decide, but your incessant pleading, imploring or sulking makes her feel that she is powerless, and that you have all the power. There is no joy in this for anyone and it will not lead your wife to make a happy hotwife lifestyle choice.
On the other hand (and I do like the other hand soooo much), unpredictable hotwives are completely empowered. They know that they can choose whatever they want and that their husbands must accept this, all in the name of the long-game. The unpredictable hotwife knows that she has genuine choice, personal control, both of the destination and the journey. She feels no pressure, in fact all the pressure is on the husband either to accept and enjoy her promiscuity or to appreciate her fidelity. And, as we know, nothing arouses the libidinous horn quite as effectively as the freedom to do whatever you want to please yourself.
So, your hotwife is on a knife-edge, of your own design. And the blade of this knife slices into the pain of your anguish over the meaning of ‘maybe’. You can either confine your future hotwife to the joyless pressure of feeling she may never be good enough to fulfill your needs, which means ‘maybe’ will always mean ‘never’. Or, you can liberate your future hotwife to a world of possibilities determined only by her own choices and whims and where the only thing ‘never’ refers to is your cajoling and pleading with her to choose to stray.
The way to remove the anguish of ‘maybe’ in your life is simple really. You stop forcing her to use ‘maybe’ as the word she feels she has to say to play for time, as a proxy for ‘no’, and you let ‘maybe’ become the possibility that she entertains in her own mind when she feels her pussy start to throb in the presence of another man. Embrace her unpredictability to release yourself from anguish.
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